It's A Lot of Ass In The Building

[00:00:04] Speaker A: This type of. [00:00:04] Speaker B: Every morning. Yo, yo, yo, yo. What's happening? What's happening? What's happening? Good evening. This your boy Jay with Ink. You're tuning in to another episode. Peas in the park podcast. Today I got some special guests for you. Hold on. First, I got my girl Rise. You know what I'm saying, though? We did numbers last week. [00:00:23] Speaker A: You know, big numbers. [00:00:28] Speaker B: Introduce yourself right quick. Hold on. Let's see. [00:00:30] Speaker A: Oh, my God, y'. All. They want me to. They want me to stand up so bad. [00:00:34] Speaker B: Yeah, one more time. [00:00:36] Speaker A: One more time around. [00:00:37] Speaker B: One more time. It's a whole lot of ass in the building, though. [00:00:41] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? [00:00:41] Speaker B: You know? You know. [00:00:43] Speaker A: Okay. You know, like, she playing like she don't know what the. We came here for. [00:00:48] Speaker B: You know, what going on. How we gonna start it off? How we gonna start it all just to get you here, you know what I'm saying? [00:00:55] Speaker A: Okay, I see a couple of names that was here last week. Okay, I. With. Let me see the booty. [00:00:59] Speaker B: I'm telling you. I'll tell you. That's what we here for. Ass, y'. [00:01:06] Speaker A: All. Play, y', all, please. [00:01:08] Speaker B: Hey. Yes. You know that one got a Y in it. That ain't just ass. That's a wrong. You know what I'm saying? Okay, what's happening? How y' all doing, man? Everybody. [00:01:26] Speaker A: Yeah, we got some returning viewers. For real. They with us. They with you. [00:01:32] Speaker B: What they say? What they say? One more time. [00:01:34] Speaker A: You better rewind real quick. [00:01:37] Speaker B: Real quick, real quick, real quick. [00:01:38] Speaker A: Okay, My last time, y'. [00:01:41] Speaker B: All. [00:01:41] Speaker A: Okay, okay, okay. You know, period, period. [00:01:47] Speaker B: Hit the side, though. I'm trying to let y' all see all the angles, you know, this what you come here for. [00:01:54] Speaker A: This is your set, boo. [00:01:56] Speaker B: You feel me? But, yo, we. We outside with it. They say what the topic is. [00:02:04] Speaker A: We got. We got. I feel like we got some good topics. [00:02:07] Speaker B: I like them this week now. [00:02:09] Speaker A: So the topic that I chose, y', all was 50. [00:02:12] Speaker B: 50. [00:02:13] Speaker A: 50, 50. How y' all feel about 50 50? Like, honestly, I just need to see a little bit of. In the comments. [00:02:21] Speaker B: I'm. I'm. [00:02:26] Speaker A: Talking. [00:02:28] Speaker B: I'm just let y' all know I'm fighting for us today. Fellas. [00:02:31] Speaker A: You gonna have to. He gonna have to. Because it's only one. [00:02:34] Speaker B: It's two on one. But y' all know. [00:02:36] Speaker A: Yeah, he gonna have to. [00:02:37] Speaker B: You know, I stand my ground. [00:02:39] Speaker A: So how. So how do you feel about 50? 50? Like, do you think that's like. [00:02:43] Speaker B: I mean, but like, I just told y' all Last week. Cheating for niggas with money. So If I'm paying 100% of everything. [00:02:51] Speaker A: That's why I said 50 50. [00:02:53] Speaker B: Okay, so you telling me it's two sides to it? [00:02:57] Speaker A: Oh, my God. [00:02:58] Speaker B: Cause y' all be like, if. If I'm. If I'm 50, 50, I can't be 100% woman. So I bet if I'm 100% paying the bills, I'm gonna be 100% man around this bitch. You feel me? Especially when y' all get to hitting that. Oh, I'm tired. I'm tired. [00:03:15] Speaker A: Wow. [00:03:15] Speaker B: I'm tired. Like, you can't even, like, just turn face the wall for a little second and wiggle. It ain't gonna last long. You know what I'm saying? [00:03:22] Speaker A: Like, exactly. Equation. He really do. Like, when it comes to him, he really do. He just want a reason to cheat. Yes. Yeah. I feel like, though, for real, though, me personally, like, I don't want to go 5050 with no man. Like, I feel like, you know. You know, do what works for you. But me, personally, I feel like you a man. Like, that's a. That's a part of you being dominant. Now. We. We. You ain't got to go 100, 100. You know, everything. Everything on you. But you got to be doing a little more than me because what the. [00:03:52] Speaker B: Percentages is now, because, see, look, the. [00:03:53] Speaker A: Woman cooks, she cleans. You know, she does the. That the man ain't gonna do. She takes care of the kids. So is it really 50, 50, and y' all just paying the bills? [00:04:02] Speaker B: So you think you with Nelly? Like, a ain't around here picking up his kids. A ain't around here doing nothing. He ain't got no business and still paying bills, so. Or you think I'm just paying 100 of the bills? I get to kick my feet up, y'. All. I don't worry about what y' all do. [00:04:15] Speaker A: Precious. That's a good. That's. [00:04:17] Speaker B: You know what I'm saying? Like, I ain't with my kids. I ain't with no dishes. I ain't with cutting the grass. I ain't with goddamn fixing car. I ain't with fixing cabinets. You know what I'm saying? [00:04:27] Speaker A: Fixing cabinets. Like. [00:04:28] Speaker B: Like. Like, damn. Like, bro, it's a lot of COVID That mad, too. [00:04:32] Speaker A: But you know, how you feel, y', all, I'm gonna say with 50, 50, like, if y' all not married, I don't see an issue. Like, if y' all just dating and, you know, I don't See a problem with that? Because you could still be doing that whole 100 by yourself, like, you know what I'm saying? So. But now, if y' all married, that's something totally different. That's a whole different dynamic y' all gotta set for your own household. But if y' all just dating, I don't see nothing wrong with 50. 50. Okay, but see, trash say I clean and pay bills. But see, as a man, if you throwing out that extra so. Well, we ain't going 50. 50. You're not gonna have to clean. Exactly. Now, if you paying everything, when you. [00:05:03] Speaker B: Come home, you ain't gonna hear nothing. [00:05:05] Speaker A: You shouldn't have to hear nothing because you're paying for everything. Everything should already be done. [00:05:10] Speaker B: And then the be like. And then the be like, oh, you asked them what they want out of a woman and it's a slave. Well, I'm already paying everything. I expect to come home to a hot ass plate and goddamn a clean house. I'm talking about not a spec of toy, trash draws, nothing. Everything folded up, everything around this neat and tight. And the ain't. The air conditioner ain't over 68. Because that's how I like it. You know what I'm saying? Like this my. We ain't agreeing to. Got nothing to agree on. You don't pay. We don't have nothing to agree on. I still got to pay for it. [00:06:00] Speaker A: No, if I ain't paying for it, you ain't taking care of. No, don't, please. [00:06:05] Speaker B: I'm just saying I'm. I'm rebuttaling y' all argument. [00:06:07] Speaker A: That's definitely control, you know what I'm saying? That's not. That's. That don't have control. [00:06:13] Speaker B: Y store around here, y' all got a thinking. He got to pay $9,000 of money in bills to be compatible with you. [00:06:19] Speaker A: Damn right. I'mma say something he might be do, though, like, date your kind. If you want a broke and a bum, go date that. But when you come over here, so. [00:06:27] Speaker B: He paying 100%, 85% of the bills. And you got money, you rich. What we talking about? What we talking about? So you just want to make all the money and just watch me. [00:06:42] Speaker A: See, but that's why I keep saying about 50. 50, right. When it comes to 50, 50. Now, if he got goals and stuff that he want to set out to do, like, you can't just take away from that man, the whole, you know, the whole relationship. Like, y' all should come to some type of agreement. Like okay, we're going to be working towards this. I'm working towards that. Fellas, I don't see nothing wrong, man. Jay want a. With a turtleneck, no skin showing, shades that gonna shut up and jump when he say jump. That what he want. This say 68, because that what he like it. What if she don't want to do 68? Like, why y' all can't agree on some. She's still pulling her way as a. [00:07:14] Speaker B: Why the. Why the. We still agreeing on. And I'm paying everything. [00:07:18] Speaker A: Like, if you wasn't there to take care of the house, I'm cooking all of that. Like, who would do that? [00:07:23] Speaker B: I'm the head. [00:07:24] Speaker A: He think money. He think money rule everything. And that's not what it is. [00:07:27] Speaker B: Money rules 65% of this. [00:07:30] Speaker A: Okay with the other 95. No, no, no. [00:07:33] Speaker B: 95. Boy, you're tripping, boy. Y' all willing to take anything come. [00:07:36] Speaker A: With a week, Rich, they get less, too. You know, they really do. [00:07:39] Speaker B: It's easy to argue with me and, like, you know, like, not recognize real life. You feel what I'm saying? Be losing all morals about the. With some cheese. If I'm telling you I'm gonna take care of you, you're not gonna say you. You're just gonna do it. I'm. You know what I'm saying? We watch it every day. [00:07:57] Speaker A: No, I'm so sorry. Like, it's. You will get. You will get the respect that a man deserves if you're doing every single thing. [00:08:03] Speaker B: I'm gonna get that if I'm paying 50. 