You Gotta Reapply for the Same P*ssy? Girl, Please.

[00:00:00] Speaker A: Foreign. What's happening? Good evening. It's your boy Jay with the Inc. And you're tuned in to another episode of Peas in the Pod podcast. Hey, I got my codes back two weeks in a row, y' all. Two weeks in a row. [00:00:24] Speaker B: Popping it now. [00:00:25] Speaker A: We doing good. [00:00:26] Speaker B: Showing out. [00:00:27] Speaker A: Yeah, that, that, that, first of all. Second of all, check us out. Check us. Check us, you know what I'm saying? [00:00:33] Speaker B: Like, yeah, this is nice. [00:00:34] Speaker A: Check out the visuals for it. We switching cameras and, you know, hey, listen, we a real part. Not to it. You know what I'm saying? What's happening, though? It being. It being that. You know what I'm saying? But I was like, we having so much fun. Why not? Why not? Let's put some visuals behind the content, man. You know what I'm saying? [00:00:59] Speaker B: So, yo, even though you ain't tell a name, like, I really forgot. Okay, okay, I forgot. [00:01:06] Speaker A: I forgot. I forgot for sure. You know what I'm saying? [00:01:09] Speaker B: What's up with you? What's going on? [00:01:11] Speaker A: Hey, man, I'm chilling. We. We, we, we, we. I'm kind of excited, like, you know. [00:01:21] Speaker C: Like, I ain't never heard you speechless. [00:01:25] Speaker A: Hey, hey, listen, Yoshi say Yoshi tried. Yoshi. Yoshi. Yoshi. Yoshi had made me go crazy that we was like, you know, it's up charge. So basically what Yoshi's saying is, if you bring these lights out, you better have your money, right? And basically, what my dog's saying, man. [00:01:47] Speaker C: Only the lights, these camera setups, and all of that, you know. [00:01:50] Speaker A: Hey, hey, put a W in the chat, though, if. If you with the visuals, you know what I'm saying? Like, share the live and let's get active. You know what I'm saying? You feel me? They probably ain't gonna like this. They go like this. Y' all. Y' all would expect to cut like this, huh? Hey, man, but. [00:02:09] Speaker B: Okay, then pop it. [00:02:10] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? That was. They wouldn't expect. It is with the logo at the top. You mean, like, go ahead, Yoshi. Well, you outdid yourself, but clap it up for my dog, man. Give a dog a round of applause, man. You know what I'm saying? Covered up of a dog. [00:02:25] Speaker B: Clap it up for you. Putting it together and stuff. Like, you know, making a. Like, you know, get out there like that. Because a lot of people do not like to do the visuals. Like, most people rather just record and right. You know, post and stuff. So, you know, you gotta feel good about yourself to want to, like, get in Front of the camera, everybody be like, oh, I want to lose weight first. I want to get this first before I get on camera. [00:02:50] Speaker A: But you're gonna see. You gonna see me fat first. We ain't gonna keep doing too much of the big boy, but, you know, we. We here with it down. How many of you got? Oh, yeah, now. All right, cool. So listen, hey, I appreciate you, my boy. You know what I'm saying? Make sure you share the live, man. [00:03:07] Speaker C: Yeah, that's L.L. murphy from the Digital Studios podcast and the DJ Blaze radio show podcast. [00:03:15] Speaker A: Appreciate y' all, man. Appreciate it. Appreciate it. Hey, shout out to Cross Media. For sure. For sure. They lit, man. You know what I'm saying? But, man, what's happening, man? I got your boy on film. [00:03:31] Speaker C: What's the question? What's the question of the day, man? You can't get Hollywood now. [00:03:39] Speaker B: I feel like I'm doing it his own self. [00:03:43] Speaker A: I feel like we doing it. [00:03:44] Speaker B: I love it. [00:03:45] Speaker A: I feel like we doing it. But Shay has some interesting topics, you know what I'm saying? So you could just randomize that. Just throw it in the air, and we're gonna catch it. [00:03:57] Speaker B: Okay, that's. That's a bit. So Facebook family, you know, y' all, let's, you know, be tuned in to Facebook and stuff like that. It was a little post, like, floating around a little earlier in the day. It was a pretty long post, so I don't know if you really got into, like, the details of it, but it did touch on some topics that, you know, some. It touched on some interesting topics. One of the things that came up. So it's a young man, you know, I'm assuming single, no kids. He did make a post, and he was just pretty much talking about, like, women saying, oh, women that already have children, saying, oh, I don't want to have kids and any more children until I marry. So he. He, like, what the. Like, I. I don't want to. I want to have a child first, then get married. So, like, that first, that part of the status kind of struck a nerve with some people. So how you feeling about that? Like, dealing with somebody that have kids and they got certain stipulations before they have more, or do you even want more kids? [00:05:11] Speaker A: Damn, do I want more kids? I want more kids with the right person. Like, you know, like, I don't. I don't want no more baby mamas. [00:05:22] Speaker B: How do you determine if somebody is the right person? [00:05:25] Speaker A: Or, like, I don't know, we're just gonna leave it up to God Just. [00:05:28] Speaker B: Go with the flow, right? Just go. Go with what? Feel right. Ain't nothing wrong. So you prefer to be married before you have more kids? Because you got one, right? [00:05:37] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:05:37] Speaker B: Okay, so you prefer to be married before you have more kids or. [00:05:40] Speaker A: No, no, not necessarily. But, like, I mean, I do want to get married, though. That makes sense. But like, as far as, like, it ain't like a. Like a requirement, though, you know what I'm saying? [00:05:52] Speaker B: Like, I'm one of them people or one of them women that I do prefer to. I would rather be married before I have another child. I'm not opposed to having a child outside of Wheel. I'm not opposed to it because one thing about me, I love kids. So I'm. I'm on that. I want to grow my family, you know, I want. I'm gonna make better decisions than what I made before. [00:06:18] Speaker A: Well, you were talking that, though, if you could. Goddamn. What all them chilling. [00:06:23] Speaker B: I want me. I want me. Buy two more. I want. I can do. Buy two more in a dog. [00:06:29] Speaker A: I got. I got two max maximum. Like, not going over that for sure. But I feel what brother man saying it, though, because, like, I ain't gonna lie, bro. It's kind of weird for a man to have standards nowadays. You know what I'm saying? Like, it's always like a frowned