Episode Transcript
[00:00:01] Speaker A: Damn glee. It's that hard.
Everybody say pee until the time.
[00:00:14] Speaker B: Okay, so you too good for homicides and you too good for spending time that's why I'm trying to get you out of my way Even though you look real good from behind I'm trying to see what's in your mind See, I'm gonna say the sheep these niggas be thanking I'm talking about them peas in the pot Peas in the pot Peas in the podc I'm talking about them peas in the pot Peas in the pie this here came from Jay with the Ink.
[00:00:43] Speaker A: Yo, yo, yo, yo, yo. What's happening? What's happening? It's your boy Jay with ink, man. Tuned to another episode of the Peas in the pod live.
Got my lovely co host. Yay. Yaya. Eats with me.
Got.
I don't know what you want me to call you today. We Paris, okay? Paris vibes, allure.
You know me. You know what I'm saying? We in the building. How y' all doing?
We outside.
How y' all doing?
How are y' all doing?
[00:01:17] Speaker C: Oh, you asking us?
[00:01:19] Speaker A: Who else am I talking to?
[00:01:22] Speaker D: Me, too.
[00:01:24] Speaker A: You said what?
Oh,
[00:01:29] Speaker C: I'm sorry.
[00:01:30] Speaker D: Good, good.
Life is good.
[00:01:32] Speaker A: You smoking some? Yeah. Don't come on here like that no more, bro.
[00:01:36] Speaker D: No, I thought you was talking. Okay. I like.
[00:01:39] Speaker C: Okay. I'm doing good, though.
[00:01:42] Speaker A: And this ain't your first. That's a point.
I'mma start giving you a Gabby point.
[00:01:46] Speaker D: Lips dry as hell.
[00:01:47] Speaker C: How many points Gabby got? I know Gabby got well
[00:01:54] Speaker A: on my mama. She do.
Hey, we got the Paris right here, though. You know what I'm saying? We going to talk about, like, the healthy healings in life. You feel me?
[00:02:03] Speaker D: Oh, healthy healings in life.
[00:02:13] Speaker A: Is crazy.
[00:02:15] Speaker C: Is that that. Is that the.
[00:02:16] Speaker A: Is that.
[00:02:17] Speaker D: Did she.
[00:02:17] Speaker C: Is that that.
[00:02:18] Speaker A: She is wild. Hit that.
[00:02:20] Speaker C: Tell me, is that what that is?
[00:02:22] Speaker D: Did the text hit that?
[00:02:23] Speaker A: I'm sorry, bro.
[00:02:24] Speaker D: That's it.
[00:02:24] Speaker C: That's all I'm thinking about right now. Me, too.
[00:02:27] Speaker D: Never said, cuz. Like, I was s. Just.
[00:02:31] Speaker A: Y' all like, bro, what? Bro, like, what?
[00:02:37] Speaker D: What?
[00:02:37] Speaker C: What? What was said? Just what was said?
[00:02:39] Speaker D: Yeah, cuz, we want to know.
[00:02:41] Speaker A: But anyways, Roy, you know what I'm saying?
Why is the Lord going to talk about.
[00:02:46] Speaker C: No, she didn't.
[00:02:50] Speaker A: Why is the Lord gonna talk about?
You know what I'm saying? No. Hell no. We go. At least we're gonna talk about the. The healthy healings in life. You feel me? Like, Ellis, what's happening, my boy? It ain't Just especially you who don't like to go to the doctor.
[00:03:03] Speaker D: Lord have mercy.
[00:03:05] Speaker C: She bold.
[00:03:06] Speaker D: Bold as hell.
[00:03:07] Speaker A: Y' all still talking about that? I'm trying to fucking. I'm trying to push forward, man. You know what I'm saying? Like, hey, Ellis, it care more than me, but.
[00:03:17] Speaker D: Oh, that my dog. Hey, Ellis.
[00:03:20] Speaker A: Yusuf, you got your mic today?
[00:03:26] Speaker C: Oh, okay. We gotta get you one that ain't connected to something.
[00:03:31] Speaker A: The one you just ain't connecting to,
[00:03:32] Speaker C: that a wireless one. That's what you need.
[00:03:34] Speaker A: This bar stool beside him and got down and get down. You know what I'm saying? But hold on. We're gonna. I got questions for times like this when we all flabbergasted and shit, because you know. Amen,
[00:03:51] Speaker D: Lord.
Oh, my God.
[00:04:01] Speaker A: How the are you calling me on Facebook? Like, what be wrong with y', all, bro? You don't see the lot. Oh, my mama. You see live when you click on my page. The red circle around my circle around that.
I got scream.
Let me just up.
[00:04:17] Speaker C: What you about.
[00:04:19] Speaker A: That's crazy, bro.
[00:04:20] Speaker C: That's insane.
[00:04:21] Speaker D: Wow, that's wild.
[00:04:23] Speaker C: The response exactly like, she's a pimp.
[00:04:27] Speaker A: She's a pimp.
[00:04:34] Speaker D: I wouldn't have respond, babe. That would have been lit up.
[00:04:36] Speaker C: And I probably would have sent her this back.
[00:04:38] Speaker D: Like, I would have said, I already
[00:04:39] Speaker C: know you got it.
[00:04:41] Speaker D: What you talking about?
[00:04:41] Speaker A: I ain't even got nothing to say. For real, bro.
[00:04:45] Speaker C: Like, what Yoshi talking about? What y' all talking about?
[00:04:49] Speaker A: Yoshi, you are a messy bruh.
[00:04:56] Speaker C: People are crazy.
[00:04:57] Speaker D: That's all I can say.
[00:04:58] Speaker C: Like, people are freaking insane.
[00:05:02] Speaker A: Hold on, hold on, hold on, bro.
[00:05:04] Speaker C: She's definitely a pimp.
Like, oh, my God, boy, this is.
[00:05:10] Speaker A: Boy, I just seen. I just seen it all to it. I ain't gonna lie.
I'm just stay to myself, bro.
[00:05:18] Speaker D: Nothing to do with you. I'm gonna stay to yourself.
[00:05:21] Speaker A: Well, that's scary, boy.
[00:05:22] Speaker C: You was just. That is. That was just an appointment.
[00:05:24] Speaker A: Really?
Like, I'm not y' all a piece of meat, man.
[00:05:30] Speaker D: You want.
[00:05:33] Speaker C: And she said wrap you being nice
[00:05:36] Speaker D: to the
[00:05:38] Speaker A: morning the see now you doing too much. If I get. I'm gonna start. I'm all right, listen, this is like your second, third. Especially when I went through the last time. The last. You stay throwing little. Little blows. I'm get. I'm gonna get you one. I'm gonna get you one. I'm telling you. I'm owe you. I owe you two or three.
[00:05:57] Speaker C: Go ahead.
[00:05:58] Speaker A: No, I'm gonna get. I'm Gonna get you. It might be next week, next year. Just know I'mma sting your ass, okay?
Your big head ass. You know? What the hell you be doing?
[00:06:09] Speaker C: What you reading?
[00:06:11] Speaker A: I'm trying to find the question to ask, bro.
I'm just as fucked up as you, pj. What's happening, boogie side? What's happening, my boy?
I think we both just witnessed it. Like some life changing shit. Like, damn, boy, I ain't gonna lie. Hold on.
Please chill, bro, so I can goddamn find something right quick. Cause I'm fuck up.
[00:06:40] Speaker C: You got it.
[00:06:42] Speaker D: You got a fuck. Oh, no.
[00:06:43] Speaker C: I'm saying, like, you got it.
[00:06:48] Speaker A: Damn, bro.
Go ahead, let me feel, let me feel.
[00:06:53] Speaker C: Let me see.
[00:06:56] Speaker A: Can couples recover from infidelity?
No, no, for real,
[00:07:08] Speaker C: Go ahead.
[00:07:09] Speaker A: So listen, you trying to be funny, man, all right. I'm gonna ask something else, bro.
[00:07:17] Speaker D: That was a good one.
[00:07:18] Speaker C: That was a good one.
[00:07:18] Speaker A: Y' all can kiss my ass, bro.
What are some common myths about relationships that need to be.
No, bruh. Chill, bro.
That need to be debunked. Y' all ain't even hear the fucking question, man. Yoshi, what part are you playing?
[00:07:34] Speaker D: See, I've been watching you for a while.
[00:07:40] Speaker C: That's a good song, though.
Messy, messy, messy, messy, messy, messy.
[00:07:51] Speaker A: Hey, Mike, what's happening, man? Coach Mike.
All right, chill, bro. All right.
What are some common myths about relationships that need to be debunked?
[00:08:03] Speaker D: All men cheat. All women cheat.
[00:08:06] Speaker A: I know a lot of that ain't a lie. Women cheat better.
[00:08:10] Speaker D: That's a fact.
[00:08:12] Speaker A: Women cheat better.
[00:08:13] Speaker D: That's a big fat. Y' all don't care. And y' all do it sloppy and that.
[00:08:18] Speaker A: I'm talking about it gonna be with a bigger dick.
You know, this might gotta. You ain't hitting the bottom of that. You know what I'm saying? Like, you feel me?
[00:08:31] Speaker D: Like, sometimes it's just somebody that.
[00:08:32] Speaker A: Women cheat.
