You Don’t Gotta Be With That Girl to Be a Good Daddy

[00:00:09] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, there we go. We gotta cut that out. Yeah, yeah, yeah. What's happening? What's happening? Good Tuesday. Good Tuesday, man. My favorite day of the week is Record Day. Back with another episode of Peas in the Power with your boy Jay with the Ink. Tonight, though, we got a special guest, man. [00:00:27] Speaker B: Yes, sir. [00:00:28] Speaker A: You already know what's going on, man. [00:00:32] Speaker B: Yo, what up? What up? It's your boy. Nah, let me see my boy. [00:00:36] Speaker A: Gelato Bill in the building, man. Let's give it up for my boy right quick. [00:00:40] Speaker B: Round applause for you, man. For the king. Round applause for the king is I'mma clap for. What's up with it, though. [00:00:56] Speaker A: What's happening, bro? How you doing? [00:00:58] Speaker B: Good, man. I'm. I'm healthy, I'm able. Yeah, I can't complain, you know? [00:01:03] Speaker A: Yeah, that's a blessing. A blessing itself. You know what I'm saying? [00:01:06] Speaker B: Smiling. [00:01:06] Speaker A: Yeah, man. You got to keep that smile on, you know? That's how you know, you know. Life going good, man. You smile, you need to be too tough. [00:01:13] Speaker B: I swear to God, I want to smile, man. Them be gay. [00:01:21] Speaker A: Start it off. Boys be gay. I don't think they be knowing that, bro. Yeah, we know that. We already jumping. We already jumping. We. [00:01:31] Speaker B: I ain't gonna fake. I can't even fake the phone. Like, I grew around real tough. Ain't nothing. All the real tough I grew around. They weren't tough all the time. They were tough when they needed to be, you know? Oh, man, I know how that go. [00:01:45] Speaker A: These young not though, bro. It like. I don't know. And then I don't think they be knowing that you look stupid. You know what I'm saying? Like my be around this it hot as you full blooded hoodie on with the ski mask. You know what I'm saying, bro, you just look like you out there no good. You want nobody saying that to you. Yeah, all right. [00:02:08] Speaker B: They all that all folks know though, that, oh, that really all foes know. But at the end of the day, you got to see it in yourself. Like, you gotta find time in yourself to look yourself in the mirror. Be like, bro, why I'm doing this, bro? Why? Like, for what? [00:02:25] Speaker A: By the time they be the thing about the bro, them boys bleeding up or 50 years. [00:02:34] Speaker B: 50 years is crazy though. [00:02:35] Speaker A: Real talk, bro. Then someone's doing it, bro. Like ain't listening. Ain't listening to nobody's eyes. So someone doing it, bro. And you probably only experienced two women. [00:02:48] Speaker B: But two women is crazy. [00:02:49] Speaker A: You don't even Know how to drive. [00:02:50] Speaker B: Two women is wild. [00:02:51] Speaker A: Two women. Two women. And one of them. You know that 30 seconds, you ain't really get the experience, huh? [00:02:57] Speaker B: That's sad. [00:02:58] Speaker A: Yeah, bro, you going to jail for life now. You're about to drop nut on the floor forever. But that ain't a good lobby. Well, listen, boy, stop being so ready to crash out and get up out of here. Just take a deep breath, bro. Yeah, take a deep breath, bro. I can be learned that, bro. People snatch that away from you so fast, bro. It's not your freedom, bro. [00:03:17] Speaker B: Promising for no reason. You got it one day. You gotta look yourself in the mirror, though, and just be like, this ain't it. It's more to life than just thugging, bro. It take more. It take more muscles to frown than smile. You see what I'm saying? So why would I be doing that? [00:03:35] Speaker A: I ain't. I don't. I don't know about everybody else, bro. [00:03:37] Speaker B: That. [00:03:38] Speaker A: That frown, when you get the frowning, bro, you don't even know me, bro. I just think you corny. Well, I just think you poor. [00:03:43] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:03:43] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? Like, you ain't got nothing going on. You feel me? Like, it ain't nothing wrong with that. Somebody gotta start for some way, bro. But I'm not the root of your problem. But feel me like, yeah, we should have hit that Twitter twitch. Yo, but, yo, what's happening, though, man? What's happening? Chat. See, I got. I got what y' all been asking for, man. What's good after my boy in here, man. [00:04:04] Speaker B: Send the comments in before we start talking about. Before we direct this how we want to direct, you know what I'm saying? [00:04:09] Speaker A: And two, please. Hey, please, our a. Respect and love to everybody, but when I want you to be on here, you gonna be on here. Y' all be. Put me on the pod. Put me on the pot, bro, we don't even talk. Why I'm gonna just put you on my. You feel me like, vibe in the comments tween and we outside. You