Episode Transcript
[00:00:00] Speaker A: Sam.
Hey, listen. Hey.
[00:00:34] Speaker B: In the building. Y' all know what it is if you don't know me. My name is Razaya. I'm a content creator in Florence as of now.
But, yeah, let's get into it.
[00:00:45] Speaker A: She just. Come on. You know what I'm saying?
[00:00:48] Speaker B: Talk some.
[00:00:50] Speaker A: Come on. I'm with it.
[00:00:52] Speaker B: Jay. I had seen the status you had post, and it was like, you could cheat if you got money. Can you elaborate?
[00:00:58] Speaker A: But listen. No, that's the only thing y' all seen in that status, though, because, like. Because only thing I'm hearing about is the first sentence. Did we not read the rest of the status?
[00:01:08] Speaker B: The first thing is the banger, though. Like, that what you started off with.
[00:01:10] Speaker A: Because that mean a lot. That. Because I'm talking to who think what they did.
[00:01:15] Speaker B: Okay, well, elaborate, like, will you? Why do you feel like, though, Just because. Okay, even if they think what they did, whatever. Why you feel like just because A got money, he can cheat? Like, what's the logic behind that?
[00:01:25] Speaker A: Y' all ain't understand what I said.
[00:01:27] Speaker B: Okay, what you said.
[00:01:28] Speaker A: Go read it.
[00:01:29] Speaker B: Let me see. Okay. Yeah, let's go. Ready to do that? Let's. Let's do that.
[00:01:32] Speaker A: Read the whole goddamn thing. Because a lot of y' all seen one sentence and just ran with it. I was talking to who think with dick all day. You ain't thinking. You feel what I'm saying? So let's go ahead. Let's go ahead and get into it.
[00:01:44] Speaker B: Okay? She is for with money. Exclamation point. You get what I'm saying? Exclamation point. You a damn fool if you cheat and you don't got. If that woman love you, why you have nothing? That's who you ball with. I don't even be horny if I'm broke. Y' all different as hell.
Okay, all right, so I understand the rest of it. Yeah. But that first part, cheating is for. With money. I get. You said more, but that the part that we just, a lot of us did not agree with. I like, I don't. I don't feel like with money, with or without money, you get what I'm saying? You can't cheat. I'mma say over here. You get what I'm saying? Like, do you want your girl to let you cheat on her? Like, do you feel like you should have extra because you got money or something?
[00:02:23] Speaker A: Well, sometimes I do, but sometimes I don't. So it's just like a toss up, you feel me? But, like, honestly and truthfully, that wasn't the point of what I was trying to say. I really was like speaking on some that's just how y' all took it. You feel me and ran with it. But you know I like I like it. You feel what I'm saying?
[00:02:42] Speaker C: Jordan Armstrong said there is no logic.
[00:02:46] Speaker B: I don't feel like it's no logic either.
[00:02:47] Speaker A: And listen don't be hey listen cause a lot of I can't type so I ain't typing. No don't bring your ass on here as no trying to just get like sent likes and and kikis on your you got to make sense now.
[00:02:59] Speaker C: That's that was. That's actually a woman.
[00:03:01] Speaker B: Oh look at you don't know what he be posting. He'll know he be talking about either.
[00:03:06] Speaker A: What the like cheating is for rich just out here just cheating just to.
[00:03:11] Speaker C: Cheat equation said Jay don't even know what he be posting.
[00:03:14] Speaker A: I don't know. I don't know when it went crazy like that.
I don't know when it went crazy.
[00:03:20] Speaker B: Because of that first one with that exclamation point. It's not the whole status. It's the cheating. It's for with money. Because it's not though.
[00:03:26] Speaker A: Like I feel like cheating is a rich sport. Everybody anybody always says that like. Like it ain't like I just them be acting like I'm the pope of Facebook and everything I say is a written law.
[00:03:37] Speaker B: It'd be like that. But let me tell you something though. I don't know nobody who be every way more than a broken like a with no everywhere.
So I mean the have everything. They have money. They have the bottles. They have the how they broke. If they got all that though the must be. I don't know that's what I'm saying.
[00:03:57] Speaker A: Like but they got the money, the bottle and the weed.
[00:04:00] Speaker B: I mean 40 ain't really no money though.
[00:04:02] Speaker A: Okay, that ain't money. You can't say money then like if you talking about $40 that's real different there.
[00:04:07] Speaker B: But still though you say it's a rich sport broke cheat to that how they have all that different okay but.
[00:04:12] Speaker A: That'S why I said your broke not be out here trying to get your dick wet if you ain't got going on. I had comments on comments on comments on top of that too. And the comments saying elaborating on what I was talking about. I'm literally talking to these. If you're broke your taking care of you and you out here trying to cheat. You sound like a fool. That literally Was it.
[00:04:31] Speaker B: I feel like if you're gonna do.
[00:04:33] Speaker A: It, if you're gonna do it, if you're gonna be a cheater, at least be somebody that she's depending on.
[00:04:38] Speaker B: No, because you know what I'm saying, Rich get left to y'. All. I don't know where he got that logic from.
[00:04:43] Speaker A: But listen, I didn't. I didn't heard. I didn't hear lot of people say that. And a lot of people ain't got no Rich, though.
[00:04:50] Speaker B: For real.
[00:04:51] Speaker A: I'm telling you. I ain't seen nobody around here yet post a Rich. And when you do, he got an emoji over his face covering himself.
It ain't. It ain't about to me. It about the y', all, too, though.
[00:05:03] Speaker B: Okay, so how you say they ain't post no rich? You don't know who rich or who ain't rich? For real, man.
[00:05:08] Speaker A: Everybody be posting a.
[00:05:09] Speaker B: But you don't know they rich or not.
[00:05:10] Speaker A: The. The who sharing the name Rich.
[00:05:12] Speaker B: But we talking about. You got to stay on topic.
[00:05:15] Speaker A: I'm talking to who I'm talking to, though.
[00:05:17] Speaker B: But you. We talking about the. You get what I'm saying? You say you don't really necessarily. You can't say what a Rich is. So how you saying only rich can cheat and they don't have Rich? You don't know who I hear.
[00:05:27] Speaker A: Rich or not, it don't matter. I don't know who I hear.
I don't know why you're cheating until somebody get on Facebook and say it. So how the I know that is.
[00:05:36] Speaker B: Gossiping with your homegirls?
[00:05:37] Speaker A: What is my homegirls? Who is my home girl?
[00:05:40] Speaker B: You don't have no cousins, no nothing that you beg.
[00:05:42] Speaker A: Yeah, I got a real good cousin.
[00:05:44] Speaker B: Let me just tell you who just got caught. You lying. You're up here capping.
[00:05:48] Speaker A: He act like he don't be gossiping, minding my business. I'll be talking about y'.
[00:05:53] Speaker B: All. Do you cheat?
[00:05:54] Speaker A: No.
Right? You cheat? No.
[00:05:58] Speaker B: Take off your shades and say it.
[00:06:00] Speaker A: Tell somebody to come on here if they caught me cheating.
I know all my ex.
[00:06:05] Speaker B: They sleep right now.
They tired. They. They sleep right now.
[00:06:13] Speaker A: I know one now, and you wouldn't even know. What are you talking about?
[00:06:17] Speaker B: Put the tea on. Put it on the float.
[00:06:19] Speaker C: Oh, no. You got a couple of them up here, right?
[00:06:21] Speaker A: Cause about to get up here making fantasy stories, bro. You know you can paint whatever picture you want to paint on social media, bro.
[00:06:26] Speaker C: Samitra said, I get what you're saying, Jay. If your Ain't together. Cheating, right?
[00:06:31] Speaker A: Should be the last thing on your list. You need to worry about getting better with your woman.
[00:06:35] Speaker B: If your woman shouldn't be cheating regardless, like, there's no reason to hop in.
[00:06:41] Speaker A: Relationship just be acting like they get cheated on, too. And ain't doing nothing to get cheated on, y'. All.
Cause we gonna do this, too. Since we sit here acting all crazy. Be out here not giving up. No to that. That come home from work, sitting here paying all these bills.
I'm tired. I'm tired. I'm tired. He gonna cheat.
[00:06:57] Speaker B: Okay, he gonna cheat. He gonna cheat.
[00:06:59] Speaker A: But if you're doing what you supposed to do, I'm not talking to you. Everybody acting like they be Cinderella wearing that glass slipper. All y' all don't fit the same shoe.
[00:07:06] Speaker B: Okay, let's scroll back up to Victoria comment, because she said something that I want to touch on.
She said, rich get away with a little more.
[00:07:13] Speaker A: And honestly, rich get away with a lot more.
If you sitting at home playing with a thermostat all day, not doing. Waiting on the mailman, you're not leaving that man. So we gonna sit here and stop acting like I'm stupid.
[00:07:27] Speaker B: I don't give a. Okay, Speaking for me, like, I'm not. Like, I'm just saying I don't give a. How much money you do have. I'm not gonna say I ain't gonna let you cheat like, a little once or twice. Like, I'm not gonna let you do it. But. Okay, we can work through that. But if you think you're gonna be a serial contradiction, it's not a contradiction.