[00:08:33] Speaker D: You don't got to be a bigger dick every time.
[00:08:35] Speaker C: You don't have to be bigger.
[00:08:36] Speaker A: I don't treat you like so ain't no reason for you to, you know.
[00:08:43] Speaker D: You know what you mean?
[00:08:44] Speaker C: You're saying you don't treat whoever you dealing with like. Yeah, like, oh, yeah, okay, well, everybody situation is different.
[00:08:52] Speaker A: What he say?
[00:08:57] Speaker C: Oh, oh, I still owe y' all that strawberry shortcake on the house, yo.
[00:09:00] Speaker A: For sure, for sure. Oh, Tr say big fats. What that, bro? To my women cheap, brother.
They do.
They do.
[00:09:12] Speaker D: It was the main winner. I don't think you should.
[00:09:14] Speaker A: They do. Hey this.
[00:09:15] Speaker C: And look at you.
I don't think you should.
[00:09:21] Speaker A: We ain't even say nothing. All right, man, so y' all ain't even talking about she, Bro.
How do you deal with a partner who has trust issues?
[00:09:39] Speaker C: That's hard.
[00:09:42] Speaker D: Cause if you.
[00:09:42] Speaker C: Oh, go ahead. Gosh, no, you go ahead.
[00:09:45] Speaker D: Your point of view.
[00:09:46] Speaker C: No, go ahead.
[00:09:47] Speaker D: Cause I feel like they just need a lot of reassurance. You gotta. You gotta provide them with reassurance a lot.
[00:09:53] Speaker C: Like, all the time.
[00:09:55] Speaker D: You gotta be gentle with that.
[00:09:56] Speaker A: They're real.
[00:09:59] Speaker D: That should get aggravated, too. Like, damn.
[00:10:00] Speaker C: Nah, they don't want you to. They gonna want to call all the time. They gonna want you to check in all the time. Especially, like, it's hard to deal with somebody who can't trust you. Like, right. It makes it harder to want to be with them because, like, damn, you can't.
[00:10:12] Speaker D: You can't.
[00:10:13] Speaker C: You can't trust me. Go to the store. You think I'm. You know what I'm saying?
[00:10:15] Speaker A: Like, but if you done went to the store and got before.
[00:10:18] Speaker C: Oh, wait,
[00:10:21] Speaker A: he going. Question.
[00:10:22] Speaker C: Every time you go, like, what story?
[00:10:29] Speaker D: Everything changes.
[00:10:30] Speaker A: Like, don't even take that.
[00:10:31] Speaker D: Definitely. It don't take.
[00:10:32] Speaker A: If a nick, if a happy 123 seconds, I'm out of these.
You know what I'm saying? And I'm ready to lay on. He ain't got nothing for you for a couple minutes.
[00:10:43] Speaker C: It just make it. It's. It just make the relationship harder to deal with. It's like, yeah, I can't. Hell, no.
[00:10:48] Speaker A: They have issues within themselves.
[00:10:49] Speaker D: Some of them do got issues within themselves, or they can't trust themselves to make them not trust their fault.
[00:10:54] Speaker A: Your trauma ain't my fault. That's fact. You definitely got to come here.
What you say?
Be traumatized.
[00:11:02] Speaker D: Everybody got some trauma with them.
[00:11:04] Speaker C: I definitely believe that.
[00:11:05] Speaker A: Hey, man, we dealing with pistol toe and prize pick playing.
Prize pick playing women.
It ain't the same no more, brother.
[00:11:15] Speaker C: Why you fade so hard, Lisa?
[00:11:18] Speaker A: I just. I just.
It ain't the same no more, brother. You out here looking for love, your ass is smoke, mama.
[00:11:28] Speaker D: No, it ain't.
[00:11:29] Speaker A: Please.
[00:11:30] Speaker D: No, it ain't.
[00:11:31] Speaker A: You know, some people willing to take whatever piece of love they willing to get, though. You know what I'm saying?
[00:11:36] Speaker D: Women and men out of the street, too.
[00:11:38] Speaker A: Some people just be like it. This is my fish.
I ain't want no other fish.
[00:11:43] Speaker D: That.
[00:11:44] Speaker A: How you supposed to be that much that fish? Swimming, swimming, other. Swimming. Swimming the other pools and swimming the other schools of fishes. Boy, that might not be your fish.
[00:11:53] Speaker D: Y' all girls gotta stop traumatizing my boy.
[00:11:56] Speaker A: Here she go.
Here she go. Cause if I get on her traumatized ass, I'mma be wrong, too, ain't it? Cause she. She just so hit.
She like, I don't know who Shaquanna is.
[00:12:06] Speaker C: Go ahead.
[00:12:06] Speaker D: Nah.
Yeah, he calling out my good.
[00:12:09] Speaker C: Look at me. I'm like her real name.
[00:12:11] Speaker A: We can't be. We can't.
[00:12:12] Speaker D: My good friend.
[00:12:12] Speaker A: We can't even be. We can't even be funny on the plat. They act like, I don't know, they got hurt before, too.
[00:12:17] Speaker D: Yeah.
[00:12:18] Speaker A: Oh, okay. Get. Get on.
Nah. Cause y' all be acting like y' all got damn titanium chest out this. Y' all just do whatever except whatever. I ain't. I ain't accepting. I get your ass up out of here. Y' all be traumatized, too. You just don't leave.
[00:12:33] Speaker D: Mm, I'm trying. I am still traumatized. He had to work through that shit with me.
[00:12:39] Speaker A: Motherfuckers ain't gonna leave. They love the person that traumatized them. What they say?
So I'm. I got to be the only one reading y' all see I got shades on. God damn.
[00:12:50] Speaker C: Oh, I'll read it.
[00:12:53] Speaker A: What you here for?
[00:12:54] Speaker C: I'm about to read it. I thought you was about to read it out loud.
But they need to stop using their trauma as a reason to not trust others. They need to resolve their trauma first.
[00:13:05] Speaker A: Some people get over people by getting under a new person.
[00:13:08] Speaker C: I feel like some people really need to look into therapy. I feel like in the black community, people look at therapy like it's something wrong with it. But, like, that could really help you with, especially me being older.
I feel like that's something I wouldn't mind doing.
[00:13:22] Speaker D: Yeah.
[00:13:23] Speaker C: Talking to somebody that you don't. They don't know nothing about you. They're not biased. They're just. They're there to listen.
[00:13:28] Speaker D: Exactly. So I agree. And it's different forms of therapy. You ain't got to go sit up and talk to somebody. One person.
[00:13:35] Speaker A: I'm traumatized. I bet your ass is traumatized.
Queasy ass. Funny.
[00:13:40] Speaker C: And then therapy isn't always just talking to somebody, either. You can go and start, like, writing. You can go sit your ass in my room somewhere. Go touch some grass.
[00:13:48] Speaker A: I be in my. I be in my journal.
[00:13:49] Speaker D: Do I like to touch that?
[00:13:50] Speaker A: I got.
[00:13:51] Speaker D: I got in the sun.
[00:13:52] Speaker A: I'll be in my journal. I got a journal. Log in for that today.
I got something to talk about today.
Me and my journal. Gonna talk tonight.
Oh, my God.
Damn. What?
I don't even know.
[00:14:15] Speaker C: Why would you tell us that?
[00:14:18] Speaker A: What was I supposed. I couldn't keep it to myself?
[00:14:19] Speaker C: No, you couldn't. I had to tell.
[00:14:22] Speaker D: I was wondering what she was over here doing to me. Oh, my Lord.
[00:14:24] Speaker A: What the.
[00:14:25] Speaker D: I can't believe
[00:14:28] Speaker A: I thought it was a joke. I was like, bro, this a prank.
Well, I know. I ain't think nobody do it like that, though. You know what I'm saying?
Hey, man, you know it is.
[00:14:39] Speaker D: I can't trust the woman because I trust myself. Underlying issues that need to be resolved. Say that again.
[00:14:44] Speaker A: Hey, I ain't gonna lie.
What? What he say?
[00:14:48] Speaker D: I can't trust the woman because I trust myself.
[00:14:53] Speaker C: I'm not.
[00:14:54] Speaker A: Underlying issues that need to be resolved.
You got to elaborate on that one.
[00:14:59] Speaker C: Write that for us, all right?
[00:15:01] Speaker A: Right. And trying to make the next person pay for what, the last eight. I just want to say I can read. I'm just blind.
Like, I'm just. I'm just blind, bro. Like, I can't see. You feel me?
[00:15:12] Speaker C: Like, I can read.
[00:15:14] Speaker A: I was never the nigga who could get the stuttering in class. You know what I'm saying? Like, I'm just. I just can't see.
[00:15:21] Speaker C: Gotta use your finger,
[00:15:25] Speaker A: boy. Fuck you. Let me pull out my phone.
What the fuck?
[00:15:31] Speaker C: Oh, shit.
[00:15:31] Speaker D: That's funny as.
[00:15:32] Speaker A: I ain't gonna lie, bro. This kind of like an episode where we don't know what the fuck we doing.
[00:15:35] Speaker C: Cause, like, no, we just. That information we dropped them all just threw us off.
[00:15:42] Speaker A: That shit threw me off. I thought I had my whole episode Got down playing. How about I get to talk about what you do? Talk about what you do. First vice the Lord. Yeah.