upon situation. [00:06:47] Speaker B: Like, my opinion on that, and I. Because I got a opinion on that. I don't think people have an issue with a man having standards. It's just the fact that most of y' all men just started getting standards. And so y' all starting out loud and aggressive with y' all standards. [00:07:08] Speaker A: So, like, women. Women always have standards. They do it because y' all wouldn't have beat that apple if that the case. [00:07:21] Speaker B: In my personal opinion. I don't know the numbers. I ain't looked this up or nothing like that. I can't get y' all no hardcore facts on it, but I do feel like women are more. Women usually be a little more put together when it comes to men, when it comes to, like, knowing what they want. [00:07:36] Speaker A: So how y' all keep running through. [00:07:40] Speaker B: What you mean? What you mean? Like, I mean, I guess that what come with it. If you know what you want and you know somebody's not living up to that standard, then why say just go. [00:07:49] Speaker A: He was what you wanted in the beginning of. So, like, y' all really don't be knowing. [00:07:56] Speaker B: Getting to know people. That why it's important to take your time and get to know people. You can't just pop out, like just. You know what I'm saying? Like, that be the main thing every y' all men have told women that, oh, it's okay to on the first night. So now you on the first night and then trying to get into. And then trying to come with standards after you've already. Cuz nine times out of ten, if. [00:08:21] Speaker A: You so, so, so be coming with the standards after they. That what you're saying? [00:08:26] Speaker B: No women. Oh yeah, women come with standards after they on the first night. [00:08:33] Speaker A: Like, I mean, on the first night should be like. [00:08:38] Speaker B: Should be what? [00:08:39] Speaker A: It shouldn't be like a thing. If you do it, you do it. It's not like you're just classifying it. [00:08:46] Speaker B: As that, but the world has made it a thing. Most people be like, ain't nothing wrong with on the first night. Why would I. A lot of people, well, one thing they try to get away from was the wait until marriage for sex. I don't blame nobody for not waiting until they get married to have sex. But that's an old standard. That's an old standard. [00:09:06] Speaker A: That was before you a hoe and you burnt out. You can wait that long. You didn't dog that. You didn't dog that coocha that we were you out here talking about you got down gonna wait till marriage. That's a long ass time. But you don't know when you gonna get married or now you're just gonna be chasing marriage. You know what I'm saying? Trying to stand on your word. But P.J. [00:09:25] Speaker B: Greg says so. Y' all the reason why y' all can or can't have the relationship y' all want. [00:09:33] Speaker A: Hey, listen, that was. You feel me? [00:09:35] Speaker B: Like, it take two, pj, not about one sex. It's not about one party. It take two. [00:09:44] Speaker A: Like, no, it's not. But like, it's like, it's different types of men, though. And like, y' all don't know how to. Y' all don't know how to like, choose in between which one is which. You feel me? Like, you can't look at a and tell like, oh, this what going on. You know what I'm saying? Like, cause know how to put that on as a facade. [00:10:05] Speaker B: And that's why you can't treat everybody the same. That's why you came as a woman. Like, you shouldn't with every person the same, and men have issues with it. Oh, you let that other do this. You let that other man do that, but you really truly ain't no way doing that. Well saying, oh, you let that other do this? Yeah, all the time. Oh, you acting like this with me. I see it all the time. Don't y' all be posting that. It's one post that y' all guys say all the time. It's like you was a hoe with all them other. Now you want to get with me and be in a relationship. Y' all say that all the time. [00:10:42] Speaker A: That be them who be goddamn them hoes, though, ain't you that bitch? And you that bitch raw for her to even want to be in a relationship with you. So that's your fault, pal. You know what I'm saying? Like Yoshi say, I ain't waiting till marriage. That's what I'm saying. Like, God damn. Like you ain't the Virgin Mary, especially. You got some miles on that coochie. You gonna tell me we got to wait till marriage? [00:11:05] Speaker B: You doing that shit that I saw y' all. [00:11:08] Speaker C: No, I. I think. I think you got to kick the ties. You know what I'm saying? Under the hood. [00:11:13] Speaker A: What if we get married? [00:11:14] Speaker C: You know, I ain't buying the car without finding out that run. [00:11:17] Speaker A: What if we get married and you just. Dog, dog. Can't you get stiff as a board like you ain't flexible or nothing. The can't do nothing more than what going on. What? Hell, no. [00:11:34] Speaker B: What PJ say no. [00:11:35] Speaker C: Y' all be saying, I got another who will do what you won't do. [00:11:39] Speaker A: Man. Bro, listen. Hey, listen. [00:11:42] Speaker C: Go to that. [00:11:43] Speaker A: Hey, listen. Y' all female. [00:11:44] Speaker B: I'm telling you, women do say that. And we've been raised to say that. [00:11:49] Speaker A: I've been raised to say that. [00:11:50] Speaker B: You crazy as women mother figures. Women figures. And. And girls lives be like, well, one man won't do, another man will. That's such a common. [00:12:01] Speaker A: They had. They probably had two. Two boyfriends, though. Y' all be having just six that you texting, and you got them like, you got them off of them, just swiping up, telling you your ass fat. Are you pretty. That's it. Like it was no connection to nothing. Your mama actually had two who she could play with. You know what I'm saying? Like, y' all don't be having one. [00:12:25] Speaker B: Listen. [00:12:26] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? Like what? Hell, no. [00:12:29] Speaker B: I sure ain't got a dog in that fight. Cause I ain't got. Now. [00:12:32] Speaker A: You ain't got none. [00:12:33] Speaker B: I ain't got now. [00:12:35] Speaker C: Hey, wait, hold on. Like, the other day, you had. You had somebody. [00:12:39] Speaker A: I wasn't gonna say nothing. [00:12:40] Speaker B: Cause I told y' all that I stopped that. I told y' all that I had stopped it. [00:12:44] Speaker A: You stopped what? [00:12:45] Speaker C: No, she wasn't here last week. [00:12:47] Speaker B: That wasn't last week. No, when we was talking about the Valentine's Day stuff. Y' all remember that? The flowers and stuff like that? Yeah, yeah. [00:12:55] Speaker C: My man's was doing this thing. [00:12:57] Speaker B: