“Big Butts, Soul Ties & 50/50 Venmo Requests”

[00:00:00] Speaker A: Sa. [00:00:32] Speaker B: Pages. Because first thing a do is because people think they can just. Oh, if I. If I post a couple. You know what I'm saying? Like a couple little statuses, but them is not going to look through your statuses to see the type of women that you are. Ain't nobody going to look through your post. Them boys going. We going straight to the pictures. We scrolling to see how many kids you got. We scrolling to see how you look. Okay, cool. Now I'm hollering at you. [00:00:55] Speaker A: But you know what? Sometimes you got to look past that. You got to look past the. The. The. The. The big butt. [00:01:03] Speaker B: It hard to look past the big butt. [00:01:05] Speaker A: It ain't. Because you know what? You could be missing out on the right woman. You. You could be missing out on the right woman that got. Ain't got no butt. [00:01:13] Speaker B: But that's what you want. But you want me to lay up with that every night, though. And that's like. [00:01:17] Speaker A: But if she make you happy, so what? [00:01:20] Speaker B: She ain't gonna make me happy. [00:01:22] Speaker A: So the big butt make you happy? [00:01:24] Speaker B: For the time being, the big butt [00:01:26] Speaker A: had, in your words, your chest hurting. [00:01:29] Speaker B: So what? I went and got another big butt, [00:01:32] Speaker A: and that one had your chest hurting, [00:01:33] Speaker B: and I got another one. [00:01:34] Speaker A: So find you a flat one. A box shaving. [00:01:36] Speaker B: When that chest hurt. When my chest hurt from the box, sh. Then what? [00:01:40] Speaker A: Then you pray? [00:01:41] Speaker B: Oh, no, I rather. I'd rather have my chest hurt with a big rump than anything. Boy, I ain't gonna lie. [00:01:47] Speaker A: No, no. [00:01:48] Speaker B: All right. Big, round, flat tummy, perkies. You got me. [00:01:52] Speaker A: But you got a type, man. [00:01:55] Speaker B: What is my type? [00:01:56] Speaker A: Uh, oh, a big butt. You think a big butt gonna keep you in your mind? [00:02:02] Speaker B: What do my mama be wanting me to do, bro? Why does she. Why is she mad? [00:02:07] Speaker A: I don't wanna hear that part about I'm gonna lift up the ponytail and see the instructions. We ain't talking about that. I'm talking about you talking about a big butt. But a big butt. You done have big butts. [00:02:17] Speaker B: That's why a lot of men will be single. It's not about the body all the time. [00:02:21] Speaker A: It's not. [00:02:21] Speaker B: It's not about the body all the time. I'm not saying that it is, but I'm saying personally, if I'm gonna get with some, I want to be able. I want to be physically, mentally, and emotionally attracted to you. [00:02:34] Speaker A: So you can have physical, mental, and emotional. You've had the physical, you've had the mental. [00:02:39] Speaker C: You. [00:02:40] Speaker A: You've had a little bit of emotional. What did it get you? [00:02:43] Speaker B: A reset. [00:02:44] Speaker A: Thank you. So you need to. [00:02:46] Speaker B: Look, we sitting here acting like I ain't did what I was supposed to do as a man, though. Like, I mean, I can't control that. I can't control. Everybody ain't gonna be receptive, you know, and some people just want to be in the streets or some people think situation is different. I didn't do anything to make you feel like that. So if that's what you want to do, I'mma just let you do it. I can't really control situations. Like, we ain't sitting here acting like. Like I said, ma, if I can read your kitchen and it's nutrition facts back there, and you telling me, oh, this is what I am and this is what I do, and you telling me I can go look at a flat butt and she come with cooking, cleaning, shutting up and just nurturing, then that's what I'm going to. But it's a flat booties out here. No, flat booty girls. Crazy. I know some flat booty girls that run you off the. Run you off the road. Them big booty girls, they'll just go get a new. [00:03:32] Speaker A: You know why? Because there's somebody else already in the background waiting. [00:03:35] Speaker B: Yeah, I'd rather you do that to run me out the road. [00:03:37] Speaker A: Jeremy, I'm gonna. No, no, no. [00:03:41] Speaker B: So she can be funny looking with a big butt. Half of the women in Florence funny looking with a big butt. Anyway, so we ain't really got no choice. [00:03:55] Speaker A: But you, you, you. You won't even you for me. [00:03:58] Speaker B: It looks like she can work out and get a butt. Man, that butt gonna be so hard, bro. [00:04:02] Speaker A: Jeremy, but you looking at a woman from the outside. You looking at the inside. [00:04:07] Speaker B: What? The inside of what you. [00:04:09] Speaker A: Are you looking at inside? What it can do. [00:04:11] Speaker B: I want to feel the inside. [00:04:12] Speaker A: No, not that inside. I'm talking about as far as how the character. [00:04:17] Speaker B: I mean. No, I think kind of like. And that's why, like, I'm kind of like, in my resetting stage now. I ain't really, like, interested in nobody. I ain't really pursuing. I ain't pursuing nobody. I'm just chilling because it kind of like whatever it is that I do, like, I kind of need to, like, fall back from that. I'm trying to get. I'm trying to get the lust out of me. [00:04:35] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:04:35] Speaker B: So once I get. You know what I'm saying? Like, I'm. I'm kind of cool. I'm just chilling. I ain't really like, focusing on too much. I think I could kind of like. [00:04:43] Speaker A: It is something she said something about half of Florence. [00:04:46] Speaker B: You talking about half? 75%. [00:04:48] Speaker A: The person that said something about it's unrealistic. [00:04:51] Speaker B: Juice. No, this apple juice, bro. [00:04:54] Speaker A: It is. [00:04:55] Speaker B: You need to just stay single, Auntie. I am going to stay single, Karen. Please. Auntie. It is so easy when I'm single out here, boy. It's so easy. Why is it so easy? Because I don't have to. Like, I'm not entitled to. Like. [00:05:08] Speaker A: It don't matter if you single. You still gonna pick them same type. [00:05:11] Speaker B: And I still can get rid of them if I'm. If I'm in a relationship. Y', all women. Women get the. The clinginess. And I got my feelings involved, too. So now it's your fault because I still treat women how they want to. You know what I'm saying? How I want you and Kaylin to be treated. You always beat that in my mind. It'd be your fault. [00:05:29] Speaker A: Disc. Y', all, I promise y', all, I did not raise this boy like this, yo. [00:05:32] Speaker B: So even if I do only want some room, right? And like, I' ma just tell you, but I ain't gonna love bomb you or try to play with your mind either, though. You know what I'm saying? [00:05:40] Speaker A: I could just tell you straight. You straight up with them. Yeah. [00:05:43] Speaker B: I could treat you how you want [00:05:44] Speaker A: to be treated, though. [00:05:45] Speaker B: But listen, I don't want a relationship. That don't mean I got to disrespect you, though. And just so we could go out, get some little food and get something [00:05:52] Speaker A: to eat, and then you. [00:05:53] Speaker B: We come back. [00:05:57] Speaker A: Hey, boy, please take. [00:05:59] Speaker B: You take me through there. [00:06:00] Speaker A: No, no. I always told you treat the women like you. You want somebody