[00:15:52] Speaker D: Oh, y' all know. Y' all know I sell all herbal products, natural products. I got a shop downtown, 392 West Everett Street.
Come through and get y' all health together.
Y' all spend money on everything else.
[00:16:05] Speaker A: Spend money on that health.
[00:16:06] Speaker D: When you in the hospital sick and you come to me for some herbs and want a damn miracle.
[00:16:12] Speaker A: But you got the miracles, though.
[00:16:14] Speaker D: I don't got miracles. I got what you need to help heal yourself. But you got to do the word, okay? If you. If you coming to me and getting what you healing, go get a pork chop. What you doing?
What you doing? They talking about eat.
[00:16:28] Speaker A: So what they supposed to eat, though?
[00:16:30] Speaker D: It depends on what you trying to get rid of or what you trying to, like, help or heal. What's your goals?
[00:16:37] Speaker A: So you can heal anything.
So that's like diabetes, high blood pressure.
[00:16:43] Speaker D: That's the simple stuff right there.
[00:16:45] Speaker A: Okay? So I wasn't gonna drop the bomb. Herpes.
Hiv.
[00:16:48] Speaker D: Hiv, hpv.
[00:16:51] Speaker A: Hpv.
So, so what? What's the process of somebody like with HSV coming to you? Because, like, people gonna be scared too.
[00:16:59] Speaker D: Okay, HSV is herpes.
So the process will be you come to me after you done. I know you're gonna cry and all that, which, that, that enhances it. Once you stressing out and all that, you're gonna start getting outbreaks and all this crazy stuff.
But you come to me, you get the product that you need, I give you your product. You got to change your whole diet. No meats, no sugars, none of that. And take your herbs every day.
[00:17:29] Speaker A: No meats and no sugar.
[00:17:30] Speaker D: You have to do that for a good bit of money. How many months, it depends on that person do that for you, how they
[00:17:36] Speaker C: eat and get that up out your system.
[00:17:38] Speaker A: Hey, listen, we got somebody who telling
[00:17:40] Speaker C: you what to do.
[00:17:41] Speaker A: No, we got somebody who telling you I can get rid of it. While, you know, you go to the. The other folks and you feel me, they telling you I can't, I can't, I can't, I can't get rid of it. You can't get rid of it. You just got to take this to maintain it. If you can maintain, you can get rid of it.
[00:17:56] Speaker D: But they be as clear as they with you in the doctor's office. Because if when the doctor tell you got herpes or something like that, they be, you know, calm with it. Oh, it's nothing. Like it's nothing, because it's really nothing.
[00:18:07] Speaker C: Right?
[00:18:07] Speaker D: But then they'll tell you, but you got to say you can't get rid of. You got to take this medicine for the rest of your life. If you got the medicine for.
[00:18:13] Speaker C: To only maintain. But that's how they keep getting paid.
[00:18:15] Speaker D: Exactly.
[00:18:15] Speaker C: That got to keep you coming back.
[00:18:17] Speaker D: Exactly.
[00:18:18] Speaker A: So.
[00:18:18] Speaker D: Exactly. Then you go stress out. Now you got outbreaks.
[00:18:22] Speaker A: That's why I bought you here, cuz, you know, some people just be scared to go to the doctor. You know what I'm saying? Like them. You know, I got my dog right here. You ain't gonna look like you going to the doctor. She got a storefront. You feel what I'm saying? You coming there. I put. Remember how the girls used to put the. On the. On the. For the club? I come slide you my phone. Just like that, huh?
[00:18:42] Speaker D: This was long.
[00:18:43] Speaker A: Read that shit. Don't read that.
Read that right Quick twin. I bet you can. You can.
[00:18:49] Speaker C: You can like still. Do y' all hear that? Yeah.
[00:18:52] Speaker D: Please go to the doctor and get test run. Yeah,
[00:18:56] Speaker C: go to her and she can.
[00:18:58] Speaker D: I am in school for her listed practitioner right now though, so I'm going be able to do that soon.
I ain't going to say nothing but. Can't stop.
[00:19:06] Speaker A: Hey, right. It's for you. What's for you is for you. So, so you saying, like, what if, like, they got like regular, like they just got some chlamydia or something, you can get rid of that too.
[00:19:16] Speaker D: Yeah, but most people, they ain't going to come to me and say, I got chlamydia I need to get rid of. They just going to get that shot appeal and get it out the way. But the real shit that they telling you you can't get rid of, that's where I mostly see people. I ain't gonna lie in Florence. I done did like 145. I'm on 145 herpes kids. But we do sign non disclosure forms.
[00:19:38] Speaker C: That's good.
[00:19:39] Speaker D: So I can't say nothing about nobody.
[00:19:41] Speaker A: Damn, boy, that's a lot of people, boy, I got.
[00:19:44] Speaker D: Yeah, and it's way more than that. But boy, herpes like a cold.
Like the common cold. Everybody got a form of that. If you had chicken pies, you had herpes.
[00:19:54] Speaker A: Okay, for sure.
[00:19:54] Speaker D: If you had shingles, you got herpes. Oh, and then another thing that a lot of people don't know. Herpes don't come from just sick. So you can't say if you got herpes. Oh, this gave it to me. This female gave it to me. You can't say that because it come in fools. It come.
[00:20:07] Speaker A: Hey, listen, Fish testing positive for herpes right now. Boy, y' all better do y' all research.
Yeah, yeah. You thought that gave it to you probably that chicken, you know what I'm saying? Like, you're probably that beef ass.
[00:20:21] Speaker D: And he ain't even gave it to
[00:20:22] Speaker A: you, I'm telling you. And that can live up to you in a. For a certain amount of time, right
[00:20:26] Speaker D: before you even go dormant, bro.
[00:20:28] Speaker A: So you can't even say that somebody gave you that. You don't know who you.
[00:20:31] Speaker C: You.
[00:20:31] Speaker D: Exactly.
[00:20:32] Speaker A: Cause is. And summertime coming up. Boy, you bouncing right now and it's flooring.
[00:20:37] Speaker D: Yeah. A lot of people, Everybody, everybody.
[00:20:40] Speaker A: It ain't nothing to do but go to Red Circle and fuck.
Go to hookah and fuck. You know what I'm saying? Like, go to hookah, drink some Julio and fuck. You know what I'm saying? Like, that's literally all it is to do around this boy. Like, go to work, go to hookah and fuck.
[00:20:58] Speaker D: Yes, you do, Ellis. Thank you. I appreciate you, too.
[00:21:02] Speaker A: Hey, man, you know what I'm saying? I'm always sending my dog.
I'm always sending. I ain't gonna say my dogs.
[00:21:07] Speaker C: Cause that's good, though. Cause you're healing people. Like, that's.
[00:21:10] Speaker A: That's dope. That's dope. I always feel like you have somebody
[00:21:13] Speaker D: right here in Florence.
[00:21:13] Speaker C: You don't have to look at somebody on TikTok. You don't have to look for somebody who's, like, 20 states away. Like, she's right here.
[00:21:19] Speaker A: What about men who have, like, like, like. Like sexual misfunctions? You can fix that, too, ain't it?
[00:21:24] Speaker D: Oh, hell, yeah. That is.
[00:21:25] Speaker A: See, I'm telling you, boy, my dog get down on it. Oh, boy.
[00:21:29] Speaker C: Oh, yeah.
[00:21:30] Speaker D: Stop getting my money back every three days, don't you.
[00:21:33] Speaker C: I don't have a tea for that. You have a tea for that, too?
[00:21:36] Speaker D: I got tea for that. I got a tiny for that. I got captives for that.
[00:21:39] Speaker A: Hey, listen, I ain't gonna lie. That why I stopped getting that. She legit, boy.
[00:21:42] Speaker D: Oh, yeah. I started to bring you some legit today, too.
[00:21:45] Speaker A: Well, that should have had your, like.
[00:21:47] Speaker C: What's it called?
[00:21:48] Speaker A: That. That be so brick it hurt.
[00:21:53] Speaker D: That is stronger than shilogy.
[00:21:55] Speaker A: Oh, I might gotta get me some of that females.
[00:21:58] Speaker D: I got tonics. I got everything for the females.
[00:22:00] Speaker C: What does it do?
[00:22:01] Speaker D: I got stuff that make the female. That take away odors that make the female super wet.
[00:22:06] Speaker C: That's.
[00:22:07] Speaker D: That help the female stay tight.
That help with endometriosis, fibroids, all that for the women.
[00:22:16] Speaker C: That's good.
[00:22:19] Speaker A: I don't know. We just got to keep going. We can't. We can't acknowledge it.
[00:22:22] Speaker D: Okay.
[00:22:25] Speaker A: Yeah, it's good.
[00:22:29] Speaker D: We take out all of oregano, black
[00:22:31] Speaker A: seed oil every morning. Every morning. You put me on that. She put me on that. Okay, what did they do?
[00:22:39] Speaker D: Which one? The oil. Black seed oil.
[00:22:41] Speaker A: Keep inflammation and parasite. Let me. Inflammation is a parasite, right? You gonna kill it, and it help cleanse the blood. You know what I'm saying? Like, so. You know what I'm saying? Implementing that every day.