Come on now. [00:12:58] Speaker C: That what you said following y' all. [00:13:01] Speaker A: Hey, Don, I'm open for the sponsors now. I ain't been showing your logo until. Because I drank this every episode. [00:13:08] Speaker B: No, even in the 1500s, they wasn't waiting for marriage. It just wasn't popularized. Yeah, I don't think people. People been and saying that they were virgins. And like, they mean. I wish you. [00:13:24] Speaker A: I wish a would. I. Ain't nothing wrong with making me wait. Don't, don't. Don't get it twisted. You know what I'm saying? I like, I like. [00:13:32] Speaker B: We miss you, girl. [00:13:33] Speaker A: Man, don't make me get on her. Don't make me get on her ass. [00:13:37] Speaker B: Bro, not too much. [00:13:40] Speaker A: I just told you, don't even join right now until you get your together twin. You know what I'm saying, cuz? Look at what we done did. You supposed to be part of this. Look at, look at, look at. Come on, man. [00:13:56] Speaker B: Okay, the views steady. Going up. [00:13:58] Speaker A: Hey, listen. Check, check, check. We switching camera angles. And not all on y' all ass. [00:14:04] Speaker B: No PJ talking about me. He said you sound like Control Chaos. [00:14:08] Speaker A: She is Control Chaos. Prime example. [00:14:12] Speaker B: I mean, it's kind of like a girl car or like, you know how you get in a girl car? They might not. You might look at it like, what the is this? But she know how to find everything in her car. It'd be like that sometimes. That's it. Life be like that sometimes. Be all over the place. But I know how to find. I know how to y' all. Hell, direct my focus. [00:14:32] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. But, yeah, bro, I'm not like. I say I'm cool with waiting a little bit. I like. I like. I like to take. I like unexpected coochie anyway. I like getting that when I ain't really like, thinking I ain't gonna get it. I just. You know what I'm saying? Especially if I'm just, like, liking the chill around you and you know what I'm saying? Like some unexpected coochie. I love it. It's like that make it better right there. [00:14:56] Speaker C: That like Christmas, boy. [00:14:57] Speaker A: I promise you, bro, that better than Christmas. One thing you get on Christmas is socks. [00:15:00] Speaker B: Not. [00:15:00] Speaker A: Anyway, you know what I'm Saying, like. [00:15:06] Speaker B: Talking about socks and toboggan. [00:15:07] Speaker A: Word. I love me some unexpected coochie. So you feel me like, oh, for me, you shouldn't have it. You shouldn't have it. [00:15:18] Speaker C: But I will partake. [00:15:20] Speaker A: Now, don't start treating it like a present. [00:15:22] Speaker C: No, no, no, no, no. It's not the present. [00:15:23] Speaker A: It ain't. It ain't no present. Now, you ain't just gonna dangle it over me like a prize. Like, you jump this high, Imma get to you. I just won't get it. [00:15:33] Speaker B: I just told it is a present. But don't weaponize it. Maybe what weaponizing it? Like, don't be like, oh, you ain't did this, so you ain't getting it. Like, that's weaponizing it. It's still a tree. [00:15:47] Speaker A: And start. Y' all better start acting like that. Boy, you cuz you the one doing all the thrusting. You know what I'm saying? You. You got. You got to put in work to put in work. Like, damn, you know she ain't going to hop on top. [00:16:02] Speaker B: Oh, my God. [00:16:04] Speaker A: What? Hell, no. What then I ain't going to lie. Make you wait on some lazy bro. [00:16:16] Speaker B: What's a lazy? [00:16:17] Speaker A: Well, y' all just only get lay there, right? Only thing they can do is bend over. [00:16:20] Speaker C: Yeah, bend over. [00:16:22] Speaker A: Bend over and lay there. And you can't even arch your back, right? Your ass be curled up. You get scoliosis. [00:16:27] Speaker B: Curl up. [00:16:28] Speaker A: Scoliosis. [00:16:29] Speaker B: He said curl up. We not going to do this today, y' all. We not going to do this today. This is not about to be about y' all just getting off the girls. [00:16:38] Speaker A: I just said that. What you here for? You here for them, though, you know what I'm saying? Like, hey, listen, they get to scooting that chair up on the nigga, you know what I'm saying? Like, it wasn't even the sex. [00:16:48] Speaker B: It's the scoot in the chair. [00:16:49] Speaker A: For me, it wasn't even the sex. For real. I just. I just. With you. [00:16:54] Speaker B: So the original question was about the, you know, dealing with somebody that got kids and, you know, if they want to wait till marriage to have more kids, I don't like. [00:17:06] Speaker A: No, you don't like nowhere with a lot of kids. [00:17:11] Speaker B: I mean, that's fair. If a person only got one or two kids. Like, in my personal opinion, unless you want a big family, unless you got some type of something going on where you might not be able to procreate, I don't really see a person that got zero to two kids dealing with somebody that got a lot of kids, unless that's their preference. A lot of people like a lot of. A lot of men like women with a lot of kids and that cuz. [00:17:36] Speaker A: Them can't make they own. [00:17:38] Speaker B: And mothers tell their mothers tell their boys, like, get you a woman that got some kids because some, in most cases, they usually be a little more stable. [00:17:47] Speaker A: My mama ain't never said no like that. That's what the guy she did. She ain't never said getting a no kid. Y' all some tough. [00:17:53] Speaker B: What kind of advice you need? [00:17:54] Speaker A: Some tough. [00:17:56] Speaker B: Like what kind? [00:17:56] Speaker A: Meet a girl, where you. Where she. She. You need her to be at. [00:18:00] Speaker B: Okay, that's fair, you know what I'm saying? So shout out to Ms. Kim, right. [00:18:04] Speaker A: Cuz y' all be. Anyway I be seeing y' all share that weak ass stepdaddy. This, I'mma be with the baby mama. This gonna make your own. And you'll see how a don't give a about that. You water shooting out the dick ass. You can't even make none, you know what I'm saying? Like, what do you say? [00:18:26] Speaker C: I had my two sons and I waited till I got married to have another one, right, bro? [00:18:31] Speaker A: Hey, listen, I bet so like, I'm on my own little journey right now. Like, I ain't even. Please, you can't even say you. You talking to me, touching me, none of that, you know what I'm saying? So I don't even be like on that, bro. I'm on the same type of time, like a really do want companionship, you know what I'm saying? So like, I just don't be selling it, bro. Like you do sit down like we out here. You know what I'm saying? Like, I don't be. I don't. I don't