to treat your sister, [00:06:06] Speaker B: maybe you need to focus on her and let you find you. Cuz, cuz, cuz, cuz, cuz. I want y' all to understand something. I don't want nobody to find me. Okay? I don't need. I am focusing on. [00:06:18] Speaker A: I'm getting worried. I'm gonna get a little spiritual for a minute. [00:06:21] Speaker B: I ain't worried about sometimes no relationship right now. [00:06:24] Speaker A: And you may not be. And maybe God is hiding that woman. He feel like, you ready. [00:06:29] Speaker B: Lord have mercy. I don't think that what God doing. [00:06:32] Speaker A: Okay? [00:06:33] Speaker B: I do not think that what God intentions is. You know what I'm saying? Like, God whatever. [00:06:40] Speaker A: No, say it. [00:06:41] Speaker B: Yeah. I'm just dating Auntie. I ain't really got time. [00:06:44] Speaker A: You are not helping Auntie Karen. [00:06:46] Speaker B: You Ain't. You ain't wrong. You ain't wrong, auntie. Cuz, I ain't. I ain't. With all this stuff these helpers got [00:06:51] Speaker A: going on now, why they got to be helpful? [00:06:52] Speaker B: Whatever, mom. You understand what I'm saying? Like, I ain't call them the B [00:06:56] Speaker A: word, but it's the type of women you pick in those. [00:06:58] Speaker B: Lord have mercy. Like I said, Yoshi, is it nutrition facts? [00:07:03] Speaker A: Why is you yelling? [00:07:04] Speaker B: Is it a barcode? [00:07:05] Speaker A: We can scan? Do they come with an app? They might be do. [00:07:10] Speaker B: Is it even Google reviews on the women? [00:07:12] Speaker A: Like, oh, y' all Google review women? [00:07:14] Speaker B: No. [00:07:14] Speaker A: Yes, y' all do. [00:07:15] Speaker B: I wish we did because I got a Google review right now. You know what I'm saying? But in my honest opinion though, I just feel like it's just easier to be single. It happens when you least expect it. That's what I'm on. Like, I wanna, like naturally. And then sometimes I kind of feel like I make it hard for you to say no anyway. Like if I'm already. We going out on dates. You don't pay for nothing. You got your stuff together. You work, pay bills. You don't be around a whole bunch of niggas. You don't gang bang, you ain't got no ops. You just really on your grown man stuff, chilling, you know what I'm saying? Like, dress nice, smell good, you come over here, cook, whatever. You know what I'm saying? [00:07:56] Speaker A: She say, oh, mama, let him, let him sit. Help us, cuz. It be worse than that, okay? [00:08:01] Speaker B: I'm telling you, that's a. That's a fake Mexican right there, mom. Fake Dominican. [00:08:05] Speaker A: Don't say that, cuz. [00:08:06] Speaker B: She black. Talking about she Spanish. [00:08:08] Speaker A: You black don't do karma. [00:08:10] Speaker C: Talking about karma. [00:08:11] Speaker A: Yeah, bro. [00:08:13] Speaker B: You feel me? Set your boundaries with woman on a woman. If you can't do that, platonic relationship for you only color. But I mean, like, what does that mean though? [00:08:25] Speaker A: Because it's like you got women out here. [00:08:27] Speaker B: It's like you set boundaries and you give chances. Because honestly, like, am I that okay in like past situations? It's kind of like. It's kind of like I set boundaries. I kind of let you know what I don't. Like. I tried to be communicative. I tried to, you know what I'm saying, do what I wish. And it still. It still be. Y' all feel like somebody attacking you. I'm trying to be controlling. I'm trying to. Whatever. So now I just let you do what you do and I don't say nothing. Then you become, oh, he ain't affectionate or he don't. He don't like. [00:08:58] Speaker A: Damn, I'm gonna give you a cuss job. [00:09:01] Speaker B: What am I supposed to do? [00:09:02] Speaker A: But like I said at the beginning of the conversation, you asked me that first question what kept me married. Communication again. You both got to be willing to accept what is being said. [00:09:13] Speaker B: These girls don't be. Listen, Ma. Listen, mom. How you and grandma came up. [00:09:19] Speaker A: Yeah, Grandma. [00:09:20] Speaker B: Oh, no. Listen. How Grandma kind of taught you to be a woman, Carmen. I used to go in the kitchen. I used to try to. When you see me over there, to grandma house. Grandma, I'll be. Boy, you ain't about to be in my kitchen. Go out there in the backyard with your granddaddy. You ain't about to learn how to cook nothing. You good. Your woman to cook. See, when. When you kind of raised a certain way to be a wife, it's kind of easier. These girls don't got no. Well, these girls. Mamas act like. Or they might act like their daddy. They grew up listening to Ludacris and all this other mess, You know what I'm saying? So they already polluted. [00:09:54] Speaker A: So you grew up listening to Mary J. Blige. [00:09:56] Speaker B: Talk to me, Luther. Talk to me. You know what I'm saying? [00:10:01] Speaker A: I hate you in there. How long you listen to Mary J with me? [00:10:03] Speaker B: I don't know, girl. Man, people be wondering why my playlist hit so hard. Nothing. But my mama is. You know what I'm saying? [00:10:10] Speaker A: Need a baker. [00:10:11] Speaker B: Okay. [00:10:11] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. I told you. Get you a nice little playlist. [00:10:15] Speaker B: I got a nice playlist. Now I got to play this. Get them out of them drawers. [00:10:18] Speaker A: No. Oh, God. I ain't say nothing. [00:10:21] Speaker B: And I'm trying. I'm trying to start drinking wine instead of. [00:10:23] Speaker A: I ain't saying nobody. So really, you about to get on my nerves. Cause you. You just talking about dealing with a woman just for sex. What. [00:10:34] Speaker B: What am I supposed to do? What am I in. [00:10:37] Speaker A: Forget to know. [00:10:38] Speaker B: So first I done got to know. Hold on. Listen. [00:10:40] Speaker A: Hold on. [00:10:40] Speaker B: I don't think y' all understand. I done lost the. The. I just tried to do the best I can. I kind of like the woman of my dreams. [00:10:49] Speaker A: How long do you. How long do you wait before you have sex? [00:10:53] Speaker B: Wait for what? [00:10:53] Speaker A: With a woman. When you meet her. [00:10:55] Speaker B: What we waiting on? [00:10:57] Speaker A: Oh, God. So. That what I'm saying. You don't even know her. You don't even know what she thinks. [00:11:04] Speaker B: Listen, listen. So listen to the formula, though. I need you. So let's just say we get to know each other. We just get to know each other. Whatever the case may be, all this, we get to know each other. I ain't want no sex. That's in the perfect world. [00:11:17] Speaker A: We don't have she been trying to talk some. Please keep trying. Gabby, please. [00:11:23] Speaker B: Look at who we talking about trying to talk. Gabby ain't got no sins either. [00:11:27] Speaker A: Whatever. [00:11:32] Speaker B: Wait for what? Exactly? I'm dead. What are we waiting on? So, Yoshi, when you go get a car and you buy it, you gonna drive it without knowing how to drive? I mean, you gonna buy it without knowing how to drive. So I'm supposed to be fully invested into this relationship? [00:11:46] Speaker A: We're not comparing. We're not comparing the car. [00:11:48] Speaker B: Let's just say you the best person in the world to me. I love how you treat me, but when it come down to that bedroom, we just ain't clicking. [00:11:54] Speaker A: Oh, God help me, Lord. [00:11:56] Speaker C: Jeremy, wait, hold