Can’t Trust 'Em If They Ain’t Posting You

[00:00:09] Speaker A: Yo, yo, yo, yo, yo. Good afternoon or good evening. Your boy Jay with Inc. Back to you live with another episode of Peas in the Pie. Got my co host back finally, y'all. You know, it's been a while since y'all heard Ms. Shay. Janae, hi. [00:00:31] Speaker B: I miss it here. I ain't gonna lie. I've been missing y'all. [00:00:34] Speaker A: It's been a long time, man. Y'all got to stop bouncing. I'll be having to bounce around, you know what I'm saying? Like, I don't like doing that. Got my boy Yoshi in the back, man. Yoshi gonna be helping us out today. You feel me? Feel me? Yo, she got start putting some. Some camera on this thing, man. [00:00:56] Speaker C: That changes the cost. [00:00:58] Speaker A: This. I don't give a. Like you talking to a. With no money or something. We can work. [00:01:06] Speaker C: We can work. We could do that. [00:01:07] Speaker A: Put the visuals out like they need to see my face. [00:01:10] Speaker C: Let me know when you ready to move it forward. [00:01:12] Speaker A: I've been on that live. Looking good. Very demure right now. You know what I'm saying? Clean, cut this in your mama picture, this favorite right here. [00:01:21] Speaker C: And just let us know when you're ready to move that thing forward. Move that train forward today. Today. We can do it on the next episode. [00:01:28] Speaker A: Okay. I feel like you trying my pockets or something, partner. [00:01:31] Speaker C: I've never tried your pocket. I respect you. I respect you. [00:01:34] Speaker A: No, I don't respect it. What's happening, man? How Everybody doing, man? Ms. Shay ain't been here in. [00:01:45] Speaker B: A couple weeks. [00:01:46] Speaker A: Five weeks, bro. [00:01:47] Speaker B: A couple weeks. It been a minute. It been a minute this tax season. Oh, God. [00:01:53] Speaker A: Oh, yeah, Y'all got. Listen, y'all got blitz. Cause I got blitz as soon. As soon as they say the first round of checks is gonna hit. [00:01:59] Speaker C: Oh, we. [00:02:00] Speaker A: I made like. I ain't gonna say that, but in deposit money alone, that was smacking, boy. Real talk. [00:02:09] Speaker B: Oh, it been a little. It been a little busy, but, you know, I'm getting to a point now where I can kind of like, you know, get back to. To, you know, the. That I like to do. You know, just being in that mo, like, brand new whip. [00:02:23] Speaker A: Got no cute. [00:02:24] Speaker B: You know, somebody clap. [00:02:25] Speaker A: Clapping up from a dog. No dog they got there, you know what I'm saying? Yo, she supposed to have that on stand. Let me get that. Can I get that? Just let me control, like, signs and. Well, y'all gonna get tired of me, boy. [00:02:38] Speaker C: Exactly. [00:02:39] Speaker A: I'mma hit that. [00:02:40] Speaker C: That's exactly why. [00:02:41] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? What's happening. What's happening, man? How y'all doing today? Y'all all right? I'm live on Facebook, by the way. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, you know, just letting y'all know. [00:02:55] Speaker C: Go ahead, throw up this. First question. Okay, first question is, how do. How does someone deal with. How do someone deal with bitter baby mamas who use their child as a pawn in the situation? [00:03:12] Speaker A: You want me to go or you. I mean, I feel like, bro. [00:03:21] Speaker C: A. [00:03:21] Speaker A: Lot of times, though, what will really make a nigga, like, click, though, you know what I'm saying? Like, what set the nigga off? That respect thing. You know what I'm saying? Cause that's all niggas ask for sometimes. So once they throw that respect out the door, it kind of. You know what I'm saying? But, I mean, only way I know to deal with that, bro. Just let them have it just simple as that, bro. You gonna disturb your own piece trying to get your point across to certain people, bro. So it'd just be like, that don't even be worth it. [00:03:53] Speaker B: Okay, that's kind of where I was headed with my response. Like, in my opinion, like, you don't have to deal with anything that you don't want to deal with, and it's literally just that simple. It do require a little bit of effort, you know what I'm saying? [00:04:10] Speaker A: You. [00:04:11] Speaker B: Sometimes you might have to go out your way to avoid certain. But, you know, sometimes it do require that. [00:04:18] Speaker A: And, you know, that should just be weird, though, man. Cause, like, I don't feel like. Like, y'all should be making, like, situations harder than what it is not saying, everybody got the best baby daddy. I say everybody got the best baby mama. But y'all do need to come to, like, you feel me? [00:04:36] Speaker C: Like, I think that's just difficult when you're talking about people who got feelings involved. Cause sometimes it's usually one. Like, the split, to some degree, might not even be amicable, right? So there's always a bitter. There's always bitter feelings left over from, like, residual feelings from the relationship. And so you end up with a bunch of people. You end up with a person who's over it, but then you end up with somebody who is. And I think to say bitter baby mama in a certain aspect sometimes, I think sometimes the bitterness is held with the fact that they're left with not only, you know, they. They're. They're not only not long, no longer with you, but they have a constant. They have to look at a constant reminder of you. Every first question, there's a, there's a. You said, oh, you pinned it. [00:05:23] Speaker A: No, I'm saying I was telling them. [00:05:25] Speaker C: Okay, yeah, that's the first question. Like the, the reality situation is they have to look at this child who is a representation of you, a constant daily reminder of you. So if they still in their feelings and they still feel away, then they wake up every morning and it's mama, mama, mama. And it's just. And nine times out of ten, if you dislike the daddy, that baby look just like the daddy, you know what I'm saying? [00:05:46] Speaker A: Just like me, boy. [00:05:47] Speaker C: So, I mean, you end up with that and you add that on top of feelings that ain't been dealt with, the lack of mourning the relationship, and you got all of that stuff going. That's a recipe for disaster for most people. And that's why some people can't co parent. [00:05:59] Speaker B: The best thing each party can do is to let that hurt go and stop fucking like you're affecting your children. Like because you harboring feelings about certain situations, you affect your kids. You think they don't see it, but pay attention to your kids. They'll show you your behaviors. I swear to God, they'll show you that shit. They'll put that shit in your face. Pay attention to your kids. And that right there should help you, you know, just make better decisions when it comes to dealing with other people, regardless of the relationship. Make better decisions. It really just that simple as at this big grown age. It's really just that. [00:06:43] Speaker A: Just watch. Who used to give dick in, man? [00:06:45] Speaker B: That too. It starts there, swear to God, boy. [00:06:48] Speaker A: Cause not saying every. You could tell, you know? Cause people change, you know what I'm saying? Feelings change, people change. But. [00:06:56] Speaker C: And I'm gonna say something super controversial. You knew he didn't want that baby when you became pregnant. [00:07:03] Speaker A: Ooh. They don't want to talk about that, bro. [00:07:05] Speaker C: You knew that, man. Told you I don't want this child. [00:07:08] Speaker A: They don't want to talk about that, bro. [00:07:10] Speaker C: Can you please get on now? It's against your belief to do so. [00:07:12] Speaker A: That's a double ass sword, bro. Cause it like then, then be there sitting there and hit you with, oh, well, you, you knew what it took. [00:07:21] Speaker B: To make a baby. [00:07:23] Speaker A: You did too. Both of us did. When we laid down the other night. Ain't neither one of us thought about that baby. [00:07:31] Speaker B: Okay, so why when we get up, why now? It's the issue. Like. [00:07:35] Speaker C: No, because, because for one, for one, a like me, I'm talking about, I'm not talking about the making of the baby. I'm talking about the. We hear you told him you and so he told you how he felt about it. Right. You decided upon yourself because he told you how he felt about it. And if we're supposed to be the parents, we should discuss what we think is best. Correct? [00:07:58] Speaker B: Right. [00:07:58] Speaker C: What we think is the right course of action. Right? [00:08:00] Speaker B: Right. [00:08:01] Speaker C: But that's not right because in every situation I've been in, my question is what do you want to do? Because the end of the day it's your body, it's your decision. [00:08:09] Speaker A: That should be some. [00:08:11] Speaker C: Because at the end of the day, no matter what I say, it's is still your decision. [00:08:15] Speaker A: Real talk. Cause the still your decision. [00:08:18] Speaker C: What, what's, what's my man in the NBA? [00:08:19] Speaker B: I don't know. To me that sound like a trauma response. [00:08:22] Speaker C: It went off for 45 last