be with all that, bro. Cause life too short, you know what I'm saying? Like, I ain't one of them. Who. Oh, this my fish. My fish ain't going nowhere. If that fish want to swim doggy bone, you got to let that fish swim doggy. You know what I'm saying? That kitchen get hot. You still got to cook though. Feel me? [00:19:21] Speaker B: And that's after being single for four years. You know, pj, I used to think it was so crazy when I hear people say that they've been single for like a long period of time. Like three years, four year fight. I thought that was so crazy. Like, dog, what's up with that? But now, as a person that's walking. [00:19:37] Speaker A: That walk, girl, you ain't been single four years. [00:19:40] Speaker B: I have been single. Have I dated? Yes, absolutely. But my relationship status didn't change. Dating and being in a relationship is two different things. [00:19:50] Speaker C: Okay, so what constitutes. And. Because I think that that's a thing. [00:19:54] Speaker A: That's literally a thing. [00:19:55] Speaker C: What is. What is. I think each person's definition of a relationship. Because sometimes I've been just dating. Okay, you been. I've been dating you for. For three. [00:20:06] Speaker B: And then the other person might. [00:20:07] Speaker C: I've been dating you for three years. You've been in a relationship with me for five. [00:20:15] Speaker A: A make. They sound so committed to you. Well, I ain't dealing with nobody else, so. Ain't nobody asked you to do that. [00:20:21] Speaker B: Oh, my God, you guys are so ungrateful. Like, that sounds so unique. [00:20:26] Speaker A: Because you could be lying. [00:20:27] Speaker B: That sounds. [00:20:28] Speaker A: You could be lying like a. And I ain't trying to. See, I'm already telling you what we own. Y' all. Y' all know what y' all women really do is try to manipulate into a relationship. Oh. You know what I'm saying? Like, we ain't gonna talk about that because that's. That's definitely what y' all be doing. Like, y' all. Y' all. Y' all. Y' all some manipulators, man. And you be trying. Y' all be trying to manipulate a. With that soggy ass and the. It been. It been. It been. [00:20:54] Speaker B: Bad. Now, come on, now. [00:20:55] Speaker A: I'm just saying. [00:20:56] Speaker B: Stop saying that, too. That's such a hard word. [00:20:57] Speaker A: Every ain't good either. Damn show ain't. You can bet your bottom dollar on that one. Don't even be having no good coochie. It literally be your personality sometimes that keep you around. And then y' all. But y' all be thinking you. It's the coochie. It don't be the coochie. Never has been, never will. [00:21:17] Speaker B: The only. Well, I can't say. [00:21:19] Speaker A: Get hit in that deep throat seat and down there, break your seat. Hunger. That don't be feeling good. But you think you. I' ma let you think you're doing your big one. You know what I'm saying? Hunger, hunger, hunger. I'll be like God, trying to tear your damn esophagus up. But you know you feeling like you pleasing me. So, like, I ain't gonna rain on your parade. You know what I'm saying? [00:21:42] Speaker B: Like, okay, views. [00:21:44] Speaker A: Where the views at? Where we at? [00:21:46] Speaker B: You at 37. [00:21:48] Speaker A: Okay, then talk to me. [00:21:50] Speaker B: They coming on in. [00:21:52] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? What the hell you feel Me. [00:21:56] Speaker C: Said it take the. It take that because people be with you benefit nowadays. It really take honest, real talk conversation. Yeah, yeah, but pj, don't nobody women don't want no honesty now. For real. [00:22:12] Speaker A: Don't be wanting. Bro. I ain't gonna just put it on. Cabrera. We got some y' all who ain't had no father figure in your life. It shows, bro, y' all be acting just like these women out here. That's why these women act just like these. You know what I'm saying? Like. But y' all be doing some whole ass man. [00:22:31] Speaker C: Do, man. [00:22:32] Speaker B: You going to have to elaborate, cuz. [00:22:33] Speaker A: I ain't for one going through that phone. That's some Ho the f. Oh, my God. That's some whole. Why is you going through making all that fuss, right? Bro, you got down. Down that. [00:22:47] Speaker B: Oh, my God. [00:22:48] Speaker A: Okay. I'm saying I'll survive. You get your ass up and jump on this pony. You feel? Because whatever. You know, like. But I know when I'm down there eating some coochie, though. Oh, you feel me? [00:23:08] Speaker B: That's crazy. That's crazy. [00:23:10] Speaker A: So women, y' all body don't lie. Y' all body don't lie. You can't fake the Southern shiver. You get that superhuman strength. You fighting. Yeah, you that. Y' all bodies online. So I know. And I ain't doing my job. [00:23:26] Speaker B: So basically, like. Well, you basically literally just saying you make the sex like men should make the six. [00:23:36] Speaker A: Because honestly, as a man, if you still for you, you like a little boy you supposed to be to please your woman. That's literally what we doing. [00:23:48] Speaker B: Vice versa, you know what I'm saying? [00:23:49] Speaker A: Like, I'm trying to get her off before me. She gonna bust 50 of these before I get to a half one, you know what I'm saying? Like, especially your girl. Boy, please. [00:24:04] Speaker C: I was like. I was about 18. I was dating. 42 year old. [00:24:09] Speaker B: You was dating or you was in a relationship, you was hanging out. You. Y' all was hanging out, hooking up. [00:24:16] Speaker A: Know what her name is? We about to lock her ass up. [00:24:19] Speaker C: I wasn't in high school. I hadn't really done graduate. I've been out. I hadn't been out of high school about two years. [00:24:23] Speaker A: Hey, that's what I'm saying. Going through that phone is for fucking suckers. Suckers. [00:24:26] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah. [00:24:27] Speaker A: You are a. Listen, brother, brother, man, if you wake up, whatever thought crosses your mind, whatever you was doing to make the thought cross your mind, don't ever do it again. [00:24:37] Speaker C: No, but here's the thing. If you. If you feel the urge to go through somebody phone, you deserve whatever you see. [00:24:43] Speaker A: Oh, man. [00:24:44] Speaker C: Whatever you see, you deserve. Because I think that your insecurity is what caused you to go through that phone, man. Listen, it was your. Is your own insecurity within yourself that caused you to go through that phone. And if you feel like I've never ever in my life had the urge to go through. But listen, no, woman. [00:25:00] Speaker A: I went through one phone, bro, and caught that. And only way I can describe