on. I ain't gonna lie. [00:11:58] Speaker B: Like, that's dead serious. And you want me to settle down with this? [00:12:01] Speaker C: At this point, I must agree with young Jeremy. [00:12:04] Speaker B: Thank you. [00:12:05] Speaker A: Yo, because when I. [00:12:06] Speaker B: When I make sense, I get it. I get it. [00:12:11] Speaker C: But it. You know, I think she said, mama [00:12:14] Speaker A: don't know where to start with chemistry. [00:12:18] Speaker C: And. And that in. In the bedroom, it does matter. [00:12:22] Speaker A: So the chemistry with the car material, since we comparing cars. [00:12:25] Speaker C: It depends. [00:12:26] Speaker A: Since y' all talking about the cars, do the chemistry matter with the car? [00:12:28] Speaker B: It depends. [00:12:29] Speaker C: Oh, wait. [00:12:29] Speaker A: Hold on. Please, hold on. [00:12:30] Speaker B: You didn't have some cars that you ain't had no chemistry with and you [00:12:32] Speaker C: gave them to me? No, no, no, no. [00:12:34] Speaker B: The white man, that band. [00:12:35] Speaker C: Hey, listen, every even. Let's say we take that analogy with a car. A lot of people out here driving a car, they don't want to drive. [00:12:42] Speaker B: Talk to them. Yousef talk to them. Cuz a lot of these want srts. A lot of these things want srts, but can only afford Ford Fusion. You don't. [00:12:53] Speaker C: You settling in. In some spaces. And some people can't settle when it comes to a car, so they'll go outside their means to get it. And some people can't settle in their sex life, you know, then so they might burn a situation with a good woman. [00:13:05] Speaker A: You ain't, you know? [00:13:06] Speaker C: No, you can't. [00:13:07] Speaker A: You. [00:13:07] Speaker C: I'm just saying, like, cuz, I. I've been there. [00:13:09] Speaker A: I understand. [00:13:11] Speaker C: And you fight and you try to fight through it, but the problem you do, you try to fight through it. [00:13:14] Speaker A: The problem that Gets me with y' all nowadays. Y' all feel like the only way I'm gonna get to know her if I want to be with her, and I'm not trying to be funny. All is the same. All vaginas is the same. They do the same thing. [00:13:33] Speaker C: Well, first off. [00:13:33] Speaker A: And they make you do the same thing at the end of the day and make it throw up. So, I mean, it's still the same face. [00:13:39] Speaker C: First off. No. [00:13:39] Speaker A: Hey, Michelle. [00:13:40] Speaker C: But I get it. I'm just saying that there is a particular. It doesn't. What's good to you is good to you. It's all relative, right? To you and what you want and what you like in that aspect. And so if you wasn't compatible, if you wasn't having that particular chemistry in the bedroom with that person, it does make it. It does affect in other areas because. Okay, if you're not being satisfied in that aspect and you're not being satisfied, it then magnifies other parts of it. [00:14:13] Speaker A: See? [00:14:14] Speaker B: So I'm about to run out the road because I got. What does it say? [00:14:17] Speaker A: Who said that? [00:14:18] Speaker C: Carol. [00:14:21] Speaker B: Say it. [00:14:22] Speaker A: Carol. Say it. [00:14:24] Speaker C: Tell Carol to call into the show. We'll hook it up. [00:14:28] Speaker A: Cousin Jeremy. But I'm saying you, you. You sitting here like you. Like what? You know I ain't putting your business out there. You, you, you, you can. [00:14:41] Speaker B: I'm what? Go ahead. You can say you're a horror. Oh, we gonna cut that. [00:14:47] Speaker C: You can't. [00:14:48] Speaker B: What you mean? [00:14:50] Speaker A: How am I your past life? [00:14:53] Speaker B: Mom, don't do that. Mom. [00:14:54] Speaker A: Okay. And I don't mean that to say you sleep. I'm saying you done had your share of women. [00:15:00] Speaker B: Oh, my God, bro. [00:15:01] Speaker A: Say it like that. [00:15:02] Speaker B: You had women and, bro, this my mama, bro. [00:15:07] Speaker A: Neva, we gonna bring you back, too. [00:15:09] Speaker B: This. This the same. My mama got me caught up before, too. Now my mama literally caught me up, bro. Listen, bro, I would not work in that Blue Cross together, right? Bro, mind you, bro. I done caught shawty up and some shit. She done kicked me out after I caught her, kicked me out and. And sent me back to my mama house. So guess what I do, bro. I'm going to get some butt, you know what I'm saying? So I go stay the night at a little shawty house. [00:15:34] Speaker A: We do. Don't put me in no predicament. I'm gonna have to lie, boy. My mama. [00:15:38] Speaker B: This girl walk up on my mama, bro. While they working at Blue Cross. Jeremy was at your house. Jeremy was at home last night. My mama go tell this Girl, oh, girl. I thought Jeremy was. Was with you. [00:15:51] Speaker A: Don't put me in a predicament. [00:15:52] Speaker B: I'm have to lie this one. [00:15:53] Speaker C: I'm. [00:15:53] Speaker B: I'mma remember that. I'm Jeremy. I'mma remember that. No, listen, I'mma remember what come out your mouth right now. Cause you ain't never sell me that. Talking about don't put me in no predict this your son just lie like you about to go to jail. [00:16:04] Speaker A: So just lie. [00:16:05] Speaker B: Who is her? [00:16:06] Speaker A: Okay? Who could have lied to her? You making me lose my train of thought. [00:16:09] Speaker B: You done lied to me. [00:16:10] Speaker A: Let me. Why lie to you about Santa Claus? You was getting. I knew that where you was going. [00:16:20] Speaker B: I caught me in the fifth grade believing in Santa Claus. [00:16:22] Speaker A: Bro, bro, bro. [00:16:24] Speaker B: My teacher. I'm so inability. [00:16:26] Speaker A: Oh, my God. [00:16:27] Speaker B: Boy, you still think it's a reindeer around here bringing you precious boy. My mama email that teacher. Cuss that teacher ass out. [00:16:37] Speaker A: Run your goddamn mouth. [00:16:38] Speaker B: Shut up, Jeremy. [00:16:40] Speaker A: You see, you made me lose my train of thought. [00:16:42] Speaker B: Whatever. Whatever. Cause you lied to me. [00:16:44] Speaker A: Okay, but Jeremy, you got. You. You got to get to know him. [00:16:50] Speaker B: I do get to know him. Huh? [00:16:51] Speaker A: But then you get to know him. And then once you sleep with him, that's a soul tie you done got. [00:16:55] Speaker B: Emotionally, it be soul ties when I ain't got no rubber on. [00:16:59] Speaker A: Santa Claus is real. Rubber. He is real. [00:17:03] Speaker B: What you say? [00:17:04] Speaker C: What you say? [00:17:06] Speaker B: It's on this. [00:17:07] Speaker A: Look at your. Yoshi, Yoshi. [00:17:11] Speaker C: Listen, I didn't say nothing. [00:17:15] Speaker A: Oh, my God. I want you to bring. I want you to bring up Jeremy. Seriously, Jeremy. [00:17:21] Speaker B: It's only soul ties. When you ain't got no condom on. [00:17:23] Speaker A: No, it's soul ties. When sex is involved. [00:17:25] Speaker B: No. [00:17:26] Speaker A: Some kind of ties. Emotional ties. [00:17:28] Speaker B: Let's just spit. [00:17:30] Speaker A: Oh, okay. No. [00:17:33] Speaker B: I can't stand being 30 years old and a girl like my heart in my. [00:17:39] Speaker A: The girl like what? [00:17:40] Speaker B: You see why I just sent you early? [00:17:42] Speaker A: How that girl that. Cause you playing you. Did you sleep with her? [00:17:48] Speaker B: This was after I slept with her again. [00:17:51] Speaker A: That's the point I'm making. When you sleep with them emotions