50. [00:08:06] Speaker A: Yeah, but this is. It's a different level of respect. I'm not gonna lie. Like. Like you. It's a higher respect when you kind of like pulling more of your way as a man and we doing the same. I really can do without you if need be. So if you talk back sometimes I might tell you to shut the up. So. [00:08:19] Speaker B: So where. Where does that. Like, where does that coin flip just cause you a woman? [00:08:23] Speaker A: No, it's because we kind of equal when you're doing. And y' all both doing the same. Yeah. [00:08:28] Speaker B: Is that not controlling what she just said? [00:08:30] Speaker A: No, that was not controlling. [00:08:32] Speaker B: Y' all delusional. [00:08:32] Speaker A: I said, no, no, no, no, no. What she just said. [00:08:37] Speaker B: Ain't no way in hell you can sit here and agree. She said, well, see, if I'm paying. So that means. I said, if I'm paying 100, she's saying she paying just half alone with me. Her attitude gonna be different. [00:08:47] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:08:47] Speaker B: So If I'm paying 100. You don't think I'm have a different attitude towards you too? [00:08:51] Speaker A: No. You're a man. That's what you're supposed to do. Then I'm paying 100. Then we still taking care of the household. [00:08:55] Speaker B: Then I'm paying 100. And you ain't got no money, so I got to take care. [00:08:59] Speaker A: Now that's totally different. Who told him she had no money? [00:09:07] Speaker B: So you're telling me, boy, Jesus. Now we could get deep into the rabbit hole. Now I'm telling you now. So you're telling me I'm paying 100 of the bills for you just to sit at home, cook, clean, and we gonna send them babies like the daycare. [00:09:20] Speaker A: And too you just, I mean, and. [00:09:24] Speaker B: You just gonna take care of the house. [00:09:25] Speaker A: That's to each his own. [00:09:26] Speaker B: You're just gonna take care of the house. That mean we see them same little the same time. [00:09:31] Speaker A: I, I, I do. [00:09:32] Speaker B: We said the same amount of time. When I get off work. You picking them up before 4,5 o'. [00:09:36] Speaker A: Clock. [00:09:36] Speaker B: You only got 5 hours till they go to sleep. [00:09:39] Speaker A: But they're little babies. They're not going to daycare. You got to think about that too. [00:09:43] Speaker B: One years old, they going to daycare. I ain't g lie, bro. [00:09:49] Speaker A: She don't work like that though. [00:09:51] Speaker B: My baby was born. My baby mama ain't work the first goddamn like year and a half, bro. [00:09:56] Speaker A: Everybody don't have that luxury. Yeah, that what I'm saying. Stop talking to broke. Like she said in the comments. [00:10:01] Speaker B: Like, like I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm saying y' all need to get a barcode tattooed on y' all so we can come scan that and know who broke and who not. Y' all around here looking good in $10 outfits and $5 sandals. We don't know if you got money. You riding around here, be off your car, the the door down there don't open. You still a bad though with a fat ass. [00:10:21] Speaker A: We never know. [00:10:23] Speaker B: We never know until we get to know you. It's us that has to come out. [00:10:28] Speaker A: Here and have to just hear, hear, hear, hear. While you just sitting over there taking. [00:10:34] Speaker B: Pictures of the scat pack sign like passenger Princess. [00:10:38] Speaker A: Like, God damn. It's the same for y'. All. I done see a with a whole spread posted with scats and behind him everything Reynolds. The money got fakes in it. Like, how the fuck we supposed to know What y' all too man, Y'. All. [00:10:50] Speaker B: Cause you know them niggas ain't Got no motherfucking money. Just like how y' all know y' all get with a nigga? This nigga got five kids. He. You done been with this nigga six months. He seen his kid one time. One weekend. One weekend. Then you go give him another motherfucking baby. He letting you know he's not an active dad already. But guess what? You went and did. [00:11:10] Speaker A: Gave him another baby. [00:11:11] Speaker C: Okay? [00:11:12] Speaker A: You feel what I'm saying? Like, okay, okay. Give it another scenario, though. Say he don't got five kids. Say maybe he got one kid. He's a wholesome man. You know what I'm saying? The red flags are not there. Y' all not right then and there. They usually come later. He giving you money. You don't know where the the coming from, but the giving you money. And somebody be like, oh, no, he broke. How the he broke? He provided for me, right? So I'm not sure where you got that from. Hello? Like, how the are we supposed to know? [00:11:41] Speaker B: I mean, gang, listen. It's just like this, bro. I keep telling y', all, you're entitled to your own destiny. You can tell when these niggas got some cheese on. When these niggas don't got no cheese, you can tell you can't come to the. You never can come to his house. He always coming to your shit. [00:11:58] Speaker A: Hold up, who coming to who house? I'm just saying, like, niggas who ain't got no money. You already don't even know who you. [00:12:04] Speaker B: Talk to to even be letting you know what I'm saying. [00:12:06] Speaker A: Who the fuck, nigga, no, we not coming if I can't come to yours. But you ain't coming to my house for one. For one. [00:12:11] Speaker B: I ain't going to no woman house anyway. [00:12:13] Speaker A: You're not coming to mine. [00:12:13] Speaker B: I ain't coming over there. Y' all be having niggas who y' all done strung along now, this popping up at the house. You know what I'm saying? Like, I ain't going over there. I ain't going over there, baby. Cuz, I'm bound to shoot you in this. Real talk. [00:12:26] Speaker A: Damn her for it. [00:12:28] Speaker B: You was in the way. [00:12:30] Speaker A: That is up. [00:12:31] Speaker B: You was in the way. Yeah, cuz. You shouldn't have put me in this situation. I ain't had to pull a fire yet till I come to your wanting a little bit of quality time. You know what I'm saying? Like, come on, man. [00:12:40] Speaker A: You said definitely can tell when the got that cheese. I don't know. I feel like the ones with Money for real. They don't be them be the quiet ones. You don't know they got money to do. [00:12:49] Speaker B: Them quiet hustlers, all them dead. No, them showing you who got money and who don't know. It's not. It's not that no more. Them is not walking around and no Bill Gates ass. Them ain't walking around with 100k going to shop at Walmart. Them is dead. [00:13:04] Speaker A: Yeah, you're right. [00:13:06] Speaker B: It ain't. [00:13:07] Speaker A: You're right. [00:13:08] Speaker C: Are you talking about hustlers or people with money? [00:13:12] Speaker A: Good question. [00:13:12] Speaker C: Just pure hustlers or people with money. [00:13:15] Speaker A: I mean, they're not the same thing. [00:13:16] Speaker C: Because like, no, no, no, no, no, no. It's not the same thing because there's people who got money who aren't like, they might hustle, but they do it in a more legal way. You feel what I'm saying? Oh, so I'm talking about. Are you talking about like hustlers who have money or are you talking about people who have money because they may own like a bunch of million dollar businesses. They done started some stuff and now they got money on top of money. Because I know some guys who are millionaires who don't. Who like drive a Prius. They got a two bedroom. [00:13:46] Speaker B: What fucking millionaire, you know, driver Prius. [00:13:49] Speaker C: I will introduce you to him, like. [00:13:51] Speaker B: Because I don't understand them niggas, bro. Like, I work hard, boy. Like, well, I'm gonna die for you. To put, hey, I died with a fucking 900 credit score and I die with 600,000. Make sure you put this on my tombstone. [00:14:03] Speaker C: I get what you're. [00:14:03] Speaker B: I get what you know what I'm saying. I get what you're saying with you. [00:14:05] Speaker C: But now I had that same mentality. [00:14:07] Speaker B: When I talked to him, man. [00:14:09] Speaker C: His thought process was this. He said he's trying to build gener. [00:14:12] Speaker B: Generational wealth, man, that buy he do something that it could be them. Them be acting like that. I know, I know some. I know some with money who act like that too. But guess what they'll do. I'm paying another rent. I'm goddamn. You know what I'm saying? Whatever it is. You got advice. It's just not everybody. Some clothes and cars. [00:14:28] Speaker A: He said, it ain't flexing if you got it. I feel like honestly, that's more so for a. Like, we don't do that. I feel like the men do, woman. We don't flex. We don't sit there and do spreads. We don't sit