this out of body experience. It's like. It's like a crackhead. One time, I was locked up. I was locked up. He was in the vent telling us. He was like, boy, I tried to kill myself. I tried to smoke a whole lot of dope. You know how they say you smoke a whole lot of dope? You gonna die. You ain't gonna die. Just get real quiet. [00:25:29] Speaker B: Listen, they don't die. I'm telling you what I know. [00:25:33] Speaker A: I swear to God. I felt that, though, because that would happen, bro. It just got quiet as a. [00:25:38] Speaker B: Like when you went through somebody phone. [00:25:40] Speaker A: What is. Get the ranking in there. [00:25:43] Speaker B: How long ago was this? [00:25:45] Speaker A: We ain't gonna talk about that. [00:25:46] Speaker B: How long ago was this? [00:25:47] Speaker A: We're gonna talk about that. [00:25:48] Speaker B: No, that's important. [00:25:50] Speaker A: This was probably like four years ago, maybe. [00:25:54] Speaker B: Okay. [00:25:54] Speaker A: Four or five years ago. Okay. [00:25:56] Speaker B: You've been so for free for four, five years. [00:25:58] Speaker A: Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. That's what I'm saying. I never feel. I never feel like that again, player. [00:26:03] Speaker B: Listen, y' all, you got it. [00:26:05] Speaker A: If I even feel like I got the. The thought I got to think about going through your phone. [00:26:12] Speaker B: I was in a relationship with a dude. [00:26:13] Speaker A: We're gonna get your question next, bro. [00:26:15] Speaker B: A couple years ago, in a relationship with the dude. We all the way out in la. I don't know what happened. I believe somebody might have been calling my phone. So I try to give the man security. I was like, you can go on my phone. But he's such a. A dominant force that I'm thinking he was gonna be cool on. He was like, all right, I want to go through your phone. Yeah. [00:26:39] Speaker C: So did you bluff? And that called it. [00:26:41] Speaker B: Listen, hold on. It's about to get good. So we. We had a whole itinerary. Like, we. We busy for the day. It's his birthday. We out there. Like, I'm spending money, like, treating this man real good. Everything going good because he's always done that for me. So we out there having a ball, and I'm Just thinking. He ain't thinking about that phone. So I was trying to really, like, wait for a time to get by myself, to just check my phone real quick, because I had. I ain't knew what was in the phone, so I knew that I wasn't cheating on him. But I know men don't like when you're friendly. Men don't like when you. When you respond to, like, they feel like it. It shouldn't be nothing that you should have to say to somebody. So we all out in la, He. He ain't saying nothing else by the phone. So I'm thinking, sweet. At the end of the day, he was like, oh, I was still waiting for your phone. Yeah. I never let him get the phone. He wrestled that phone out my hand and I went. I couldn't. He couldn't get into y' all. He took that phone. We was in a penthouse, and the windows didn't even open up all the way. They just kind of. You can let them, like, push them out or whatever. He pushed that window out. That man dropped that phone down so many floors. And he packed up all his. And he left out the room, took the rental. I said, oh, God, I'm in LA by myself. I don't know how I'm gonna get home. Well, obviously, I had a return flight, so I knew I was gonna get a flight, but I hadn't spent all my money all on rodeo. We all in every store out that, like, get what you want. [00:28:14] Speaker A: So. [00:28:14] Speaker C: Damn. Yeah, get what you want when you spent your own money. [00:28:18] Speaker A: No, no. [00:28:19] Speaker B: It was his birthday, so I was buying. [00:28:24] Speaker A: What's crazy is right. [00:28:26] Speaker B: But y' all, when I. When I did get to go through the phone, there was nothing in the. [00:28:32] Speaker C: So why didn't you just give him the phone? Because first off, he's a lame. But why you ain't just give him the phone? [00:28:39] Speaker A: It depends. It depends, brother. It depends, brother. Because. Not saying. Not saying, because me and you go through it. But if that. Spending some money. [00:28:48] Speaker B: So much weight after I. [00:28:49] Speaker A: If he's spending some money. Now I understand why the want to try to see by his investment. See by his investment. But I just rather let God do it. [00:29:02] Speaker B: I knew that, like, if somebody would inbox me and say, oh, you pretty. Da da. I might say, thank you, or I might put a heart. And I knew that he didn't like that. So that's all was in the phone. But I. I was just so nervous. I don't know. I was scared, man. [00:29:16] Speaker A: I was scared that because he left. [00:29:19] Speaker B: Me in that room, packed up all his and left. But you end up coming back. But I thought, damn, I'm doomed. [00:29:24] Speaker A: You should have just let that goddamn go through that. Cause you volunteered it, dumbass. [00:29:28] Speaker B: I did. I'm so slow. [00:29:30] Speaker A: I swear to God. Like. [00:29:31] Speaker B: But it's cool. [00:29:31] Speaker A: That was one of your silliest moves, brother. Hold you like trying to act cute. [00:29:37] Speaker B: Talking about you can go through my phone. He called my bluff. [00:29:41] Speaker A: Listen, bro. And ain't nobody like, I don't know, I guess. Cause I don't be trying to go through no phones. Anybody be trying to go through mine. [00:29:48] Speaker C: But so you know, he ain't like it. And you still did it. That would Malik say that was. [00:29:54] Speaker B: Yeah, that's young me. That's old. That's like years old. [00:29:58] Speaker A: No, it ain't. That's still. That's still shotavious right there. [00:30:00] Speaker B: I know you fucking lying. [00:30:03] Speaker A: My dog. Get down though. [00:30:05] Speaker B: Don't do that. [00:30:06] Speaker A: So let me stop. What that question was that, bro. We had missed that though. We was gonna get. [00:30:13] Speaker B: Yeah, what was the question? [00:30:14] Speaker A: Question right there. Yeah, what do you say? [00:30:19] Speaker B: Why is our generate. Why is our generation the way it is when it comes to relationships? [00:30:24] Speaker C: Well, I think it's kind of vague. So. Like, what. Okay, if you can't like elaborate a little bit. Like what way? Because I don't. I don't probably like. [00:30:33] Speaker A: Probably like just feeling like it just like, fuck it. [00:30:39] Speaker B: Everybody feeling like everybody's replaceable at least. [00:30:42] Speaker A: Because I ain't go lie. I kind of like. I ain't going to say like, I be. I'd be on that, so to speak. But like a nigga, just don't be like