get involved. That's the point. I'm. Did you have a condom on? [00:17:58] Speaker B: Of course. [00:17:58] Speaker A: Okay, so again, it ain't had to do. I'm saying when you sleep with them emotions get involved. [00:18:05] Speaker B: What does that mean? [00:18:06] Speaker A: What do you mean what? [00:18:07] Speaker B: That means we grown now. [00:18:08] Speaker A: It don't matter. You can't just sleep. [00:18:10] Speaker B: Well, just don't sleep with me. [00:18:11] Speaker A: Well, then, ladies, beware. [00:18:13] Speaker B: Beware for sure. Cause don't think you could just Manipulate me into the relationship. You're gonna give me some sex, and all of a sudden I'm supposed to take you serious? [00:18:21] Speaker A: No, girl, please. I mean, I'm saying. So wait, you want to just sleep with them to test the car, as you say? [00:18:28] Speaker B: Right now, I could start taking you seriously, Jeremy. [00:18:32] Speaker C: I, I don't, I, I. Oh, you. [00:18:35] Speaker B: Am I lying, though, as a man? No, what I'm saying, because that's low key. A part of, of, like, submissiveness. So, like, we didn't have sex. Nah, nah, nah. We passed the. That's the elephant in the room, period. I don't care what you say. Like, when you seen the man in your dreams, don't act like you ain't thought about him taking you down. [00:18:53] Speaker A: So what if this woman give it that the sex is just top tier, but her mind ain't worth nothing, and her character ain't worth nothing. [00:19:02] Speaker B: We just been through that. I go get a new one. [00:19:04] Speaker A: Oh, my God. So you don't want to even try to get to know the mind? [00:19:09] Speaker B: Yes. Did I not try to get to know the mind? The mind just ain't for me. [00:19:13] Speaker A: That mind wasn't for you. [00:19:15] Speaker B: Okay, but I don't mean I still not want some coochie. [00:19:18] Speaker A: Ma neva. Don't agree with him, please. Right? [00:19:23] Speaker B: Hey, come on, man. [00:19:25] Speaker A: But that's the problem. [00:19:26] Speaker B: When that thing good, my emotions gonna definitely be. [00:19:29] Speaker A: Thank you. [00:19:29] Speaker B: Of course, we know yaya. We know y. We know y. Y, Lord have mercy. [00:19:36] Speaker A: But if you got. If the emotions, if you got it and it's good, you want to see them and be with them again. Why is that stupid? [00:19:44] Speaker B: Because I think all y' all things do the same. [00:19:48] Speaker A: All yalls things do the same. [00:19:49] Speaker B: Oh, hell no. Them boys come in different shape. [00:19:51] Speaker A: The motion of the ocean, as you [00:19:53] Speaker B: say, Them boys come in different shape size. And they got things this long, and [00:19:57] Speaker A: they got the girls, then they got [00:20:00] Speaker B: the girls that just go buy one and they walk around with it scrapped on them already be walking, walking raw. [00:20:06] Speaker A: Yep. [00:20:06] Speaker B: Walking to their legs. [00:20:09] Speaker A: You can give them the best sex that is, but you can't communicate. [00:20:14] Speaker B: So what it mean when, like, what it mean when, like, you know, being a real man in the situation? Because y' all don't know what it is to be a man. So, like, what do you mean when everybody know? Because, listen, in my opinion, this is how dating go. As a man, you kind of pursue a woman that you want. So now I'm kind of like, when I pursue you, and that's what I Say, about making it hard. Hard to say no, because you getting, like, the flowers, the. We going on dates. You know what I'm saying? Like, trying to spend my time with you. I get to pursuing you, but then once I get you, it's kind of like, all right, I still got to pursue you. Why you ain't, like, letting me know how you feel, too? You know what I'm saying? And if. [00:20:54] Speaker A: And some women. [00:20:55] Speaker B: That's where dating is now. Especially me, but I get it. [00:20:59] Speaker A: But some women, the way you get them, you got to keep it, and you got to keep it up. [00:21:02] Speaker B: Oh, not. I mean, sorry for cursing, but no, it just, like, we can go get some food. I ain't doing all that no more, though. I'm telling you, the flowers. [00:21:13] Speaker A: So a woman, if you find the right woman. Cause guess what? She coming. You find the right woman. Don't. I'mma remember this conversation. [00:21:19] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:21:20] Speaker A: So you ain't gonna buy the flowers? [00:21:21] Speaker B: Yeah, I am. But I feel like you got to be deserving, though. Like, you kind of got to put me in the mindset of, like, well, my girl treat me so good. Let me make sure I make her feel good today. Just randomly, too. Like, it's just a consistent, a consistency of, like, love. Okay, I know what I got to do. Well, if you ain't deserving of no flowers, I'm just not buying no flowers because you want some flowers. That just ain't what I do. [00:21:42] Speaker A: Young women. Cause older women. [00:21:44] Speaker B: Hold on, hold on. We missing. We missing. [00:21:45] Speaker C: We missing. [00:21:46] Speaker A: So over the emotional ties. [00:21:48] Speaker C: Oh, I was about to say. I'm glad you knew, because I ain't know what. That's. That's emotion. [00:21:52] Speaker B: What. What happened? [00:21:53] Speaker A: What do you say, Neva? [00:21:54] Speaker B: Oh, yeah, she probably just typed too fast. That auntie right there. Well, auntie say. Okay, first of all, I need y' all to realize Kim is speaking on young women because older, mature women are so old. Hey, listen, Auntie, Auntie, you know how hard. And this. I always keep speaking on this. You know how cold it was for y' all to be in the boom boom rooms. I was in whatever club y' all was at when y' all was like, boom, boom. [00:22:19] Speaker A: We had clubs. Jeremy, I ain't. Oh, what wrong with you, Ma? [00:22:22] Speaker B: Okay, whatever. But anyways. But y' all ain't had social media, though. Y' all ain't had cell phones. You know how cold it was to, like, write a number on your wrist that you got to keep all night or that number in a napk. Then I got the kitchen. First of all, listen to what I'm saying. Listen to what I'm saying. I don't even get to see you like this. But soon as you walk in the room, but the room, you see how bright these lights is? That's how you is walking in the room. I don't even hear the music no more. It just this one right here. I got to get her. You know what I'm saying? Like, now we get to go on social media. You get that feeling by scrolling through their page, you know what I'm saying? [00:22:56] Speaker A: Like, they was. [00:22:57] Speaker C: Yeah, but let me say this. I think [00:23:01] Speaker B: there was a holiday. [00:23:02] Speaker C: Social media has made it worse. Yeah. Because I think there was something to [00:23:07] Speaker B: approach and think his mom was in the movie Life. No. Yay. We ain't gonna talk about you. [00:23:13] Speaker A: Go ahead, Yoshi. I'm sorry. [00:23:14] Speaker C: Something to approaching somebody, like, person to person. [00:23:18] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:23:18] Speaker C: And not right. Not inbox. [00:23:20] Speaker A: Different. Right. Let me get your Instagram or let me get your Snapchat. [00:23:25] Speaker B: Oh, that's what girls do now when they're in the relationship. They don't give their number, but they give like, oh, no, you can't get my number. I got a man. But 24 hours, I'm give you my Instagram. You can follow me