there and like we got money. [00:14:41] Speaker B: Y' all flex other ways, though. [00:14:42] Speaker A: How? [00:14:43] Speaker B: I think. I think, like, y' all are flex. Like, especially when you buy a car, you buy a house or a crib. You see, only women do that key. [00:14:50] Speaker A: That's essential. [00:14:52] Speaker B: No, I'm just saying. But that's. That's. Everybody can't. [00:14:55] Speaker C: It might be essential. It might be essential life, but everybody don't. Can't buy a house. [00:14:59] Speaker B: Everybody. And just, like, how you feel about is flexing. Just know everybody can't do what we. [00:15:04] Speaker A: Doing on your arm like this right here. [00:15:06] Speaker B: I mean, that's corny. But at the same time, them. [00:15:09] Speaker A: He flex them big ass wigs. [00:15:11] Speaker B: Oh, Lord. Hey, hey. The do a wig spread. No, you know what I'm saying? The do a wig spread, though. I bet you they spell their name with a. With like, nine wigs. [00:15:24] Speaker A: I'm going sit this one out. Wigs. So I'm dead. What'd she say about marriages? [00:15:34] Speaker C: She said, you know what? A lot of marriages break up because of money. Y' all be so worried about money. And that's really not even the main thing, man. [00:15:42] Speaker B: That is the main fucking thing. [00:15:43] Speaker C: You can take it with you when you go, money ain't everything. [00:15:45] Speaker B: Real talk. I mean, but if you get married and you don't got no money, that marriage is gonna fucking fail. [00:15:50] Speaker A: I don't agree. But if you make that the. [00:15:52] Speaker B: Oh, we. Ooh. If you can lay up, bro. [00:15:55] Speaker A: If you faith in your marriage, then it's gonna be. [00:15:56] Speaker B: If you can lay up broke and we can go homeless together. I'm telling you now, I ain't gonna be in no marriage. I'm getting divorced. [00:16:02] Speaker A: But I mean, just because you got money, that don't mean that you just going do what you want or say what you want. Like, no, I hate. [00:16:07] Speaker B: I mean, but y' all, listen. Y' all make everything. [00:16:09] Speaker A: Do you have all the money or not? [00:16:10] Speaker B: Like, y' all make everything about, like, having money, though. Like, and then when it get to, like, real shit about having money, it'd be like, oh, it's not all about money. Like, it can't be all about money in one aspect. And then it's not because a Nigga can't pay 100% of the bills if he's not all about his fucking money. And that means. [00:16:28] Speaker A: That means sacrifice. Female, you talking to. [00:16:29] Speaker B: Oh, my God, it is. [00:16:31] Speaker A: That's just like when you meet a girl and the first thing she say is, like, oh, I want you to pay all this. Like, how was you paying for it before I met you? [00:16:37] Speaker B: Hey, Listen. I be listening to y. Y' all got to be logical sometimes, though. [00:16:41] Speaker A: She said money is important. I agree. But that's not. That's not keep the relationship together. Like you. You don't have money, and we come across that tough spot, we can work on that. As long as I love you. As long as we respecting each other, we trust each other. That's where that other shit come in. [00:16:55] Speaker B: At Versus money no more. Boy, you got the damn. You got the damn near. You got the damn. To have money to be people friends, that is real shit. You got to have money to be people friends. You got to have money to, like, provide for you and provide for somebody else. But you know how this is out here. Like, we ain't gonna sit here and act like you will be interested in the same nigga versus you ain't. You're gonna be interested in the nigga who spend more money versus a nigga who just can't spend money. Oh, I can't take you out. You have to wait till Friday. I'm a wholesome ass. I don't know how to sell drugs. [00:17:27] Speaker A: If we having a blast. And you not spe as much money as a who spent a whole bunch of money. But he boring as not. He don't want to do nothing. He doesn't want to sit in the house. I'm a with you harder than I with that other. [00:17:40] Speaker B: It's not so you ain't found one yet. You don't find one like that yet that you could just chill with and kick it with. He ain't got no cheese. All this that in the third, because you'll be sitting here. You got a rebuttal for everything, my ass. Nah. Because I'm saying, though, why, why, why? Why you ain't got an empty on your roster, then if you can do it? Cause you telling me it ain't no empty ass out this that can treat you right, treat you better than the situations you be in now. [00:18:04] Speaker A: No, that's not what I said, though. [00:18:05] Speaker B: Okay? [00:18:06] Speaker A: You said money rules. I said if a got cheese, it don't matter how much cheese he got. If you not entertaining me or doing what I like like this, who don't have as much money or is not spending this money as you, I'm gonna with him harder. It's a lot of who have money that don't show it off like here. [00:18:23] Speaker B: And fuck with me too, because I got this cheese. That's what the we gonna sit here like, damn. Okay, that who ain't spending the cheese. He can get two hours. [00:18:30] Speaker A: Cool. [00:18:31] Speaker B: But you bring your black ass right back over here washed up pearly. [00:18:38] Speaker A: Like that all the time. I ain't gonna say it don't happen, but it don't happen. [00:18:41] Speaker B: That shit happen all the time. Boy, y' all be sitting acting crazy, but y' all know what be going on. Y' all know how. Y' all know how the world operate. Y' all know how y' all operate. Not saying like. Cause listen, we done got so adapted in the world, motherfuckers be throwing out that trick word. You know what tricks is? That's a pimp. That's a pimp. A pimp term like flipping tricks. [00:19:00] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? [00:19:01] Speaker B: So we be acting like it's tricks out here. It ain't no horrors, you know what I'm saying? Like everybody just wholesome. You just want a. With money. Some, some of y' all are prostitutes. [00:19:12] Speaker A: Gonna let you know off top, look, if you ain't got no money, you ain't getting no play. You know what I think has plays a big part of that though. Y' all wanna know what I think mainly contributes to that? Because a lot of would rather pay for it than to go through the whole. Let me get to know you. [00:19:27] Speaker B: I pay for you satisfy me how I think. I, I, I, I, I sat here. [00:19:31] Speaker A: And pay for it because of social media. Everybody tricking. [00:19:37] Speaker B: Remember how you used to hit the hookers on gta? When they get out the car, you. You beat them for your money back. [00:19:43] Speaker A: Trash. You going get your money back. [00:19:44] Speaker B: I need that. [00:19:45] Speaker A: You can't get your money back so much trash. [00:19:47] Speaker B: You can't. [00:19:47] Speaker A: What is wrong with you? [00:19:48] Speaker B: I ain't never seen, I ain't never seen a woman say she got some. Baby, all y' all think y' all got great pussy. [00:19:54] Speaker C: Hey, real quick, Lolo Velasquez said, it is not and it will be not failed. Oh, Jesus Christ. I should went. No way. It would not fail. Baby, I've lived in the car with my husband. Here we are living perfectly fine 10 years later. It's really not about money. Y' all missing the point. For real. That's what's wrong with this generation today. For real. Money is the root of all evil. Y' all will leave a perfect husband because he fall off for a minute. He has the perfect qualities, but leave him because he ain't got it like that. No, you can't be broke off. Of course, however, y' all gotta grow together. [00:20:30] Speaker B: Let me help you on this side. [00:20:31] Speaker A: I agree with that. [00:20:31] Speaker B: Hey, Lola, I fuck with you because, like, that's the type of love I want and I want to look for, you know what I'm saying? But like, that shit ain't not here no more. [00:20:38] Speaker A: He just don't have faith that it's out here. [00:20:40] Speaker B: He don't think that shit is out here. [00:20:43] Speaker A: When you run across so many people that's doing the same shit, it really does make you question the same type of people to talk to. [00:20:50] Speaker C: No, but that is a needle in the haystack though. [00:20:52] Speaker A: Yeah. Like, as. [00:20:55] Speaker B: As fine as you, as beautiful as you are, why you ain't got a. That's barely making it. Because he treating you right. Exactly. So it's like I said, it's not out here gang, if it. Listen, if you're trying to date and you don't got your together, bro, just don't date. Like, bro, I just rather just be by myself. Put that in your hand. [00:21:13] Speaker A: Keep it low key. How you don't know. I got. I. I got a little situation. Low key, like how you. He might watch this and be like, damn, why he trying to make her claim me? Like, I ain't trying to make you claim nobody. [00:21:25] Speaker B: I don't give a damn what y' all doing over there. [00:21:27] Speaker A: Don't ask about it. That'd be the problem too, the