trying to like, overstimulate itself or like overstress the situation that I can't control or I can't like. You know what I'm saying? Like, yeah, yeah, some that you already did. Like, no, I can't let myself get outside my body. I got too much going on. So I'd rather just like say it. But boy, listen. [00:31:13] Speaker B: But you can also learn healthy ways to. You can learn healthy ways to deal with other people. You don't. Something about going through a phone. Folks just don't need to go through nobody phone until you. How about. That's it. That's all. That is a fake. [00:31:32] Speaker C: Okay, okay. Not going back. But I got a question. [00:31:36] Speaker B: Go ahead. [00:31:37] Speaker C: If you pay the phone bill. [00:31:39] Speaker A: Oh, wait. [00:31:41] Speaker C: If you pay the phone bill, do you have a right to go through the phone? [00:31:43] Speaker A: Man, you got. Yeah, you definitely got the right. [00:31:46] Speaker C: You could Just you could log into your account. [00:31:49] Speaker B: And my personal opinion, a phone bill is always gonna be something that's separate. I don't care what type of relationship I get in a phone bill, that gonna always be separate. Because that's your privacy. Respect people privacy. [00:32:00] Speaker C: No, it's pri. I'm saying that's privacy. But what if I'm paying? If. If you. Your boyfriend got a phone, or Jay. Your girl got a phone and you paying the bill, and the viewers out there need them to answer this question. If you paying the bill, like he. [00:32:15] Speaker B: Be saying, pay your own pay. Go ahead. [00:32:22] Speaker C: It's people out here paying phone bills. [00:32:24] Speaker B: Truly. [00:32:24] Speaker C: Do you have the right to go. That's the question. I don't want no. Pay your own phone bill. I don't want none of that. Do you have the right to go through that phone? [00:32:30] Speaker A: Hey, Nick. Be on here with some every week. Why, though? Like, what. What makes y' all men and women? What makes you, like, say, let me go through your phone? [00:32:45] Speaker C: Just cause you paying, that mean you got authority? No, I'm paying this phone bill. That's what I'm asking. If it's a no, it's a no. It's yes, It's a yes. It's just a question. [00:32:56] Speaker A: But what make a want to go through it, though? Like what. What's. What's. [00:32:59] Speaker C: Like, we adding to it. I just want to know. [00:33:01] Speaker B: For me, it gonna be, oh, no. Cause I'm in this phone talking about your ass. When I get mad. I'm saying, girl, this got me up. [00:33:10] Speaker A: Like, fellas, let me give you. Let me give you some free game, fellas. You ain't even got to try to catch. [00:33:16] Speaker B: I'm talking about your mama. [00:33:17] Speaker A: You ain't even got to try to catch no messages. You ain't got to try to catch no cash outs. Just check that flow out, boy. Check the flow out. You gonna know. And. And. And not only that. This. This for the younger people because, you know, oh, oh, oh, oh. Y' all old hoes still do it too. [00:33:39] Speaker B: Jesus. [00:33:40] Speaker A: But just check the flow out, twin. I'm telling you, I'll give you some free game. You ain't got to go through no group chats. None of that. Because you go to that group chat, you go see how your girl really feel about you. Don't go through the group chat. That's just one go through the flow app, bro. The flow app gonna tell it all, twin. They get to putting them hearts down on that, for one. That mean Raw six. She's just trying to keep up with who she. You know what I'm saying? It ain't just you just go through that flow out way. That's all you got to do. [00:34:11] Speaker B: Bro, I don't have a flow app. [00:34:14] Speaker A: Well, in that case, you go through her cash Apple pay history. Me, she can't, she can't go through. She can't go to the wallet and delete. What, what is what then when you don't know the number, she ain't got the number. Say you put that in cash out, cuz that's what I do when y' all text me and I don't know who you is and I got to do my background check on my for a tattoo. [00:34:34] Speaker B: Cuz you get sitting here thinking not to cut you off, but I'm sitting here thinking if I did have something going on, I don't know, I don't know how a person would be able to catch me because I'm a 90s baby. Like no trail. Like she told my little trail like, no, you're not about to cash out me, you're not about to. I come get the money. [00:34:56] Speaker A: Like, hey listen, this one I knew a. This one I knew it. This one I knew a was, was like playing with me twin I around seeing this, sending this just random, just random little. You know what I'm saying? Like, especially like oh, keep hungry. I. I was sending random little like lunch, huh? Get your nails done. Huh. Hooking this sick on this gonna tell someone they talking about I didn't told you about cash shopping me. I say, oh well I tell you me, hey listen, when you meet a colder than you, but that do something to you, boy. [00:35:32] Speaker B: Oh God, that should do something. [00:35:35] Speaker A: When you thought you was the coldest and you met somebody colder than you. [00:35:39] Speaker B: I agree with you, Justin. You said trust me, you gonna get caught still if you doing something and you got like, if you got something that you don't want nobody to know that you're doing, just don't do that. Cause it always comes out. It gonna always come out. [00:35:55] Speaker A: I'm insane. Listen, I don't be doing that, right? I don't be doing it. I just, I just know how to help do it. You feel what I'm saying? Like, I just, I just know how to help you do it. I ain't necessarily cut for one. I ain't going through my gal phone. I'm telling you that. No, I'm cool, I'm cool. I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm good. I don't want. I don't want to see Godly, I don't want to see. Boy, you bond to go through that some life changing. Boy, you go through that girl phone, bro. I promise to God, boy, I'm old now. [00:36:27] Speaker B: Ain't exciting in my phone. Like, I barely take pictures anymore. If you go through my phone, the only thing you going My sister calls me every morning, like 8:00. Clock. Why I got to shut up, cuz. [00:36:38] Speaker A: You take pictures, bro, barely. If your ass going to do something, you is going to stand in front that mirror and take a picture, though. [00:36:46] Speaker B: I mean, I do my little post on my little snout, something like that. But like, you know them little nice little pictures, them little attachments. I'm. I'm no longer doing that. I don't do that no more. [00:37:00] Speaker A: Hold on. What she said. [00:37:03] Speaker B: What happened? [00:37:05] Speaker A: Hold on. I thought. I