[00:22:52] Speaker C: See, I'm a smoker, so, like, what would you think that I should be taking, like, on a regular basis?
[00:22:56] Speaker A: Ain't you got. You still got the herbs that you can smoke?
[00:22:58] Speaker D: Yeah, I got herbs you could smoke, but I'm A smoker, too. I'm trying to get out of this shit.
[00:23:03] Speaker A: Yeah. I swear to God.
[00:23:04] Speaker C: But it's like, what you think I could be taking on a daily that,
[00:23:06] Speaker D: you know, I take lung, the lun and mucus drops that help cleanse out my arm. That's why I'm draining out. I just took some.
[00:23:14] Speaker C: See, that's why I be coughing all that when I be smoking. It's like, what can I take to stop doing that? That. So every.
[00:23:19] Speaker D: I got some drops. I got mullion. You got a time. You got a bunch of different herbs in it that help just cleanse your lungs. Keep your lungs clean.
[00:23:26] Speaker C: Okay.
[00:23:27] Speaker D: Cuz we smoke heavy.
[00:23:29] Speaker A: And y' all be smoking them down. Y' all be smoking them down backwards and backwards.
I'm smoking straight papers, no cap.
[00:23:39] Speaker D: I smoke leaves that made from chamomile.
[00:23:43] Speaker A: Drop her info. Hold on.
[00:23:44] Speaker C: How to leave sometimes, too.
[00:23:45] Speaker A: What your number is? Yeah, what's Your business number?
[00:23:48] Speaker D: 843888.
Ooh, 45.
[00:23:55] Speaker A: What happened?
[00:23:56] Speaker C: No, what he just said. Somebody drop her info and keep her safe. The world needs her.
[00:24:00] Speaker A: I'm telling you.
[00:24:01] Speaker C: Facts.
[00:24:02] Speaker A: She gonna forever be safe.
All right.
[00:24:05] Speaker D: Yep.
[00:24:05] Speaker A: So what are they gonna do?
Her contact?
Her contact information is pinned in the comments, man. You know what I'm saying?
[00:24:19] Speaker C: I gotta come down there.
[00:24:20] Speaker D: Yes, please do. I'm Monday through Friday.
[00:24:23] Speaker A: I'm always in that bit. I ain't been.
[00:24:25] Speaker D: I ain't been in there before it open.
[00:24:27] Speaker A: Why? Come on, man. A. No. Doggy locked in.
Doggy locked.
[00:24:35] Speaker D: Helping me settle.
[00:24:36] Speaker A: Yeah, her sister. Fine one. She just.
She fine, though.
[00:24:40] Speaker D: We ain't here to talk about that.
[00:24:43] Speaker C: What you look like.
[00:24:46] Speaker A: I'm just. I'm waiting on that one. I'm saving myself for that one.
[00:24:49] Speaker C: So what made you start getting into, like, all the herbs and stuff like that, like. And how long have you been doing it?
[00:24:56] Speaker D: This is my seventh year.
[00:24:57] Speaker C: Okay.
[00:24:57] Speaker A: Okay. Damn. I ain't doing that.
[00:25:00] Speaker C: Yeah.
Because I remember you when you used to cut hair. I want to say I seen you a barber shop one time.
[00:25:05] Speaker D: Yeah. You came up there and. Whiskey up. Yeah. Okay.
[00:25:08] Speaker A: One thing about this right here.
[00:25:10] Speaker D: I'mma try. I'mma try something now.
[00:25:12] Speaker A: She going to try something. That's a she. She going to get it.
[00:25:15] Speaker D: I'm going try something.
[00:25:16] Speaker A: She going to get it for sure.
[00:25:19] Speaker D: I need them smoke shrimp.
[00:25:21] Speaker A: I need them smoke drops. I. I'll shop Friday.
[00:25:23] Speaker D: Okay. Please come through. I'll be there to see.
[00:25:26] Speaker A: Go ahead. Saying my dog.
[00:25:27] Speaker C: So what made you start doing this?
[00:25:29] Speaker D: What made me Start selling it. I just was brushing my teeth with some toothpaste one day, some natural toothpaste, some charcoal toothpaste. And people start asking me what I was using.
And then I said, all y' all want it, I might as well get it myself and sell. And it went from there, went up. And then about three months later, I opened up my first building.
This my fourth building right here. Boy, I went through some shit with them buildings. That's another story for another day,
[00:25:59] Speaker A: you know what I'm saying? Like it be like that sometime.
[00:26:02] Speaker D: I ain't lying. When you in other people's, you got
[00:26:05] Speaker A: to go through, get through, so.
[00:26:06] Speaker C: But now you love the space that you in right now though, right?
[00:26:09] Speaker D: I do, I do.
I do love the location.
[00:26:14] Speaker C: That's good.
[00:26:15] Speaker A: That's it.
[00:26:15] Speaker C: So what's Your hours though?
[00:26:17] Speaker D: 10 to 10 to 6, Monday through Friday. Okay.
[00:26:21] Speaker A: And you being that all day?
[00:26:23] Speaker D: Yeah, I do got an assistant though. I'm about to. Once I get my cargo in, I'mma let her sit in there a little bit more. She going to do my cargo van and I be in there, cuz he be wanting to talk. But see, if I do it like that, once I get my practitioner license, people going to have to set up consultation. So y' all better get me now.
[00:26:38] Speaker A: I'm already locked in.
[00:26:40] Speaker D: You got to set up paid consultations. Cuz I want to break it down. Down to. Cuz really we. The diets we supposed to be on is based on our blood type. It ain't really based on Just because we black.
[00:26:51] Speaker A: Yeah, for sure.
[00:26:52] Speaker C: So you'll be able to. So we'll be able to come down to your shop and you'll be able to draw our blood, Tell us our blood type and then.
[00:26:59] Speaker D: Yeah, okay, type test and then I'll let you know the diet you supposed to be on. Because some people might can still eat meat and they still healthy as hell. Me, I might be can't eat meat at all because it gonna me up.
You might might need to eat meat and if you stop eating meat, you might become unhealthy.
[00:27:17] Speaker C: Oh, okay.
[00:27:17] Speaker D: Because of your blood type.
[00:27:19] Speaker A: Damn, that shit get deeper.
[00:27:22] Speaker D: That why when I see people popping up selling like they know what going on and be pissing me off because it's so deep.
[00:27:30] Speaker A: Yeah, you can't, but you can't, but you can't buy that from everybody. That's just some real, you know.
[00:27:35] Speaker C: You know, people see on Tick Tock and they be like, well, I'm about to. I'm about to Buy that.
[00:27:38] Speaker D: Okay.
Medications. Now you taking this with a million different herbs in. And now you up, mo.
[00:27:44] Speaker C: Yeah, for real.
[00:27:46] Speaker A: Now you up mo.
You know what I'm saying? Like,
[00:27:56] Speaker D: Oh, dang, it went up.
[00:27:58] Speaker C: She offer after hours.
[00:28:00] Speaker A: I mean, I think she deliver after hours, though. You know what I'm saying? She probably meet you somewhere.
[00:28:04] Speaker D: It depends on how far after hours.
[00:28:06] Speaker A: You sound kind of freaky, right? I was just about to say you. You sound kind of freaky right now, boy. You see, off after hours. That sound like he want a happy ending, right? Clean.
He want a little.
[00:28:19] Speaker C: No, he probably just get off after six. That's probably why he asking.
[00:28:23] Speaker A: I know, but he should. He just got the word different.
[00:28:25] Speaker C: Talking about freaky.
[00:28:28] Speaker A: Well, you got the word.
You got to put them words together. Like, she offer after hours. Like, okay, hold on, hold on, boy.
Ain't no soliciting on this motherfucker. Boy. The happy ending, where we get the whack in your shit.
Don't forget the whack of your seed.
You supposed to.
[00:28:46] Speaker D: Okay, okay, okay, okay. I don't know. Hit me up. It just depends on what time. Just hit me up.
Not on Fridays, though. I'm out of town on the weekend.
It depends. You just got to let me know
[00:29:06] Speaker A: that girl said her man ain't going for that.
[00:29:08] Speaker D: Not at all.
[00:29:11] Speaker A: See?
See how easy that is just to say, like, you know what I'm saying? Why you don't say shit like that?
What your man. What your man don't be going for?
[00:29:20] Speaker C: What?
What that got to do with anything?
[00:29:26] Speaker A: I'm just saying, you see how, like,
[00:29:28] Speaker C: some little crazy,
[00:29:38] Speaker A: She always want to change the subject. All right, all right.
What your man don't like for you to do?
I'm ask you too. Be ready.
What's your man in life you do?
[00:29:57] Speaker C: Hey, my man would want me being friendly.
Being in your face like, now you
[00:30:04] Speaker A: saying the same thing, bro.
[00:30:05] Speaker C: I mean, it's the same. Literally, the same all be. Yeah, don't want no friendly ass bitch like nobody want. No, that's always outside. Exactly. Always just in the mix. A who's like Ratchet always fighting like niggas don't like stuff like that.
[00:30:18] Speaker A: Can't cook.
[00:30:19] Speaker D: Yeah.
[00:30:19] Speaker C: Can't cook like shit like that.
[00:30:21] Speaker A: Promiscuous, combative.
[00:30:24] Speaker C: Oh, that's a good one.