little situation like that. Everybody just wants to be in a situation. And that'd be the problem dating, that you gotta date first. You get what I'm saying, bro? You gotta date first before you. No, it ain't no situation. Just you dating. Yeah. [00:21:41] Speaker B: No, but at the same time, like, you got to understand, like, you know, like y' all go through phase. Men go through phases too, you know, like it's like women ain't. Like, it's rare to kind of find a black woman at least, you know, before 25, 26, matter of fact, 29, that really ready to sit her ass down and be like on some wife. [00:22:03] Speaker A: I definitely agree. [00:22:04] Speaker B: Everybody's so ready to just have like when you're dealing with somebody like, like on that age or that type of level where we just having fun. [00:22:10] Speaker A: That's why I think you should date. Because by the time you bout 30 something, you should be ready to settle down because you already know what the you want. So in that age range, about 20, maybe 26, you should be dating. I'm not saying everybody, but you should be dating so that by the time you get to that point, curiosity ain't killing the cat no more. You already know. Like, okay, I'm Ready to settle down. This type of I want. This type of I want, like, I ain't got to go through that to see what the it is and what it ain't. Like, you should be ready to just go ahead and kill all that. [00:22:36] Speaker B: I mean. But easier said than done, though. [00:22:40] Speaker A: When you find the right person, though. [00:22:42] Speaker B: It'Ll be like, what is not finding the right person, bro? Anybody that you put your time and energy to, you feel like is low key on, might be the right person. [00:22:50] Speaker A: I disagree. I feel like in four months, you should know, like, if somebody for you or if they ain't for you. Like, four months, you think four months. How long you think? I must say, four months just seems. I mean, you gotta go through seasons with people. You could be talking to somebody for six months, and then they really show you a whole different side of them. Like, I feel like. I feel like a year dating somebody. No, you don't know how to fuck. Somebody is in four months now. Like, man, I'm telling you, she can't. [00:23:16] Speaker B: Live a little bit. [00:23:17] Speaker A: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. You gotta really go through seasons with somebody. You gotta see if you can deal with this person when they mad, when they angry, when they broke, when they got it. Like, you gotta go through that with a person. [00:23:26] Speaker B: Cause I'm a dog. [00:23:27] Speaker A: When a nigga don't have no money, when they broke, that's the meanest motherfucker you could ever deal with in your life. Exactly. I got Cage in four months, you know, they whole life. But in four months, you know, if the nigga a. You know how he act when he. When he married. Them four months, they be. They be. [00:23:43] Speaker B: How you know? Be a. In four months. [00:23:44] Speaker C: Lolo got a question. She said, let me ask. Are any of you in a relationship? [00:23:50] Speaker B: Why? [00:23:50] Speaker C: This her first time on the show? I mean, I guess. [00:23:52] Speaker A: No, it's not. She was on the show last week. [00:23:53] Speaker C: She was on last week. [00:23:54] Speaker A: She was? Yeah. Was she not? I think Lo was on last week. [00:23:57] Speaker C: If she was, I ain't see. I a see her comment. [00:23:58] Speaker A: I could be tripping. You. You would know. [00:24:00] Speaker C: I could not or I might not. [00:24:02] Speaker B: I'm over here drinking with y', all, so why do it matter, though? Like, I ain't. It's a difference. Like, no, ain't nobody been married. Okay, We've been in. Relationship question. [00:24:09] Speaker A: Who. What's the longest relationship y' all been in? Let's change it to that. [00:24:11] Speaker B: We. [00:24:12] Speaker A: Let's change it to that. Mine was seven years, and you 25. And I'm 25. That's what I'm telling y' all say. I don't know some. I know some. But I'm telling y'. [00:24:20] Speaker B: All, no, you know that. [00:24:21] Speaker A: No, before that, it was three years. I was always in a relationship. I kind of. I kind of know a little bit about relationships. You get what I'm saying? So what was the longest? What's the longest, Jay? Five. Okay. Three and a half. Three and a half. Okay. So we're not gonna say if any of us in a relationship or not, but I feel like we got a little bit enough of relationship experience. Yeah. Like, I said, mine was seven years. I'd have been in relationship for seven years. You get what I'm saying? So I know a little bit about dating. [00:24:50] Speaker B: But answer y' all question. Answer y' all three years. [00:24:53] Speaker A: Always be my limit. [00:24:56] Speaker B: No, I ain't in no goddamn relationship. And it's safe to cheat over here. It's safe, you know, Please don't judge him, y'. [00:25:02] Speaker A: All. Please don't cheat. [00:25:03] Speaker B: Man, listen, you can go over here. [00:25:05] Speaker A: I want a wholesome woman. I want somebody who to deal with him who actually, you know, is ready to settle the woman. If you a wholesome woman. And I ain't treating you how you. [00:25:13] Speaker B: Supposed to be treated. That nigga ain't treating you how you supposed to be treating you. [00:25:17] Speaker A: Like black women, right? [00:25:17] Speaker B: Love. [00:25:18] Speaker A: Only black. A black queen. Only a black queen. Please. [00:25:21] Speaker B: This nigga only pie right here. [00:25:22] Speaker A: Please. If he said seven years, you gonna marry him. Okay, wait. What y' all laughing at? That's a good question. Why y' all missing. Why y' all laughing? See, I missed it, too. Like, this must be a God thing. This must be a good question, though. That's a good question. I am not in a relationship. The question was, how long was your relationship? And it was seven years. We are not together. And no, we did not get married. [00:25:51] Speaker B: Y' all said, come on, bro, we got to get together. [00:25:53] Speaker A: She said, jay ain't never been punched in the face. That's the problem. I tell his ass beat freshest. She said, you gotta beat him. You got to beat on you. [00:26:03] Speaker B: I got plenty cousins. [00:26:05] Speaker C: I'm sorry. [00:26:05] Speaker B: That $100 going. [00:26:08] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah. [00:26:08] Speaker B: You just. [00:26:08] Speaker C: Yeah, we can't go back. [00:26:10] Speaker A: What I want to know. [00:26:14] Speaker B: Somebody you got to catch. Which one of y' all said, only black women? But I just said, this is only white people. I love y', all, though. You know what I'm saying? Especially the ones that ain't racist. You know what I'M saying, she say what Broke up. [00:26:35] Speaker A: Yeah, I feel like I gotta be deeper in the podcast city for me to, like, just be, like, giving y' all all of my business. Like, I feel like y' all should only know a little bit. And when I'm ready, when I read it. [00:26:44] Speaker B: What day is Marie say? [00:26:45] Speaker A: Cuz we tell y', all I will. [00:26:46] Speaker C: You said Deja. [00:26:48] Speaker B: What did she say? [00:26:49] Speaker A: He got hit and held that with a back on. [00:26:52] Speaker B: Man, we was three. Listen, Deja. [00:26:55] Speaker A: Deja? [00:26:56] Speaker B: Yeah, that my little cousin. So she listen, Deja run like Deja run like a duck. So we used to play hide and go seek and she can't catch nobody cause she running like this. Her ass threw a back. Keep me on top of my bro. [00:27:09] Speaker A: Somebody said definitely that probably why. That probably why he'd be so mad at Deja. [00:27:13] Speaker B: Damn. Why I be mad at. Or I'll just be calling you out on your. No, I don't never be mad at. No. [00:27:17] Speaker A: Put everybody in one category. Everybody in one category. [00:27:21] Speaker B: No, listen, y' all as women have to like. [00:27:24] Speaker A: It's not about a marrying them. What if she ain't married? [00:27:27] Speaker B: Walk her ass in here with that glass slipper. Could you fit it? No. Cause your name is Cinderella. Could you fit it? [00:27:33] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:27:33] Speaker B: No. Cause your name ain't Cinderella. Y' all be sitting here acting like when I say something, every black woman in America got to stick the together. If you don't fit the shoe, don't wear it. You might know. [00:27:44] Speaker A: You might wear clothes. We try to get you to understand that. [00:27:47] Speaker B: I just be talking about a certain group of. Cause when did y' all ever, like, slice up the that you're talking about? Or do you just be talking about. [00:27:57] Speaker A: A No, I could be on the podcast. I just don't have to tell y' all all of my business. You get what I'm saying? I can open ended questions. I'm answering questions open ended. I don't have to tell y' all everything about me, but I can answer the question. I just don't have to put it my business. It's not even my podcast. [00:28:12] Speaker