know what I'm saying? Let's get us the way we get to. Man, we had 24 already. Okay, then. [00:04:36] Speaker B: We just getting started. [00:04:37] Speaker A: Lex, what's happening, man? Appreciate you for joining, my boy. [00:04:41] Speaker B: See my. See my. See my own. My taste free trick. [00:04:45] Speaker A: Yeah, you know, Come on. [00:04:46] Speaker B: Going on, man. [00:04:47] Speaker A: Yo, for show. Hell yeah, man. Y' all ask for me. Get my boy gelato on him, man. So we here tonight. We're gonna be really trying to, you know, past couple weeks, you know, we were going crazy. But tonight we just gonna. We're gonna. We're gonna go crazy, bro. We're gonna be on some, like. Feel me, like, we're gonna motivate the fellas, bro. [00:05:10] Speaker B: You know, it's real motivation. [00:05:12] Speaker A: Yeah. We're gonna talk. [00:05:14] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:05:14] Speaker A: Cause y' all need to be thinking you got something going on, bro. It ain't nothing going on between him. [00:05:18] Speaker B: Like, that's over. Yeah, what's up, man? Y' all tune in. Hey, share the live, man. Y' all tune in. [00:05:26] Speaker A: What's happening? What's happening? [00:05:28] Speaker B: I'm gonna get the precinct in a second, man. Oh, hey, the Reverend. [00:05:32] Speaker A: Listen, man, we got Reverend Bill. [00:05:35] Speaker B: There you go. [00:05:35] Speaker A: We got pastor with the ink in the building today. What? What B dot say? Yeah. Hey, man, we should have had the lounge off here. And the next time. We got to get you in here, bro. We gotta get you in here. [00:05:49] Speaker B: Got to. Yeah, we need some merch. I. I came in the shot trying to get some merch from you today. The glitches right here, Y' all ain't know. My boy just opened up the shot. The spot on Second Loop Road, 201. Second Little Road. [00:06:05] Speaker A: Shout out to that young man, that young doing this thing, brother. Watch Glizz come a long way, bro. Like on soon on some real, bro. Like, he wise beyond his years, bro. And he one of the ones who, like, you know, it rare to see y' all young. Who want to see other young do good, bro. He one of the ones, bro. [00:06:23] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:06:23] Speaker A: And, bro, for one thing, he wanted the ones, bro. I respect, bro, because you can't outwork him. Nah, you're not gonna outwork that. He gonna work, bro. [00:06:31] Speaker B: I took a liking to that, though. Like, when I first met him, like, bro, like, bro, do everything, everything, everything. It ain't too many. It ain't too many. Gen Z. That. That trying to work. Like, really like, man, the. Let me put in some work. Ain't too many, man. Ain't too many on trying to do that riding. [00:06:49] Speaker A: Watch Gliz come in that two, three in the morning, bro. Record, bro. [00:06:55] Speaker B: Listen, bro, listen. The say you caught a new whip today, right? Gliz, attention. Whip say, hey, come do the session at 6, okay? You come do the session after the session. He was like, man, we turned up, we gonna shoot the video. Cut your hair for the video, then shoot the video. All that. Like, cuz be going full. Like, he know how to do everything. I swear to God. [00:07:20] Speaker A: Shout out to young Gliz, man. We got the salute. Yeah. Pastor with the ink, man. You know what I'm saying? Ellis was having my boy. I appreciate you for tapping into it. She had the live, man. Let's get this jumping right quick outside, bro. [00:07:36] Speaker B: I know we got a hunting in us, like, right now, though. [00:07:40] Speaker A: We warming up. We warming up. Hey, but listen, me and my boy was. We was really just having a conversation about, you know what I'm saying? Like, being raised around men who really, like, want to do you know what I'm saying? Like, bro, you got to want this, bro. [00:08:00] Speaker B: You do. You do. [00:08:01] Speaker A: A lot of y' all don't be wanting that, bro. A lot of people just think this gonna fall out the sky or a plug gonna fall out the sky. Imagine the plug do fall out the sky, bro. And this give you a hundred or whatever you. It is you looking for, but you can't handle one. That ain't for everybody, bro. That wasn't for me. I got the up out that. I ain't gonna lie that by being getting them streets up way, I was the one in the way. I was in the way. I ain't scared to admit that, bro. But a lot of y' all got the face reality, bro. That is not for everybody, bro. A lot of people feel like at the first look, you go down there and talk. [00:08:39] Speaker B: I ain't gonna talk to you. [00:08:41] Speaker A: Nah, don't run. Get back here. Get your ass back here. Nope, don't get up out of here. Cause we did that, bro. Like, that ain't for everybody, Twin. You know what I'm saying? [00:08:52] Speaker B: Like, oh, no, the street's definitely not for everybody. [00:08:54] Speaker A: That ain't the answer. [00:08:55] Speaker B: If