[00:07:44] Speaker A: I can get away with.
I can get away with cheating one or two times I just said it.
[00:07:50] Speaker B: We can work through that. One or two are going.
[00:07:55] Speaker A: Because after that one or two, you should be to get your together. And I ain't got to go cheat no more.
[00:07:59] Speaker B: No gonna cheat regardless.
[00:08:00] Speaker A: Once you let go get a. Like, go get a.
[00:08:06] Speaker B: You gotta dip that in the butt. Once they start that cheating, it ain't no cheating.
No, we don't.
[00:08:11] Speaker A: Black women.
[00:08:12] Speaker B: Black women don't cheat.
[00:08:14] Speaker A: Black women do not cheat.
You're at the bar accepting drinks from another, you're cheating.
Not you. I ain't saying.
I'm just saying, like, you know what I'm saying. But yet the bar setting the drinks for another. You're cheating. A see you hard eyes in that Snapchat, you. You react to it. You're cheating. If a say, hey, beautiful, you say, I got a man. You're Cheating if a.
That's how they get y'. All. First they get to your mind. I ain't got to automatically you. I don't got to come off just me getting you able to say just a little something.
A little. You get the smiling your flirtatious ass.
You know what the I'm talking about.
[00:08:54] Speaker B: I got a man.
[00:08:55] Speaker A: Everybody ain't doing that. Everybody ain't doing that. You're gonna sit here, act like y' all don't cheat.
[00:09:00] Speaker B: We don't cheat.
[00:09:01] Speaker A: You sound like a fool. I know some cheaters right now. Married.
[00:09:05] Speaker B: Okay.
Cheat with me. They cheat.
[00:09:08] Speaker A: Cheat with me. Yeah, we gonna sit here and be for real. Cause you sit here being. You're lying. You're lying.
[00:09:13] Speaker B: I thought you don't cheat her.
[00:09:14] Speaker A: You're lying. What that got to do with me.
[00:09:15] Speaker B: If I ain't got nobody? You indulge in cheating.
[00:09:18] Speaker A: You probably indulging it, too.
[00:09:20] Speaker B: If I ever talk to your man, please comment. If I ever talk to your man and you ever heard about me talking to somebody, man, say something. Right now.
[00:09:29] Speaker A: We sit here acting crazy.
Be talking about rich getting there, too. Name one you love, you had period. And then. No, no, no, no, no. I ain't talking to you, though. I'm just saying everybody on here, name one that you left. Cause y' all don't be having that. No, that got y' all secret.
[00:09:43] Speaker B: Don't let him.
[00:09:45] Speaker A: That got y'. All.
[00:09:46] Speaker B: Don't let him trick you out talking.
[00:09:48] Speaker A: About you a side. You know what I'm saying? You just on the side.
[00:09:51] Speaker B: He knows it. He wanna know your business secret.
[00:09:54] Speaker A: You a secret.
You feel me? Like word you out this posting a wrist in his. In his shoes.
[00:10:03] Speaker B: Soon as you post a rich riches. Oh, I want that.
[00:10:06] Speaker A: He gave you that.
[00:10:07] Speaker B: I want that.
[00:10:09] Speaker A: Women really feel like somebody out to get you all the time.
So when we do that, as soon.
[00:10:16] Speaker B: As a see him with you. Oh, they own that the could be bumping from the slums. As soon as they see that with you.
[00:10:22] Speaker A: They won't. But I don't got no logic, though.
[00:10:25] Speaker B: That's the truth.
[00:10:26] Speaker A: I don't got no logic, though.
[00:10:28] Speaker B: I'm speaking from the.
[00:10:30] Speaker A: So you being a of status when he posts his girl at the same thing.
[00:10:34] Speaker B: It could be, though. For real.
[00:10:35] Speaker A: It could be or it is. So why the don't post?
[00:10:38] Speaker B: I'm speaking for the today. Like for the. I'm telling you, as soon as a. And they. They be wanting to get back.
[00:10:42] Speaker A: Exactly, bro.
Be a secret. Oh, I left a rich that left You. He ain't text your ass your ass 17 weeks in a row before you finally got over his ass. Because if you.
What.
[00:10:55] Speaker B: What happened? Like, what. What's the What's.
[00:10:58] Speaker A: No, you're not.
[00:10:59] Speaker B: No, you're not rich. Get left. Y'.
[00:11:01] Speaker A: All.
[00:11:01] Speaker B: For real. Like, from a. From a woman standpoint of you, unless you don't got your own money, I can understand you saying. But a. With her money don't give a who rich or who not. Because for one, we getting. We gonna get another rich.
[00:11:13] Speaker A: Now.
[00:11:13] Speaker B: So that don't mean we ain't got extra to come with it. You up what the purpose of that.
[00:11:18] Speaker A: Why not just leave?
[00:11:18] Speaker B: You don't have to date nobody just to still with them.
[00:11:21] Speaker A: What's. What's.
[00:11:21] Speaker B: Why not just leave and leave me alone?
You leave me alone.
[00:11:25] Speaker A: That's. No, you're just still accessible.
[00:11:27] Speaker B: You leave me because.
[00:11:27] Speaker A: You leave me alone because be swearing they teaching the A lesson. Oh, yeah, I' ma just. Him and he gonna go home. I still.
You're not teaching me.
You still answered the phone, you still text.
[00:11:42] Speaker B: You still.
[00:11:42] Speaker A: Let me come over there. You're still accessible because I want to know I'm gonna walk out this door and do what the I want to do because I wanted to still gonna be accessible.
[00:11:50] Speaker B: He talking about shouting match. No, for real. Let me. Let me. Let me let Jake get his point across, but I just. I. I just feel like. I just don't think that you ever seen A really leave. I'm tell y' all this, though, for real. For real. When A really done with A, she don't make no noise about it. You ain't gonna know I left him or did it. I do it.
Hey, guys. You know he's good.
[00:12:10] Speaker A: Like, no.
[00:12:10] Speaker B: A gonna move on and do her own little. Ain't nobody gotta make no announcement about no lying about A. Y' all don't even be enough for that. You gone.
[00:12:17] Speaker A: Oh, Lord, here we go. They don't.
[00:12:21] Speaker C: Men are like dogs. Women are like cats. You have to literally catch them hoes cheating. They cheat smarter.
[00:12:28] Speaker B: That's what I'm saying.
But we don't.
[00:12:32] Speaker A: That's why you. That's why you go ahead and cut it off when the leads to cheating. If she's gonna accept a drink, if she's gonna tell a thank you, if she's gonna. If A can walk her to her car. All that.
[00:12:45] Speaker B: Like, accepting a drink is crazy.
[00:12:47] Speaker A: You know what A is buying you a drink for?
[00:12:49] Speaker B: It don't matter. That don't mean you automatically get that. Cause you bought me a drink.
[00:12:51] Speaker A: So when a girl wanna me and I take what come with it. But I don't her, I'm still good, right?
[00:12:56] Speaker B: I'm not taking what come with it. You brought me a.
I asked you to. You brought it. I'm accepted. You gonna go on about.
[00:13:01] Speaker A: You can just say, hell no. That how be getting drugged and raped, right?
[00:13:05] Speaker B: No, but the real.
[00:13:07] Speaker A: Hell no.
[00:13:07] Speaker B: Once a real shark buy you a drink, he don't sit there and chase you down.
[00:13:13] Speaker A: Nemo, y' all love talking about sharks. I know who y' all is love talking about sharks. Them don't even take care of their kids. Ain't nothing shark nothing about that.
[00:13:22] Speaker C: Diamond said most female mental leaves before their hearts do. When they catch up, we dip.
[00:13:29] Speaker B: Exactly.
[00:13:30] Speaker C: We can be cool as hell afterwards because I'm definitely over.
[00:13:33] Speaker A: But she just said the mental, though. So if a getting in your mind, I'm buying you a drink. You sitting here.
[00:13:38] Speaker B: Not really.
[00:13:41] Speaker A: Thank you.
[00:13:41] Speaker B: I'm drunk. I'm gonna get a drink.
[00:13:44] Speaker A: 90 of women is not just gonna grab that drink and be like, yeah, thank you, my man could have did this.
[00:13:50] Speaker B: Yes, you do.
Yes, we do. All the time.
[00:13:53] Speaker A: And it's on my mama. You're gonna have to just go on your own show because you'll be on. You're gonna just be on here just saying.
[00:13:58] Speaker B: No, you just. You don't never have. I don't want to hear you think you right with everything.
You gotta hear somebody else point of view and get out of your ass and listen. Yes, it is. I understand.
[00:14:10] Speaker A: Are we just like.
[00:14:11] Speaker B: You're not logical.
[00:14:12] Speaker A: You're not logical. No, you're not logical because you sitting here acting like a can't take a. A girl, a other woman home.
[00:14:18] Speaker B: And if she want to. If she don't want to, it's not happening.
[00:14:22] Speaker A: If we talking about race, what is she talking about?
[00:14:26] Speaker B: You think if a buy a girl a drink, she automatically gonna give it up to him?
[00:14:29] Speaker A: That's not you cheating mentally. You cheating mentally.
[00:14:33] Speaker B: No, you're not.