on Instagram. Yeah, but I ain't. You can't get my number because I got a man. [00:23:42] Speaker A: You know, I thought about something you said a long time ago. Back then, guys would approach us and walk up to us and talk and saying, y' all can't do that no more. [00:23:52] Speaker B: If a walk up to a girl right now and saying, he's gonna get clowned. [00:23:57] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:23:57] Speaker B: If you ain't looking like Chris Brown. Something like Chris Brown and got some diamonds on or something. Walk up to that girl in the song if you want it. Ain't nobody melting over no singing no more. [00:24:09] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. [00:24:10] Speaker B: You know how y' all used to get on the three way, four way, this, that, and the third, and you talk about, oh, I want to have this kids, or I want to get married. These girls ain't talking about that no more in the group. [00:24:20] Speaker A: Yeah. Y' all say, I miss writing my number on a. Yeah, yeah, okay. A piece of paper. [00:24:26] Speaker B: I miss them girls. And listen, me and my. The best girlfriend or the best girlfriend experience I ever had. We hadn't graduated from, like, folding the leathers up certain type of way. We just had a notebook. [00:24:38] Speaker A: Oh. [00:24:39] Speaker B: We used to pass the notebook between periods. Like, a whole notebook. A whole notebook of them sheets. Like, and she'll Wake up in the morning, oh, I was just thinking about you, this, that, and the third. But love ain't like that no more, even if you just lie to me. [00:24:52] Speaker A: You know why? [00:24:53] Speaker B: Listen. These girls not even willing to lie to me. You know why these girls is not popping up at your house no more? Even though I don't like that no more. Okay, relax. Relax, man. Cause you'll tell my business. These girls ain't popping up at you. All these girls ain't blowing up your phone, bro. These girls ain't doing nothing. They just going. They just going. [00:25:15] Speaker A: Yoshi got it, too. [00:25:16] Speaker C: Don't look at me. Don't look at me. I'm just here. [00:25:21] Speaker A: But. [00:25:22] Speaker C: But Jeremy pushing button. I don't know nothing. [00:25:29] Speaker A: Yeah, y' all got. You know why y' all don't want to hear the singing? Cause y' all got Cardi B and Sexy Red. [00:25:35] Speaker B: Who is y'? All? [00:25:36] Speaker A: Y' all them girls. [00:25:36] Speaker B: I don't even listen. Shoddy will tell you. Boy, she used to get so mad, bro. I used to hop in the car, she bumps and rap music. [00:25:43] Speaker A: What the. [00:25:43] Speaker B: Is you listening to this? [00:25:44] Speaker A: I ain't lying. [00:25:45] Speaker B: Why is you listening to this? [00:25:47] Speaker A: Get in that car and listen to some rb. [00:25:49] Speaker B: Make you goddamn calm down. What you want to shoot? [00:25:53] Speaker C: Look, guess what? [00:25:54] Speaker A: When y' all play that hype music, y' all drive just like that music wide open. Get you some Anita Baker or something. [00:26:00] Speaker B: I'm a changed woman. You ain't changed. God damn thing. That's right. Love is not the same no more on my mama. Until y' all women start leaving, like, letters in the mailbox. [00:26:10] Speaker A: Why women got to do it. Y' all can do it, too. [00:26:12] Speaker B: Cause, mama, I don't think y' all understand, like, men, the only people on this earth with pride. [00:26:17] Speaker A: Yeah, and pride don't get you in place. [00:26:19] Speaker B: Okay, well, listen. What are you losing by trying to love me in a way that I'm not reciprocating your love? What are you gonna lose? Because you a good woman, you could just go give your love to somebody else. What is a man losing, though? By trying to love on a woman that's not trying to love back? He gonna lose himself. Ma, please stop acting crazy. [00:26:44] Speaker A: I mean, I'm not acting crazy. I'm just trying to figure out what you mean when you say that. So you saying the. The showing their emotions when you first meet a woman is wrong. [00:26:57] Speaker B: It ain't the same no more. You can't look at it from 1992 no more. You gotta look at it in 20, 26. [00:27:03] Speaker A: Right? Right. [00:27:05] Speaker B: It's not the same no more. [00:27:05] Speaker A: Cause y' all got cardi b in your ear. Be careful with me. [00:27:09] Speaker B: Just told me I pay. I pay everything, Yoshi. I pay everything. Pay everything, Bro, you ain't paying for no dates. You ain't paying for no grocery. You ain't paying for rent. You ain't paying for nothing. [00:27:21] Speaker A: You know what that means? [00:27:22] Speaker B: Hold on, let me talk. I'm paying for everything. But you can sit here and find. Remember how I was saying, bro, how we could do eight out of 13 things and they just gonna find that five just so outweighing more than the eight you already doing? Because I don't make it rain on you with gifts every day randomly. And because I ain't buying flowers every day, mind you, Yoshi, last time I bought you some flowers, I found out you got. So who just wants to doing that? I'm just saying. Who just wants to keep buying flowers? [00:27:50] Speaker A: Let's go. Move, move. [00:27:51] Speaker B: No, I'm saying, though, like, let's just. You feel me? But like, you can be that type of right? Who kind of like, they don't recognize when you kind of giving it everything you got. You know what I'm saying? So once I didn't gave everything I got. [00:28:05] Speaker A: Say it again. [00:28:06] Speaker B: I ain't saying I'm perfect, but I gave it everything I got, and I don't get nothing back. What that do for me? [00:28:12] Speaker A: Them type of women, I got everything to lose. Them type of women that you talking about. [00:28:18] Speaker B: Oh, wait, come on. Hold on. [00:28:20] Speaker C: The problem is they want to love who they believe you can be and not love you for who you really are. [00:28:27] Speaker A: Come again? Come on. Neva. [00:28:29] Speaker C: Coming in, thinking once I put this thing on him, I can change him. [00:28:33] Speaker A: Yep. [00:28:33] Speaker C: I. Excuse me. I know he outside. I will bring him in. Child, lies. Let me say this. [00:28:41] Speaker A: Say it again, Neva. [00:28:42] Speaker C: Let me say this. To that, I agree. I don't think you can change anyone. [00:28:47] Speaker A: But there's a lot of them that [00:28:49] Speaker B: though you can't throw up in nobody face, though, that you pay for everything. Listen, before you even get started, because that's the problem with y' all women are. That's a man being a man. If a man sacrificing everything and paying for everything, it ain't like he's trying to make you seem less than or a little girl, but that's just. Just him being a man versus the rest of these. It ain't got nothing to do with you. You putting it in your. In your hands and Your eyes. Because you can't pay for everything. [00:29:14] Speaker A: Yo, Yo. [00:29:15] Speaker B: I mean, y'. [00:29:15] Speaker C: All. [00:29:15] Speaker A: Yoshi, what you was gonna say, Because I want to say something to you with that right there. [00:29:20] Speaker C: Well, I was gonna say that I do believe that women, more so than anything, believe that they can change a man. So. And I do believe that some. Excuse me, some men think that they can change a woman, but people are not going to change until they want. [00:29:38] Speaker A: They won't. Exactly. [00:29:39] Speaker C: All you can do. All you can do