[00:30:26] Speaker A: Be promiscuous.
[00:30:28] Speaker D: Well, she need to be single. She promiscuous now.
[00:30:30] Speaker C: Definitely promiscuous, girl.
[00:30:34] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying?
[00:30:35] Speaker D: Look, as she goes on, yes, say, see, say yes.
[00:30:43] Speaker A: But yeah, man, you know I got some more questions, too.
Look at. Look at Yousef, man, you funny as, man.
What you about to do? What's the. What's the.
[00:30:54] Speaker C: You gotta do something over there.
Ah, I seen that look.
[00:31:01] Speaker A: Say, what's that then?
[00:31:02] Speaker C: I saw that look looking at my phone.
[00:31:08] Speaker A: Oh, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
What. What does a healthy relationship look like?
A post on Facebook.
[00:31:19] Speaker C: I would say a healthy relationship is different for each relationship. For real?
[00:31:23] Speaker D: Yeah, it depends on that person.
[00:31:25] Speaker A: But we say what does it look like? It don't matter. Like, how it makes it work. What does it look like?
[00:31:30] Speaker C: It looks, I guess, like, if we going off social media, it just.
They just look like they always happy and having fun and what's up, Shartavious? Shit like, that shit that ain't real.
[00:31:41] Speaker A: This nigga used to be hilarious, though.
[00:31:44] Speaker D: Social media shit. I don't be believing that.
[00:31:47] Speaker A: This nigga Yoshi hilarious, though. I'm just saying. You just keep laughing, bro.
[00:31:53] Speaker C: Cause he messy as fuck, Yoshi messy.
[00:31:57] Speaker A: What's the best way to deal with conflict in a relationship?
Communicate.
[00:32:01] Speaker C: Communicate.
[00:32:03] Speaker A: You got to break up, bro.
But, boy, this.
[00:32:08] Speaker D: If you talk about it right then
[00:32:09] Speaker A: and there, 20, 26, if you can let that woman say she's single, she's getting fucked.
If she say she's single, nigga, she is getting cracked. You hear me? Like, ain't. No. If she telling you she's single, just best believe that.
You know what I'm saying? Like, that going down.
[00:32:32] Speaker D: She's single, she's getting.
[00:32:34] Speaker A: If she's single, like, happily single. Yeah, for sure.
[00:32:37] Speaker D: What about the women?
[00:32:37] Speaker A: That girl go to hell. Ain't no. Ain't no more. No.
[00:32:40] Speaker D: What about the women?
[00:32:45] Speaker C: It ain't a lot of them.
[00:32:46] Speaker D: Ain't nothing wrong with some people out there that just wanna.
[00:32:49] Speaker A: But, like, stop acting oblivious to, like, what people be talking about just because it's a woman in the, like, seat. Like, bro, do it too up.
[00:32:56] Speaker D: Yeah.
[00:32:57] Speaker A: Like, ain't perfect. Ain't too.
[00:32:59] Speaker D: It's just.
[00:33:00] Speaker A: Yeah, you feel me? Like, but you know, y' all love ain't, so I can't say that I love men.
[00:33:08] Speaker D: That used to be. Ain't.
[00:33:10] Speaker A: That sounds stupid as.
[00:33:11] Speaker D: It sounds stupid. No, right.
[00:33:13] Speaker A: That. That I'm talking about like, bro, that has sounds so stupid.
[00:33:17] Speaker D: They change like, they whole ways. I used to not be the right. So a man had. My man had to know that I wasn't.
[00:33:26] Speaker A: It's hard to find the healthy relationship, because relationship will have some type of problem. I mean, it ain't about that. Because I feel like in a relationship, we two different people. Like, we ain't brought up the same. We don't know each other. You know what I'm saying? Morals ain't the same. Like, you got to come together and be like one. You feel me? Like, that ain't the problem. Like, running in the problem. This is how you deal with your problem.
Because, like, I could say, like, from experiences, like, you know what I'm saying? Like, where you kind of, like, you with your person. You in love with your person or whatever, like, and y' all don't talk about it. You just kind of, like, let time pass by and you don't want to, like, just keep not talking. You know what I'm saying? Keep being weird. So we just go back to being normal, but we ain't talk about it.
[00:34:08] Speaker C: Yeah, that'd be the biggest problem. If you don't talk about the issue, it's just gonna turn into a bigger issue.
[00:34:14] Speaker A: Right?
[00:34:14] Speaker D: It's gonna build up.
[00:34:15] Speaker A: And it might not be the same issue, though, but we ain't even got past the last issue, and now we're on another one.
[00:34:19] Speaker C: So now we got what I'm saying.
[00:34:21] Speaker A: Now we're compounding.
[00:34:22] Speaker D: You feel me? Like, it done built up.
[00:34:24] Speaker A: Hey, man.
So that's the thing, too, though. You know what I'm saying? Like, it's somebody for everybody, though.
But it is.
[00:34:33] Speaker D: I can't wait till you settle down.
[00:34:35] Speaker A: Why me? Like, what the.
[00:34:36] Speaker D: Cause I'm ready for you to settle down. I'm tired of your.
[00:34:41] Speaker A: I didn't. Did that cell the Dawn.
[00:34:43] Speaker D: When?
[00:34:44] Speaker A: No,
[00:34:47] Speaker D: no, like, when. For real.
[00:34:48] Speaker A: For real, Lord. That's how you know. People don't really with me. For real.
[00:34:51] Speaker D: No, I do with you.
[00:34:52] Speaker C: I feel like his last situation was serious, so.
[00:34:55] Speaker D: It was serious.
[00:34:56] Speaker A: Serious enough.
[00:34:57] Speaker C: Yeah. This. They was. They was together.
[00:35:00] Speaker A: Like, I was.
I was with her.
[00:35:04] Speaker D: I'm a.
[00:35:04] Speaker C: What?
[00:35:06] Speaker A: I was with her.
[00:35:08] Speaker C: What you mean by that?
[00:35:09] Speaker A: I was with her. She wasn't with me.
[00:35:14] Speaker D: You feel like that?
[00:35:16] Speaker C: You feel like it was like that the whole time?
[00:35:18] Speaker A: No, it got like that, though.
[00:35:19] Speaker D: I'm about to say, fuck love. Just be a hoe. Don't give that type of shit.
[00:35:22] Speaker A: Well, listen, boy. No, hey, they got Trojan Ultra thins now.
Can't tell me no different, you know what I'm saying?
[00:35:30] Speaker D: I'm trying to come up with my own kind of line, too. That coming up.
[00:35:35] Speaker A: Getting small, man.
Hell, yeah.
[00:35:39] Speaker D: You say they getting small. Yeah.
[00:35:44] Speaker A: Talk about something else.
I just started taking my doctor outside. Well, you know what? I'm saying stand up like a young man.
You feel like I'm telling you how that you ain't even think that you wasn't even wanting nothing in that she came to breathe on you.
That be like that.
Cause I don't even be like. I wouldn't be planning to get no coochie, for real. I'll just be trying to chill.
[00:36:23] Speaker C: And then when you get in, it's just like, crazy stuff happens.
[00:36:28] Speaker A: I just had somebody knocking that I had. I didn't have somebody else pop up. Yoshi.
[00:36:35] Speaker D: I don't like stuff like that over the weekend.
[00:36:37] Speaker A: Yeah, bro.
It's a wild life, bro.
[00:36:44] Speaker C: No, it's a wild life you got. Yeah.
It's too much going on right now.
[00:36:49] Speaker A: I'm just. I'm just.
You just would taking it there.
I'm just taking life a day at a time, bro. Right?
You never know what you're gonna get out this.
[00:37:04] Speaker D: You don't.
[00:37:05] Speaker A: Because this be going every day. This be going. This be going on, boy.
In a second.
[00:37:12] Speaker D: In a second. That's the thing.
[00:37:14] Speaker A: It ain't been 24 hours.
[00:37:16] Speaker C: Less than 12.
[00:37:21] Speaker A: Nah, bro, go ahead. We're chilling. You feel me?
[00:37:24] Speaker D: But it ain't been 24 hours be going on.
[00:37:27] Speaker A: This should be going on, man. Y', all. Y'.
[00:37:29] Speaker C: All.
[00:37:29] Speaker A: Hey, listen. I'm a firm. This. This why.
[00:37:31] Speaker C: Gosh, I wanna ask this why I
[00:37:32] Speaker A: don't wanna be in the. This why I ain't from now on, bitch. I need that ring bell login.
[00:37:39] Speaker C: I'm going through phones like, hell, no, please don't. What you mean, go through they ring.
[00:37:46] Speaker D: What you mean?
[00:37:47] Speaker A: I need all that. Y' all bitches, hell, I need all that. Especially if you mind. I'm spending money.
[00:37:53] Speaker C: But why do you need the. Why do you need access to her? Ring doorbell.
[00:37:58] Speaker A: I'm paying. I'm paying bills there. That sounds like what?
[00:38:00] Speaker D: Oh, you're saying if you're in a relationship, you're in a relationship?
[00:38:03] Speaker A: Yeah. Like what?
[00:38:04] Speaker C: Okay, not as soon as y' all
[00:38:05] Speaker A: start talking like, you sound crazy as. Why do I even care that much?