night. Anthony Edwards told that girl and paid her the money. There's 200 grand. Go ahead. I don't want to go ahead, get rid of the baby. I don't want nothing to do with you. I don't want nothing to do with the child. She went ahead, had the baby anyway after she gave it 200 grand, then. [00:08:38] Speaker A: She did slick shit like had the baby in California. Like that's the highest pace. I kind of. You know what I'm saying? [00:08:45] Speaker C: So then guess what, guess we then what he did. [00:08:48] Speaker A: I'm just paying this off. [00:08:49] Speaker C: I'm gonna pay you off the 18 years worth of child support right now. [00:08:53] Speaker A: Because that baby wasn't made out of love though, you know what I'm saying? [00:08:55] Speaker C: No, it wasn't. [00:08:56] Speaker A: So since it's financial gain in it, you keep it in here. [00:09:00] Speaker C: Here you go. [00:09:01] Speaker A: Not saying everybody like not saying he wrong. [00:09:04] Speaker C: Not saying he right. [00:09:05] Speaker A: Right. [00:09:06] Speaker C: I say he wrong or right. [00:09:07] Speaker A: But at the same time like niggas don't never know what they'll do in them shoes. Cause bro being for real, a nigga could tell you he want the baby and you could be like, you know he ain't going to be no good baby daddy or whatever the case may be. And you get rid of that baby on yourself. And that want that baby bro still a double edged sword, you know what I'm saying? Like cuz it it plenty of situations like that too. Think about hot girl summers, this, that the third, you know what I'm saying? They a want to sit on. But especially right now, you going to pay that. [00:09:35] Speaker C: Hey everybody can't wait for sundress season. And then it hit. Now the next thing you know, sundress. [00:09:41] Speaker A: Season get you what? Sundress season get you up. Wow. Jesus Christ. Next thing you know what it is about that material they put in that one book. Oh, the woman. That polyester. That polyester. Do something, boy. Jesus. Well, I can't take it. [00:09:59] Speaker C: That thing be flapping and swaying. [00:10:01] Speaker A: Gee, what's up? [00:10:03] Speaker C: Jiggling the wig. [00:10:08] Speaker A: Watering in that. Oh, my God. Y like, Jesus, girl, you goddamn swinging. That ain't you. [00:10:20] Speaker C: Hey, it's undress season, boy. It's my favorite time of year. It's my favorite time of year. No, I'm sorry. [00:10:28] Speaker B: That's crazy. [00:10:29] Speaker C: Had to bring that up. [00:10:30] Speaker A: Hey, man, as a man, you know, and see, I'm the type of bro I could just appreciate. I ain't got to touch you. [00:10:36] Speaker C: Yep. [00:10:38] Speaker A: Like, oh, you look nice. You look very nice. Just keep that cute, though. You know what I'm saying? But what the next question was posting it now. Oh, yo, should be on it, man. [00:10:51] Speaker C: Next question. How do you protect your peace while dating or being in a relationship? [00:10:58] Speaker A: Rule number one, don't go through that phone. That. That's just rule number one. [00:11:03] Speaker C: I just think if you have the urge. If you have the urge to go through somebody's phone, you already know what you about to find. [00:11:09] Speaker A: But see, listen, people be. People be on some shit like it too good to be true. Something got to be going on. I got to see. [00:11:19] Speaker C: But no, a woman. A woman tell you my womenly intuition. [00:11:23] Speaker A: The women, cuz women gonna do what they do regardless, y'all. Y'all better stab that girl phone. [00:11:29] Speaker C: Dudes be going through people phone. [00:11:31] Speaker A: What? Why the hell text me? I know it ain't this girl texting me. Well, just. I just text back. Just stay out her phone, bro. [00:11:37] Speaker C: Yo, I had a homeboy, his a girl text him out the blue. He didn't respond. No nothing. He didn't respond. Like, the next day, a girl that the her boyfriend or her husband called him. He's like, hey, man. He's like, yeah, I see. You didn't respond. He's like, yeah, I know. So why you calling me? I didn't respond. You see, I ain't texting ever. So why you even calling me? Well, I seen it in her phone. Why? What who's going through? [00:12:11] Speaker A: People be insecure. I'm gonna tell y'all doggy ass something right now, but don't be texting me about no girl. I just want her to get a tattoo, bro. That's all I want. All this. All this extra about Women. This, this, that, and the third. What? You'll go out. Boy, that put. I promise you. I ain't seen a woman yet. I had a piece of ass yet that make me want to hurt her for talking to another one. You can't stop her from doing what she want to do. Regardless. I don't care how gangster you get. I don't care how much you feel like you the roughest, toughest, quickest drawing gun in the South. Whatever your case may be, nigga, it ain't that serious. [00:12:46] Speaker C: But I'mma tell you what it is. Like you said last week, so many niggas just started getting it, bro, but. [00:12:55] Speaker A: And then at the same time, they. [00:12:57] Speaker C: Just started, they just, they just started getting. [00:12:59] Speaker A: Girl, you got a bad. You got a fine ass woman, nigga. She gonna attract eyes. Just live right? [00:13:07] Speaker C: Just live. [00:13:07] Speaker A: What you gonna do? You gonna beat up every nigga that look at your. [00:13:10] Speaker C: You gonna be dumb as all day, every day, and she gonna leave you. [00:13:14] Speaker A: And what about the. She not telling you about dumb ass, you know what I'm saying? [00:13:17] Speaker C: Like, because if you insecure like that, I can promise you that somebody giving us security that you're not. [00:13:22] Speaker A: I'm telling you, bro, like, I, I, I, me personally, I just can't do it, bro. I just, I just, I just let a woman do what she want to do. You know what I'm saying? Like, one thing about a woman, bro, they'll show you whether or not they care about you or not. Because, like, it'd be simple that they do. Rather they'd be cleaning up. I don't give a babe, I come to bring you something to eat. You know what I'm saying? [00:13:42] Speaker C: Whatever the case may be, washing clothes for no reason. [00:13:44] Speaker A: I'm telling you, brother, women show you that they care. You feel me? Like, y'all niggas be out this bitch trying to choke a bitch to care about you, bro, that shit don't be working like that. [00:13:55] Speaker C: That girl, she don't care. [00:13:56] Speaker A: She don't care. Like, all these girls walk around here, bro, you could just go get another one. Yeah, that's so many women on this earth. [00:14:04] Speaker C: Compared to men, women outnumber men. Come on, four to one or something like that is the number. [00:14:08] Speaker A: This my fish, y'all. Ass. What? I don't care about all the fish in the sheep. This is my fish. Oh, ass. You know, Big Stupid, you wouldn't even go this hard about your funky ass mama, you know what I'm saying? Like, but you. Well, listen, hey, listen, if, if, if if you get a bad bitch and she got to stop being a bad bitch when she get with you, you don't deserve a bad bitch, bro. That just. That's simple math. You know what I'm saying? I want you to be looking at my shoulder. God damn, I did good, nigga. Can't tap it, though. [00:14:40] Speaker C: What. How do you feel about that, Shay? Like, if you with a dude who, like, he's, like, overprotective to the sense where it comes off as insecure about you. Because to me, I don't believe in. I'm not a woman. Don't claim to be one. I just date him. But I would believe that you would want a man that's secure in himself, who's happy to see you dressed away, whatever, however you feel comfortable dressing. Hey, y'all looking at her. She mine. I got that. [00:15:09] Speaker B: I'm telling you. [00:15:09] Speaker C: You know, I'm happy. I'm happy. [00:15:12] Speaker B: I couldn't date a person that want me to change. Like, you know how I want. Like, I ain't going. We ain't even gonna start it like that. Cause, you know, I'm my own person. I'm my own mind. When I'm ready to change up something about what I'm doing, I'll do that. And it's like, it got. You know what I'm saying? It's. I don't know. When somebody's trying to, like, tell you how to do you how to. You know what I'm saying? Talking about what you wearing and shit like that. That's. That's a little too much for me in a relationship. I ain't gonna fuck with it. [00:15:43] Speaker A: Y'all be insecure as hell, but I swear to God. Cause, bro, if your girl got a fat ass, you gonna make her way. The way she don't show her fat ass. You know what I'm saying? [00:15:55] Speaker C: Like, hey, Tyler said, why you starting to look lighter than me? You getting facials now? What's the secret? [00:16:02] Speaker A: Shay just said something about, you know what I'm saying. What I'm doing is what the secret is, right? What the secret is, right? I've been drinking water and minding my motherfucking business, you know what I'm saying? Like, I've been drinking water and minding my goddamn business. Whatever ain't concerning with the ink, it ain't concerning me, bro. I'm not stressing that. You know what I'm saying? Like, if I can't control it, I can't control it. You know what I'm