[00:14:34] Speaker A: You cheating spiritually. You want it.
[00:14:35] Speaker B: Because if I want to cheat mentally, I can just go cheat. Ain't no reason to be playing games. I can just go cheat. I got this drink, and he gonna.
[00:14:41] Speaker A: Go on by his. But the A knows the type of woman.
[00:14:44] Speaker B: Ain't nobody turn on no free drink.
[00:14:47] Speaker A: That's why you come out with your own money.
[00:14:53] Speaker C: Gabrielle McFadden said, I can see where he coming from as far as rape. And though some be feeling like that's Leading.
[00:15:00] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:15:03] Speaker B: If you buy a girl a drink you expect her to you that's just like me.
[00:15:06] Speaker A: That's just like me. That's just like me Sliding the note in class. Check the box. Do you like me yes or no?
[00:15:11] Speaker B: How is that? How does it correlate?
[00:15:13] Speaker A: That's. That's. That's checking the temperature literally he's checking it.
[00:15:17] Speaker B: No, that's a direct answer though. Yes or no is direct. If you buy me a drink that's like an open ended question.
[00:15:23] Speaker A: Why no ain't an option I could buy my own drink a lot of money too.
[00:15:29] Speaker B: You don't actually with your own drink anyway 9 times out of 10 she.
[00:15:32] Speaker A: Is no 9 times out of 10 that just sitting at the bar with nothing what club you going to A.
[00:15:36] Speaker B: Lot I can't tell a lot I can too.
[00:15:40] Speaker A: Don't play with me. I ain't even wanted I ain't even I ain't even go go go ahead.
[00:15:45] Speaker C: Ask the on here how many times they spent money and ain't getting nothing.
[00:15:50] Speaker A: That ain't the point.
The point is you got a at home that didn't send you outside and then y' all are calling insecure once he start calling you on your the didn't send you outside with your homegirls to have fun for you to be accepting drinks from other that's point but.
[00:16:07] Speaker B: Yeah he's definitely putting in one boat and he don't he's not even trying to understand that everybody not the same everybody don't have the same mentality like for real even I have seen buy drinks from a girl and if they accept it and they like okay I want to cool if not cool like they're not tripping over there buying the.
[00:16:23] Speaker A: Drink and saying I want to you.
[00:16:24] Speaker B: Afterwards anyway that's that's the message when you send a drink apparently like hey I want to connect with you. I like you. I think you cute.
[00:16:31] Speaker A: Okay why the you can't just say.
[00:16:33] Speaker B: No you just accept it and if you want to with him you walk.
[00:16:37] Speaker A: Away get rubbed up and drank up and y' all be blaming always this, that and the third yeah you should.
[00:16:43] Speaker B: Have just said somebody definitely had.me like must be did his ass in because he's not even trying to hear nothing else and I'm trying to tell him from a woman's point I don't see both sides. I didn't see it happen both ways.
[00:16:52] Speaker A: But I'm still giving you from a point I ain't cutting out you giving it's a Woman point or not, it's still wrong.
[00:16:57] Speaker B: One point, which is your yours.
[00:16:58] Speaker A: It's still wrong. My. It's everybody on here saying this wrong.
[00:17:01] Speaker B: Okay? So no, it's not reading that, but the girls. I'm reading everybody. Okay? A up here, please. Have y' all ever, like, brought it, like, tell me every time you bought a drink, like, tell me how it went. Since he say it's nobody in the comments. Like, what, man, bro, you, you, you.
[00:17:17] Speaker A: You, you, you tweaking.
[00:17:18] Speaker B: Man, he do hate. He hate. He really like.
No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
[00:17:29] Speaker A: No. Everybody shut the up. Cause I pay for this for one.
I'm about to get on this hate coming. I ain't trying to be disrespectful.
Oh, Lord.
[00:17:39] Speaker B: It was though.
[00:17:39] Speaker A: For real. You ain't let me finish though. I was gonna get it out.
Okay.
Anyways, talking about Jay hate. They be the one out here doing for these now. What is you talking about? How I hate because you wrong for accepting the drink.
[00:17:54] Speaker B: Twelve drink.
[00:17:55] Speaker A: The. You could. You got twelve, ain't it?
[00:17:57] Speaker B: Twelve dollar drink. A supposed to get some off of that, man.
[00:18:00] Speaker A: Bro, I ain't say nothing about Yoshi. What the did I say?
[00:18:03] Speaker B: I'm talking.
[00:18:04] Speaker A: What the did I say?
[00:18:06] Speaker B: You not even paying attention. I'm not even no longer talking about what you said because that's what y' all give in it. So I said something about coochie. You got to pay attention. You just trying to respond.
[00:18:15] Speaker A: Yoshi, what did I say? What?
[00:18:16] Speaker B: What?
[00:18:16] Speaker A: Cuz, let's just let them hear it from you and not us.
[00:18:20] Speaker C: It's. It's the way that if you have a man or if you have. If you're in a relationship.
[00:18:24] Speaker A: First of all. First of all, hyphenate that part right there, because I didn't say. I didn't say this.
[00:18:30] Speaker B: Girl, he got rules.
[00:18:31] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? I'm just saying, I said, what if you got.
[00:18:35] Speaker C: If you got a man at home? If. If you got a man not you single.
[00:18:39] Speaker A: 5.
[00:18:40] Speaker C: Accepting a drink is. Is a thing because by you accepting the drink, you're kind of letting the guy know that you have some interest in him. I'm. That's the way it looks from me. I'm just telling you from a man's perspective, that's how it seems. I ain't never. Like, I never went to the bar. I like in all my years of going, I don't go now. I never just went and just threw money away. Like, here, I'm gonna buy You a drink. And it's just. It's just if you come over here, you come over here.
[00:19:05] Speaker B: But it happens, though, whether y' all hit it or not.
[00:19:08] Speaker C: I'm not saying.
[00:19:09] Speaker A: I'm not saying I haven't been, but.
[00:19:11] Speaker C: In my mind, in my mind, that's what I'm trying. That's what I'm trying to get to. I'm trying to get to whatever it is.
[00:19:18] Speaker B: I disagree. Reek said, I disagree. I don't say if you accept the drink, you accept the dick. He said, I disagree.
[00:19:24] Speaker C: I didn't say, okay, but just him.
[00:19:28] Speaker A: But listen, anyways, what I'm trying to say is when I say, When I say that. Because a lot of times.
[00:19:38] Speaker C: If my old lady accepted drink from a nigga, she better call.
[00:19:41] Speaker A: That's what I'm saying, bro.
But I'm saying, bro, I'm literally talking to the people that's in a relationship. If you accept the drink, you drink. If you got, you got. That's not what I'm saying, bro. And then my point, another point is I'm not saying that you're gonna. Because you accepting the drink. I'm saying you're accepting the energy from another man. And that's what he's on.
[00:20:04] Speaker B: You accepting a drink. You. He bought you a drink, you got the drink.
[00:20:07] Speaker A: But what is he trying to do, though?
[00:20:10] Speaker B: It don't matter.
[00:20:11] Speaker A: He's sickness.
[00:20:12] Speaker B: Access denied or accepted. If you don't go over there and talk to that, after that, it's denied. And that's all that has to be said as grown people. If he come here, that's a little boy. Nobody gotta say. Because once you say no, you still entertaining, as you say, you don't already entertain at all. Right? Once you say no, you. You still entertain it. If a buy you a drink and you don't want to with him, you can accept the drink. In my eyes, you get outside.
[00:20:34] Speaker A: Okay, so your can go out buying drinks.
[00:20:35] Speaker B: If you don't want your girl to accept the drink. That's something y' all need to discuss between each other. You should know your boundaries before you walk out the house.
[00:20:43] Speaker A: Your man can go out buying drinks and be in the life of the party, though.
[00:20:46] Speaker B: Yeah. But yeah, I should have that trust built with my man to the point where, like, I'm not worried about him, honestly.
[00:20:53] Speaker A: Oh, my God.
It's a revival for everything.
[00:20:56] Speaker C: That's. That's a little while.
[00:20:58] Speaker B: Honestly, that's what men do. You. You please the crowd. I don't have my cousin, boyfriend or whoever Boyfriend bought a whole party drinks. Like, I didn't had it happen before, so I don't.
[00:21:08] Speaker A: I didn't have a cousin who bought whole party drinks and the whole party.
[00:21:11] Speaker C: I'm not talking about buying the whole party. I'm talking about out here buying women drinks. Like, he's not buying the whole. He's not buying everybody drinks, okay? He's. He's like, yo, you. Hey, send her a drink. Yo, this one say her bottle, like.
[00:21:23] Speaker B: Right?
[00:21:23] Speaker C: That's what I'm. I'm talking about specific. I ain't talking about. He come in, he throw my eight by. Everybody gets about. I ain't talking about that.
[00:21:29] Speaker B: Okay?
[00:21:30] Speaker C: I know those exist, right?
[00:21:31] Speaker A: I'm talking about.
[00:21:32] Speaker C: I'm talking about he bought.
[00:21:34] Speaker A: Well, you say it's a difference in drinks, though.