thought I caught something to start. Wait, keep me last. Coming up. Okay, I ain't caught nothing. [00:37:13] Speaker B: He said, I met somebody cold. [00:37:16] Speaker A: She said that's exactly why women. Why they say women cheap belt. Hey, listen, y' all do cheat better than come for one. Y' all cheating with a that you care about and you love. You know how your yo crazy ass gonna get anyway. You don't want to go through that. [00:37:34] Speaker B: Scroll down. [00:37:36] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? Like, I'll be scared. I'll be scared of the women, boy. I'll be scared of women. Hey, listen, bro, bro, listen, bro, boy, hey, I ain't slid down the wall or nothing, bro. But the definitely smoke a blunt and stared at that ceiling fan like, damn. Well, it be cold, boy. Like I thought we had something, you know, like. [00:38:08] Speaker B: Yes. Is it neat? Yeah, men most definitely get different when they got something going on. A girl or female can kind of hold it down. But you know when a got something going on because how you know when. [00:38:20] Speaker A: They got something going on? [00:38:22] Speaker B: First of all, me personally, I always do this. I don't know if y' all follow me on social media, but when little Baby and Jada when they was dating, I always knew when he was cheating on her, I'd be like little Baby ugly again. Y' all get be looking different when they be cheating. Y' all do not be seriously, y' all. [00:38:40] Speaker A: I heard you say some wild listen. [00:38:43] Speaker B: Be ugly as when they be cheating. [00:38:46] Speaker A: You see what we doing? Twin P P's in the pod. That the name of it. I' ma keep your to the side till you send the email. You know what I'm saying? [00:38:56] Speaker B: But yeah, y' all, y' all change up when y' all be cheating. [00:39:00] Speaker A: We're gonna be changing up like that. That just when the don't give a For real. [00:39:06] Speaker B: He said cap real P brothers know how to keep it together. [00:39:09] Speaker A: That's what I'm saying. That one of the just don't give a. I don't care if you find out I'm cheating anyway. I pay all the bills. Where you going? Where you going. [00:39:19] Speaker B: Man? [00:39:20] Speaker A: Right. Let's talk about it. Cause that when the get to doing. [00:39:23] Speaker B: All that I know the y' all don't y' all messy girl. That is messy as hell. Don't just be doing all that talking. It don't be the women that be with that talking time. I just sloppy as yeah, it be y' all. It be y' all that be doing that talking, man. Bro. [00:39:45] Speaker A: I say bro just don't give a no more. You know what I'm saying? You talking about always leaving the trail. Y' all leave a trail too. Honestly, bro, if that like me bro, he don't give a. Like I'mma just go. I'm. I'm gonna go do what I do. You know I still love you though. That one. I just ain't listen, bro, I'm not going through that phone twin. I'm tell you that. No, I'm not. I don't. I don't. I don't know. [00:40:13] Speaker B: You want some weight? [00:40:16] Speaker A: I don't know what y' all prerogative is Going through the phone is a no. No. I'm just tell you that off real. [00:40:25] Speaker B: She said and then y' all cheat with ugly hoes. It. It ain't even nothing that's happening us for real. You know they go with it. First of all, welcome. First of all, they do do that. [00:40:37] Speaker A: First of all that why that cheat anyway? It might be the hole in your face. Y' all be swearing to be about how somebody look that just act like somebody she act how I want my woman to act. [00:40:47] Speaker B: I'm just tired of your face. That's crazy. You know, I had a to tell me that I talk too much. That's been my thing lately. Like that why like dating. That's. That's the kind of response that I'm getting lately. I talk too much. And that's why I love a podcast. Let me go where I'm allowed to talk at. Where I'm. Well, I'm welcome to talk. Cause I don't want to be with somebody that feel like I talk too much, man. [00:41:09] Speaker A: Cause you can let these. You can let a know you on tour or whatever the case may be, bro. And just because of how you. Is how you carry yourself, how many people attracted to you, bro. They still want you and they want you to themselves, you know what I'm saying? And sad to say, them be the ones that get left behind sometimes, you know what I'm saying? Like, damn, we had something good going on, but you just couldn't shut the up and mind your business and just hold it down, you know what I'm saying? Like, real talk, bro. That be real, but like, man. [00:41:41] Speaker B: So just be cool is what you saying. [00:41:43] Speaker A: Just be cool. [00:41:44] Speaker B: Just be cool. Okay? [00:41:45] Speaker A: Just be cool. Because what be so crazy y' all want a to come be faithful and pay all the bills. Damn, boy, that's a lot. I don't. I don't think. I don't. Speechless. [00:42:02] Speaker B: I don't like that for you. [00:42:03] Speaker A: Speechless. [00:42:04] Speaker B: I don't like that for you that you feel that way, like. Because that means. [00:42:08] Speaker A: It ain't for me, though. It ain't for me. I'm just saying though, like, I know like. [00:42:12] Speaker B: Like in general, if you feel like paying all the bills and being faithful is a task, get the on. Like if you got. If you gotta choose which one you gonna do when it comes to being a man, like, just don't with me. [00:42:29] Speaker A: Cause what you want. [00:42:32] Speaker B: I'm not. No, it ain't about a paying all the bills. Women don't get. Women don't get to choose. Okay, Am I gonna work? Am I gonna be a mother? You do got people that is doing it. And that's their prerogative. That's what they choose. And y' all know how y' all talk down about them. [00:42:49] Speaker A: But listen though, what be so crazy is y' all be sitting there with that D, especially if you and the in the same household. So you tell me that just letting you be a mama. He don't get up when that baby cry. He don't fix no bottle. He don't change no pamper. Then look at what the you created and laid down with. Then what be another thing? Y' all them been to have six kids that you ain't never seen before and your dumb ass to give them another one. But you supposed to be this big happy family. That's just how the that is. So don't sit there and do that for every. Because there's who out here who love being a dad, who love being a part of that creation life. So don't sit here like, oh, well, I got to be a mama. I seen somebody Said some dumb like that the other day, talking about, oh, I can't be a mom 100 woman and pay half the bills. How the you can't? Because what that just doing paying bills. It's still grass