saying? Five. Five, A blunt on your ass. Let that rock out, man. Y'all ain't been seeing me on the scenes like how I used to, you know what I'm saying? Like, sometimes you got no one to fall back. Yeah, but that's a fact, though. I'm telling you. Listen, boy, your boys better stop being insecure, cuz. What you realize. What you not realizing what you doing is you pushing your girl away. One point point blank period, bro, you want to keep going through her phone? You want to address every that, like her picture, bro, you going through cash, apps, all this, bro, if it ain't your, it ain't your. You know what I'm saying? If it ain't your it. It don't get much more simpler than that, bro. I don't give a how much you put your hands on that woman. Then guess what? But you could be one of these. Who? Oh, I see. I seen a couple of y'all tender dick ass sharing some like, oh, I'm chick attended. About my. I'm the. That'll kill you. About my. Guess what you gonna do? You go kill that girl by the. [00:17:19] Speaker C: And go to jail. [00:17:20] Speaker A: Go to jail. Drop nut. Drop nut on the flow for the rest of your life. And guess what she gonna be out here doing? Getting power slammed to that bed. But soon as your ass get that filthy, soon as you get that filthy, cuz you ain't want nobody else touching that coochie, gonna be all type of hands on that. You know what I'm saying? Like, bro, you can't control that. But I need to be. I ain't had no piece of yet. [00:17:40] Speaker C: I ain't gonna lie. [00:17:41] Speaker A: The last little crazy situation I got into, we ain't gonna get into it. But I had to tell this shot of the coochie you gave him, you ain't gave me. You know what I'm saying? Like, I want some. Cause why he acting like that? Whoa, whoa, whoa. What that man acting all crazy like that. The way he want to hurt you and me word, bro. Yeah, yeah, that just that real talk. Like, yeah, I'm. I'm. I'm. I'm not. I ain't. I ain't had a piece of yet. Made me want to act like that and promise to God. Because if I find out you talking to another, you just saved me some money. For one. That just me, you know what I'm saying? For one, we just saved some money. For two, if I gave you all I can give you and that ain't enough. Oh, baby, we got a whole Nother. You know what I'm saying? Like, it ain't nothing I could do. [00:18:34] Speaker C: Hey, Mondarius said they be ready to kill about that. That used up, right? Like, God damn, they used up. [00:18:42] Speaker A: Nah. Cause look. Cause look, bro, niggas be suckers. Niggas be suckers. Niggas ain't used to grabbing on no big ass. This be nigga's first big ass. This be nigga's first flat stomach. This be nigga's first fine shit. So you know what? Out of all the fish in the sea, this my fish. Can't nobody else have my fish. Well, you better let the girl go. Well. Because I clear the guy. She's still getting fucked, bro. She just getting fucked by a nigga who can be quiet. You know what I'm saying? [00:19:11] Speaker B: Like, yeah, that's what you came up with. I thought you was going to say something profound. [00:19:17] Speaker A: No, I'm saying, though. I'm saying, like, if you in that situation, like, if you can't. If your girl already getting flipped, it. [00:19:22] Speaker B: Ain'T nothing you can see already doing it. But not to say every girl is already doing it. Okay? [00:19:29] Speaker A: I had to get out of that. [00:19:30] Speaker C: The first thing is, are you carrying your. Are you. Because here's my thing. I think the way you got to evaluate every situation. Are you carrying yourself in a way in which she should not need or want or desire to have anything else? [00:19:43] Speaker A: No. Let me have these niggas problems. [00:19:46] Speaker C: Exactly. So now, if you are not doing that, if you're not acting and doing what you're supposed to do, and then she out there doing what she's supposed to do because you ain't taking care of home like you supposed to. What you expect to happen? So now, guess what you got to do now. You got to be out or be a sucker. One of the two. Them be suckers, bro, because she fine. You gonna stay and be a sucker. Miss me with that. You can miss me with that. [00:20:12] Speaker A: Cause I don't know about you. [00:20:13] Speaker C: I'm out, son. [00:20:14] Speaker A: I just feel like I can get another one. [00:20:16] Speaker C: Four to one, man. Four to one. Matter of fact, I'm about to Google that shit. [00:20:20] Speaker A: I just feel like I can get another one, bro. You know what I'm saying? Like, if she wants you, bro, best believe she can have you. I'm not coming. I'm not trying to fight, bro. I'm not trying to. I'm not trying to have. I'm not trying to have no pissing contest about who got the most money. I'm not Trying to, like, I don't give a. What y'all do. Just don't bring me that. He told, better be poly. Them cheat, too. What you do, bro? A might cheat, bro. And that's just the way life go, bro. But I didn't learn how to, like, kind of love with the open heart and kind of, like, not expect nothing out of it. You know what I'm saying? Like, if. If. If some come out of it, then some just came out of it, bro. You feel me? But as far as, like, just overthinking myself, other situations, bro, I kind of chilled on that. You know what I'm saying? Like, if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. If it ain't, it ain't. [00:21:15] Speaker B: That's good. I think a lot of men do that. I think that's, like, really common with guys, I think. [00:21:20] Speaker A: Yeah. Cause that shit be traumatizing. Like, if you. If you really been single and you done been like. Like. Like, kind of, like, attracting women, you kind of just seen, like, every shape of a woman. Not saying every shape, but almost every shape of a woman. The cheaters. The real good cheaters. You know what I'm saying? Like, then you ran across women who just don't give a fuck, like, you know what I'm saying? So, bro, it just be that shit kind of trauma, you know what I'm saying? Like, and then a lot of y'all be having some kind of, like, a pattern, you know what I'm saying? So that shit will trigger a nigga, especially me. What? Let that pattern get out of whack. Oh, boy, please. Something. Something going on. Something going on, but I can't shake it. [00:22:06] Speaker C: Titus said you better be poly. [00:22:08] Speaker A: No, I can't do. I can't do the poly. I'm not even gonna hold you. That Unc roll right there. I'll let you handle that. I stay on my side. Cause I can't handle two of them. You feel what I'm saying? [00:22:20] Speaker C: Like, yeah. Nah. [00:22:22] Speaker A: Cause if I got two and one pissed me off. You getting isolated. You know what I'm. [00:22:31] Speaker C: You go to that side of the. [00:22:33] Speaker A: House, I swear to God, like, like. [00:22:35] Speaker C: You don't come out your room at all. [00:22:36] Speaker A: Yeah, we like, yeah, you. [00:22:38] Speaker C: You on time out. Put her in the corner with her nose on the wall. [00:22:44] Speaker A: Okay? That's what I'm saying. Like, shit. Don't put me in those situations. That why I be telling the motherfucker, acting like, oh, I want the man to pay all the bills. Bitch, you gonna listen to me. You is going to listen to me. [00:23:02] Speaker C: Oh, God. [00:23:02] Speaker A: You going to listen. And I'm talking about not a little bit, a lot. You feel me? Like, 98 percentile of the time. You. I. You should be like, oh, I know my man need this. I know my man going to want this. You know what I'm saying? [00:23:14] Speaker B: There ain't nothing wrong with that. Long as the is a good. But do not be good. [00:23:25] Speaker C: We cannot. [00:23:26] Speaker B: No, no, no. We're not going to be nothing about the. That I deal with. It's not. Not dating. [00:23:31] Speaker C: No, no. [00:23:32] Speaker A: Because you're saying no. [00:23:34] Speaker C: You're making an abs. See, that's what. I don't think that we can make absolute statements because even I can't make an absolute statement about women. [00:23:40] Speaker B: You know how many absolute statements y'all made? Who is recording? [00:23:45] Speaker A: Hold on. Let me get on somebody right quick. Who is Coacha Hazelton? She say yes because women is doing. [00:23:52] Speaker C: What men been doing for years. [00:23:54] Speaker A: Okay? [00:23:55] Speaker C: Just some women is better at the. [00:23:56] Speaker A: Game than men were. I'm about to get on your ass. See, because y'all be the reason why STD rate so high now. You know what I'm saying? Like. Cause you trying to do what the hell a man do. What be the point of that? I'ma do this how he do me. I'mma do her how she do me. That. That Just get the on. [00:24:16] Speaker C: That's the thing. Just go. [00:24:18] Speaker A: Like you're gonna teach me by cheating on me. Because now I just want to put some blood in your mind. I really just want to slap the fire out of you. You know what I'm saying? Like, you ain't teaching me no lesson. Get the on. Get out my. Get out of our. Let's get out of each other's space. That's gonna teach me a bigger lesson than you putting the dick inside of you. Yeah, I'm cutting off your access to. [00:24:39] Speaker C: Me or my access to you. [00:24:41] Speaker A: Come on. [00:24:42] Speaker