[00:21:38] Speaker B: What you say? The man has to initiate that. If you out here initiating, then yeah, you wrong. As a woman, we don't initiate the drink getting, bro.
[00:21:46] Speaker A: You entertain flirtatious energy, bro. You're wrong.
[00:21:49] Speaker B: You don't entertain it by accepting the drinks. You are. No, you're not.
[00:21:53] Speaker C: That needs to be a poll question.
[00:21:56] Speaker A: Just.
[00:21:56] Speaker C: Just put a poll question up.
[00:22:01] Speaker B: Yeah, that's what happened, right?
[00:22:02] Speaker A: She'll be mad if they.
What I'm saying, bro, this. Guess what she just said. If you the life of the party and let. Let it be a section of beautiful women. You and that by you and your home girl. Hey, I' ma just buy these all shots. I mean, I'm not. Let me stop saying that.
[00:22:16] Speaker B: I'm about.
[00:22:16] Speaker A: I'm about that section over there. I'm gonna buy all them shots.
[00:22:19] Speaker B: You don't know.
[00:22:19] Speaker A: If your woman finds out about that, your ass in trouble.
[00:22:23] Speaker B: You don't know them. I can see if you knew them or something, but you don't know them, so you. Hell, yeah, initiating it. Yes. A lot of men will steal a drink without having a conversation in the club. I just seen it happen. The other night when I went to hookah, he brought some beautiful ladies to drink, they drunk it and they went home.
[00:22:36] Speaker A: And if his woman found out about.
[00:22:38] Speaker B: That, why he gotta have a woman? Oh, why he can't be single?
[00:22:41] Speaker A: Why I'm not talking to nobody.
[00:22:43] Speaker B: The whole point is everybody's single that we talking to right now.
[00:22:49] Speaker A: How old are you?
[00:22:50] Speaker B: Old enough to be up here.
Old enough for all that.
[00:22:57] Speaker A: What I got to do? What you understanding what the. I'm talking about?
[00:23:00] Speaker B: You don't understand a lot of stuff. I'm understanding either. I'm saying. I'm saying either, though.
[00:23:03] Speaker C: So, okay, PJ said it's bigger than the drink, the conversation or the vibe that happened before the drink is bought. After that, if the drink is bought, then most likely it's some happening. Might not happen happen though that night, but it will.
[00:23:18] Speaker B: That don't always happen. Sometimes you don't even know who brought you the drink. Like, I think you shouldn't accept that type of drink.
[00:23:24] Speaker A: Okay, let's talk about something. Let's talk about something else that was just one part of your ass cheating.
[00:23:28] Speaker C: Wait, that's a rough. That's. That's. That's. That's a crazy comment. It's a broken.
[00:23:33] Speaker B: Honestly, Kibi, I agree with you.
[00:23:35] Speaker C: No, how. How is it.
How is it somebody. I don't understand how somebody is broken. If we're looking at the.
The whole point of it is, I'm saying. I'm saying if I go out, I'm not buying nobody no drink, especially if.
[00:23:49] Speaker A: I got a woman.
[00:23:50] Speaker C: If I have a woman, I'm not buying nobody no drink. And I don't expect somebody that's in a relationship with me to accept drinks from a. Because he's not buying it just to buy it for you.
[00:23:59] Speaker B: Correct.
[00:24:00] Speaker C: But he's buying it on the strength of.
[00:24:02] Speaker B: Yo, he want to shoot his shot.
[00:24:03] Speaker C: Yeah. And first off, I need to. You need to. You got your own. There ain't no need for you to accept nothing from nobody.
[00:24:10] Speaker A: A. A with standards broken. Not these who be beating your homegirl ass.
[00:24:16] Speaker B: And you talking with your partner and y' all setting those boundaries in a relationship. And you also knowing what your. What would and would not fly with your partner.
[00:24:23] Speaker C: Okay, so if your partner tells you. If your partner tells you, yo, you go to the club, you cool. You ain't. Don't accept no drinks from no name.
[00:24:29] Speaker B: No, because my partner gonna send me some money so that I don't even have to do that.
[00:24:32] Speaker C: I'm just. Even if he don't give you money, that's his boundary.
[00:24:34] Speaker B: But I'm just saying that's what happened. But yeah, if he. Okay, he didn't send me money, and he's like, oh, no, don't accept no drinks. You in a relationship, so you got to respect what your man's saying.
[00:24:42] Speaker C: Hey, oh, then that's.
[00:24:42] Speaker A: That's the only man that's not your first relationship. If you feel like you. Your man got to tell you not to accept a drink. Don't be in there. Everybody different.
[00:24:48] Speaker B: Every. Don't care about that, though. Everybody is different.
[00:24:51] Speaker A: That. That who's spending that cheese is. I know I am.
[00:24:54] Speaker B: Yeah. Everybody different. Like, everybody don't think the same way. Everybody don't move the same way.
[00:24:59] Speaker A: I won't buy a female to drink. Right, exactly.
[00:25:01] Speaker B: All females ain't the same with some shot money. But most of the time that will because they know how is in the club. Like, gonna send you some money to go spend.
[00:25:09] Speaker C: I mean, that ain't no. Yeah, here. Here's some money. Yeah, that ain't nothing if you're going out.
[00:25:14] Speaker B: That's just it.
[00:25:15] Speaker A: Like, if you. If you in the relationship. Hence, like I said, you disrespected women.
[00:25:19] Speaker B: Ever since you open your mouth.
[00:25:22] Speaker A: Who is that?
[00:25:22] Speaker C: Wait, hold on.
[00:25:24] Speaker A: You disrespected women, man, you didn't say that four times. If you don't like how I talk, get the off. You know this is optional, right?
Like, bro, this is like this, like, the fourth time you still carrying on the same man. Like, what is you talking about? My mama on my. On my arm. Y' all don't do nothing for y' all mama. But I hate women. No, I got. This is literally just what I think. That's it, bro.
Is you talking about, man, like, right, Y' all tripping.
If you don't like it, just leave. That should be simple, like somebody forcing you to sit here and watch this and.
[00:25:55] Speaker B: Okay, and I want to touch on this, too. She said if you got a. Ain't nothing friendly. And. And what I'm gonna say. And I know a lot ain't gonna like this. What I'm gonna say is, until you are married, you are not. That don't mean go out there. Now, let me elaborate. That don't mean go out there cheating on your. But y' all women honestly be putting y' all all into a. At like 19, 20, 21 years old, you still got a life to go live. I'm not saying go out there and every cheat on your.
I'm not saying that. But everything does not revolve around a Just because you're in a relationship with him. And that does not come with disrespecting your man, if you understand what I'm saying. You understand what I'm saying. If you don't, I just don't know how else to explain it to you.
[00:26:35] Speaker A: Hold on. Go to her comment because now I'm about to go to your page and see how you looking. I'm about to roast the out. You. You better have your together. Who miss Armstrong?
Or is that Mr. Armstrong?
[00:26:47] Speaker B: Of course. A lot of you. I know the man wouldn't understand the comment. It doesn't mean. Oh, you can go another, you know, because you're not just.
[00:26:53] Speaker A: But that's not what I was saying, though, when I started, though. I'm not saying if you accept the drink, like, you're willing to. I'm just saying, like, you know what? This is on y'. All. You feel what I'm saying? Like, ah, damn, I'm about to get on your ass, though. Angle up.
[00:27:09] Speaker B: No, I'm not for the streets. Honestly, I'm just speaking real. Y' all just so in your head. Y' all got one mindset, and y' all don't think other ways. That's the problem. No, it's not that. Like, I'm not saying because you're not married. Go other. I'm saying, until you are married, you are not. You cannot let your life revolve. Everything you do, every move you make, cannot revolve around a man.
[00:27:29] Speaker A: How. How we gonna get married, though?
[00:27:31] Speaker B: Well, I honestly. I feel like there's steps to a relationship.
[00:27:33] Speaker A: You.
[00:27:34] Speaker B: You know, you got the. The figuring it out stage. You got a talking stage, then you date, and then you move on to, like, the man. Like, it steps.
A lot of them don't go through that. A lot of them go straight to, like, from talking to marriage. And that's not how it's supposed to be. Like, once you and your partner have talked and say, okay, we finna get married, you already shouldn't be, you know, I'll tell you.
[00:27:52] Speaker A: Robinson, what'd she say? I thought so. I just.
[00:27:56] Speaker C: What you're saying, it does make sense, and it's valid, right?
[00:27:59] Speaker A: I'm not saying that you're. Listen, man. Cause I like, like, a lot of times when a man say something, bro, y' all take that as a tech, like a trying to attack your character. I'm not trying to attack your character or like, you trying to attack, like, oh, I don't know what to do. No, I'm not saying that. I'm saying as far as as a. I know, if I go buy this girl to drink, I know what I'm on, right?
[00:28:19] Speaker B: Taylor, My man, my man, my man, my man. You get what I'm saying? I'm just saying that's not, like. That's not a very good mindset to have at such a young age. I'm not saying to go out there and around. I'm just saying you got to also think for yourself and not let every move that you make be because of what your partner.
[00:28:35] Speaker A: But if that man doing everything that he supposed to do in a relationship. He's being faithful. He's not talking to other. He's not doing this, this, that. And the third, when he go out, he's not buying. He's not doing nothing entertaining. No energy.