B: One thing, one thing I learned about women, though. Like, when you make sense, they got to goddamn do something to you. You know what I'm saying? Like, they got the. They got to make you feel gay. They'll call you sassy. They'll got. You know what I'm saying? When you make too much sense, they can't comprehend that shit. So it just got to be like, something to be said for them to start Feeling like a man again, you know what I'm saying? Cause a lot of women act like they just got out of prison. [00:28:37] Speaker A: Why? [00:28:37] Speaker B: You know what I'm saying? [00:28:38] Speaker A: Women be so aggressive. We really don't be aggressive. [00:28:42] Speaker B: And they do hellcat swaps all day in their backyard. [00:28:46] Speaker A: He want way or no way. [00:28:47] Speaker B: You see how I just said a lot of women? Did I say 100%? They don't be hearing the keywords. They just hear one man. [00:28:54] Speaker A: You said a lot, though. Like, a lot of women here speaking for the woman a lot don't mean for the women. Speaking for the woman a lot don't mean. [00:29:01] Speaker B: Okay. And if it one in here trying to defend himself, why the I got to speak on the whole species of y', all. [00:29:09] Speaker A: We just don't think Jay be right all the time. When he right, I be like, I agree, I agree. But when he wrong, I be like. [00:29:15] Speaker B: And stop checking the messages, twin. Go through that flow out. You feel what I'm saying? [00:29:20] Speaker A: What is that? [00:29:21] Speaker B: You ain't got to go through no messages, nigga. Go through her flow out, whatever period out she got on her shit. You go through that motherfucker. God damn. Damn. [00:29:31] Speaker C: So she said all this come from old time and before we were born. It's a natural thing with women. The men were meant to work and come home and pay the bills and make sure things are straight while the women be in the house be housewomen and make sure her husband clothes iron and the kids cook for the family. Women didn't even have rights at one point in life. So it's just our generation that, see, didn't for one, the entertainment as far as music really sinking people head. And they let get over their head. Look at the music today. [00:30:03] Speaker A: I mean, I agree, okay, but I'mma say this, but back in the day, what was rent? Like? $20, I'm telling you, but you know what I'm saying? Like, you got to think. [00:30:15] Speaker B: Rent might. [00:30:15] Speaker C: Have been $20, but you was making 6 cent. [00:30:17] Speaker B: Whatever. My granddad quit school in ninth grade and got a job at the railroad. Boy, you ain't getting no job at no railroad with not nothing you damn, they need a bachelor's degree. [00:30:25] Speaker A: I definitely agree. The music you listen to definitely influences the like I said. And it's social media, too. Social media, 100% social media. Everybody swear that they need to be doing it. [00:30:37] Speaker B: Everybody else is doing. [00:30:37] Speaker A: Like, they so behind because they see somebody else. [00:30:40] Speaker B: If you really want a good man, ladies, you gonna have to wait. Well, I remember you telling me One time that you had a good man, too, bro. And you know what I'm saying? Cause a lot of times. Let me. Let me. Let me get y' all the scenario. What Go through with this dating. I'll be real. So, like, we might see y'. All. Y' all might be the. Like. You know what I'm saying? You just the most beautiful thing in the room that night. I got your attention. Cool. I know in this court and what I got to do. You feel me? So cool. I'm. I'm good. Morning. I'm doing everything to let you know I'm interested, bro. Take you out on dates, whatever. When you finally lock in with me? A lot of times, bro. Certain women. Some women. Cause let me just do it like that. Cause y' all be acting like a. Say all women, but some women don't know how to reciprocate the energy. Like, I. You just know how to bash it. [00:31:27] Speaker A: You take it. [00:31:27] Speaker B: You take it. You know what I'm saying? You know what I'm saying? So. So you just know how to bask in it. So with me pursuing. Pursuing you all this time, you don't know how it feel. You don't know how to let me know that you fucking with me too or you pursuing me too. You know what I'm saying? [00:31:42] Speaker A: What do you think? What do you think your definition of a real man is? [00:31:45] Speaker B: Who said that? [00:31:46] Speaker A: What do you think? Everybody get a definition of a real man. Jay, you. I want you a man. What do you think a real man is? [00:31:53] Speaker B: I mean, who handle business? Cause, like. I mean, y' all be saying what a real man is, bro. I don't be thinking niggas. No, man. Like, a lot of. You feel me? [00:32:03] Speaker A: Like, a lot of. I'll say this. A lot of women feel like a nigga. Really ain't the man. Like he said, if they don't have no money, right? I can't say like, and y'. [00:32:13] Speaker B: All. And then. And then it'd be like y' all don't even notice that all y' all start talking alike. [00:32:17] Speaker A: It went from period into it, though. [00:32:20] Speaker B: Have been saying period for two years straight to. Then it went. Then it went from nar. Then Nick. Everybody was a narcissist. I'm trying to figure out how everybody go from narcissistic to being sassy because how the. The same are the same thing. It don't even make sense. You see, you went from narcissistic to sassy to not. It's what y' all got so many. [00:32:43] Speaker A: But no, for real, I'm gonna go deeper into a real. A real man. To me, what I feel like is a man who's a leader, like, you can lead. She ain't gotta, you know, she ain't gotta worry about that. A man like Jay said, who handles his business, I feel like that's a loyal man. I feel like that's a man who take care of, like, you know, the things around him, too. Like, that's what I feel like some of the qualities of a real man is. [00:33:04] Speaker C: But doesn't that fit all underneath the umbrella of a man who takes care of his business? [00:33:08] Speaker A: Not really. Because everybody who. Or I feel like taking care of your business could be a different thing. Because some may think that's just getting up and going to work. And that's not. It's more to that taking care of your business than that. [00:33:19] Speaker C: If you talk about taking care of your business, that's your kids. [00:33:21] Speaker A: Okay? [00:33:21] Speaker C: That's your house. [00:33:22] Speaker A: Okay? Okay. Say you get up and go to work. You feel like you take care of your business? No. You got kids, too, so you need to make sure they fed. Or say the laundry need to be done. And you live alone. You need to make sure that's done. You can't just get up and go to where you got. That's. That's an example. Like, it's more to it than handling your business, than just, like, getting up and going to work, as some people think. [00:33:39] Speaker B: I mean. Yeah. [00:33:40] Speaker A: I mean, make a little. You know, it makes sense. It's more to it. I feel like that's your own definition. Like, me getting up and handling my business. That mean I got everything on my to do list done. You know, I made my money for the day. You know, I probably got me a little nap into something. Got a little time to spare to handle some extra business. That's, you know, I don't handle my business for the day. Got to get a nap. Yeah. You know, Got to get a nap. [00:34:00] Speaker B: All I've been saying is, like, folks got to realize, like, where the food. [00:34:06] Speaker C: She'S supposed to bring, like, cupcakes or something. I don't know what happened today. [00:34:10] Speaker B: I don't know what y' all thought it was. You ain't gave y'. All. Y' all enough yet. [00:34:16] Speaker A: It's okay. When them blue velvet brownies come out. You know how I do. I'm on that. [00:34:19] Speaker B: They call what now Blue belt Blue. [00:34:21] Speaker A: Blue velvet. Blue velvet. Oh, Blue magic. [00:34:24] Speaker B: What you got them at? What's up? Y' all drinking or what? [00:34:25] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. [00:34:26] Speaker B: Y' all on the same goddamn shot. [00:34:28] Speaker A: They're my favorite ones. Take the shot right now. [00:34:31] Speaker B: Damn. What we doing? [00:34:33] Speaker C: Damn. He said don't be a woman. [00:34:35] Speaker A: Okay, what's the definition of a real woman? [00:34:36] Speaker C: Don't be a woman. [00:34:38] Speaker A: Go deeper. I ain't want to hear she got money. No, go deeper. Tell me what you think a real woman is. [00:34:45] Speaker B: But me personally, like, I ain't gonna date no broke. So, like that. That's just me. I ain't dating no begging broke. So it don't matter if you got money or not. That's just fellas. Once you learn how to be by yourself, bro, you will be better off. You know what I'm saying? [00:34:59] Speaker A: Baddie, baddy shot a clock. I'm fucking dead. [00:35:02] Speaker B: Who said that? [00:35:04] Speaker A: Baddie, baddie shot a clock. You be watching baddies, J. Fuck, I. [00:35:07] Speaker B: Look like I ain't got no