C: And that's it. [00:24:43] Speaker A: Now my life out the whack. Now I really see what I miss. I'm not gonna. About you giving up that. Give it up. Then they be thinking, listen, but don't keep it real. No, I'm tell you that off the rip. Cause true, I ain't. Boy, listen, boy, it really about how you treat me. So. I wasn't even worried about that nasty ass rump anyway. I'm just here because of how you treat me. So. So I'm just saying, like, you think. Be thinking that coochie just be. Then guess what? You gonna go Then this would be so crazy about women, right? Women be swearing up a dog or this cheating ass nigga. This cheating ass nigga. You. Y'all always leave that nigga go get another cheating ass nigga. You ain't. You weren't able to spot your husband yet. You still get another cheater. [00:25:31] Speaker C: Oh, no, Jay. I got one better for you. They leave you for the nigga they cheating with. [00:25:37] Speaker A: Oh, Jesus. [00:25:39] Speaker C: Not knowing that he sees you as a cheater, so he gonna treat you as a cheater because he was cheating with you on somebody else. Ain't that song you? You. Hey, what happened to I don't know if you watched the shot, but a girl on the side tried. [00:25:56] Speaker B: I ain't gonna lie. Y'all ate. [00:25:57] Speaker C: Huh? [00:25:57] Speaker B: I said I ain't gonna lie. Y'all ate. [00:26:00] Speaker A: Listen. Cause oh, what you like? So I ain't gonna lie. Like, what you think like a nigga thought process be if I find out that you cheating, Especially a nigga like me because, say, like, you cheating. And I know this nigga business, bitch. This nigga a po ass nigga. Ain't gonna take care of his kids or nothing. He didn't look good on Facebook to you. Hey, he be slapping the out of your hole. You just don't know it yet, you know what I'm saying? I'm gonna let you experience that. I'm gonna go ahead and let you think with the grass green on the other side of that with his little cute ass, you know what I'm saying? Like, drug dealing, goddamn model ass, you know what I'm saying? Like, you can have his ass. Fuck you talking about? But I ain't about to be out there be acting a fool about y'all women. Boy, fuck that. Fuck that. Cause ain't nobody going, first of all, you might act a fool about me. I ain't gonna say that. But that shit ain't gonna be worth it, though. Take a shot, Twin. We shot up. Yeah, she told my son. That'd be our favorite excuse right there. When. When somebody got something to say about women in general. Oh, it ain't all of us. [00:27:06] Speaker B: I ain't even say that. I know they hate when we say that. [00:27:10] Speaker C: Nah, but I mean, that was the truth, though. Like, you can't. You can't treat. Like sometimes they be treating a side dude like. And then you break up with yours because the side dude been treating you good. But that's part time, I think. He ain't have a full. He wasn't a full time nigga. [00:27:25] Speaker A: He ain't had to deal with you full time. He had to deal with you a full time. Ass fall back from you like I fall back for you, bitch. I just don't want to talk to you for a couple hours. That don't mean I want to stop dealing with you. [00:27:34] Speaker B: Once that nigga know you left your nigga, he really bout to leave your ass. [00:27:40] Speaker C: Because really you was just a slide through. Like. [00:27:48] Speaker A: That girl said, I'm gonna leave. [00:27:59] Speaker C: Don't come here. He told her, don't come over here. [00:28:02] Speaker B: Yeah, like I ain't got funny over here. [00:28:04] Speaker A: It's crazy cause like, I don't think like that called PNC post nut clarity. You feel me? Like I'm telling you, boy, after a being being dealt with a girl or whatever the case may be, that's when you really find out who you want to keep around. Anyway. I might bust a nut and. Okay, like what we. What you still doing here? [00:28:24] Speaker C: That PNC boy, I don't even want you. [00:28:26] Speaker A: You ain't got to touch me no more. Oh, come here. Ain't no come here. Go. Go home. [00:28:32] Speaker B: Why do you have to a girl to get to that point? [00:28:36] Speaker A: That's just men though. [00:28:37] Speaker B: That just means you can't reach that point like beforehand, is there? Yeah, you can't reach that point before. [00:28:42] Speaker C: Like, no. Sometimes. Like sometimes I think. Sometimes I think it's just because that's. [00:28:47] Speaker B: Giving every girl you meet. Like, yes, it is. [00:28:52] Speaker C: No, it's not. I think he's talking more so with a person that you've been like a person that you deal with, right? Like there's some people that you can deal with they shit because they going. [00:29:00] Speaker A: I ain't every girl I meet. [00:29:01] Speaker C: No, I'm not. That's what I'm saying. I'm not every girl you meet. Know what I'm saying? It's like you got. [00:29:05] Speaker B: So if you don't her, how you know? [00:29:08] Speaker C: Like if you dealing from a case of dealing with somebody, right? [00:29:12] Speaker A: Just off your personality, if you're dealing. [00:29:14] Speaker C: With somebody, like sometimes we'll put up with a little bit of like a little bit of your nonsense. But if it's like. No, not just the. Like, if we already. I'm talking about we already. We already. [00:29:24] Speaker A: That's the only thing a want to do. [00:29:26] Speaker B: Oh, no, I'm asking. [00:29:27] Speaker C: I'm trying to say that. [00:29:28] Speaker B: No, I'm learning. You all teaching me something. [00:29:30] Speaker C: What I'm saying is it's. Oh, I'm saying we've already passed that we already stage. Okay, you know what I'M saying, like. [00:29:36] Speaker A: We already done that, right? It'd be some right that the only thing that beat is, like, you submitting a little bit. In my mind, that's what that is. Like, it ain't got to be you on hand to knee back and whatever, you know what I'm saying? You gave your body to me, all right, you submissive a little bit, you know what I'm saying? Oh, we gonna get to that point. Now I can really unlock you, cuz I didn't. Now I'm mentally and physically in tune with you. You feel what I'm saying? So, like, it just be some people, you know, that you ain't. That ain't what you want to do. Like, I ain't want to get to know you. I really don't care. I just want to bend your ass over. Like, don't act like y'all don't get. [00:30:13] Speaker C: Like that too, but. And then that pnc, when you get. He's like, I really didn't want. I really don't like her. I really didn't. [00:30:20] Speaker A: Look, I'm always on point, man. You know what I'm saying? [00:30:22] Speaker C: I really wish. I really wish I would have thought about this before I did this, because she's annoying. [00:30:27] Speaker A: Annoying as like, boy listening. Think they gave you the best in the world. You ain't. Do you know what I'm saying? Like, we just. [00:30:37] Speaker C: Yeah. What's Snoop said? You think you got the bomb because I rolled you a joint? [00:30:43] Speaker A: Hit a little move right quick, you know what I'm saying? We ended up a twirl out hills, baby. That don't. This ain't high school no more. I hate. Who think this pussy come with high school? Like, oh, I. Oh, oh, I don't. Just my. My heart and my. You need to put that somewhere else. [00:30:59] Speaker C: In your pocket or something, you know what I'm saying? [00:31:01] Speaker B: Ain't nobody saying that. [00:31:03] Speaker A: Girl, I. No, it'd be grown people saying that. [00:31:06] Speaker B: Ain't nobody saying no. [00:31:07] Speaker A: Like, people saying that my heart and my. Or. Or you just can't be me like that and expect me not to catch feeling. Well, like, boy, y'all be so like, have her. [00:31:18] Speaker C: That a lot. [00:31:21] Speaker A: You talking about like a throwing some dick and you make. You make you catch feelings. Not how I treat you. Just be throwing. Just be thrusting up against your ass. You know what I'm saying? Like, man, go ahead, girl. Like, bro, that don't be mattering to me. Like, real talk, bro. Like, bro, if I'm with somebody, it's not about it's not about no. If I'm literally with you, just be me and you can go a couple days damn near sex. And I want one of y'all to get on here, act like, oh, I can't go this long without sex. That's cause you just start. [00:31:54] Speaker C: Exactly. [00:31:55] Speaker A: You just start. You don't know how to sit your dumb ass down. I had to go to the prison. I ain't got no boy pussy about that. Three years no pussy putting that in my hand. You know what I'm saying? So boy, you better learn how to control that. [00:32:09] Speaker C: Titus said if you do what I do, I'm going to stand on it. But the women I have met ain't gonna stand on it. They're gonna try to lie and try to take it to the grave. They ain't accountable because they likely they done off on some they ashamed of in the first place. [00:32:25] Speaker A: Yeah, you gave that dumbass. You gave that broke ass damn. You know what I'm saying? Not saying money is everything, but the damn show a lot. And that how I judge people that. [00:32:37] Speaker C: Do help real talk. [00:32:39] Speaker A: And they don't just be broke them who just start running into some motion and extra horny too. I see them in every