[00:28:45] Speaker C: So that's a good question here. So you got to be married to get respect from your partner.
[00:28:49] Speaker B: I never said nothing about disrespecting your partner, for example.
[00:28:52] Speaker A: Okay, but that's what you just said.
[00:28:54] Speaker B: No, no, I didn't. I said until you. I even said that doesn't mean to expect your partner. For example. Like yeah, I said that you should never respect your partner in relationship. I never said nothing about that at all.
Example. All right, my homegirls call me. They want to go out to eat or whatever. They want to go out to eat to like a bar or whatever. My man, he ain't want me to go to no bars. He hate that. Probably because he being ain't talking to, but he hate that. All right, cool. Sometimes you can't let, you can't let that dictate you. If you know you're not going out there, do nothing wrong. You know what I'm saying? That always telling you, no, you can't go away, no, you can't go away. No, you can't go away. How are you going to experience your own life?
[00:29:30] Speaker A: That's not what I'm saying.
[00:29:31] Speaker B: Like, no, I'm saying her question.
[00:29:33] Speaker A: I know, but like who if that telling you not to go nowhere. You should be able to go out, be a bad bitch, have fun with your friends.
[00:29:39] Speaker B: Every don't let you do that. I swear to God.
[00:29:41] Speaker A: I understand that, but listen, I'm talking from, from my point of view, okay? I trust everything that you do. I don't give a damn about no walking up on you, talking to you this, that and the third, I expect you to handle yourself in the manner that I want you to handle. Especially right if we are together.
[00:29:54] Speaker B: Right.
[00:29:55] Speaker A: Main point. If we're together, if we're not together, you do whatever the you want to do. You don't got to follow no standards. Especially if like, like we just talk.
[00:30:02] Speaker B: Thank you. It seems me and hold women to a double standards. Just because you married don't mean your life should be revolving around your man. Not saying cheat. You definitely should not cheat. That's not that' I'm saying at all. But no get married.
[00:30:13] Speaker A: Don't get married, bro.
[00:30:13] Speaker B: Yeah. Should have their own personality. Individual too. If you trying to go somewhere with your homeboys and your always telling you, no, no, no. I want you late with me. No, no, no. You. Your life shouldn't revolve around that either. You need to go have some free time too. So your life shouldn't revolve around your woman, woman, woman either. Like everybody should have their own individual.
[00:30:29] Speaker C: Please have something to do.
[00:30:30] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:30:31] Speaker B: You get what I'm saying?
[00:30:32] Speaker A: I don't want you to sit around me all day. That's not what I'm saying. I'm saying like it's a respect thing though, though. Cause I ain't gonna lie, bro. Bro a be in a relationship. You'll be in the gym, bro. God damn. This got the fat. I didn't watch this. I didn't look at this one time. All right, cool. I'm going to look at. I'm going. I'm going on the other side. The opposite side. Just be certain that you can do to respect your relationship. You know what I'm saying?
[00:30:52] Speaker B: Like razor you is funny. I swear to God. Ugly get away with the most when you cute. You can't even go to the mailbox. They want to do it for you. You know, you don't take no male hoe.
[00:31:01] Speaker A: But listen, what be so crazy is y' all be talking about these type of and take them back.
[00:31:07] Speaker B: I can't say that I've seen really.
[00:31:09] Speaker A: Level up and leave a though, like why? Why you just think the gonna change because you love him so much. Y' all be knowing this a certain type of way and then y' all to push this off the way it's every.
[00:31:18] Speaker B: Not every people can change.
[00:31:21] Speaker A: I mean, you keep reading the same book set in a different ending, bro. It don't really work like that. Somebody gonna show you two times that they the same person. You feel what I'm saying?
[00:31:31] Speaker B: So you never took a bitch back?
[00:31:33] Speaker A: No, not if you cheated.
Now we just arguing. We can't get along.
Cool.
If I caught your ass talking to another talking. I ain't never caught nobody. You're talking to somebody. You'll somebody. No, I'm cool.
[00:31:48] Speaker B: You never took no back.
[00:31:49] Speaker A: No, I'm not.
No, not for that.
Not for that twin. If it's like a mutual disagreement, women.
[00:31:55] Speaker B: Just think so differently. And how old are you, Jay?
[00:31:57] Speaker A: I'm 32.
[00:31:58] Speaker B: Okay. I'm 25. So it's also a big age difference gap there also. And I think that matters too many women.
[00:32:04] Speaker A: That's why I asked you how old you were for real, because I was just about to say, bro. The type of woman I'M looking for you still ready to have fun.
You in your 20s, you in your early 20s, mid-20s.
[00:32:13] Speaker B: I get that.
[00:32:14] Speaker A: You still having fun. The type of woman I'm looking for, she didn't have her fun. We passed this 25 stage because a lot of people ain't really. They've been raising kids. Let's just say it like that, okay? They've been raising kids from a young age, so they never got to enjoy their teens or twins business. So now your kids of age and you could just go out in your 30s. That ain't the type that I want.
[00:32:30] Speaker B: But I' ma say this though, like, I do want to still have fun. But I'm always want to have fun. My priorities together. I got my house, bro. I got multiple cars like that don't necessarily like age. I don't think that necessarily matters. I think it's the person because when I met some older men.
[00:32:43] Speaker A: Okay, have fun. When I'm saying have fun, it's like you're having fun to attract other.
[00:32:51] Speaker B: No.
[00:32:52] Speaker A: Okay, but you can go have fun. You can go on your girls trip. You can go have girls nights, right the way you just. You the one that's not on Snapchat shaking your ass like the rest of your homegirls. You feel me? I'm not saying like you're.
[00:33:03] Speaker B: I got a married friend right now that'll bust it open if you play a sexy red song and she married secure. They good. She'll bust that open if you play a sexy red song. Like I think it depends on the person versus how old you are or whether you're ready to have fun or not. Because a lot of older people I know they still having fun. Like you're supposed to have fun. You only get one life.
[00:33:20] Speaker A: Why are you better? Why you married? Still accept the drink.
[00:33:24] Speaker B: You should not be married. Accepting dreams. Now you single. That's right.
[00:33:26] Speaker A: Like why you. Why you. Why, why you even came on here and said that? Why you married trying to accept a drink. If you're married, trying to do single people or relationshipal type, you shouldn't.
[00:33:36] Speaker B: You shouldn't be married, you shouldn't be married.
[00:33:38] Speaker A: All that should be out your system. You didn't went in front the Lord and that man and all that. You know what I'm saying? That preacher man put your hand on the Bible. You fear me.
[00:33:48] Speaker B: She is not cheating. It's just if you play a song, she know how to turn up that know how to have fun. She know how she's a twerk or whatever. No, she is like, stop. See, that's what I'm saying. Y' all don't never want to, like, just be open to the fact that it's different people with different personalities. Why she gotta be. She.
[00:34:02] Speaker A: No, I think, like. I think like, a lot of y' all kind of like, y' all think we just be throwing this out the air, and we ain't experience, like, people like this. Not saying you'll cheat.
You can't think for everybody because it's.
[00:34:14] Speaker B: Certain everybody.
[00:34:16] Speaker A: That your friends will do that piss you off, because that you know you won't do. And that don't stop you from being your own. Being their friend.
[00:34:23] Speaker B: Okay, but you say you experienced that. What I'm saying, somebody must have had to do you. Do you.
[00:34:30] Speaker A: I'm the doer. That's what.
[00:34:31] Speaker B: You're not understanding everything.
[00:34:34] Speaker A: I'm the doer.
[00:34:35] Speaker B: I'm the one.
[00:34:35] Speaker A: I'm the one they come to. I'm the one that come cheap with. I'm the one she complained when your ass ain't doing with. It's me. It's me. Then your ass get on here and be like, oh, you like fat boy? She do. She do. She loves it. You feel what I'm saying? Yeah. So I understand what's going on. That's all I'm saying. Like, it ain't like I'm saying it's a hundred percent of women, but, yes, it's some women out here who do do this and do do this. Just like it's some who do some that I want.
[00:35:00] Speaker B: Yes. Every female is not the same. And Jay is not trying to hear that. He putting everybody into one category.
[00:35:06] Speaker A: What the Did I just say?
[00:35:07] Speaker B: I'm speaking off this whole podcast that we hear. Like, he's not letting up on. On no woman. He think I don't know what the.
Whatever was Jay was dating that he experience. Meet me outside. Cause we gotta talk. Cause you're the reason that he keeps saying this.
[00:35:21] Speaker A: Did I just say yo reading. Yo reading. Yo reading. What that used to be called reading Renaissance. Know your was low.
[00:35:27] Speaker B: No, private school.
Private school.
[00:35:30] Speaker A: Private school be slow.
[00:35:32] Speaker B: No, I ain't. No. I'm a. With her own private school. Gotta keep saying that. Private school.
[00:35:36] Speaker A: I know some people with their own. That's still slow. Like, it don't mean like, you know.
[00:35:40] Speaker B: Like, I do too, though angle, you know?
[00:35:42] Speaker A: Cause there's some people who got their own from people dying.