girl? [00:35:10] Speaker A: I was trying to change the temperatures. What? [00:35:12] Speaker B: You trying to set the temperature on if I'm gay or not? [00:35:14] Speaker A: No. No. [00:35:15] Speaker B: What? [00:35:15] Speaker A: Why? [00:35:16] Speaker B: You asked me if I watch. [00:35:17] Speaker A: No, the scenes. You got a girlfriend. You not watching that shit unless you got a girlfriend. Right? [00:35:21] Speaker B: You had to clear that up right quick. You mean checking the temple? J Don't ever deal with nobody nothing. [00:35:26] Speaker A: You're not watching that unless you got a girlfriend. [00:35:28] Speaker B: If I got a girl, yeah, we can sit here and watch. Badges, baby. Let me rub on that, Bunky, you know what I'm saying? A lot of y' all got a hard ass, too. That big old hard ass, that be that turn the off, too when it get to you. [00:35:40] Speaker A: No, y' all be loving who got bbls. No, like, they don't even be knowing half the time who got a bbl. [00:35:47] Speaker B: I ain't gonna lie. If it's a good looking bbl, and that thing now, it look good. [00:35:52] Speaker A: That's different. If it's soft, I seen something that just look. You can tell like they went, got that done. [00:35:59] Speaker B: Okay, but that's cool. But then be the kind that we. I don't know. [00:36:02] Speaker A: You know, it's some niggas. [00:36:04] Speaker B: Y' all got to understand, like, it's some. I mean, but it ain't about her body. It might just be about how she act. Cause a lot of times that hole in your face will turn the off. Real talk, just how you talk. [00:36:14] Speaker A: I agree. [00:36:16] Speaker B: Just like how you respond to shit. [00:36:17] Speaker A: It's the same for a man, so I definitely agree. [00:36:19] Speaker B: Right. You know what I'm saying? But, like, I don't. I don't really be, bro. I'm cool with, like, With. With leaving the or, like, being by myself, bro. Like, I don't really be like, how be like, oh, you got to do this, or you got to do this. So you ain't a real man. This. I just ain't a real man to you, and that's cool. You know what I'm saying? Like, you just ain't for me. I ain't for you? [00:36:38] Speaker A: Yeah. You ain't gonna be everything. [00:36:39] Speaker B: Like, I ain't got to experience everything and everybody. [00:36:42] Speaker A: I want to say, just because they a good person don't mean they the person for you. Right. You get what I'm saying? People could be a good person. And just because y' all don't work don't mean somebody got to be the villain. It don't always mean somebody done did some. You know, people be good, but they just may not be good for you. And that's okay. You move on and find who's for you. [00:37:00] Speaker B: Right, man? [00:37:01] Speaker C: Majority of people that I think that you meet early as you go through your process or whatever ain't for you. [00:37:06] Speaker B: Yeah. Because that. [00:37:06] Speaker A: I just feel like after a certain age. Don't you just want to stop hoeing? Like, do you just want to keep. [00:37:12] Speaker B: Having cash limit, though? I think it's just, like, a mindset, right? That's where I'm at right now, bro. Like, I really don't be like, like, boy, they having a hundred women. [00:37:24] Speaker A: Shit, yeah. [00:37:25] Speaker B: No, but I can't even deal with one, bro. So it be like, damn, I am interested in you, and I am interested in you, and I am interested in you. But, like, I can't text all y'. All. I can't fucking take all y'. [00:37:37] Speaker A: All. [00:37:37] Speaker B: I can. Let me stop. [00:37:39] Speaker A: You can think about. [00:37:40] Speaker B: I can do a different day. We know what you're saying. You eat steak every day over here, Bookie, if you with me, you know what I'm saying? Whatever you want. You want crab leg boil every. We do that. You know what I'm saying? [00:37:50] Speaker A: But anyway, trying to reel y' all in with that. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. [00:37:55] Speaker B: Cuz everybody can't be reeled in, cuz. [00:37:57] Speaker A: It'S gonna be some who like crab boils. And you a good steak every day. [00:38:07] Speaker B: You got less than two kids, you know what I'm saying? [00:38:11] Speaker A: Oh, my God. [00:38:12] Speaker B: Oh, my mama. Fuck. What y' all talking about? Yeah, that's me. I stand on that. Two kids, max. I'm only coming in this situation with one. I'm 32 years old, about to be 33. [00:38:20] Speaker A: Yes. Don't be strict over here. Just warning y', all, it's very strict. [00:38:23] Speaker B: We can have some fun, but just know, strict fun. [00:38:28] Speaker A: It's gonna be. Strict fun. Yes. [00:38:30] Speaker B: What kind of fun y' all be wanting to have? Cause y' all be having some fun. [00:38:33] Speaker A: Where we can turn the air on 70 instead of 68. [00:38:36] Speaker B: Cause y' all be having fun now. And them niggas drive y' all off the deep end. Your mind ain't straight no more. After you dealt with that fun ass nigga, you want to come over here, where my piece at? And I'm just supposed to compare to this fun ass nigga that took you through hell and back? [00:38:50] Speaker A: Go back to the mindset thing. Because sometimes in the mind, all you want is fun with these niggas. You get what I'm saying? Like, you know this nigga right here. Especially when you know what kind of nigga he is. It's like, you know what? He's gonna be a fun time. [00:39:01] Speaker B: But look, I don't even deal with women who want to have fun. [00:39:04] Speaker C: Jay, let's go on. Somebody posted. Let's go on a date to tattoos and booze. I'll pay for your food. [00:39:11] Speaker A: That's what I'm saying. [00:39:11] Speaker C: Whatever you want. On me. [00:39:14] Speaker A: On her. [00:39:14] Speaker B: Who said that on her? [00:39:16] Speaker A: You see that last name Hudson up there? Let me go. Let me go real quick. Cause she would have said that out of this live. [00:39:29] Speaker C: Hey, Ms. Hudson, if you real, inbox him. [00:39:32] Speaker A: Inbox him. [00:39:32] Speaker B: Inbox him. If you serious. She real. [00:39:35] Speaker A: Let me see. Pass it over then. [00:39:37] Speaker B: I might not even let you pay. For real. [00:39:39] Speaker A: Oh, I know that fucking right. That's what I'm saying. [00:39:44] Speaker B: Bro. I don't be wanting nobody to come outside and pay like shit if it my birthday. Father's Day. [00:39:48] Speaker A: Cool. [00:39:49] Speaker B: You paying for C, you know what I'm saying? But like, oh, no, don't. [00:39:52] Speaker A: Don't want you to, like, stream today. She cute. [00:39:57] Speaker B: Oh, we could do that. [00:39:58] Speaker C: Stream today. [00:39:58] Speaker B: We could do that for sure. Y' all can't see everything, though. You know what I'm saying? [00:40:02] Speaker A: Why we can't see everything? He done told me we need to tell more of our business. So why we can't see everything? [00:40:08] Speaker B: Girl, you don't tell none of your goddamn business up here what you do up to. [00:40:13] Speaker A: Do that stream the day. Stream the day. Let us see it. For real. I just want to show. No, for real. I want to see how you and her, like, are you really a gentleman or you really Just be popping while you up here by the girl to deal with J. [00:40:29] Speaker B: Am I really a gentleman? Are you. [00:40:30] Speaker A: Are you really a gentleman popping up here? [00:40:33] Speaker B: I ain't the who get up here and like, try to, like. Try to, like, tell you all the. I do so you can like, like. [00:40:40] Speaker A: Like with you or something, right? [00:40:41] Speaker B: Cause that's what do. Just like how some girls just show ass all day just to get you. Get your attention to how do too. That's clickbait, you know what I'm saying? Ain't never took a flight with me and paid for or a. Ain't never went on a date with me and paid for a. Ain't never been at my sleep and popping up at my. But listen. But hey, listen. You're riding in V8s over here. This ain't no Honda. And I hit the gas the coochie pur 2. You understand what I'm saying? Like, we. We do a lot. This dark tent over here, baby, you could do whatever you want to do all behind this tent. This ain't one of them little. You know what I'm saying? Like, and we go to my. [00:41:21] Speaker A: You got your own. He got his own. Inbox him right now. [00:41:26] Speaker B: No, no, no, no, no, no. Don't inbox me. [00:41:29] Speaker A: I thought y' all supposed to be going on a date. [00:41:30] Speaker B: Oh, I mean, yeah, her. [00:41:32] Speaker A: Yeah, you inboxing the one with the date. Yeah, the one with the date. Ms. Hudson. Yes. Yes. [00:41:38] Speaker C: I don't want to fuck up her name. No, that's two eyes. [00:41:44] Speaker A: Is that. That's an I and a L, right? Alisa. [00:41:46] Speaker C: Alisa Hudson. I guess that's what it is. [00:41:48] Speaker A: Ms. Hudson. That's her name. To Jay. And his soon to be date shouts. [00:41:53] Speaker C: Out to Ms. Hudson. [00:41:53] Speaker A: He gonna stream it. [00:41:54] Speaker B: Hey, man. Hey. I'm on tour, man. So, you know. You wanna take me on the date so I can get to know me without your