like. Like I'm talking. You could. You might be scrolling see a Just post a picture. I don't know about this one, but so and so didn't heart this one. And I just seen him hard a couple of these back to back. So I know he on it. I know this. Oh and I d show everybody to question nobody about who they dealing with. So I'm just assume market office is not for me and I keep that moving twin like word learned a lot about the person. They just learned to keep their pants. I'm telling you could get what, bro? Listen, bud. Hey listen. Take sex out the equation of a lot of that you're dealing with, bro. And watch how much clarity you get in it. You know what I'm saying? Like real life try to get to no shouting that shouted that you really wanted for a long time trying to her right quick. Cause you gonna get some, bro. This the game. This the game. This the game. And I'm I'm gonna tell y'all some. Cause y'all be having the game. Maybe y'all ain't had no Larry James in your life, but for one bro, you shouldn't even be trying to date no woman if you ain't financially stable. Not saying financially stable, but some type of motion period. [00:33:53] Speaker C: You can't afford to afford a Date, stay home. [00:33:55] Speaker A: You gonna start feeling like you're not doing enough. If you only can do this. This on certain type of whisper, you're not gonna feel like you're doing enough. Then you're gonna feel like you're in competition with every. Especially if you got a baddie. Oh, then you're gonna want to start going through her because you can't do enough. Boom. That one, two nigga be mentally stable, too. Cabra. If you go deal with somebody, bro, and you can't get peace at night knowing that they. They doing what the they supposed to do, then don't deal with them. That's just me, you know what I'm saying? [00:34:25] Speaker B: Bro, I'm. [00:34:25] Speaker A: I'm not going through that, boy. If I feel that. The urge, I need to ride by her and knock on her door. I need to. I need to blow up her phone. She already blocked your ass. You making you. You hitting star 67 and calling 30 times back to back. Get your back. Go send that girl some edible arrangements. Pop up with her job with some flowers if you really want your back. You know what I'm saying? Like, bro, we grown now y'all be thinking y'all got the biggest dick in the world. That's all you get. Why she gonna go shrimp dick with the motion, you feel what I'm saying? Like you tearing her guts up. [00:34:58] Speaker C: Shrimp dick assassin. [00:35:00] Speaker A: It. That's what he shrimp dick assassin over there, though, in the building. She. She locked that coochie bumping. Well, listen, bro, that real. You know what I'm saying? That's just real, bro. Like, bro, me personally, bro, I don't. I don't want no. That just gonna come over here and give me some. That just me. Damn. You don't want a burger? A four for four? Some chili, some windy chilies. I mean, some windy chili. Something but baked potato. You just want to come over and give me some. Nah, you trying to set me up. Oh, you trying to give me something. That is how my mind operate. You know what I'm saying? Like. Like, God damn, boy. [00:35:46] Speaker B: You don't. [00:35:46] Speaker A: Well, listen, all right, and then another thing. Y'all better stop being suckers out this just cause you got some money and better start trying to get you a. With some money. Because a girl got to have a car. House and car. At least two out the three. [00:35:59] Speaker C: No, no, no, no, no, no. [00:36:01] Speaker A: I mean car. I mean. I mean car, house and money and job. [00:36:05] Speaker C: Career or whatever. House, job. Like. Like, she need to have all three. [00:36:09] Speaker A: Word. [00:36:09] Speaker C: Like, I. No, no, listen. [00:36:11] Speaker A: I understand how life goes. [00:36:12] Speaker C: That's the prerequisite. [00:36:13] Speaker A: I understand how life goes. So if you ain't got no house, you better have some money saved up. You know what I'm saying? [00:36:18] Speaker C: You should. I'm not dealing. I'm not dating nobody who got a roommate. [00:36:21] Speaker A: I want more of the six. That's sick, man. Let me tell y'all women something. Cause that should be like a tender balance with y'all, right? Cause if you making me wait on some, that ain't worth waiting on, baby. I say this every episode. You're gonna have a problem. You know what I'm saying? Cause now I'm about to show you who the real Dirty Dan is around this dirty day. No count, bro. Cause what you mean, like, damn, I got there, took you out on all these dates, and you scooting the chair. You supposed to be around this, slamming this on me like a bag of ice. I got hot in this. [00:37:03] Speaker C: Hey, the. You can't blame me. [00:37:05] Speaker A: I'll be blaming you all. I'm about a fan. [00:37:08] Speaker C: It's cold as in here. I don't know what you're doing. [00:37:10] Speaker A: You ain't sipping enough Julio. [00:37:14] Speaker C: That's my fault. [00:37:16] Speaker A: Yeah. On Enough Julio right now. [00:37:18] Speaker C: That ain't my fault. [00:37:19] Speaker A: I'm on. I'm. I'm on that talking right now. You feel me? But. But listen, though. I'll be trying to. I'll be trying to get y'all free game. Cause a lot of y'all be having this up. Y'all be wanting to talk about the next man. Oh, you know that really. He ain't really doing that like that. For real. Cause I used to talk to his. You know what I'm saying, man? All that ass. Now you gonna make her come give us a for sure. Because you sit here talk about that. Now she curious. [00:37:49] Speaker C: Yep. [00:37:50] Speaker A: Real talk. Y'all don't even be wanting to court a girl no more. Damn. Let me. Let me. Let me. Let me take you out. [00:37:56] Speaker C: What is that? [00:37:57] Speaker B: I ain't know. People still do that. [00:38:00] Speaker A: Like, them be grown as still doing that. [00:38:02] Speaker B: People like. You know what I'm saying? I ain't know people still do that. [00:38:07] Speaker C: Talk about people what? [00:38:08] Speaker B: Just like pillow talk and stuff like that. Talking about what a next person got going on. [00:38:13] Speaker A: Like, oh, that ain't never going to stop. [00:38:19] Speaker C: Titan said it the best way stop being accessible. Hey, when you access, just don't be accessible. [00:38:26] Speaker A: That's a fact, bro. That's a fact, period. [00:38:30] Speaker C: Like, at the end of the day, like, I think somebody told Me something. I think I was like, I'm private. You know what I'm saying? Like, if you. [00:38:36] Speaker A: Oh, I'm private. [00:38:40] Speaker B: Hey, give me that bottle. [00:38:42] Speaker A: Hey, let me tell y'all private motherfuckers something, boy. [00:38:45] Speaker C: I'm private. [00:38:45] Speaker A: That privacy get you cheated on. I don't give a fuck. That privacy get you some. Just in case I got to cheat. Just in case. Just in case I gotta have something backed up. Man, listen. [00:38:55] Speaker C: Well, then you got to go. [00:38:55] Speaker A: Motherfuckers who be private at this day. [00:38:57] Speaker B: What you considering private? What are y'all considering private? Like. [00:39:00] Speaker C: No, me, I just don't. [00:39:01] Speaker A: Bitch, if I'm talking to you and you only talking to me supposed to be. You better let it be known. [00:39:05] Speaker C: You better know, like, no, no, no. What I mean by private is I'm not gonna be all on social media with anything I got going on, man. [00:39:14] Speaker A: You trying to cheat, too? [00:39:16] Speaker C: How was that? Trying to cheat, too? [00:39:18] Speaker A: You trying to fuck, bitch. You don't want to know what you got going on. You don't want nobody to ask you. Oh, oh, ain't you got a girlfriend? [00:39:24] Speaker C: No. Cause I've. Cause I've had. I've had the opposite side of it. When I wasn't doing shit, and I was very. Yo, just, you know, posting pictures of me and my girl. We go ahead and all of a sudden her inbox is jumping off with people who are lying or sending all kind of wild shit and literally, on the real, not doing nothing. So I took it then and then. Not only that, in some of the things that I do, I have to be private. [00:39:46] Speaker A: Fuck that bitch. You better pose me. [00:39:48] Speaker B: I think people confuse privacy and secrecy. [00:39:51] Speaker C: And secrecy. Yes. [00:39:52] Speaker A: Right. [00:39:52] Speaker C: It's two different things. I'm being secretive because you can see me out on a date or whatever, wherever I'm at. I'm just not living my life on social media. That's what privacy is to me, right? [00:40:04] Speaker A: From a woman. From a woman in the girl, especially when she run across a real man that ain't on that social media. Cause you mean to tell me this. What you doing? You mean to tell me you just so fine and so dandy when you get the post to yourself? You telling 100 know you got a. [00:40:19] Speaker C: No, no, no, no, no, no, no. [00:40:22] Speaker A: But don't nobody know not to come at you like this because you're so. [00:40:25] Speaker C: Jj. What I'm talking about with me, my privacy is. I don't post pictures of myself. I post. Like, if somebody you ugly, I could be ugly. But I don't Give. I don't live my life on. But I don't