you can't be. If you can't be lonely. If you can't be lonely, the streets. That's the first sign. The streets ain't for you. Well, listen, that the first song right there, that boy, because this. Well, I ain't gonna say this. Get lonely, though. [00:09:09] Speaker A: You've been in the street consistently six months, bro. You ain't got 600 bucks. I'm telling you, bro, that ain't for you, bro. You just waste the time, bro. A lot of is in the streets with drugs in their pocket, brother. They can't sell and can't buy food. You hungry, you homeless. Like, bro, being get that street. But get that up, Twin. Yeah, get that up, bro. Ain't nothing wrong with it, bro. Ain't nothing wrong with getting a job, bro. I think. I think a lot of got that misconstrued right now, bro. A lot of think like, it ain't cool to have a job, right, boy? Like, bro, that is, boy, you better get your ass up and go to work. You put 40 hours in the streets and come home with nothing, bro, you put 40 hours in at work, you come on with something. But it's something to build off of. [00:09:51] Speaker B: I feel like, I feel like be, be taking the, the system of working, like, out of context. It don't matter how you got to that money, you got to the money. [00:10:00] Speaker A: You feel me tell you? [00:10:02] Speaker B: Like, it sacrifices for everything in life. If it's sacrifice, like, think about like football players and stuff. They ain't. Like, people feel like that's not a job. They're making buku money. But they don't understand that every day they putting their body on the line, telling you, bro, really catching CTE. And they 30. They got a headache every day. But they don't, they don't see that. They rather, they, they think like, jubica, you getting money, you doing tests like, this don't come with sacrifice. Oh, yeah, Come with the, the more bread you bringing in, the more you got to work. I'm telling you, bro, the more you got to be able to, you know what I'm saying? And then the more you gotta buy stuff and get people around you to guard you. Because now people know you got money. It's sacrifice to it, bro. But people don't understand that. [00:10:50] Speaker A: But see, bro, a lot of have money, bro. But like, I, I, I respect, like, I just respect who? Just chill, bro. Like, you get your money, bro. You chill, bro. You, you taking care of people. You taking care of what you supposed to take care of, bro. Cause, bro, like, you need to be getting money, bro. You don't take care of your kids, bro. You ain't about your mama nothing. But you swear you tricking you. You know what I'm saying? Like, bro, I just be, you know, like, bro, it don't be. And bro, be trying to make a scene, peon, bro. Cause you won't do what he'll do, bro. But that just for you, I ain't got to do that. [00:11:24] Speaker B: Right, right, right, right. [00:11:25] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? [00:11:26] Speaker B: But I feel like. [00:11:30] Speaker A: Them gold diggers tell them there ain't enough money if you ain't. [00:11:34] Speaker B: If you ain't never have, like, bread though, and you coming to some bread, it's like, like, money. Money. [00:11:40] Speaker A: Really? [00:11:40] Speaker B: Money really? Huh? [00:11:42] Speaker A: No, we're gonna go ahead, bro. No, what Brent said. [00:11:45] Speaker B: Oh, okay. [00:11:46] Speaker A: Respond to that. [00:11:46] Speaker B: Okay, go ahead. [00:11:47] Speaker A: No, go ahead. [00:11:48] Speaker B: But what I was saying, though, is like, the money be giving a sense of a power that they never have. You feel me? I just be like, be thinking they could do this and do that, like they God. Cause you got money. That don't mean nothing. [00:12:01] Speaker A: That don't mean you burn. [00:12:02] Speaker B: That is over with. [00:12:04] Speaker A: It's over with. [00:12:05] Speaker B: It's material, man. [00:12:07] Speaker A: Listen, but don't understand, bro. When that meant for you, it meant for you, bro. Come right back. Fact go to ground zero. You can go to zero, zilch, negative, 10 for real. [00:12:15] Speaker B: And it come back 10 times stronger. Telling you, bro, tomorrow, but that woman happen. [00:12:19] Speaker A: And, and, and listen, you hit a nail on the head, right? And a lot of is out here trying to get money, bro. For they out here trying to get money to impress a woman, bro. Like, well, if that girl wants you, bro, she wants you, bro. You know I'm in it, all right? You ain't got to follow. You know what I'm saying? Whatever for you is for you, bro. Y' all need to be ready to crash out about these women, bro. Y' all need to be going all outside your body, bro, about that. You cannot control twin. You can't control her if she don't act how you want her to act, bro. It ain't nothing you can buy her. It ain't nothing you can get physical with her. Show you her you the toughest in the world. [00:12:55] Speaker B: On. [00:12:56] Speaker A: Oh, if I catch you