pan, you know what I'm saying? [00:42:02] Speaker A: Okay, Jay, what's your top three qualities in a girl? What's the must have. If they don't have It's a no. [00:42:06] Speaker B: Go Car, car house in the job. [00:42:10] Speaker A: That's very important. Yeah, them three. Them top three. [00:42:13] Speaker B: Everything else we can work on, baby. [00:42:15] Speaker A: Okay. [00:42:15] Speaker B: Good credit, too. I like. I like that. Good credit. Okay, cool. [00:42:18] Speaker C: We're gonna do that inbox. [00:42:21] Speaker B: Inbox me your number, like right now. Yo. Hey, listen, I'm saying I don't give a fuck. We outside. You feel me? We wanna go tattoos and booze, get drunk, have a vibe. Let's go vibe Bookies, tooth and booze, man. [00:42:33] Speaker A: You been there before. [00:42:34] Speaker B: I ain't never been there. [00:42:35] Speaker A: I ain't been there before. I went there one time, and it was too packed, and I just. I just left. I mean, it's a vibe, but is it. [00:42:40] Speaker C: How was the food? [00:42:41] Speaker A: The food, I mean, was good, but you could get your food, and your friend will be waiting, like, 40 minutes before they even get their food. I'm not even gonna lie to you. Oh, yeah. I'm not doing it. It'd be like that. Like, I've been twice, and it was like. But it's a vibe. I ain't gonna like. People be up dancing, you know, you see the ass shaking, you know, like that. Yeah. [00:42:58] Speaker B: What question? What question? Say equation. [00:43:01] Speaker A: What qu. Just say. [00:43:02] Speaker B: Got everybody replying. Man, you got to watch Quasion. [00:43:05] Speaker A: Quasion be talking. [00:43:06] Speaker C: So she. If she has all three and good credit. [00:43:09] Speaker A: She that. Yeah, she really. That's. [00:43:11] Speaker B: That's the one right there. [00:43:12] Speaker A: She that. [00:43:13] Speaker B: That's the one. I'm taking you real serious. You ain't got to worry about it. If you ain't dealing with nobody. I ain't deal. [00:43:17] Speaker A: A lot of people saying the food. 10 out of 10. The food is definitely good. 10 out of 10. [00:43:23] Speaker C: But you said it take too long to get the food. [00:43:25] Speaker A: It could between the two people, and it could take. You can get your plate. I don't even want no ass. I just want to see you smile, period. She talking to you. Cause you know, if I'm taking you out. Oh, you. Yeah. [00:43:40] Speaker B: No, no, no. We ain't doing that. [00:43:41] Speaker A: How do y' all feel about it? [00:43:42] Speaker B: I'm gonna drive you crazy. [00:43:43] Speaker A: No. If a man take y' all out, do y' all feel like y' all should give him some at the end of the night? [00:43:46] Speaker B: No, it depends. No, it depends. We grown, though. So, like, if I feel like. Like I don't want you to. Like. I don't want you to feel like. [00:43:55] Speaker A: Like, you have to pressure, right? [00:43:58] Speaker B: But I don't want you to feel like if you give me some, I' ma look at you different, right? And be like, what you think I'm gonna do? Go tell everybody, Oh, I hit this bitch. She a hoe. Y' all go hit. [00:44:07] Speaker A: Stop. [00:44:10] Speaker B: This my freak bitch. This my whole. I ain't sharing this with nobody. [00:44:15] Speaker C: Exactly. [00:44:15] Speaker B: If you do that with that nigga and he did it on his time, that's. That's between y'. [00:44:19] Speaker A: All. [00:44:19] Speaker B: Okay, but me, personally, you freaked me down. First night. [00:44:23] Speaker A: You ain't going to no group Chat. What if you talk about her and five other niggas say, oh, yeah, I hear her on the first night, too. [00:44:28] Speaker B: Yeah, but he was five. Listen, what other five other niggas am I around? [00:44:34] Speaker A: It's your girl. What other fame. [00:44:35] Speaker B: Other niggas am I around? [00:44:37] Speaker A: For one, it's your girl. Y' all locking in. I wanna tell my homeboy about, you know, this is my little bitch I'm fucking with real quick. [00:44:41] Speaker B: Okay. That's cool, right? [00:44:42] Speaker A: No, that's cool. [00:44:43] Speaker B: That's co. Now, listen, you might do throw a little. You know what I'm saying? All right, bro. You know her cool. All right, cool. Especially. [00:44:54] Speaker A: Bring her up in some type of way. [00:44:55] Speaker B: But listen, we grown, boy. I know I didn't hit some of your. But you know what I'm saying? Like, I see. [00:45:00] Speaker C: Here's my thing on that. I think hate some. Some even hate, whether they abroad or. [00:45:07] Speaker B: Not, if you see me out with anybody or, you know, I'm talking to anybody. For one. For one. Just because we talk to the same woman, bro, does not mean we don't like each other. That's. That's one. That's. That's. That's. That's the number one rule. Just because I'm. I'm off on something that you like does not mean that we don't like each other. For two. For two. Both these women gonna do what the. They want to do. [00:45:31] Speaker A: Definitely hate. [00:45:32] Speaker B: You know what I'm saying? Like, she ain't lying like that. Well, like. And listen, man, I ain't. Come on, man. [00:45:43] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah. [00:45:44] Speaker A: They hate so hard. [00:45:45] Speaker C: I got. I got a text. An anonymous person requested that you show off your outfit. [00:45:53] Speaker A: Y. [00:45:54] Speaker B: Man, y' all going have to start paying me for this. Y' all got to start paying me cash at me. Cash at me. $50. I'll make her stand up. [00:46:14] Speaker C: He ain't been on in a podcast. Streets now. [00:46:18] Speaker B: Yeah, man. What's up, man? What qu. What Quasi talking about crazy ass OG Bobby? [00:46:23] Speaker C: Hell, no. [00:46:25] Speaker A: Not the first time. [00:46:26] Speaker B: And listen, though, that what I'm saying. Like, bro, if. You know, if you see me out with a girl, bro, I'm 30 plus. Bro, I'm 32. I'll be 33. September. Well, don't you come at me as no man, boy. Talking about, oh, bro, I just had her. Or, bro, I just got down. She. I was just freaking on that. But I don't give a. [00:46:41] Speaker A: You don't want that. You don't want to know. Like the. The. The. [00:46:49] Speaker B: Nasty ass nigga. [00:46:50] Speaker C: Everybody got a Carfax, Everybody got that shit. [00:46:52] Speaker A: But personally, I don't want to know. You ain't got to tell me who it is. And don't come to me telling me who. No, I don't want to know. I don't want to know. [00:46:59] Speaker B: 1, 1, 1, 1, 2, 2, 2. Ask you who you. You're not going to tell me, huh? [00:47:04] Speaker C: What's the cash? [00:47:05] Speaker A: No, that's not true. That's not true. That's not true. She tell you, but she don't. She not obligated. But me, me, if you ask me something, I'mma just tell you. Like. [00:47:14] Speaker B: Like no one. [00:47:15] Speaker A: Why tell me the car? Because it's certain people. Once I hear your name attached to certain people, I don't want to with you no more. You was. You was. [00:47:23] Speaker B: But y' all be knowing that too, bro. And until a realize that for yourself or somebody tells that, oh, she was dealing with so and so. But y' all be knowing y' all been dealing with that nasty ass or whoever the it is just cause he popular. And please don't sit here and act like y' all don't deal with the same. Because I don't know, y' all got some kind of pride and too. Cause what. I don't know what it is about who be wanting that somebody already got. Like, you'll be knowing the. With this person, but you got to go with them too. [00:47:50] Speaker A: A lot of people do that. A lot of people do that. Okay, but that's like, they want to laugh. I feel like everybody's mindset is so small. They don't care, though. [00:47:59] Speaker B: And that's why. That's why 75 of these be like your price is too high. Because you be worrying about the wrong. You ain't worrying about getting no money or you ain't worrying about. You know what I'm saying? Only thing you worry about is talking about people all day. You didn't talk about all day. And they went on indeed one time. You know what I'm saying? Like, real talk, bro. Like, bro, this. I don't. I don't. I don't give a. Like, bro, you can't. I wish A would come at me. [00:48:25] Speaker A: And be like, bro, what's y' all females price range? If y' all take a. I really like a. It don't matter. Like, we can go wherever you want to go. I'm saying, where you want to go? [00:48:32] Speaker B: That girl gonna take you out to eat. [00:48:34] Speaker A: No, if you want to have a full day of fun, like, I'm into that. [00:48:37] Speaker B: I'm I'm took a on the full day to fund though. [00:48:41] Speaker A: Hell yeah. What are you talking about? You talking to entrepreneurs. Big father said, what are you talking about? [00:48:46] Speaker B: Don't. [00:48:47] Speaker A: I think I'm gonna pull his money out. Oh, no. I got it it. That's me. She will do that. Come on. If a ain't taking me out and doing for me, then no, I'm not gonna do it. But if I like you and I know you done did it for me before, I don't have no problem vacations too. I