[00:35:44] Speaker B: I ain't them, though.
[00:35:47] Speaker A: It's gonna be somebody who agree with you because they got Their own, but ain't work for it. Your people died, left you something. You got in a badass car accident.
[00:35:54] Speaker B: It don't matter.
[00:35:55] Speaker A: But I'm just saying though, like, we, we ain't gonna sit here and talk.
[00:35:57] Speaker B: It don't matter how you got it. Long as you got that, I swear to God, it don't matter how.
[00:36:01] Speaker A: You better know how to keep it.
[00:36:03] Speaker B: You better know how to keep it to you, or you got that easy. You better know how to keep it.
[00:36:08] Speaker A: Yeah, people don't know how to do that. That's the point.
[00:36:09] Speaker B: You better know how to keep it.
[00:36:10] Speaker A: It's read between the lines.
[00:36:12] Speaker B: I don't give a If somebody died, somebody left that. If you stole that, you better keep it.
[00:36:17] Speaker A: Gonna be taking care of that. They don't. That they ain't had to work for.
[00:36:20] Speaker B: That's sad. Yeah, that's real sad.
[00:36:22] Speaker A: They a had to work for that.
Goddamn. No, I ain't say I'm the cheater. I'm, I'm the goddamn. You know what I'm saying?
[00:36:29] Speaker B: I can't. I, I, I don't know. He said he don't cheat, but come cheat with him.
[00:36:33] Speaker A: So I don't know what that got to. If I'm not in a relationship and you are, am I cheating or are.
[00:36:39] Speaker B: You why you IND if you don't want your why you keep indulging in.
[00:36:42] Speaker A: That Give a about that? It don't matter what I want my doing. She gonna do what she want. You can see that's one thing about me.
[00:36:47] Speaker B: I don't see how his every day. And then she in still going, hell.
[00:36:52] Speaker A: No, not if I know the or you.
[00:36:54] Speaker B: I mean, you ain't got to know him. But you, you know they post pictures all the time. You know they post. You know they doing all that. What the Is she doing?
[00:37:00] Speaker A: Me.
[00:37:01] Speaker B: So is she inboxing? You still gonna talk to her?
[00:37:02] Speaker A: I might. And she look good.
I'm supposed to make you a better person.
Just, just, just let me know.
I'm supposed to make you a better person.
[00:37:14] Speaker B: I don't know. I just don't know.
[00:37:17] Speaker A: I know you know some, some, some. Because I know some who commenting on this right now. Cheating with other people. Me, men. So we ain't gonna sit here, act like, you know, like, like y' all don't get down.
[00:37:27] Speaker B: Black women don't cheat.
[00:37:28] Speaker A: Okay?
[00:37:30] Speaker C: That's the line.
[00:37:31] Speaker A: You know, she gonna, she gonna stick with it. I don't know why black women don't see.
[00:37:37] Speaker B: I don't know why he tried but.
[00:37:38] Speaker A: Listen, baby, one thing. One thing about it, though, baby, your secret always good with me. I ain't never gonna tell that. You my cousin or you ain't. I don't know that girl. She's one.
[00:37:46] Speaker B: I know he's serious, and that's what's crazy.
[00:37:49] Speaker A: What the. I got.
[00:37:50] Speaker B: So if he call you, like, yo, I see. I seen y' all texting like, hey.
[00:37:53] Speaker A: You know, man wasn't like that, bro.
[00:37:55] Speaker B: Real, man. Real man.
[00:37:56] Speaker A: Because, bro, you could be honest with him and then go beat the stock out that girl. He gonna beat the out there. She might not make it to the next one. I don't want her to die. I don't want her to get beat up. I wanted to die.
[00:38:08] Speaker B: She gonna call me, let's take a shot.
[00:38:10] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? Like, she gonna call me crying, talking about that, man, how you gonna be her ass? I don't want to go through that, bro. So it's just like me personally, bro. I ain't never gonna tell.
You always say for me black women.
[00:38:23] Speaker B: Cheat the most is insane.
[00:38:24] Speaker A: You always say for me, none of.
[00:38:26] Speaker B: My friends don't cheat.
[00:38:28] Speaker A: Yes, they do.
[00:38:29] Speaker B: None of my friends don't cheat.
[00:38:31] Speaker A: Yes, they do.
[00:38:32] Speaker B: Try to tell you nothing.
I see them. They be so loyal. I mean, they don't even let come near them.
[00:38:39] Speaker A: She said a situationship lasts longer than a relationship.
[00:38:42] Speaker B: It do.
[00:38:43] Speaker A: Yeah. Way more STDs, too. You talking about way more fun.
[00:38:46] Speaker B: Okay, that's what I'm saying. Okay. Hey, let's touch on the STDs. If you got herpes, leave.
[00:38:52] Speaker A: If you got herpes, leave.
[00:38:57] Speaker B: Leave.
Go ahead. You got two seconds to get the up out of here.
[00:39:02] Speaker A: Yo, I feel like them need to walk around with a rainy cloud over them all day long, bro.
You need to glow in the dark.
You need to glow in the dark. You need to do something.
[00:39:15] Speaker B: No, for real. I'm serious. There's so many Ryan with her, I had. Never mind.
[00:39:20] Speaker A: But listen, though, you know what? You know what's so crazy you could be telling the. Hey, I heard they got. And guess what? They gonna find out myself, bro.
[00:39:30] Speaker B: They gonna go find that out. That's why a lot of y' all walking around bumpy, I think. I don't know. I know.
I'm telling you. I know. They be talking about y'.
[00:39:38] Speaker A: All.
[00:39:38] Speaker B: They be talking about y'.
[00:39:40] Speaker A: All.
[00:39:40] Speaker B: I ain't gonna lie that I'm saying that. Why I don't endorse with that cheating.
[00:39:42] Speaker A: Well, you got cold swords on you. You that swell up and bust you.
[00:39:47] Speaker B: Scary talking about you just shaved. I know what a her people look.
[00:39:51] Speaker A: Like that got down.
[00:39:55] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:39:55] Speaker A: Royal blank.
[00:39:56] Speaker B: Make it fat.
[00:39:57] Speaker A: And listen, them sharks be the one. I'm telling you, they love a shark.
You ain't got to put no rubber on. Stop lying.
Stop naive. Ask that nigga if he got a robo. You let that nigga slide up in you in the Conway.
All it takes is a little bit of speed, you know what I'm saying?
[00:40:15] Speaker B: Like, call him. Next we talk about what is this? You know exactly what the that is like.
[00:40:22] Speaker A: All right, all right. Well, go ahead, boy. For real, though.
[00:40:29] Speaker B: Exactly. Yeah. That's why I don't cheat, because they don't tell your ass. Like, you got to hear it from the great Vine. That a y' all would be surprised the names that I heard then.
[00:40:36] Speaker A: Then so wild now you catch the with the rubber on, you think you protecting. They don't give a. You can tell them names all day, but as long as they're goddamn shark, they getting hit, man.
[00:40:50] Speaker B: She getting hit like, word this crazy, man.
[00:40:54] Speaker A: I'll tell that what they want, though. Some of somebody say sharks be anybody. Y' all love them.
Y' all love them.
[00:41:00] Speaker B: They easy. I hate an easy shark. Like, if you a shark and you.
[00:41:04] Speaker A: Easy, I don't care where the wholesome ones at.
[00:41:07] Speaker B: I don't care like a bougie shar. Like a who choose his wisely. Like, that's the type of sh. I like. You get what I'm saying? I don't like no shark who being every face. Like, it's no. It's nothing to show you you're not no trophy. You dull. You dull as I don't want you.
[00:41:22] Speaker A: I mean, but we be knowing who being everybody face, too. It be in these comments and everybody.
[00:41:26] Speaker B: Face like, they just in the comments and everybody face. They got a lot of going on in the comments.
[00:41:32] Speaker A: You the one fall out the goddamn.
[00:41:34] Speaker B: Hey, it's around here. For real.
[00:41:35] Speaker A: For real.
[00:41:37] Speaker C: Like a this meat clean ladies, fresh people.
[00:41:44] Speaker B: I love this podcast. No, for real. Like, I be understanding J point. And I feel like I come with the woman standpoint. Like I do. I. I feel like it's a good experience.
[00:41:51] Speaker A: Like, word, bro. Cause I'm there.
[00:41:54] Speaker B: She talking about reviews drop soon as she said it. Not them hurt me.
[00:41:59] Speaker A: Y better.
[00:42:01] Speaker B: Y' all better.
[00:42:02] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:42:03] Speaker B: Let me get the on before she called my name. Yeah.
[00:42:04] Speaker A: Y take a shot.
[00:42:06] Speaker B: Yeah, Betty. I know I do lashes. Y' all know who the tell me what. Oh, okay.
[00:42:11] Speaker A: That's why I say I got some. I got. I got. I got cousins who I love be telling me y business. So I just. I ain't gonna lie. I run background checks before I even try to deal with you, cuz. You know who this is right here?
[00:42:21] Speaker B: No, I swear to God. I swear to God.
[00:42:23] Speaker A: Like, for real, cuz. You know who this is, right?