[00:38:09] Speaker C: That's how you said it just now. You see, she was confused, too.
[00:38:12] Speaker A: That's how you read it? That's how y' all read it?
[00:38:14] Speaker D: Yeah. I thought you was talking about.
[00:38:15] Speaker A: I don't even care that much. For real. Like, as soon as we start talking to give a. What you got going on? You sound crazy as hell. Y' all know that too. Like. But I hate when y' all be complaining. Like, crazy as.
[00:38:26] Speaker D: Man, I Probably would give them that. I give them that. The location, my location. I don't care.
[00:38:32] Speaker C: Location.
[00:38:32] Speaker D: That's easy. Shit like that don't matter.
[00:38:34] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. That should be crazy.
[00:38:36] Speaker D: Now if.
[00:38:37] Speaker A: What's happening? What's happening? What's happening? Look at Gabby.
[00:38:39] Speaker D: Your eye need to raise your eyebrow.
[00:38:41] Speaker A: Look at Gabby. What's happening?
Hey,
[00:38:46] Speaker D: black man.
[00:38:48] Speaker A: What the that mean I am black now. I ain't crispy black, though.
Chocolate.
You remember that.
Shit was funny.
That was funny as hell.
Word.
We still got 20 minutes. This feel like a long ass episode.
[00:39:19] Speaker D: We so stuck on with your news.
We so stuck on your news. You throw us out with it.
[00:39:26] Speaker A: Chill. How in my news we just relaxing.
[00:39:28] Speaker D: It's the Facebook news.
[00:39:30] Speaker A: You still doing too much.
Let me see, let me see.
What's the best relationship advice someone has ever given you?
[00:39:44] Speaker D: Listen, listen, listen.
[00:39:48] Speaker A: Oh, you was hard headed, huh?
[00:39:50] Speaker D: Listen, don't think you know every damn thing.
And also everybody is different. So you got to know how to.
Even though it may seem crazy to you, you got to know how to talk to your person and like, okay, bae, I just made a post about that, but okay, but I understand. You look at it like this and I may think it's different from my lifestyle, but let's work on it. I. I'll work on that with you. Because that's how you look at things long. Cause it ain't nothing you know, out the way, but y' all got to learn how to compromise with each other lifestyle or how they was brought up in the world.
[00:40:26] Speaker C: Oh, I would say the best advice I got was to give people grace.
[00:40:33] Speaker D: Yes.
[00:40:33] Speaker C: Because y' all are just learning each other. Y' all don't know each other. Y' all don't know how each other, you know, last relationships were. You don't know how these people were brought up. Like, y' all are literally just learning each other. You got to learn each other's boundaries. So like, everybody ain't been in a relationship where they had boundaries. Some people have been in relationship where they really could do whatever the they want to do. And. And that's just what it was.
[00:40:55] Speaker D: Or come over here.
[00:40:57] Speaker C: They was with somebody that was real strict and they couldn't do a bunch of nothing. And now they got with you and they got a little more freedom. They don't know.
[00:41:02] Speaker A: Look at Gabby. Gabby. Talk about just shut the up sometimes.
[00:41:05] Speaker C: Yeah, that too. That too. But definitely giving grace. And like what she said.
[00:41:11] Speaker A: Yeah, giving grace.
[00:41:13] Speaker C: No, what she was saying, like, no, that's.
[00:41:15] Speaker A: That was yours.
[00:41:15] Speaker C: That was Mine, Yeah.
[00:41:16] Speaker A: Giving grace.
[00:41:16] Speaker C: What do you think?
Double man.
[00:41:25] Speaker A: I mean, coming from a male perspective, though, like, we could do more, you know what I'm saying? Sometimes we think we're doing a lot and we ain't doing enough.
You feel me? You know what I'm saying? Everything ain't just about financial, you know what I'm saying? You could be financial as fuck, you know what I'm saying? You just missing.
You missing the point, though.
[00:41:45] Speaker D: That's the one.
[00:41:46] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:41:48] Speaker A: That's just the kind of advice I got. Like, just kind of like, be open. Be open minded, open hearted, you know what I'm saying?
See, a lot of niggas, though, you know, they just trying to shield theyself from hurt, you know what I'm saying? They just. We scared.
We done felt that shit one time. We done felt that shit one time, and you probably triggering that nigga. You probably reminded him of shit that old girl did, you know what I'm saying? But he's not gonna tell you that. He's just gonna be like, damn, hold on.
[00:42:17] Speaker D: And that's the thing. Men need to learn how to express themselves.
[00:42:20] Speaker A: How can a man express himself to the point to where it's like, y' all supposed to do that? Y' all don't give a fuck about what going on with that nigga.
[00:42:27] Speaker C: I just feel like men don't express themselves because when they did express themselves to somebody like, that person probably didn't really, like, care what they was talking about or kind of like shunned them out a little bit. Like, Right. Nobody give a. What you talking about. You a man. Like, that's how a lot of females talk.
[00:42:41] Speaker D: A lot of females talk about life right now.
[00:42:43] Speaker C: Like, okay, figure it out. But that's not always the case. Like, y' all be needing help too. Emotionally emotional help.
[00:42:49] Speaker A: Listen, that girl nurturing, boy.
Like, without you asking.
[00:42:53] Speaker D: Exactly.
[00:42:55] Speaker A: I can't even say that. Cause shit,
[00:42:59] Speaker D: women should naturally be nurturing.
[00:43:01] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:43:02] Speaker A: Some folks act like you got to unlock that shit or something.
[00:43:04] Speaker D: That's true.
[00:43:05] Speaker C: And that's crazy to me. I feel like that's part of their trauma. Yeah, I feel like that's part of being a female. Like, I mean, if you like, I don't know. I mean, that's just how I was brought up. Like, my mama, like, any man she ever dealt with, she always made him feel like, hey, you that nigga. Like, and ain't no nigga bigger than you. And that's just.
[00:43:20] Speaker A: Boy, listen. But that's how.
That's how you make your nigga go harder.
[00:43:24] Speaker D: Exactly.
[00:43:25] Speaker A: Like on my mama. You don't have to buy that nigga shit. You really don't even got to cook that nigga shit. You don't got to really do a lot of, like, shit people think they got to do. But if you speaking life into that nigga, that nigga might have had the worst day of his life. And you just got some words to kind of make me straighten up.
[00:43:41] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:43:42] Speaker A: Or you got the energy to kind of. I don't give a fuck. Like, you come in the house or you go see your girl, whatever, bro. And she just give you some relief. Like, brother gonna be all right. For real, boy. That's. That's love. For real. That's. That's. That's the point. Like, that's the piece. I think we're kind of missing these people, though. You know what I'm saying? Like, it ain't too much of that going on no more at all. Like, ain't been getting. You don't really see too many people getting married.
[00:44:06] Speaker C: For real people, definitely.
[00:44:09] Speaker D: I've seen a lot of people because
[00:44:10] Speaker C: I've seen a lot of people get engaged.
[00:44:12] Speaker D: Engage. Well, engaged, yeah. Getting engaged and married lately.
[00:44:18] Speaker C: But you just got to know how
[00:44:20] Speaker D: to talk to each other.
[00:44:23] Speaker C: I'm doing a wedding next week. No, funny. I'm doing a wedding next week because next week.
[00:44:28] Speaker D: What?
[00:44:28] Speaker C: That's bike week, right? That's Memorial weekend. That's great.
[00:44:32] Speaker D: Is it next week? Yeah.
[00:44:33] Speaker C: This weekend is the 16th. Next weekend, 23rd, right? Yeah. I got a wedding next week.
[00:44:38] Speaker A: Yeah. I ain't what they say. I had the uplift me I had the uplift me and still do me wrong on my mama.
[00:44:46] Speaker C: Oh, God.
[00:44:47] Speaker A: Hey, listen, hey, listen, little bro.
Listen. Little brother go down.
[00:44:52] Speaker C: That should be weird.
[00:44:53] Speaker A: That'd be weird. And this. This war and this war called love. Cause it ain't no.
It ain't no game, bro. That. That's a fight.
But you gonna run into some.
Some shit you really wasn't even prepared for. For real. But you got to know how to, like, adjust.
I be reading a lot more now. You know what I'm saying? Y' all niggas need to go pick up that. It's a book called the Ways of a Superior Man.
That shit to teach you a lot about yourself, you know what I'm saying? Like, as far as, like, how you handle situations, how you handle relationships. All that shit, bro. All that. That shit teach you everything. Cause at the end of the day, bro, that was me, like, boy, hurt Me, boy, I'm. Hell, no. But I'm just about to go. I'm fucking everybody. I'm fucking everything.
You know what I'm saying?
I'm going, shit, Nah, bro, I just learned how to. I just learned how to, like, keep that shit to myself, bro. And we healed. That shit don't make you no better. But I done been clapping shit and still go think about this fucking bitch. You know what I'm saying?
[00:45:53] Speaker C: You know, it's like, damn.
[00:45:54] Speaker A: Well, you need to take some time and relax, you know what I'm saying? And, bro, it's cool, bro, it's cool. It's. It's okay to be hurt, nigga. And it's okay to be hurt again and hurt again, hurt again. You feel me?
[00:46:07] Speaker C: Like, bro, it. There's no way to even get around it.