do like, outside of my business and stuff I got going on, like, as far as business professionally, I don't really post nothing. You could go back and track my social media. [00:40:46] Speaker A: I've been putting that on. I'll be posting. [00:40:47] Speaker C: You go ahead and track my shit. Like, I just don't. [00:40:49] Speaker A: I'll be posting that shit. [00:40:51] Speaker C: So at the end of the day, you know what I'm saying? So it's nothing new. If you coming into my life and we dating, you don't see no you can go back years. Eight years is the last time you see me posted a picture of me with somebody. Eight, nine years last time. [00:41:06] Speaker A: Yeah, bro. [00:41:07] Speaker C: I mean, so I'm just saying, like, I don't live my life publicly. [00:41:10] Speaker A: Well, you. You. You might be fit. You might be fit for a lot of people. You know what I'm saying? But I ain't saying live your life publicly because. Because I'm saying, like every argument shouldn't go on Facebook. That's not what the saying. But boy, you do need to. And that's part of. That's part of being in a relationship. I don't give a. You think a out here paying for every date doing all this. That the third for you just to not be appreciated. Because I know a like me ain't. Especially if I'm just doing it for you. I want to be appreciated. That's just what that is. I don't. [00:41:37] Speaker C: But appreciation does appreciate people. People sometimes see. People sometimes mistake appreciation with validation. I don't need to be validated. I know. I know what I'm doing for you. I know what our relationship got going on. I don't need validation from the public. Appreciation is you being with like. I know no matter what you post, you hear. [00:41:59] Speaker A: And guess what? I know some like that they get every Saturday that just. [00:42:04] Speaker C: That's them. And if that's me and if that's the case, I'm out. [00:42:07] Speaker A: Okay, then that just was out. I ain't leaving that. I ain't leaving no girl no room to not make me feel appreciate all this I do out here. I'm gonna what a talking about what. What would want to post a like me now? You ain't want to throw emoji over a face. You just. You just. You just. You just freestyling. You just taking it. [00:42:25] Speaker C: I just don't. [00:42:26] Speaker A: Please. [00:42:26] Speaker C: I don't. I don't think. I mean, Tyler said acknowledging me is not validation. Yes, you can. You can ign. I'M not saying that when you see me out, I'm pushing you to the side. I'm not saying you could post me if you want for me. I don't have my social media set up like that. I just feel like my life is private, you know what I'm saying? So if you would want to do whatever you want to do, that's on you. [00:42:47] Speaker A: I keep telling you, and I even. [00:42:49] Speaker C: Tell a person that I'm with, like, don't post me. [00:42:52] Speaker A: I want you post right post me and Brad. [00:42:54] Speaker C: I don't want. What do I understood? [00:42:57] Speaker A: You don't even post your self. So it's not exactly so. Okay, so you're not in this category. [00:43:02] Speaker C: Okay? [00:43:03] Speaker A: This ain't what we talk about. I'm talking about a like me. You gonna post me? You gonna do something or guess what I'm gonna do? [00:43:10] Speaker B: What you gonna do? [00:43:11] Speaker A: Okay. Find out. Stir the pot. I feel what I'm saying. Like all that private. That's a acting like a to me. What you mean you private? What you mean you private? What is private? What you mean? You don't want people in your business? [00:43:26] Speaker C: I don't want people in my business. [00:43:27] Speaker A: You post me and hoes want to give me some pussy. I already look how I look anyway. Hoes want to give me some anyway. It don't matter if I'm your or I'm not gonna get more. Cause I'm your. [00:43:37] Speaker C: All right, then. [00:43:39] Speaker B: Y'all know that. Do be factual, though. [00:43:44] Speaker A: Been outside getting it anyway. I don't need you to post me to get more. That's the dumbest in the world for you to say. Oh, if I post you, it's not gonna be mean. [00:43:54] Speaker B: But it do be like that, though. [00:43:56] Speaker A: Who are you? Who the is you? Stop acting like Beyonce out this. Oh, I don't want to post my. I want to post my baby worry about y'all. [00:44:07] Speaker C: Did somebody say somebody said that to you? [00:44:09] Speaker A: No, I'm just saying, like, somebody said that to you. Like, well, if. If a hoe said that to me, guess what? She ain't mine, twin. And guess now you got the chance at her. You know what I'm saying? That would go on with me. It real strict over here. Word that just come with dealing with me. I don't give a right. I'm spoiled. You mean to tell me you don't pay for no dates? A come through on every man. You need him to jump a car, batteries, do whatever. We live in a social media world and you get the posting you. [00:44:42] Speaker C: But I think that's the problem with dating, though, is that we live in a social media world. [00:44:45] Speaker A: Okay, well, I mean, you can either get with it, get cheated on to get lost. [00:44:49] Speaker C: And. And I have three. And if I said. And I have said before, if you cheat, I'm out, right? Doesn't fucking matter. You go and. [00:44:57] Speaker A: But I live off of. [00:44:58] Speaker C: I live off of. And I. And. And Grandma told me this shit when I was 16. If a bitch gonna leave, she was gonna leave. [00:45:05] Speaker A: The question was. [00:45:06] Speaker C: The question was how long she was gonna stay. And that's it. No matter what the fuck you was gonna do. If I'm doing what I'm supposed to do, it don't matter whether you post me or fucking not. If I'm doing what I'm supposed to do. And you still do what you do, you still feel like you gotta get out there and do whatever you do. You ain't the one for me. [00:45:19] Speaker A: All the situations that. Why I told not to post me, bro, I just was still. That just what that was. I ain't one. I ain't want to lose my hoes. I gotta. I got another hole that I'm very interested in. I don't want you to post me. [00:45:32] Speaker C: Nick. Nick said. What's the wait? What's the topic? Hey, we don't Went all over the place. There's no reference point right now. Like, we. We started the one space we going. [00:45:43] Speaker A: Really? We really talking about how y'all be. Want to be in secret relationship. Oh, oh, oh. We got secret is this. We got to be in. We got to be in a relationship for so and so. Before I get the true. [00:45:56] Speaker C: I agree with you, Titus. If she gonna cheat, she gonna cheat nothing. [00:46:00] Speaker B: We just been trying to make sure that y'all is who y'all say y'all is. [00:46:04] Speaker A: How long it takes to know that before. [00:46:06] Speaker B: I mean, on what? [00:46:07] Speaker C: On. On, like, how do you record. Oh, I need the corner. [00:46:11] Speaker A: Come on, go get that. [00:46:12] Speaker C: No, I'm saying, on what. On what? [00:46:14] Speaker B: So. So, like, everything has a process. Every person has a process. Every person should be growing. You know what I'm saying? So the more you go through your process, the more you grow, the more you learn. So only a person can tell you what their measure of a good is. Only, you know, and she's only going to tell you that based off experience. She's going to think about, you know, things that she's seen as a child and try to put that with which, you know what I'm saying, people got their own measure of what a Good is. But we just be trying to make sure that. Cause be like to pop like. Like are boastful these days, get on the Internet and be saying all kind of. And not just in on the Internet, but are very boastful. And so most feel like if it's a attractive woman, like if she is she if the done up, like the feel like he's gonna have to approach her in a certain type of way. [00:47:17] Speaker A: That's a fact. [00:47:19] Speaker B: They're going to look at a girl and assume what her interests are and they're going to say okay, I can treat you like this or I can take you this place or do that. And so we just be trying to. Okay, well let me see if this man like me because he introduced this to me. He proposed this to me, he said this. So like I want to just get to know him to see if this is what it is before I get out here and say I got a man. Because girls don't like to be adding niggas to their body count or two they line up or like no, no, no, woman ain't doing that. She like girls be trying like when we on something, we be trying to be on that shit. And so as for me personally, I be wanna make sure like you is who you say you is. Because when I. When I pop out. When I pop out. Yeah like I'm not. And it's not even about pop out so to speak. But it's like when I choose my nigga, when I. When I'm not scared to say this the. That I'm with when I trust a person to that extent. [00:48:29] Speaker A: So I'm supposed to know so as a right. So like what if it's a who. [00:48:35] Speaker C: Who. [00:48:35] Speaker A: Who do want you to post him or a female that do want you to post. I'm supposed to wait until you ready. [00:48:41] Speaker B: Or why would you not. What would you do for someone