got to be cut. It's this got to be fixed that around there being compliant with his kids. He's not just telling go to your mama because then he don't want his kids to hate him. What kind of is y' all dealing with? [00:43:52] Speaker B: I mean, that could be a reflection. [00:43:54] Speaker A: Of y' all in a minute. [00:43:55] Speaker B: Now it is out there. It is out there. We ain't gonna act like it's not our day. It's all day. But everybody get a choice. People choose what they want to do. [00:44:02] Speaker A: Exactly. If you had. If you had a baby with a. And you had to sign the was a. [00:44:08] Speaker B: All you gotta do is shut the up. [00:44:10] Speaker A: All you gotta do is shut the up. [00:44:12] Speaker B: Yes, ma' am. She said they mad when you set boundaries. [00:44:15] Speaker A: They need to pay all the bills, and your ass can't cook. [00:44:20] Speaker B: Women don't even be appreciative who really morally support their kids. [00:44:26] Speaker A: What'd she say? Who What Nick say? [00:44:32] Speaker B: She said no. They mad when you set boundaries. Get mad when you set boundaries. [00:44:39] Speaker A: They do, you know. You know what y' all call setting boundaries? Oh, well, we can't unless you want to be in a relationship with me. That'd be y' all main boundary. [00:44:49] Speaker B: I hate that y' all be. [00:44:51] Speaker A: Hey, listen, a beating say if a hadn't fell off you. We already didn't. No, we didn't fell off. Okay, Virgo, what if I was just chilling, though? You know what I'm saying? I'm just saying, though, what if I was just chilling? I wasn't even on no pussy or getting some right now. Might have been broke. He just needed three weeks to get his together. I double back trying to get some. Now you got boundaries. I already. What kind of you think you're about to give me? You ain't gave me before. Now all of a sudden you just so standing on business. Don't know you can't get this no more. Well, you gonna give it to another anyway. You ain't gonna. You ain't got marriage yet. You ain't no closer to getting married yet. But I can't get no. Cause you. You so boundaried up. Girl, please. [00:45:35] Speaker B: So what give you the right to get it because you had it before? What make you feel so entitled to man? [00:45:43] Speaker A: What makes. What make you feel like. What make you feel like I don't feel entire the I just tried to hit you up on some can I get some pussy but now I got to go through stage one, two, three and four again before I get to home base. I got to retake you out to dinner. I got to re show you the type of I am. I got to redo this, that, and the third for the same. [00:46:07] Speaker B: Okay, well, if you don't want to do it, you know what to do. And that's what you do. [00:46:12] Speaker A: Boot the ass on twin. But they tell my like word like. [00:46:17] Speaker B: Man, come on, let him cool. Jay is not cooking nothing but some poking beans and weenies and y' all. [00:46:25] Speaker A: And rice over here a cooking up that red beans and rice. You feel me? [00:46:30] Speaker B: Like Alice don't like bro. [00:46:34] Speaker A: But no, no, seriously though. At least in time running out though. But seriously though, women baby girl, what type of do you think you are giving me? Listen, when I'm able to call Duke Energy the credit lenders for 800 credit score because I'm fucking you. Hey, I'm fucking so and so. Oh, well, you get so and so credit on your bill this month. That's when that worth or something Give a about that you been around here. [00:47:03] Speaker B: Slamming on swear they slamming it. [00:47:06] Speaker A: Y' all be slamming the out that real talk. All that rough sex. [00:47:10] Speaker B: You the assume I reapply for the is crazy, bro. [00:47:13] Speaker A: You got the real. You got to go through hell and hot waters for the again. Why you don't like me no more? You got to make yourself re like, I got to re spend some more money. Please. You go ahead. Go ahead and play that game with them other corny ass, bro. And guess what? I'm dog put that in my hand. Now I even think about you no more. I'm on the way to sleep. You know what I'm saying? Like, bro, we good. [00:47:40] Speaker B: Like, okay, so just do that then. Why continuously like pursue if you already feel how you feel. You got your standards. You got. You set your boundaries. Your boundaries are. I ain't about to reapply. I'm not just posted that you might just post the women for having standards and her body. [00:48:01] Speaker A: I'm not mad at the women. [00:48:02] Speaker B: Well, I ain't gonna say mad, but you know right there's a discrepancy there there because you could have hit me. [00:48:07] Speaker A: Just like how when you post that picture to the side a was like, damn, I do kind of miss that. Let me see what she on. I'll take you to get something to eat. That cool. But stop acting like that you know what I'm saying? Like. Cause if you slide up on my. Like, hey, that way. I missed that dick. Well, I'm trying. I'm trying. I'm trying to. If the schedule permits. [00:48:27] Speaker B: And that why that advice that Ms. Kim gave you was salty when she said, meet a person where they at? Because just don't deal with those type of females, the ones that require a little more effort. Go get you somebody that gonna say, oh, you can take me to Longhorn, and we gonna go get you somebody. Understanding is okay, Poppy. [00:48:49] Speaker A: I still just wanted to be around you. The sex just was a piece of it. That's what y' all gonna be understanding. [00:48:55] Speaker B: Because that's what y' all don't communicate. [00:48:59] Speaker A: That's where the nurturing comes in, that you make a communicator once you start nurturing. But once y' all, y' all be treating that like a prize, too. [00:49:06] Speaker B: You can't make no man do. I'm one of the most effective communicators I know. I get paid to talk to people. I talk to people for fun. I know how to have a conversation, but you can't. If a man don't want to talk, he's not going to talk. And that's all I gotta say about that. But, yeah, let's go ahead and wrap this thing on there. What we doing? [00:49:29] Speaker A: We didn't. Ran out of time, bro. Like I said, Twin, let me say right quick, and check out the angles, check out the. Check out the views. This our Peas in the park coming from now on, you know what I'm saying? So you feel me? Yo, secure my theme song right quick. And this, man. This your boy, Jay with the ink. You was tuned into another episode of Peas in the Pie. My girl Shay. Janae. I have my boy. Your side tap in, man. We back next Tuesday with another one. Peace, y' all. [00:50:00] Speaker B: Next time. Hey, man, you know what I'm saying? Like, you feed me.