is be consistent [00:29:41] Speaker B: in who you are. [00:29:42] Speaker C: And I think what I've done or what I've tried to do is be consistent with who I am. [00:29:49] Speaker A: Right. [00:29:49] Speaker C: If the person decides to change, it's on them. Eventually, you ain't gonna want to go to the club because being home with me is. Is way. [00:29:57] Speaker A: Come on, say it again. [00:29:58] Speaker C: Going out to the club, I shouldn't have to tell you you need to change. I ain't about to get angry with you because I. When I met you, where did I meet you at? I met you out at the club. So for me to say, yo, I'mma change her to this. No, just be you. If this is who you can accept the person to be. [00:30:14] Speaker A: Yep. [00:30:15] Speaker C: But a lot of us meet a person, and we don't like the person we meet. So we're going to try to change this person into somebody we want them to be when we met them as the. This particular. If they was going to the bar every Thursday night to get up, then they're going to continue to go to the bar every Thursday night to get up, talk it. The only way they're going to change is if they deem it necessary to change. [00:30:35] Speaker A: Yep. They see the change. Right. [00:30:37] Speaker C: You do. Is not going to have anything to do with their change. [00:30:40] Speaker A: Right. And I agree with you. When I met your daddy, I met him. [00:30:45] Speaker B: Ho, ho. Because people don't even understand that. [00:30:47] Speaker A: Wait, hold on. [00:30:48] Speaker B: That ain't even. Like. [00:30:50] Speaker A: No, he's not. But. [00:30:51] Speaker B: Right. So we gonna give him credit for that versus, like, Right. The Jerry will. I mean, the. The sperm donor. You know what I'm saying? [00:30:58] Speaker A: Like, okay, but what I'm saying is I met your daddy and I met my husband. I met him in the club. And it like, Yoshi said it once. After a while, you get, I like what's at home. I like what we doing at home. I ain't got to go to the club. And one thing I say about what y' all say about throwing in the face, you know, you paid the bills. You let me finish. You Know you paid the bills. You know you paid the car payment. You know you paid the car insurance. You know you bought the flowers. You know you did the wine and dining. You ain't got to tell them. [00:31:29] Speaker B: But, mom, when social media kind of make it to, like, this is the standard of a man. [00:31:36] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:31:36] Speaker B: And you're being the standard of a man, but it's kind of overlooked. Of course you gonna brag about it, cuz. You gonna make yourself feel good. If. If you're not gonna make me feel [00:31:44] Speaker C: good, I'm gonna tell you something. Something my grandma said. My grandma said this a long time ago. You don't get credit for doing you're supposed to do. [00:31:51] Speaker B: Okay, well, guess what? I'm just gonna get a new hoe, so. [00:31:53] Speaker C: And that's. But that's what you're supposed to do. [00:31:55] Speaker B: All right, cool. [00:31:56] Speaker C: If the person does not fit what you feel. That's right. Because if you as a man believe this is the standard, this is what you supposed to do, then shouldn't nobody have to validate what you do, because you're doing what you're supposed to do. You're doing your job. [00:32:10] Speaker B: See, what yaya say, cuz. Listen, hold on. [00:32:14] Speaker C: Yeah, I got a lot to say today. [00:32:15] Speaker B: I'm saying, though, yaya on my ass, but come on, yaya. [00:32:22] Speaker A: This also applies to what you say, not yours. [00:32:26] Speaker B: Well, listen, guess what we doing now. The way I ain't got the brag, you ain't got to worry about. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. My mama sitting right here. Guess what we doing now, bro, the way you ain't got to brag. You ain't got to worry about me wanting to feel more of a man. We going 50, 50. And I'm splitting. Cleaning. Cleaning supplies with you. We splitting. Cleaning up all this stuff. We splitting. We splitting cooking because you can't cook. So we probably. [00:32:46] Speaker A: Excuse me. [00:32:47] Speaker B: I'm just saying women can't cook like that no more. You cooking the same way I'm cooking. We going off TikTok. So guess what? We gonna split cooking responsibilities. We're gonna split cleaning responsibilities. We're gonna split these bills. That's where everybody happy. [00:32:59] Speaker A: And guess what? Whatever works for you, if that will work for y', all and y' all decide that's what y' all want to do and that what makes it work. And hey, have at it, right? [00:33:08] Speaker B: That's what I'm saying. [00:33:09] Speaker A: Have at it. Everybody ain't gonna tell you what. What they do behind closed doors. They gonna make it look like oh, he do this. And you probably. [00:33:16] Speaker B: If a man. If a man doing all this, bro, ain't getting no praise, and you busting your ass to do it on my mama. He wants a prayer on you. He wants a praise. It don't matter. That's what make a man go hard. My. If. You know how many times you probably told that. No, listen to what I'm saying. [00:33:30] Speaker C: I don't know if it's. [00:33:30] Speaker B: You know how many times you probably didn't. And listen, this ain't got nothing. If we just randomly dealing. I don't give a. I don't give a rat's ass about Miller. [00:33:39] Speaker A: That's the truth. Be mindful. [00:33:42] Speaker B: Jesus. [00:33:42] Speaker A: Go ahead. [00:33:43] Speaker B: If we just randomly dealing, bro, I don't care about you caring about what I do. But if we're together, of course. [00:33:51] Speaker A: So you. You. It sounds like to me what you saying, Jeremy, is you want to feel. You want to. If you. If you're gonna do it, make me feel a preacher. Don't make me feel like I'm doing it in vain. [00:34:02] Speaker B: Exactly. [00:34:03] Speaker A: I get. I get that. Okay. [00:34:05] Speaker B: But what do a man want? What do a man get out of a relationship other than unconditional love? So, listen, just answer my question. Like, what do I get out of a relationship other other than being. Other than, like, love? I don't get nothing. So if I'm asking you to do [00:34:25] Speaker A: this, that's all you got to do. [00:34:28] Speaker B: Well, it's not hard. [00:34:29] Speaker C: Well, let me say. Well, let me say this. Georgia Miller made a good point. [00:34:31] Speaker A: She did what she said. [00:34:32] Speaker C: She said, take time. [00:34:33] Speaker A: Take time to get to know each other. Yep. [00:34:35] Speaker C: There's no reason for anyone to be doing married things in six months. You don't get. You don't get wife treatment if you're. If you're not a wife. You shouldn't get girlfriend treatment if you're not a girl. [00:34:46] Speaker A: Absolutely. [00:34:47] Speaker C: Don't give the treatment out that you don't want back. Like. [00:34:50] Speaker A: Yep. [00:34:51] Speaker C: Leave people where they are. [00:34:52] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:34:53] Speaker B: But, bro, at the same time, bro, [00:34:54] Speaker A: you got to meet that energy, what they're giving. [00:34:57] Speaker B: This is what I'm saying. I'm raised by. By Larry James. Granddad always told me straight up, don't even take no woman out if you ain't paying for it. [00:35:03] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:35:03] Speaker B: You know what I'm saying? So it's like. It's like, that's. Can you