to then you. Then it's okay. It should be okay for you to go where you're going to feel appreciated. [00:48:57] Speaker A: That's like why I mute the mic. I ain't mean to do that. I'll just be doing. That's like expecting a liar to never lie again. The circumstances permit. She's going to cheat every time no matter what you do. Hey, listen, that what I'm saying right? So I'm. I'm be real. You don't wanna. Yeah, I'ma just think you cheating already. Like bro, y'all be tripping, bro. I mean I don't to each his own bro. But to deal with me, that is what be going on. Bro, I don't really be. I don't really be. I don't really be tripping. Like, bro, I ain't for everybody. Everybody ain't for me. You know what I'm saying? Like, everybody don't rock to the same motion of the boat. You feel what I'm saying? [00:49:43] Speaker B: Like, this be my thing. Once we establish that, though, you go your way, I go my way. [00:49:49] Speaker A: Yo, for sure. [00:49:51] Speaker B: Like, don't fuck with me. Like, don't see me in a place and try to, like, n. Be trying to, like, see you out and, like, make a scene or let it be known that it been something going on. Like, if the shit was killed private, keep that shit private. Like, that go for y'all girls, too. Y'all be getting mad when y'all see y'all. Thank you. [00:50:19] Speaker A: Nah, I don't know. If she really fuck with you, she gonna post you. Cause we love to show off, so if we don't, obviously. Thank you. And that coming from a woman. You feel what I'm saying? Like, not saying that. I don't think I'm saying that. You got something on the back burner. You ain't sure about the situation. That's my thing. You're not sure. You're not all the way locked in and committed to the situation. You still got thoughts in the back of your head. It only got to be about another nigga. [00:50:46] Speaker B: What's wrong with a person not being sure, though? Okay, you. You rather for. You rather for somebody to not be sure, but don't even give you no clue that they're not sure, and you just out here living your life with a motherfucker and then they tell you, oh, I wasn't sure the whole time. Or you would rather for somebody to just show you that shit up front and give you the chance to decide if you want to fuck with him or not? [00:51:11] Speaker A: Yeah, I'd rather that for sure. But I'm saying, though, when you giving me that decision, that's all going on. Don't act like you don't know why. Don't act like you don't know the why. [00:51:19] Speaker B: Now, that is hard for women to accept. I ain't gonna lie. That's hard for a woman to accept. [00:51:25] Speaker A: Like, bro, it be. It be like, bro, we just. [00:51:27] Speaker B: But it should and comes. It doesn't always have to come to that, though. If you with me, how we being with each other? Why are we changing how we with each other? [00:51:36] Speaker A: How we came in with each other, too? Like, Stop acting slow. So if both of us came in with it with each other while all of a sudden we was with other people, okay, we cutting our people off at the same time now. We gradually get the way we get to. We get what we get to. You still ain't show. Oh, we still got the guy. I still got to prove to you the type of nigga I am. Cause you still ain't. So I didn't did every thing. I didn't did nine out of 10 things. But you waiting on that last 10 for me to show you that I'm the that you need me to be. Girl, please, you spit. I'm just saying. I'm just saying, though, because, like, you wouldn't even be giving me as much time if I wasn't that anyway. So that's what I'm saying, bro. A like me, I take a peep into the mind like, all that. You always submissive or you're not. You know what I'm saying? Like, ready be little. Little slick, like, you know what I'm saying? Like, damn. You can't show your that you appreciate him. You can't show your that this where you want to be at. You can't show your that. Hey, I ain't nobody else got my attention right now. I'm just. I'm just with you because women and women and is different because I can walk by that fat ass in the mall and, oh, that look good, man. I'm going on about my business, though. You know what I'm saying? Like, when y'all see a and like eyes with that Erykah Badu did it the best in that See you next lifetime. You know what I'm saying? Like, brother, how y'all be for real? Like, damn, I'm in a situation, but I wish I could with you, but I can't, bruh. That's how that be. Seriously, like, bro, you got me up. If you think I'm about to be caught up in your little as well. You ain't been doing enough for me to be sitting here waiting on you to act how I want you to act. [00:53:12] Speaker C: Keisha said keep it real. When you first start talking like. [00:53:16] Speaker A: No, it was a comment. It was a comment. [00:53:17] Speaker C: Which one? [00:53:18] Speaker A: Hold up. What'd she say? What'd she say? What is. I'm going back to it. She posted. [00:53:22] Speaker C: Should be okay, though. [00:53:23] Speaker A: She was like, pop and don't got. Because what is, though? You know what I'm saying? Because a lot of women be having that. [00:53:29] Speaker C: That's Christina James. [00:53:30] Speaker A: Yeah, I Know what is, though? Cause, like, y'all don't be giving up. Don't be hustlers, for real. Them parents died, grandparents died, left them the most money in the world. You think that were working at UPS and got all that he got. Hey, y'all, but y'all don't be doing no math for real now. But everybody parents ain't dying with no lump sum and giving them a lump sum of money. [00:53:52] Speaker C: Of course, that popping posting should be okay, though, if you don't pose as somebody feelings you trying not to hurt. No, I mean, you could post. I don't have no issue. You post, do your thing. I don't care. [00:54:06] Speaker A: It ain't even got to be like posting about necessarily. Like, oh, you posting me, but you better be sharing some shit like, oh, it's this guy, y'all, that got me caught up. And I can't stop thinking about him. You must be doing something of the nature. You just out this bitch still acting single. You just randomly change your profile picture still. You still posting on Snapchat looking all whatever you look like. Oh, and you just posted. Let me. Let me give y'all some nigga math now. I'm about to do some math. Hold on. Where my other phone at? Hold on. [00:54:39] Speaker C: Cause I don't think I got this much indecisive thinking. The grass is greener on the other side and wanna make sure if 13. [00:54:48] Speaker A: Holla at your girl a day times seven. That's 91. Okay, 91 times 52 is 4732. You think she telling 4700? No. [00:55:02] Speaker B: Why in the fuck do you think 13 is? [00:55:05] Speaker C: No, no, no, no, no. [00:55:07] Speaker A: Okay, we could do three. [00:55:09] Speaker C: Here's my thing, Jay. [00:55:10] Speaker A: We can do three. [00:55:12] Speaker B: Why would you think three people how like, people be minding their business, be going to work. Yeah. If you in a club and on the scene, something like outside on a regular day, that's not going on. [00:55:24] Speaker C: That ain't. That ain't got legs. Then, like, run a marathon and you running one out that you know, like, you know. You know the. You. You alone like, it don't say. You know, you ain't got to admit. [00:55:38] Speaker A: It too much, but, like, you. [00:55:40] Speaker C: You post something in your inbox, it just is what it is. It is what it is. Like, it ain't like if from 14. [00:55:48] Speaker A: Years ago, them still Holland. Because guess what. Because guess what they do. I don't give a. If you even heart the comment or just thumb up the comment, you still acknowledge that you ain't telling that Nigga, that is no chance. Nigga, please leave me alone or whatever the fuck else. Thank you. [00:56:08] Speaker C: Okay, okay, hold on. I'm a post so they can know. Yeah. Somebody handling this. [00:56:16] Speaker A: That what I'm saying. Like you can't you. [00:56:19] Speaker C: Well, I think that's the wrong reason to post. If you post because you. You're posting like, what is. What is it? [00:56:26] Speaker A: No, bro, because that's just like saying that. It's like saying when. When she posts and she got her regular swiping up, me and you already locked in. And in order to keep the temptation away instead of you cutting everything off and letting it be known. Because that's going to weed out some not saying all. But some of them. [00:56:44] Speaker C: J, you know, don't care if they. [00:56:47] Speaker A: Post you if you get cheated on, bro. [00:56:48] Speaker C: I do not. [00:56:49] Speaker A: I'm telling you, bro. Cuz, listen, bro, I'm not playing with these women, boy. I'm not playing first. Well, let me see all this leeway you be giving. [00:56:58] Speaker C: No get the on then. [00:57:00] Speaker B: I don't give. [00:57:01] Speaker C: Like if you're gonna cheat, get the on, man. [00:57:03] Speaker A: All that. Like period. Get the on suspicion that you cheating. [00:57:06] Speaker C: Suspicion of what? Jay, man, you gotta live your life in a secure world, brother. [00:57:12] Speaker A: Bro, you talk to the. You're talking to the most secure in the world. I don't think you talk to the most secure in the world, bro. [00:57:19] Speaker