[00:46:10] Speaker A: Don't let. Don't. Don't let them people stop you from your person, bro. Cause you robbing yourself of the best feeling in the world, and that is to be loved. You know what I'm saying? When you love correctly from a person, boy, that should be all right. I don't give a fuck if it was fake as fuck. You remember the highs on that, you know what I'm saying? Like, all the good times, you know what I'm saying? Like, bruh, it just happens sometimes you got to look at shit. Like, shit just in your way.
You know what I'm saying? Like, in your way. So, hey, we. We. We living in 2026, man. Like, likes make a feel like they're wanted or, you know, it's. It's some. It's some greener grass on the other side of what they got going on.
But, boy, you know, I hate. Don't mean I hate having to get to know somebody again.
[00:46:54] Speaker C: That's annoying.
[00:46:55] Speaker A: I hate seven. Seven women texting my phone, good morning,
[00:46:59] Speaker D: seven.
[00:47:00] Speaker C: Damn.
[00:47:00] Speaker D: Can I take you out? Can I take. God damn.
[00:47:03] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:47:05] Speaker C: It'd be overwhelming.
[00:47:06] Speaker D: It does be overwhelming. And don't be when. If I tell them, like, me and that, they don't believe me. Like, women get tired of getting holiday that.
[00:47:15] Speaker C: Getting that is aggravating.
[00:47:18] Speaker A: Don't say. Don't say. Like, the whole woman population gets tired of being hollered at.
She didn't say no song either.
[00:47:24] Speaker D: But I meant some women get tired of that. That aggravating. Like, okay, there's some.
[00:47:29] Speaker C: That same shit.
[00:47:30] Speaker D: Exactly.
[00:47:31] Speaker A: It's so much. So y' all like it?
[00:47:33] Speaker D: No.
[00:47:33] Speaker A: Even if you're ignoring it. Even if you ignoring it, it's something for you Even if you're ignoring it, it's something for you. I swear to God, I don't even want to hear it.
[00:47:41] Speaker D: What you mean it's something for you?
[00:47:43] Speaker A: It does something for you to yourself. Like, it don't matter if you not responding. You just look at it. You like it.
Yes, you do. Because. Because the motherfucker.
[00:47:54] Speaker C: It really don't.
[00:47:55] Speaker D: It don't mean.
[00:47:56] Speaker C: Especially when you're getting so many on a regular basis.
[00:47:58] Speaker A: But why are you getting so many, though? Because it's not your beauty sometimes.
[00:48:04] Speaker D: It's not your beauty all the time.
[00:48:07] Speaker A: A lot of times.
[00:48:08] Speaker D: Yeah. Yeah, it is. And it gets. That's why. That's another point of why I get aggravated.
[00:48:13] Speaker A: Don't show that big old ass. Especially this one right here.
You can't help it, though.
[00:48:17] Speaker C: Yeah, and I can't help it.
[00:48:20] Speaker A: She see that from the front. Boy, y'. All. Y' all can't hide that room. Boy, you down there hear that come around the corner on my mama.
Word. But I think that's the thing, too, though. You know what I'm saying? Like, y' all don't think that can make your nigga insecure.
[00:48:42] Speaker D: Yes.
[00:48:42] Speaker C: I mean, if you're a female that's just craving attention, it's just like.
[00:48:46] Speaker A: Yeah, but y' all don't know what makes a nigga, like, crave you, though. Y' all be thinking. Y' all know. And when a nigga tried to tell you that, he probably. Oh, you insecure or you know what I'm saying? N just gonna stop saying shit that me.
[00:48:58] Speaker D: That's me. Certain things, I do feel like it's insecure, but I feel like it's a healthy insecure, and it's a damn detrimental insecure.
[00:49:06] Speaker A: But see, y' all be calling. Y' all are telling nigga that he insecure and keep expecting the nigga to open up. You get to use that word one. You get to use that word one.
[00:49:14] Speaker D: Fucking take that advice.
[00:49:15] Speaker A: You get to use that word.
[00:49:17] Speaker C: He probably would be like, on my
[00:49:19] Speaker A: mama, because being for real, bitch, I was already struggling trying to tell you this.
I was already struggling trying to tell you this. You ain't even receptive.
[00:49:27] Speaker C: Okay, well, fuck to say this part. And now.
[00:49:29] Speaker A: Okay, well, it.
Now you just dealing with an unromanticized ass nigga. No, you just didn't know how to handle him when he was trying to be emotional with you.
You feel me? Like, y' all deflect, so that'll change
[00:49:40] Speaker C: a in a relationship, too, my mama.
[00:49:42] Speaker A: Cause y' all be deflecting off a. Oh, all the got his pride.
[00:49:47] Speaker C: Yeah, they could be hurting the out of pride.
[00:49:51] Speaker A: How the. That's a man period.
Women came. Women came.
[00:49:57] Speaker D: You. You lead a relationship with pride and see how far that relationship.
[00:49:59] Speaker A: It don't matter about nobody leading with pride. Pride is instilled in the man, period. The line of the jungle.
[00:50:04] Speaker D: The pride is instilled in anybody, man,
[00:50:07] Speaker A: Y' all ain't got no fucking pride. Y' all just.
[00:50:09] Speaker D: We gotta have pride, man.
[00:50:10] Speaker A: Y' all act like y' all daddies. Ain't no lying. Ain't no lying.
That's why you got pride.
That's why you got pride. Cause you act like your damn daddy. Real talk. You know how to use a scale. All type of shit. Of course you got pride. You know what I'm saying, Man, I
[00:50:24] Speaker D: weigh up them herbs
[00:50:28] Speaker A: before that, before that, nigga, as you were going down, you know what I'm saying?
[00:50:37] Speaker D: Yep.
I changed my life for the better. Okay.
[00:50:44] Speaker A: Okay.
But yeah, little bro, just keep loving. You'll be all right. You'll find your person still. Major.
Major. Hey, that's how you got to look at that. I beat your ass over. I don't give a like. Okay. We ain't work out cool. I'm gonna live with the memories in my head.
[00:51:01] Speaker C: So is that all, like, that matters? Like, you still let me hit sometimes.
[00:51:06] Speaker A: Sometimes I hit end goal. And like, I. I like. I got to know you and kind of liked you.
[00:51:12] Speaker C: Yeah, like, I liked it.
[00:51:12] Speaker A: It ain't like I saw you and just like, oh, you my wife. No, I probably saw you like, ah, damn. You know what I'm saying? Now I'm talking to you. I get to know you. We. You doing this especially you short with that boonki.
[00:51:24] Speaker D: I'll be like, they gonna. You gonna know.
I feel like that is true.
A man know when they. When they meet their wife.
[00:51:31] Speaker A: Every. Every time. Every time we thought that that didn't work out.
Hell yeah. You talking about. Well, I knew I had my wife.
[00:51:44] Speaker D: You talking about this the first time I thought I met my husband. I said that before.
[00:51:47] Speaker A: But how you feel like that, though?
[00:51:50] Speaker D: Cause how. Like just how. How we go to work together, so we. Everything is just good.
Yes.
[00:51:58] Speaker A: I ain't going to get on your ass right now.
[00:52:00] Speaker D: Don't get on my ass. You can get on my ass this time. I. I don't care. I'm on the straight and narrow. I'm doing right.
[00:52:05] Speaker A: So my dog say after eight.
So we got. We got a little.
Hey, listen, we got eight minutes left, so we going to do it. My dog got a little therapy session going on. My dog say after 8 years, them memory is going to be there for a long time. But you know what else you got to think about? If she don't give a fuck about the memories, you don't need to give a fuck about the memories.
You hear me? Because if the memories meaning that much to you, bro, you willing to make some shit right. If that other person ain't willing to make some shit right, the memories don't give a.
She can't start crossing the. She. She getting, she getting, bro.
[00:52:37] Speaker D: Them memories don't matter.
[00:52:38] Speaker C: You always say that, Jay.
[00:52:40] Speaker D: Like, they always be the she getting, she getting, bro.
[00:52:43] Speaker A: But that. That'll help a. That'll help A come to terms with reality. You know what I'm saying? Like.
Like, yeah, bro, go ahead and get you another. It easy.
It ain't hard. I know, I know.
[00:52:53] Speaker D: Easy to find another. But to find another woman that you love, that's not. That's not easy.
[00:52:58] Speaker A: Okay? But that ain't what we.
After I done lost the woman that I love, the last thing I'm looking for is another woman that I love.
I want to.
[00:53:07] Speaker C: That makes sense. I want to, like, after being hard, right? After being hard, bro, I'm like. I ain't worried about that right now.
[00:53:13] Speaker A: I'm just trying to. I ain't healing.
I'm just.
[00:53:17] Speaker D: Okay.
[00:53:18] Speaker C: But that. Yeah, yeah, you definitely ain't healing, doing
[00:53:20] Speaker A: that right until that get old.
[00:53:24] Speaker C: But who's to say how long that's gonna be?
[00:53:27] Speaker D: It is, but it is old already, ain't it?
[00:53:29] Speaker C: Okay, so
[00:53:34] Speaker A: delete them pictures and them memories on my mama. Boy, boy, go get a new. Go pay for some right now, today.
Somebody just gonna.
[00:53:42] Speaker D: That shit ain't gonna. That shit ain't gonna change how he feel. Just.