not appreciate that? That's all I'm saying. You know how. [00:35:10] Speaker C: But real women do. [00:35:12] Speaker A: Yeah, right. [00:35:15] Speaker B: I ain't met a real woman yet. I'M talking about a girl. I'm talking about girls. [00:35:19] Speaker C: Girls don't. Women do. [00:35:21] Speaker A: Right. Just like, say it again. [00:35:23] Speaker C: Like, men. Men go into the dates knowing, yo, I'm paying for this. There's no way she's paying for anything. That's men, Bo. Oh, you know she got home. [00:35:32] Speaker A: Yeah, we going. Yeah, right. [00:35:34] Speaker C: No, like, at the end of the day, adults do. Adult. [00:35:37] Speaker A: Yep. [00:35:38] Speaker C: It just is what it is. [00:35:40] Speaker A: Yep. [00:35:40] Speaker C: But like immature. Immature children. You could be 40 and be immature child. [00:35:46] Speaker A: Yep. Because you ain't growing the mind. Yep. [00:35:49] Speaker C: You know what I'm saying? [00:35:51] Speaker A: That's true. [00:35:52] Speaker C: If all you've dealt with she's saying. [00:35:53] Speaker B: But what is girlfriend boyfriend treatment for you to ask you already to know? Like, you ain't like, y' all be wanting like a. A label and a who asks what's girl. And y'. All. Y' all damn know. Cause y'. [00:36:04] Speaker C: All. [00:36:04] Speaker B: Y' all be doing girlfriend without even. Like, come on now. [00:36:08] Speaker A: Y' all gonna leave yaya alone. [00:36:10] Speaker C: Listen, if you stand over, y' all [00:36:11] Speaker A: be getting in these comments, acting like [00:36:13] Speaker B: she don't know what people be talking about. Cause listen, one thing about being a woman in 2026, y' all act like. Because all y' all do the same thing. Have the same menstrual. Everything goes together. Like, you okay, just forget them girls that. That do what they do. Cause we ain't talking about them no more. Y' all still girls. [00:36:30] Speaker A: But I say this, Jeremy, and as a woman. I'm speaking from a woman's point of view. [00:36:33] Speaker B: Here we go. [00:36:35] Speaker A: Don't do that. I'm speaking from a woman's point of view. [00:36:39] Speaker B: When a man. [00:36:40] Speaker A: And. And like, going back to what Neva said, that meant that if you do it for that woman, and if she's not speaking greatness into you, that ain't the woman. [00:36:52] Speaker B: You already got it right. [00:36:53] Speaker C: You got your answer on who they are. [00:36:54] Speaker A: Hello. [00:36:55] Speaker B: Right. [00:36:55] Speaker A: If she ain't speaking that into you and making you grow and encouraging you [00:37:00] Speaker B: and speaking that word when you kind of used to just leaving situations because of that, you kind of just think, like, okay, maybe it's me. [00:37:07] Speaker C: See, Like I'm gonna be real. Like, I have, like you said, going [00:37:09] Speaker A: out Georgia Miller making so much sense. [00:37:11] Speaker B: What she say. But she don't be wanting to come on no podcast. She got all the right. [00:37:15] Speaker A: Come with me, Georgia. [00:37:16] Speaker C: She said you should be getting to know each other in that first year. [00:37:19] Speaker A: In that first year. That's true. Because you don't never know a person until you live with Them, you'll never know them. You can sleep when they spend the night, but once they move in and you live with them and see what they are every day. [00:37:29] Speaker B: Yeah, y' all say, that's not girlfriend treatment. That's how anybody I deal with. If I was talking to you, I would want you to be treated like that's girlfriend treatment. [00:37:39] Speaker C: Girlfriend treatment. [00:37:40] Speaker B: Like, that's what y' all don't be realizing. [00:37:43] Speaker C: She's giving him boyfriend. [00:37:44] Speaker B: I know I'm yelling, he's giving. I didn't ask you that. [00:37:46] Speaker C: He. He's giving him boyfriend. He's giving him. She's. She's giving him boyfriend treatment. She's not giving, like. And that's. That's when people get all misconstrued. And you don't know why this dude acting crazy and this. [00:37:59] Speaker A: Well, you didn't treat him like your boyfriend. [00:38:02] Speaker C: Being a boyfriend. [00:38:03] Speaker B: And then, Jay, you know, you still old school. Every man. [00:38:06] Speaker A: And I raised you right, Right, right. [00:38:07] Speaker B: You and granddaddy. [00:38:08] Speaker A: Granddaddy. [00:38:09] Speaker B: Listen, man. My granddaddy gone. But everything my granddaddy say, if it don't hit harder than it ever did, it hit, is even you. You know what I'm saying? Like, boy, I. I'm not these. And I be wanting if I'm. If I'm not these, I'm not coming at you like these. I'm not doing what these do to get you. Well, I expected to be treated like that. And if I'm not, bro, I'm gonna just slide. [00:38:31] Speaker C: But I think that's the thing, Jeremy, to that. To that point. [00:38:34] Speaker B: Don't call my whole name. Jay. [00:38:36] Speaker C: Jay. [00:38:37] Speaker A: Jeremy. [00:38:38] Speaker C: Your mother been saying it. [00:38:39] Speaker B: That's why I got it. [00:38:41] Speaker C: So what, Today is a Jeremy episode? Episode. [00:38:42] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:38:43] Speaker C: All right. So to Neva's point, she said, what's so hard? You have, Kim to compare what a woman is, and you have Kevin. That demonstrates what a man is. Your life. You had the total. It keeps scrolling. [00:38:56] Speaker A: Total package. [00:38:58] Speaker C: I can say there are so many young men and women who are figuring out the role, have never seen it. And that's. And to that point, Jay, I think that that's why you struggle so much is because you've seen a good example. [00:39:09] Speaker A: Right? You've seen the example. And you want. You ever with the woman. You want. You want her to be that. [00:39:13] Speaker C: Exactly, exactly. And you want that because. [00:39:16] Speaker A: Right. [00:39:16] Speaker B: But, like, am I wrong? [00:39:17] Speaker C: No, no, I'm not saying no. I wish more men and more women were able to experience. Oh, I'm sorry. Right. I wish more boys and Girls were able to experience. This is a good episode, you know what I'm saying? Because at the end of the day, that's what molds who we are in relationships, is what we see growing up. Some of us have to learn along the way. [00:39:41] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, for sure. [00:39:42] Speaker C: Like, at the end of the day, my daddy ain't. I know my boy. [00:39:45] Speaker B: I don't told my daddy to his face. [00:39:47] Speaker C: No, listen, my dad. My daddy been in my life all my life, but my daddy tell you all the time, I love women, son. I can't do nothing else about it. [00:39:56] Speaker A: Right. [00:39:56] Speaker C: So I didn't learn anything about monogamy till 30, because my old example, with my whole example was him. So listen, that's what he was doing. He been married four times and is [00:40:10] Speaker B: monogamy still real, though? [00:40:11] Speaker A: It is, it is. [00:40:13] Speaker B: You just say, but do you think the percentage is lower than, like, [00:40:17] Speaker C: I'm gonna tell like this, you know, the only percentage that matters. [00:40:20] Speaker B: What? [00:40:21] Speaker C: Your percentage. [00:40:21] Speaker A: Yours. [00:40:23] Speaker B: Well, Yoshi want to. Want to be. All right. You. [00:40:29] Speaker C: You can't worry about percentages outside of you. If you doing what you want to