[00:42:25] Speaker B: I swear.
[00:42:25] Speaker A: Like what. What you know about them? Word. It's a. You gonna run through two, three background checks.
[00:42:30] Speaker B: For real.
[00:42:30] Speaker A: Somebody gonna know something.
[00:42:32] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:42:32] Speaker A: Oh, no. And listen, a certain didn't touch you or certain didn't touch you, I ain't want it.
[00:42:41] Speaker B: What about. What about him?
[00:42:42] Speaker A: Hey, listen, man, what wrong?
Hey, man, shout out to Benji dollar too, man. You doing your thing, brother. You find your lane.
[00:42:50] Speaker B: You got my views dropping hoe. I don't know what you're doing, but you better go.
[00:42:53] Speaker A: I'm be. For real. I don't think you ever ate season in the day in your life. Sometimes like. Like certain. No.
[00:43:00] Speaker B: Huh?
[00:43:00] Speaker A: When you took your. What. What? Northside Seafood Nasty.
[00:43:05] Speaker B: No, that was cap. No, I.
[00:43:07] Speaker A: Big ass piece of fish ain't put nothing on you.
[00:43:09] Speaker B: Just the hush puppies was nasty. They got the next best hush puppies.
Next to Calabash at Myrtle beach, they got the next best.
[00:43:16] Speaker A: I ain't had them, but Northside, north.
[00:43:19] Speaker B: Side sm, they definitely. But he definitely doing his shout out to you from one country.
[00:43:27] Speaker A: I think I'm gonna get Benji Dollar on here one day. Then I got everybody. Like, I'm gonna make this like some, you know, some Carolina, bro. We're gonna. We're gonna boost each other. It ain't nobody bigger than nobody. You feel what I'm saying?
[00:43:37] Speaker B: No, for real.
[00:43:38] Speaker A: Especially on my.
[00:43:39] Speaker B: Okay, okay, okay. Let me, let me, let me, Let me pipe it up a little bit. Then I ain't gonna say no name. You know, I seen the status the other day. It was like, damn. If somebody be like, let me. Let me hit you up.
[00:43:50] Speaker A: Man. He weird as hell.
[00:43:51] Speaker B: How you feel about that?
[00:43:52] Speaker A: That's weird, bro. Like. Like, that's. That why that. Why us? Us, like, being from South Carolina, bro. We ain't really got nowhere yet because people, like, be scared to, like, network and you know what I'm saying, like, do everything that they take.
[00:44:07] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. Oh, my God. Okay, somebody. Let's talk about that.
[00:44:14] Speaker A: Walmart.
Oh, Lord.
[00:44:17] Speaker B: I seen that. I see. You know what, y', all, honestly, I'm not gonna lie.
[00:44:21] Speaker A: And guess what I went and did today. Bought some high. Just. Just. Just to make you mad I put.
[00:44:26] Speaker B: On a Walmart outfit though. I'm a female though, so I don't know that makes it.
[00:44:29] Speaker A: But listen, y' all be looking good with 20 on. Like just because you took your 20 to Walmart instead of rainbow or sheen, like you still know that you got 20. You're right, but my thing is all in that bro. And don't got a pair of 20 shoes, you know what I'm saying? All I said was God damn, I'm not wearing it and I'm tight. And when I said monkey see, monkey do, everybody been talking about them 8 Walmart, you know what I'm saying? Like I just said I don't want to wear them. Not everybody.
[00:45:00] Speaker B: I swear to God. I'm not wearing no shoes from Walmart. Now I put on talking to no who walk up on you but some shoes now.
[00:45:08] Speaker A: Don'T go from liking sharks to dating a who dressed from Walmart. Please don't start this bro.
[00:45:14] Speaker B: If he's nice though, I might. And then.
[00:45:17] Speaker A: And then what? Another thing pissed me off. Y' all was getting on me me ain't y' all the same who was just on here talking about 500 ain't enough for one child to go goddamn school shopping. There ain't that but two pair of Jordans. But I can't not wear 20 shoes.
[00:45:30] Speaker B: 500 for how many?
[00:45:32] Speaker A: How many it been? It'd be about five. Boy don't play. It's been a lot. Now you ain't so you ain't seen no man. It's been the ass sharing that talking about 500 ain't enough for one kid to go school shopping. Oh, that's only two pair of Georgia.
[00:45:44] Speaker B: Yeah, I feel like that matters. How old is the kid?
[00:45:45] Speaker A: It don't matter if, if we can say day you take them to Walmart?
[00:45:50] Speaker B: No, because you know you got that binder, you got the paper, you got the notebook.
[00:45:55] Speaker C: I think there was more talk about clothing.
[00:45:56] Speaker B: Well, okay, that's all school shopping.
[00:45:59] Speaker A: Okay. You can knock everything.
[00:46:02] Speaker B: That's all school shopping like that. You got to put a lot of up into that though.
For a 7 year old, cool, that's enough. But for like a 13 or 14 year old that might. It gonna get you by for a minute but you gonna need some more.
[00:46:12] Speaker A: We just, we. But a twenty outfit or a four dollar outfit fit just went viral. So let's put five hundred into forty. How many times.
[00:46:22] Speaker B: Wear that either, you know that.
[00:46:23] Speaker A: But I'm talking to the people who acting like I'm wrong for Saying that I wouldn't wear it.
[00:46:27] Speaker B: No, I don't think you're wrong. Everybody got their own preference.
[00:46:30] Speaker A: That's what they would do the same. Who said I was wrong? Acting like 500 is not enough to take this their kids shopping. Take that to City Trans.
[00:46:39] Speaker B: Don't take that, baby.
[00:46:40] Speaker A: You acting like you, you, you acting like like the. The goddamn. The Avias. I was doing too much with that.
[00:46:46] Speaker B: Okay, I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm not a name brand fanatic. Like I. I'm a would get me because I don't be into that name brand. You get what I'm saying? Like I don't. I don't be knowing a could walk on up to me with a damn thousand dollar shirt on and I wouldn't necessarily know what the he got on. If it's nice, it's nice. You get what I'm saying? I'm not gonna name Brandon name Pete.
[00:47:06] Speaker A: I didn't say. And see that what I was talking about, bro. The even got a picture where it zoomed in on the shoes. I was talking about the shoe half y' all out here not don't always wear name brand and have some nice shoes on. You be cool, bro. So please not like we gonna stop acting like you know what I'm talking. Like you don't know what I'm talking about. Not saying you, but everybody got their comments.
God damn, that still scrolling.
[00:47:27] Speaker C: No. Cause somebody was like not see the transit.
[00:47:31] Speaker A: Now I see the trans ain't diabolical, bro. Not for these who was just on me acting like, oh, you big money this, you big money that. But you just said 500 ain't enough to take your kids school shopping.
[00:47:45] Speaker C: Why he calling her ugly in the comments?
That's why I was scrolling, trying to find.
[00:47:50] Speaker A: Oh, we ain't doing that. I don't give a damn. This like jail. And them comments, you better fight for yourself. It's too much going on. It's too much. I ain't defending nobody. You get in here acting grown, defend yourself like you're grown.
[00:48:01] Speaker C: All right.
[00:48:01] Speaker A: You feel me? Like hell no.
Somebody don't get that baby no hustle shirt.
[00:48:07] Speaker B: Nah, that okay. This ain't even gonna say hustle. It's gonna be missing the damage.
[00:48:10] Speaker A: But what's the. What's the.
But what's wrong if that 20, you know the 20 shoes was cool.
[00:48:17] Speaker B: Nah, ain't no 20 shoes cool for no grown ass adult. I ain't gonna lie.
[00:48:20] Speaker A: I was just making sure. I was just making sure.
[00:48:23] Speaker B: Be Capped out like for real. For. They get scared to get up here and say they. They own opinion. Thinking somebody gonna say some. No, ain't no. I'm not talking to no going to get no Walmart shoes. I'm just being honest with you, bro.
[00:48:31] Speaker A: Come on, bro. Come on, bro. And we gonna sit here and we gonna be for real.
[00:48:34] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:48:35] Speaker A: And half the people who was talking. That ain't gonna talk. Nobody who buying no Walmart shoes either.
[00:48:39] Speaker B: Come on.
[00:48:39] Speaker A: We gonna sit here and start acting crazy.
[00:48:41] Speaker B: Oh, yeah. I mean, but half of the people that be talking do be talking to wearing Walmart shoes, though.
[00:48:57] Speaker A: The hill.
Oh, my mama be the same way. That one you can cheat.
[00:49:01] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:49:02] Speaker A: I know you ain't talking to this.
[00:49:03] Speaker B: Okay, yeah, that one you can cheat.
[00:49:04] Speaker A: Let me save you. Let me say one time out the. Let me take you out.
You feel what I'm saying? Come on now.
Come on.
Come on, bro. Let me. Let me. Let me give you an experience right quick. Call with the ink.
[00:49:19] Speaker B: Yeah, y' all be talking.
[00:49:21] Speaker C: Hold on, hold on. They were saying. They were saying that somebody.
They were saying that somebody called you called you ugly.
[00:49:31] Speaker A: I don't give a Who called me ugly.
[00:49:33] Speaker C: Not you or her.