C: I think that people that need validation are insecure. That's just my personal feelings. [00:57:23] Speaker A: Nothing about no validation, bro. That's a validation form of love, bro. [00:57:27] Speaker C: How is that the form. [00:57:28] Speaker A: That's that okay. [00:57:31] Speaker C: But that means that. [00:57:32] Speaker A: Might be your good night of validation, bro. [00:57:34] Speaker C: That might be your. [00:57:35] Speaker A: You know, if your person the first per. The first thing she do when she wake up, she texting you. The first thing she do is she posted. [00:57:43] Speaker C: Is she posting good morning to my baby on Facebook? No, she's texting me. That's fine for me. [00:57:48] Speaker A: Yoshi, you ugly as. You ain't even post ugly. [00:57:51] Speaker B: I don't post myself. [00:57:52] Speaker A: That just be talking. [00:57:54] Speaker C: No, I swear to God, I love that shit. Because that's me. I'm ugly as. [00:57:57] Speaker A: Bro, he not. [00:57:58] Speaker C: I get. [00:57:59] Speaker A: But I'm ugly, bro. Everybody get. Bro, if you're right, you talking to a who. Come on. Come on. I didn't hung that up. Well, I don't even give him a about these no more. Like all that getting can get got them every day. [00:58:14] Speaker C: Every day, every single day. [00:58:16] Speaker A: That don't be mad there like, you know what I'm saying? Like a gonna go, bro. That's just what it is, bro. But how I want my to act. How I want to be treated or how I want to be bro. Wake up and see. Oh my damn boy. You know what I'm saying? Like it ain't about bro. No validation. [00:58:36] Speaker C: I mean I think that's and we. We just gonna have to agree to disagree. [00:58:39] Speaker A: Bro. It could be validation. But get what let your not be validating you. I'm all in her inbox because I don't know she got it. I don't know she got a. If she gonna go I don't know she got a. So what I don't know she got a so now get one and what. [00:58:52] Speaker C: And if then that means it ain't the one for me. [00:58:54] Speaker A: That means she could be took by a like me. [00:58:56] Speaker C: I don't give if if somebody killed never with you. [00:59:00] Speaker B: So you don't care if she could be took. [00:59:02] Speaker C: She was never with you. [00:59:04] Speaker B: So it's not about the girl like posting you per se, but just letting it be known that she with somebody. [00:59:09] Speaker A: Thank you. [00:59:10] Speaker C: Okay, I'm talking about posting you. I. I'm not. I'm talking about posting you. I mean I wasn't talking about like I'm just talking about posting. [00:59:16] Speaker A: So when are we gonna get to that? [00:59:18] Speaker C: When we marry. [00:59:20] Speaker A: Before that we ain't doing this right here tripping boy. [00:59:23] Speaker C: Before that we ain't doing man. [00:59:24] Speaker A: Bro. [00:59:25] Speaker C: Before that we ain't doing this right. [00:59:26] Speaker A: He still be trying to till he get married. That's all that is man. [00:59:30] Speaker C: No, when you get mad. No, I I believe that you. [00:59:32] Speaker A: I don't know why he feel you know why you feel like that is validation, bro. [00:59:37] Speaker C: It is valid. [00:59:38] Speaker A: I don't know. I don't know why feel like that. [00:59:39] Speaker C: Why do. [00:59:40] Speaker A: Because don't be. [00:59:42] Speaker C: Why do we. [00:59:42] Speaker A: Why do the you are not a celebrity that want a private life that bad. [00:59:48] Speaker C: What is coming I want to live. [00:59:49] Speaker A: My life coming out of what is it what is coming out of a Knowing this your or you know initially. This this who she dealing with this who you dealing with. What the is coming out of that? [01:00:04] Speaker C: What is coming out of not doing simple relationship? What is simple relationship? Because we live in a social. What if. What if I didn't have social media at all? What if I don't have social media? What if I don't have social media at all? [01:00:15] Speaker A: Bro, you trying to win an argument. You got one, ain't it? [01:00:20] Speaker C: What I do. [01:00:20] Speaker A: But I don't okay, but now. [01:00:22] Speaker C: But what did I say? I don't Post myself, and I don't post nobody else. [01:00:25] Speaker A: So, bro, guess what, bro. It be like me. I be lurking. [01:00:28] Speaker C: What lurk have a good time. [01:00:30] Speaker A: Lurking. You think this your y'all just having y'all the grand? [01:00:33] Speaker C: I think a goddamn thing. You think some females will let you know. [01:00:36] Speaker A: Hunger. Hunger, hunger. Oh, she told you it was girls night. She told you she was going out with her home girl. Get where she at on Julio getting beat over. [01:00:44] Speaker C: Well, if you. [01:00:45] Speaker A: If you allow the process to hell, if you allow that, how you gonna. How you not gonna allow it? [01:00:50] Speaker C: What the. [01:00:50] Speaker A: You're not gonna lie not to post you. You already a lot of not to let know that. Hey, I can't be. [01:00:57] Speaker C: She ain't posting me. Not because she don't want to. She posted because I told her not to. That's the difference. [01:01:01] Speaker A: That's your ass. I know I hit that hole that. [01:01:05] Speaker B: Social media should be so touchy with me because I post a lot. I slow down so much. I don't post that much. But on snap, I used to go crazy on Snap story for days. [01:01:16] Speaker A: And thank you. [01:01:18] Speaker B: People felt like whatever I didn't post was not valid. And that is so weird for people to feel like that. [01:01:24] Speaker A: I don't believe in love that loud and got hurt. [01:01:27] Speaker C: No, that ain't it. That. That ain't it. [01:01:30] Speaker A: That's what. [01:01:30] Speaker C: That is not it. I just think that you got. You just. That my personal thing is. It don't. It don't bother me. [01:01:37] Speaker A: He ain't no coach, bro. He. He recording. He recording the podcast. Ain't no coach right now. That's not. He meant. He. I have to. I have to be very specific about that. You feel what I'm saying? Like, yeah, but. Yeah. Why wouldn't you want to be loved out loud? Me personally, I do. I do. You know what I'm saying? Like, I do. I do. Because I know another can't do it like me or you know what I'm saying? That just be my vibe, bro. And it can't be like a little bit of appreciation with that. You ain't got to post me Monday through Sunday. You gotta post me every week. Cause I'm get tired of that, too. Just a little something. Something like I post a picture and all these holes on it, and you ain't on it. We only sound like you feel me. Like we. I don't know. I feel like you don't want me. [01:02:31] Speaker B: This so funny. That's so funny because really do think like that. And I think, like, what it don't be like, really think like that some. Really think like that. Like, yeah, you got on my. You don't how I know you like me? Like, that's so funny. [01:02:50] Speaker A: But how do the know? Cause a lot of y'all coming with unemotional vibes. [01:02:56] Speaker C: Oh, y'all coming. [01:02:57] Speaker A: Y'all coming scarred and torn already. So it be on some shit like a nigga can't tell you. Not even giving us the slightest idea. So if I got the fucking ass, at least I care about you enough to ask. Because if I got to guess about. [01:03:09] Speaker C: It, let me ask you. [01:03:11] Speaker B: When you fucking with a woman, and if you can't tell if she like you or not, it's because she doesn't want you to be able to know whatever her reason is. Okay, Whatever her reason is. Women. That woman don't want you to know. Because any woman that wants you to know how she feels, she's going to let you know how she feel. That's a fact. But when they ain't telling you it. Cause they don't want you to know, they want to keep you confused for whatever reason. [01:03:36] Speaker C: Okay, so here's my question. Nene says, nikki, sorry. Said make me feel special, type of. So what if a person. Because that's sometimes how I evaluate people, too. Because sometimes people who post the most about their relationship is the most that's doing other shit, man. [01:03:58] Speaker A: How you can get that out of that? But you want to be private and. [01:04:00] Speaker C: You ask a question. Can I do the most. Can I get my question out? [01:04:04] Speaker A: Man, fuck. [01:04:05] Speaker C: Can I get my question out? [01:04:06] Speaker A: Invalid. [01:04:07] Speaker C: Okay, on that note. On that note, show's over. [01:04:14] Speaker A: This what we ain't gonna do. This what we ain't gonna do. We ain't just gonna be cutting myself. Cut my music. Back off that. Cut my back off. [01:04:23] Speaker C: We ain't done. [01:04:25] Speaker A: We ain't done. We ain't done. You see how he get what he get on his ass? Have to find me somebody else. This Yoshi tripping, man. [01:04:33] Speaker C: Hey, don't do that. You ain't going nowhere. [01:04:34] Speaker A: I'll show your black ass. [01:04:36] Speaker C: Show me something there. [01:04:37] Speaker A: I'm already popping no favorite for. I'mma show you something. Don't worry about it. Hey, man, you've been tuned into the episode Peace of the P, man. We back next week, man. Appreciate y'all for tapping in peace.