[00:53:45] Speaker A: He go, it's not.
It's not.
[00:53:47] Speaker D: But you still gonna lay up in that bed, what you saying? Late night. And think like a motherfucker. And then you just fucked this bitch. And you still in here thinking, right?
[00:53:55] Speaker C: Cut that off. And now you.
[00:53:57] Speaker A: That's how you got the. Fuck her at night, twin.
[00:53:59] Speaker C: So you go straight to sleep, let
[00:54:00] Speaker A: that girl fuck you to sleep. Let that girl put that shit on you, boy.
A girl loves some hurt. Deep way.
Well, well.
You know how many in my inbox live she don't. She don't deserve.
[00:54:14] Speaker D: He swear he up six girls right now. One of them girls looking at this live, who Trey talking about get a
[00:54:21] Speaker A: bit easier like 6.
[00:54:23] Speaker D: Girl, how you even do that and keep the same mind? That'll be aggravating as this is what them girl like.
[00:54:30] Speaker C: How you doing, man? What be so crazy Saying the same to you.
[00:54:33] Speaker A: What be so crazy? You got six on four.
[00:54:35] Speaker C: Four.
[00:54:35] Speaker A: I'm gonna aggravate you at the same time. Now you down to two. Cause that be me. Cause as soon as you start that aggravating shit, I'm out.
[00:54:41] Speaker C: Stop talking to your ass.
[00:54:42] Speaker A: I'm out talking about. What did I come in on? It's kind of like a therapy session. We trying to get my boy mine right. You know what I'm saying? Like, them six women ain't doing nothing for you. I know they ain't.
If you want my honest opinion, bro, just. Just get a journal. Bro. It's a journal app on the. On the iPhone. You ain't even got to. You ain't even got to buy one.
[00:55:00] Speaker C: You can just write in your phone.
[00:55:01] Speaker A: Cause if y' all know this, bro, I don't even be on social media. Like, how I used to.
Like, with the posting. Like, bro, I used to post three times, like, trying to go viral three times a day. You know what I'm saying? Like, getting my car. I don't give a. No more. I come on the pod.
[00:55:13] Speaker D: You gonna go viral, right?
[00:55:14] Speaker C: I come when you don't care. That's when you.
[00:55:16] Speaker A: I come on. I come on this pod, bro. We pod. You know what I'm saying? I might post something every few days, you know, if I'm feeling funny or something. Like, I just don't even. I don't give a fuck. I'm in my journal, bro. I'm in my bag. And, bro, I'm just getting my life together. You got. You know that healing process. It's gonna take a little minute. You're gonna run through some bumps, speed bumps. You might be speeding. You might be on the fast with the goddamn healing. And bing. Flat tire, bang. You know what I'm saying? Rear axle. Well, you got to replace some. You feel me? So just keep winning, keep living.
I just. I just always tell it. If you did what you was supposed to do in the relationship, bro, you feel like it wasn't nothing more you could do. You can. You could kind of make peace with somebody sliding, you know what I'm saying?
[00:55:59] Speaker C: That's where you know you did. All you could do is, man, go
[00:56:02] Speaker A: make peace with that shit, boy. Cause if the grass green on the other side, bro, somebody could treat you better than me. I'm not gonna stop you from pursuing your happiness. I swear to God. Like, you can go ahead. I wish y' all nothing but the best. Just keep me out your mix.
[00:56:13] Speaker D: That's real love.
[00:56:13] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? Hey, listen, that's my final act of love. I'm able to let you go. Like, I ain't the nigga who blowing up your phone. I ain't the nigga who at your door. I ain't the nigga who riding by your crib. I ain't the nigga who at your job like, ain't checking on you. See how your day going. None of that. You we out.
You know what I'm saying? Like.
[00:56:30] Speaker C: Cause some men don't know how to
[00:56:31] Speaker A: do that because I do. You thought it was that. You thought that. That you the pussy, the pussy. The pussy you gave that you ain't get to me.
[00:56:41] Speaker D: That hurt the woman worse if you leave.
[00:56:43] Speaker C: Peace.
[00:56:43] Speaker A: Yeah, I'm out.
[00:56:45] Speaker D: Damn. Hold on. Did he even give a. Yeah, I thought they were all type of shit.
[00:56:49] Speaker C: And then females that really make the. I hate to say that they make the. Them want to put their hands on you. Like.
[00:56:54] Speaker D: What you mean, like, exactly. You going to see me.
[00:56:56] Speaker C: You don't care.
[00:56:58] Speaker A: I heard that line too, boy. Ain't nobody, ain't nobody, ain't nobody ever just left me. I'm about to show you something right quick.
[00:57:06] Speaker D: That's what she meant by that.
[00:57:07] Speaker C: She going to get them hands ready. Floyd Mayweather Jr.
You ain't going put
[00:57:13] Speaker A: your hands on me, bro.
You ain't going put your hands on me, though.
[00:57:16] Speaker C: These new do that.
[00:57:18] Speaker D: Exactly.
[00:57:18] Speaker A: I'm telling, boy. I'm talking about come knock at my door like a bold.
[00:57:22] Speaker C: That's what I'm saying. She's probably one of those.
[00:57:24] Speaker A: I'm like, damn, I ain't even your.
What you even doing here? I don't give a. If I went to sleep and I told you I wanted some or not. Why are you here?
[00:57:31] Speaker C: Oh, then text me.
[00:57:34] Speaker A: Like, I know. I know it's another in there. If it is. Or what if it. If it is.
[00:57:40] Speaker C: So what you gotta stop giving me
[00:57:41] Speaker D: going through that no more day.
[00:57:43] Speaker A: But I ain't never inflict this type of energy on you the way we kind of like you feeling like that.
I don't even play with people's feelings, you know what I'm saying? Like, bitch, I just ain't want no pussy. It can be that easy sometimes. Like, I just wanted to go to sleep. I went to sleep on you.
[00:57:59] Speaker C: Okay, so she obviously was texting I
[00:58:01] Speaker A: don't know what she said. You didn't respond. She should have just went home. Right? Go home.
[00:58:06] Speaker D: Okay.
[00:58:07] Speaker A: I'm talking about banging on my sheep or something.
[00:58:09] Speaker C: You asked like, girl got beat up. Come on, now. Relax. I was about to say I would
[00:58:12] Speaker D: have thought he got beat up.
[00:58:13] Speaker A: This shit is not that good for you to be popping up.
[00:58:15] Speaker D: You saying it, though.
[00:58:16] Speaker C: You talking about it's not that good.
[00:58:17] Speaker A: It's not that good for you not to.
It's not that good. I promise you it ain't. I can't say that. What's good? I don't know.
I just don't feel like we don't
[00:58:30] Speaker C: come to my shit don't pop up
[00:58:33] Speaker A: that gets you cut off the quickest.
[00:58:35] Speaker D: No, for real.
[00:58:36] Speaker A: I got some girls that I really like that I had to cut off.
Cause you just. You don't know how to act.
You don't pay none of this $1,400 rent. Why are you at my shit?
[00:58:48] Speaker C: Okay.
[00:58:48] Speaker D: Why the fuck is that rent? 14, honey.
[00:58:50] Speaker C: Okay. That's a good question.
[00:58:51] Speaker A: Talk to them people.
[00:58:52] Speaker C: Question.
[00:58:53] Speaker A: Talk to them fucking people, bro.
[00:58:55] Speaker D: That's the question. What's wrong with people?
[00:58:56] Speaker C: Listen.
[00:58:58] Speaker D: Nothing. Be.
[00:58:59] Speaker A: And just for you to. And guess what? So for you to feel like that. I know somebody else know that too. And think like that, too, right?
So don't come to my shit.
You should know not to come to what?
[00:59:11] Speaker C: Don't come to my shit.
[00:59:12] Speaker D: You paying 1400. You better put some respect. Respect.
[00:59:15] Speaker A: Why you even feel like you banging
[00:59:17] Speaker C: at my door now? My neighbor's here. Like, what the.
[00:59:18] Speaker D: Exactly.
[00:59:20] Speaker A: All right. Guess what I told that. Guess what I told that. You better go on before I call the police.
That's all I got to say.
[00:59:26] Speaker C: You see the area you in?
[00:59:28] Speaker A: Right up the street on my mama. You going. You going to jail. I ain't worth going to jail for. This dick ain't worth going to jail for. I know it ain't. Guess where you going. I'mma lock your ass up. Come knock at my.
I ain't gonna answer the door next time, but you know, I always got to leave y' all with a little bit of action. You know what I'm saying? Like, you know what I'm saying? Hey, man, watch who you. You. You getting on one nefa, man.
You know, do some. Do some little research and out here, man, but you don't.
[00:59:59] Speaker C: Oh, my God.
[01:00:00] Speaker A: Put my theme music.
Hey, man, you know what I'm saying?
Another episode of Peas in the Pod.
We out, man. Peace.
[01:00:08] Speaker D: Peace.
[01:00:11] Speaker B: Good for spending time that's why I'm trying to get you out of my way Even though you look real good from behind I'm trying to see what's in your mind See, I'm gonna say the sheep these Be thankful I'm talking about them peas in the pot Peas in the pot Peas in the podcast I'm talking about them peas in the pot Peas in the p.