do, monogamy is there. Yep. Period. And if you doing everything you can do and you set the standard and that woman still don't want to be with you, I believe. Bye. [00:40:46] Speaker A: Because it's somebody out there. [00:40:48] Speaker B: I ain't. We ain't really worrying about that. [00:40:50] Speaker A: It's kind of like saying. [00:40:51] Speaker B: I'm not saying, like, when you taking. You think you taking steps forward and you really take a steps back, like to. To kind of experience people who kind of do you a way that you wouldn't do to them, you just expect just some type of generosity out of it. Because even if I'm feeling like, how you feeling? I still wouldn't do it how you did it. [00:41:11] Speaker A: It. Yeah. [00:41:11] Speaker B: You know what I'm saying? So, like, that's what kind of be like you. [00:41:14] Speaker A: But. But everybody. You don't know. A lot of people ain't raised with that, and they could be raised with it, but don't want to accept or don't want to deal with it. [00:41:23] Speaker B: Well, y say just not. [00:41:25] Speaker C: I think I got something for Yaya's comment. [00:41:27] Speaker B: I think I treat men like. [00:41:28] Speaker C: Let me hit up with this first. [00:41:29] Speaker B: Okay, you read. [00:41:31] Speaker C: You read it. [00:41:31] Speaker B: And then I'm hit with, all right, listen, if I got the rebut, you got to wait after me. So just keep it on your mind. I think I treat men like kings because a lot of men have never experienced that. Whether we make it or Not. You can say. Hold on, scroll back up. [00:41:47] Speaker A: You can say. [00:41:47] Speaker B: You can say you actually experience real genuine love. But I think kind of like, y' all definition are kind of like, listen, bro, I think y'. All. [00:41:57] Speaker C: Everybody does not deserve everything from you. [00:42:00] Speaker B: That's a fact, bro. [00:42:01] Speaker A: That's true. [00:42:02] Speaker C: Everybody does not deserve. I cannot say that enough. Everybody does not deserve every part of you. They do not deserve this. Some of these. Some of these women, girls deserve whatever it is you give them, because that's what they give you. [00:42:17] Speaker B: Yep, that's a fat bro. Yep. [00:42:19] Speaker C: All you end up doing is losing in the end. I think in the beginning, yeah, you got to be honest. You got to be genuine. You got to do what you do, Right? But everybody does not deserve the same treatment. Because when you meet that dude, how is it any special what you're giving him that you gave everybody else? [00:42:37] Speaker A: Right? [00:42:38] Speaker C: Right. What is special about what you're giving that person? Nothing. [00:42:44] Speaker B: And see, listen, like, as gave it to everybody. But, see, like, listen, bro, that's what I was saying, like. Like, the boundaries and people talking about love. As a man, bro, when you kind of give your everything versus a woman giving me everything, it kind of go hit different, bro. I think a woman can kind of like. I ain't gonna say a woman can kind of like. Can kind of like, move on a little faster, bro, but as a man, bro, when you kind of then did what you wanted for a person, you kind of felt like you can kind of like, relax with. I ain't gonna say we can even get married, but for the next five years, I could. I could chill. We could kind of make this work. And that don't work, bro. That should take you 10 steps back, boy. [00:43:28] Speaker A: You know what? [00:43:29] Speaker B: It don't matter if you did 10 steps forward. [00:43:31] Speaker A: And I say there are a lot of good men that sorry women ruin and vice versa. You could be the perfect gentleman, Give the perfect. The wine, the dine, the food, the bill, the whole nine. The wrong woman you get up with is gonna ruin that. She's gonna ruin it. [00:43:51] Speaker B: Stop giving your everything to every single person. There will be nothing special about your relationship. I mean, that's facts, too. But at the same time, like, I don't think it's kind of like giving somebody your all when you just kind of like treating somebody how you want to be treated. Like I said, my mama raised me to, like, be on some stuff the way, like, my karma is gonna come back on my little sister or you treat a woman in the. The aspect that you want your mama to be treated, your aunties to be treated, grandma, whatever. You know what I'm saying? So, bro, that's just how I look at life, bro. Like, bro, I don't really like, bro. I'm not the. Who gonna come on here. Oh, I got this, this, this, and this in my bank account, baby. These niggas lame. I kind of suspect you to know that. Or I ain't coming at you saying, oh, I'm a trick. I'm gonna do this, that, and the third. I'm gonna pay your bills. It don't matter if I can or if I can't. I'm still not gonna come at you like that. Because I'm not trying to love bomb you. I'm not trying to get you to like me for things that I do. I want you to like me for me and the things that I do be extra. Etc. But it ain't. That ain't how this. This generation set up. [00:44:56] Speaker A: And it's not. And it's the it again. And I still. [00:45:00] Speaker B: I'm looking at it. I'm looking at you. [00:45:01] Speaker A: It's the women that you. It's the women. I ain't saying you pick, but it's the women in general who feel like, you know, if he got money, oh, I'm just gonna talk to him or date him for the money, and ain't no love involved. And it's easy for the type of women to walk away. [00:45:16] Speaker B: Right. And we got 50 seconds left. If you want my mama to come back, I need you to go ahead and react to this. This live, and we can kind of continue this. The. The segment. You feel me? Because I ain't gonna lie. I kind of have fun with my mama, though. [00:45:30] Speaker A: Yeah. You know what I'm saying? I'm on the other side. [00:45:34] Speaker B: I have fun. I have fun with my dudes. I wasn't really expect. I knew it was gonna be fun, bro, but this was, you know. [00:45:40] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:45:40] Speaker A: Like, see, I'd be on the other side, be talking through the phone and yelling at the phone. [00:45:45] Speaker B: Me and my mama talk up every time. Every single day, bro. Every day, me and my mom be on the phone, but my mama is literally my best friend. [00:45:53] Speaker A: Yep. [00:45:54] Speaker B: Like, I could talk to my mama. I could talk to my mama. Oh, I could talk to my mom. You knew that when I got your face tattooed on me. You ain't ugly now. Because I wouldn't put the ugly face on me, boy. [00:46:02] Speaker A: Back. [00:46:02] Speaker B: But I talk to my mama every day, bro. You know what I'm saying? [00:46:07] Speaker A: Like Mr. Plowden say, bring me back. Hey, Mr. Plowden. [00:46:10] Speaker B: Hey. All right, man. We're gonna bring her back. Hey, Mr. P. I ain't gonna lie, right? Not this Sunday. Next Sunday, I'm pull up. I'm gonna come see you. We're gonna. We're gonna see. I got to get back closer to God, too. [00:46:24] Speaker A: Yep. Amen. [00:46:26] Speaker B: We're gonna bring Mama back, man. We're gonna bring Mama back. I'm gonna see if I can get somebody next to us so she can kind of like, talk some sense into it, but. [00:46:33] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:46:33] Speaker B: Hey, man, I appreciate y', all, man. It's been another live episode. The peas in the pie, man. We are Mama Bear. I appreciate you for pulling up Yusuf. We had a great episode. Yeah. Amen. Peace. Peace.