will pay for vacation. Vacation. I do not care. What are you talking about? Like, yes. [00:49:19] Speaker B: Well, where y' all be finding these. [00:49:20] Speaker A: Women. [00:49:25] Speaker B: Pay for a vacation for me. [00:49:27] Speaker A: You ain't never been on the flight. [00:49:31] Speaker B: You ain't never been licked. Like how I'mma lick you, baby. Hey, hey. Let me know that I'm appreciated and. [00:49:40] Speaker A: You gonna do something for me. [00:49:41] Speaker B: You ain't going nowhere like you though. [00:49:44] Speaker A: I don't like you. I gotta like you if you do not doing that or like some Wendy's. [00:49:51] Speaker B: Or something but ass tell me baby, I didn't pay for this, this, this. [00:49:55] Speaker A: And we're gonna get the get the free days. That's it. [00:49:57] Speaker B: I'm in that mouth watering already. [00:50:00] Speaker A: I don't pay for plane tickets before, okay, like you know what I'm saying? Like let's go already. [00:50:06] Speaker B: I just be like, when we gonna do. [00:50:08] Speaker A: Yeah, they want you to pay for everything. [00:50:12] Speaker B: Lying. I know they lying. [00:50:14] Speaker A: I wish I could call A. I. [00:50:28] Speaker B: Pop a lot of right? I pop a lot of. But I be trying to speak for the who like who who like you know, just regular. You know what I'm saying? Like, like we this. [00:50:37] Speaker A: I don't. [00:50:38] Speaker B: I ain't never really been around nobody seen nobody get no money or know like this is the type of money that I can run into for real. So I don't know. But me personally, we have fun over here. You know what I'm saying? [00:50:48] Speaker A: They talking about, man, come see. [00:50:51] Speaker C: Yeah, call them. [00:50:52] Speaker A: I gotta call nobody. Come see about it. [00:50:55] Speaker C: Come see about it. [00:50:58] Speaker A: I like you Hudson. I like you Ms. Hudson. [00:51:00] Speaker B: I like them type of games where. Hey, listen, what we going give for guilt, okay? And you're going to love on me for real. [00:51:11] Speaker A: And a like me. I cook. I cook. Come on now. I cook very well. But we gonna eat, okay? Yeah, you ain't gonna cook, but we gonna eat. You don't cook? [00:51:19] Speaker B: No. [00:51:19] Speaker A: She. You ain't going 50 50. No, but we gonna eat. But they gonna eat. [00:51:25] Speaker B: What the We Gonna eat. [00:51:26] Speaker A: She gonna. We gonna eat. We gonna eat real quick. We gonna eat real quick. [00:51:31] Speaker B: Tripping like a motherfucker. We going 50, 50 till your ass know how to cook. Fuck, you gonna YouTube motherfucker, every day, man. [00:51:38] Speaker A: Okay, I'll teach you. I don't know if you got you, bruh. I had you YouTube something one time. Some Parmesan chicken, y'. All. I had YouTube that. And I had bacon, yo, that was so nasty, girl. Horrible. That was nasty as. [00:51:53] Speaker B: Five minutes, bro. [00:51:53] Speaker C: Hang on for five minutes. [00:51:55] Speaker A: Oh, you are. You keep taking them shots back to bed. Julio F. And that cut, that cut, that cut, that cut what ain't no joke. [00:52:03] Speaker B: Oh, my God. [00:52:04] Speaker A: That cut what ain't no joke. [00:52:05] Speaker C: Hey, they ain't paid. They ain't paid. [00:52:09] Speaker B: I'm just advertising for my niggas, cuz. They say cut, order, make them girls, you know, go. Go back to back. [00:52:13] Speaker C: Oh, so you know the people for that. [00:52:15] Speaker A: You bought that? Yeah, I see him share that earlier. He told me he was gonna go buy some, y'. All. He got some more. Oh, he got one left. One lucky tonight. [00:52:28] Speaker B: No lemon on this. [00:52:31] Speaker A: Okay, he got one left, but he can go buy some more. [00:52:35] Speaker B: What did she say? [00:52:37] Speaker A: Okay, he ain't like that. He said, my grandma come to my house on Sundays. This who what to show you how to cook. That's what they should probably to cook at her house ain't as active, but that's what they should do. [00:52:47] Speaker B: And listen, man, I ain't going to lie, bro. [00:52:56] Speaker A: She just said, only thing can get from her is a cold baloney. [00:52:59] Speaker B: Listen, boy, listen. It hard being a here boy. You got to go 8 to 20 on bills. [00:53:03] Speaker A: It's really hard. [00:53:06] Speaker B: Listen motherfucker tell you that. That ain't gonna tell you her coochie be. So you got to find a way to feel. A coochie this big. You got to pay all the bills, bro. You know, it's just like a lot of going on, I think. [00:53:18] Speaker A: I hope I said your name right. Please come show my boy different. Show him a different. Please. She said she never played in the kitchen. He gonna come back here talking different. [00:53:27] Speaker B: He gonna come. [00:53:29] Speaker A: Don't let that deter you. She said she never played in the kitchen, but don't let that bother you. What you want your first meal to be, J? [00:53:33] Speaker B: What you mean? You. [00:53:35] Speaker A: You don't know how to cook? What you like? You like turkey necks? You like neck bone? Like what you cheat. She said cooking is her love language. So she not a cook. [00:53:41] Speaker C: She said, well, one of them Ooh. [00:53:43] Speaker A: She said that's something. Cooking something, too. You like yams, J? [00:53:48] Speaker B: Do I look like I not like yams? [00:53:49] Speaker A: Okay, give us some yams, girl. Mac cheese. Some Mac and cheese. Yeah, give some Mac and cheese. Do I look like I don't yam? Give me something. [00:53:59] Speaker B: Do I look malnourished to you? [00:54:01] Speaker A: I don't miss no calories over here. Him some laugh, girl. Go. I'm telling you. Go. Go ahead and whip that up for him. Make sure you got a little au sauce on the side. Whatever that is they be having with it. [00:54:10] Speaker B: You got me. After that, y' all can start inboxing me, telling me to, like, put. Put me on your podcast. Why? [00:54:18] Speaker A: They want to be something to say. They ain't that before. [00:54:21] Speaker B: Just come join the live. You know what I'm saying? What I'm saying, no disrespect, but, bro, this ain't. I, I. This. This ain't free for me, so I don't know why y' all be feeling like a just then it be people I don't talk to or never talk to. Like, why you think I'm gonna just bring you on my. Because you want to talk. You understand what I'm saying? Just come enjoy the. Enjoy. Enjoy the show. Let's vibe about, man. Let's have fun. But, boy, you ain't bigger than this program over here, man. Y', all, we want to be on this and got 10 followers. Ain't nobody coming to talk to you. [00:54:52] Speaker A: They putting emojis with it. Like. Or the question mark. Like, when they say, let me join a podcast, bro. [00:54:55] Speaker B: Like, man, it be like, bro, I need to be on your podcast. Why? How do you even come to that conclusion? [00:55:01] Speaker A: I'm gonn. [00:55:02] Speaker B: You be on Facebook talking to yourself. You got 10 likes this week, and you think you just gonna come on my shit? [00:55:09] Speaker C: Damn. Lolo talking about she cooks, cooks. [00:55:11] Speaker B: Lolo Dono don't do no cooking. [00:55:13] Speaker A: Lolo cook. Lolo cook. She don't ten year. Yeah. [00:55:18] Speaker B: Hey, listen, before we go, though. [00:55:22] Speaker A: Boy. What Y' all. Don't tap her again. Tap her again. Nigga, don't keep tapping me. Don't tap me no more, y'. All. I'm not. I'm listening. I don't got time for shenanigans. Come on. What you mean? [00:55:39] Speaker B: 3 6? Can I get a little 36 for the camera? [00:55:41] Speaker A: Oh, my God. [00:55:42] Speaker B: Y' all just put the part, bro, I'm bringing y' all back. Last week, she said she can't come back no more. This her last week. [00:55:47] Speaker A: Why she can't thank you, y'. All. We stay right here. [00:55:50] Speaker B: Stay right here. [00:55:50] Speaker A: Turn around. Move it a little bit. [00:55:55] Speaker B: Moving from side to side. [00:55:58] Speaker A: I'm not a dancer. That y'. All. [00:56:02] Speaker B: Y'. [00:56:02] Speaker A: All. [00:56:02] Speaker B: I appreciate it, man. You been tuned into another episode of Peas, the podcast with the free lamb chop store. [00:56:09] Speaker A: 360 what? Damn. Yaya. 360 that. [00:56:19] Speaker B: Her name is Yaya. Y' all black. Don't even be asking me who the that is. [00:56:24] Speaker A: And her blue velvet brown is good as I be with them hands. [00:56:27] Speaker B: Raz can't stand up. [00:56:30] Speaker A: Stand up. But she got ass on her too. Y'. All. [00:56:31] Speaker B: You know, it's. It's some ass in the room. You see how I could be around ass and not wanna. You know, y' all freaky ass be like, can I. Can I smell? [00:56:39] Speaker A: And I with that. Jay has not tried me. Not once. You know what I'm saying? I with that. [00:56:45] Speaker B: Listen. I'll tell you. I ain't doing all up. At least motherfucker come get tattoos from me. Butt ass naked. [00:56:51] Speaker A: Jerry, shut the hell up. I just know she smell good and. [00:56:55] Speaker B: Do and this man been another episode. We'll catch all again next week, man. Peace.