[00:49:35] Speaker B: I don't give a. I don't live for something.
[00:49:38] Speaker A: Hold on. Let me tell y' all something.
[00:49:39] Speaker C: He definitely. Was she pretty? That was uncalled for.
[00:49:42] Speaker A: Put the camera on me, man. Let me be real with y', all right quick. This ain't this. This ain't what we gonna do, man. Cause a lot of y' all get behind these keyboards, bro. And the walk up on your ass and slap the out. You. You be acting like you don't know what the going on on f. Stop. Stop. Stop being bullies, man. We gonna chill. We gonna relax. We're gonna have fun. Everybody laughing in the comments. Why somebody got to be ugly? You might be ugly.
[00:50:03] Speaker B: I don't need nobody to tell me I'm cute.
[00:50:06] Speaker A: I know some cuties with a flat ass.
[00:50:08] Speaker B: Swear to God, I don't need nobody to tell me.
Going.
[00:50:14] Speaker A: All right.
Okay.
[00:50:16] Speaker B: Now we tell me we good.
[00:50:19] Speaker A: This. This we a. This ain't that type of party, man. You feel me? You can talk about me because I like to talk back. And I get.
I get real low with that.
[00:50:29] Speaker B: I get real ugly to somebody. You, you, you, you. And you be you. And I mean, I know I'm the baddest.
[00:50:36] Speaker A: It probably a big talking about you pussy wide as all you just so pretty with that empty ass hole. And he don't even Feel now that feel like a balloon.
You pounding that Maurice.
[00:50:49] Speaker B: We not all adults. Some of them in their childish as y' all for defending me. But when I tell you I don't get woman boy worm say woman boy.
[00:50:59] Speaker A: Worm say right quick go the.
[00:51:02] Speaker C: She ugly. I will take her to a nice restaurant when I get paid.
[00:51:11] Speaker A: Bro. I love that bro. That so funny dog on my mama that funny as.
[00:51:17] Speaker B: Okay, okay.
[00:51:19] Speaker A: Word. Wait hey, look, look, look. That what I'm saying. Go ahead pop your.
[00:51:22] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:51:24] Speaker A: Who said that was. Hey, comment the act and let's see who okay, no.
[00:51:27] Speaker B: Okay. Definitely put. Put that in the comments.
[00:51:34] Speaker C: No, they already said it was. It's contra X.
[00:51:37] Speaker B: Hold on.
[00:51:37] Speaker C: It's up here.
[00:51:38] Speaker B: Okay. Know that your will be taken next week.
[00:51:40] Speaker A: Oh, if they got one. I don't think you might not want that.
[00:51:43] Speaker B: They definitely.
[00:51:47] Speaker C: Contra X.
[00:51:48] Speaker B: Probably a fake page, y'. All probably somebody out on Beat the.
[00:51:50] Speaker A: What does it say? Contra X. A kiss killer.
[00:51:52] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:51:53] Speaker B: Shut the in the dirt before stop playing. Probably somebody. I don't.
[00:51:59] Speaker A: Kill nothing, man.
[00:52:00] Speaker B: Probably somebody lashes out up before us all, you know.
[00:52:03] Speaker A: Okay, then pop your.
[00:52:04] Speaker B: Then yeah pop your.
[00:52:06] Speaker A: Somebody lash out and up.
[00:52:10] Speaker B: Get your get back. Okay.
[00:52:16] Speaker A: It'S a boy.
[00:52:16] Speaker B: Oh, definitely don't matter. You never sit with me on. On your worst day.
[00:52:20] Speaker A: That weird.
Oh, he. He mad. She must be an inbox him back probably.
[00:52:24] Speaker B: Okay. I probably left it at some red.
[00:52:26] Speaker A: Listen twin Listen. It just be. Listen. If you swipe up and see yourself and hard eye that girl two, three times. Leave it alone.
[00:52:32] Speaker B: Leave it alone. She's seen it.
[00:52:34] Speaker A: She don't want.
[00:52:34] Speaker B: She's seen it. I promise you she's seen it.
[00:52:38] Speaker A: You're doing too much, bro.
[00:52:40] Speaker B: She's seen it.
[00:52:40] Speaker A: And it's a million and one women out here, bro. So if she don't want you another one will. You feel what I'm saying, bro? You ain't got to. What's up with y' all who can't handle rejection and you be having to get all goddamn put some air in your chest, okay?
[00:52:53] Speaker B: Like can't say rejection. Like I done seen so many like females get like shot. You know? You don't see that with the females. And take. I think it was a text or whatever. Two of them she gave. She didn't want to give the her number, so she shot. He shot her and her friend. You get what I'm saying? Really can't take that.
[00:53:07] Speaker A: And let me give y' all some free game though, if you scared of like that because I heard a lot of women say like, they give out their number just in case.
I always have a fake. Always have a. Like, a ticket out.
[00:53:19] Speaker B: Buy her a drink. Bye, pj.
No, for real. Like.
[00:53:26] Speaker A: Okay, then.
[00:53:27] Speaker B: Yeah, like, one more. Let's get it.
[00:53:32] Speaker A: Hey, man, y' all let me know if y' all won't. Got down R.A. on the game. And I had fun.
[00:53:36] Speaker B: Yeah, let me know for real.
[00:53:38] Speaker A: She come with her own.
[00:53:39] Speaker B: We see so. We see so differently, but we can understand each other point of view.
[00:53:43] Speaker A: Yeah, it'd be cool when we on the same page day.
I like arguing, though.
[00:53:48] Speaker B: You do like arguing.
[00:53:49] Speaker A: It's a hobby of mine.
[00:53:50] Speaker B: It's a hot minute. You get what I'm saying? But we made it. We made.
[00:53:53] Speaker C: Took a minute.
[00:53:56] Speaker A: I knew it was gonna be like that. That why I was like, oh, you want to. Come on.
[00:54:00] Speaker B: Wait, you was. You was weary.
[00:54:02] Speaker A: No, I'm saying I knew it was gonna be like, look at where we at.
[00:54:07] Speaker B: 3.
[00:54:08] Speaker A: Yeah, we done maintain 300 for an hour power.
You feel what I'm saying?
[00:54:12] Speaker B: I'm hostile. I'm. I'm so sweet. I'm so kind. I'm the nicest angel ever.
[00:54:19] Speaker A: Oh, if you want to buy a house or a piece of land, hey, listen, just chill. Stay down. Cause I got you. Listen, I've been. I've been working on my. I ain't gonna be the only. You know what I'm saying? I'm one of these who had to figure it out himself, you feel me? Like.
But at the same time. And listen, before Christmas, I'm gonna show.
[00:54:35] Speaker B: Y' all that something, bro.
[00:54:36] Speaker A: I'm show y' all that something. I already be wanting to go 2 for 2 for y'. All Broke ass.
[00:54:40] Speaker B: Don't play with that.
[00:54:41] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? But I don't be doing that. You know, I'll be chilling. But I'm about. I'm about to show you something, man. I'm about to show you something.
[00:54:48] Speaker B: Somebody said, can you get. Yeah. With the cakes up here?
[00:54:51] Speaker A: Yeah, we go. You want. Y'. All.
[00:54:52] Speaker B: Yeah, I told you. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Please bring it. And then when you bring her up.
[00:54:56] Speaker A: You know, make scared the. The buy drink now.
[00:55:00] Speaker B: You know, make sure you.
[00:55:06] Speaker A: Okay, then we got it. We got it. We got it. We got it. And listen, so, hey, listen, man, I. I appreciate y', all, man. Go ahead, kill my theme music, man.
Oh, you too, YouTube. You too late, my boy. But anyways, man, I appreciate y', all, man. Y' all been tuned to another episode of Peas in the Pie, man. I have My girl Ra with me.
We might. I might be doubling back.
[00:55:29] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:55:29] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying?
[00:55:30] Speaker B: I feel like you should.
[00:55:31] Speaker A: Yeah, we might double back next week. I might bring y'. Too Y. I can have three.
[00:55:34] Speaker B: Only if you sit on my lap. Yaya.
[00:55:36] Speaker A: I can have three people.
[00:55:38] Speaker B: Yeah. I need another woman up here. I need another female.
[00:55:41] Speaker A: And this I'm have if y Y you willing next Tuesday at seven. You and Rao, man, let's get it. And lunch on me, not two real ass.
[00:55:54] Speaker B: All right, y'.
All, I know that you make mistakes but that don't change the way I love you I always love you Love.
[00:56:11] Speaker A: Me like I did your heart I want your head hold no shade I don't live baby we leave they going to take his head out Papa breaking I was on my dick but now I'm screaming on me Even though I got it on me I feel watching me the main one doubting me I'm saying vouch for me told my don't worry about it I'mma flooded TR with everybody want some cloud for me I be feeling like me down see like the wrist faded and I be wanting to cry My day one went crazy my day without playing gangster Pray to God don't got a sl Pray to God I got a cure I just pray my blood will make it any scre I go crazy God send me a sign like you going to die if you don't quit wasting time I've been grinding late night these so lame chase behind me holding wonder why they ain't got no pain I would just kick your door to eat not constantly my phone God blessing out a child I need a.