with a. I'mma do this to y' all, bro. That. Hey, go get you another. Go get you another, bro. [00:13:03] Speaker B: I ain't gonna lie, though. I gotta say this though. What you saying? Money controls some people, though. [00:13:10] Speaker A: What you mean? [00:13:10] Speaker B: Money will make people do certain. Now, what do you mean? [00:13:13] Speaker A: Like the women? [00:13:14] Speaker B: Women for sure. [00:13:15] Speaker A: Oh, yeah, for sure. No, but men too, though. [00:13:18] Speaker B: But everybody. Not everybody. Don't everybody don't go off of that. But for a lot of people, especially like in our generation, all right, oh, up it up. [00:13:29] Speaker A: But if it up to be a man nowadays, man, that. That just is what it is. [00:13:34] Speaker B: You damn near you Damn. They gotta have money or you down there gotta have. You down there gotta have money for certain to be your friend. [00:13:42] Speaker A: That's a bar. No, that's serious though. And bro, but. But see, that's why people be ending up in dangerous ass situations and because. No, bro, you be ending up in dangerous situations in this situation. Really don't give a about you, bro. Because you trying to be like these. These be friends because they pretty. They pretty. You know, I like her. She pretty. You don't even know her. That A demon. You know what I'm saying? [00:14:05] Speaker B: Like, bro, you got money because she got money. She cool. [00:14:08] Speaker A: Right? Right. [00:14:09] Speaker B: Which is senseless. Which is. Which is crazy. [00:14:12] Speaker A: But listen, that's just like I in little baby comments, telling him happy birthday and all type of bro, but you. [00:14:19] Speaker B: Ain'T post your brother. Come on, make it make sense. Come on, make it make sense, man. [00:14:24] Speaker A: Come on, man. [00:14:25] Speaker B: We live in. We're in a up ass world right now. [00:14:28] Speaker A: Like, it's a weird ass world. Like, it's crazy, bro. Be fake. Want to be around you, bro. Cause you got something going on then, bro. Feel like you walk around with $2 million in your pocket so they could just run up on you, bro. Nobody walking around with that much money no more, bro. Y' all need to be robbing and practicing. Like you didn't call about it for nothing. Like you just be doing, bro. You know what I'm saying? Bro, that. Don't be like, that don't be is what it is, bro. That's my own. I don't hang around nobody. [00:14:56] Speaker B: It'd be. It'd be senseless. Like, I'd be saying, like, folk be like, it's 20, 25. Folks be breaking in cars and stuff. Like, for what? [00:15:03] Speaker A: Oh, my God. [00:15:03] Speaker B: What you gonna get in 2006? People left their stuff in their car. You had TVs in the cars, GPS's. [00:15:12] Speaker A: You just want. You just want the gun to take pictures with. I be telling y' all young this. [00:15:16] Speaker B: Bro, you gonna do about. You gonna do five at least. You go. Them people hit you like, like, wait, like, come on, man. Like, make it make sense. You can't stay off the phone all day. You gonna go do five years. No, you gonna be. Y' all boy gonna be in there giving it up, giving up your canteen. All different type of stuff. [00:15:35] Speaker A: Like, oh, bro, they think that's. They think they tough, bro. And then y' all be £160 and 5 2. [00:15:42] Speaker B: But you think you tough and say, you better get a knife. [00:15:45] Speaker A: Oh, we. [00:15:46] Speaker B: You better get a knife. [00:15:47] Speaker A: You ain't. Then this ain't gta. You ain't just spawning in prison with no knife. [00:15:52] Speaker B: Boy, call it. Hey, boy, call it. I just got. I just. I just online my homeboy, right? Like, he, he. [00:15:58] Speaker A: He. [00:15:59] Speaker B: He ain't on Up Top and stuff. Like, he like, man, I don't. I don't know. How did the boy be on the phone crying, getting honey, 200 out their mama just to give it to another. [00:16:08] Speaker A: Oh, my God, bro. Bro, I watch this. [00:16:11] Speaker B: Oh, we this what y' all gonna run into though. [00:16:13] Speaker A: Listen, bro. Listen, bro. That's why I'm telling y' all, bro. If it's like, bro, in 15 minutes, bro, you can lose the rest of your life like on some real. And it's gonna. And brother is not peachy. Y' all seen other come home with millions dollars. And you know what I'm saying? You think you're gonna do that? That's not gonna be you at all. You're gonna be in there giving it up like he talking about. I ain't talking about this canteen. Cause you going the way ain't coming home at. So guess what you're gonna do in that 6, 9, 6 8, 300 pound straight muscle. They can walk up on you. He gonna take it from you. [00:16:47] Speaker B: Well, that ja rule say this for all my. [00:16:54] Speaker A: Do I listen. You gonna, you gonna, you gonna. You gonna get up, bro. You know what I'm saying? Like, oh, that's why I be trying to get up. I'll be trying to get these to understand, bro. Like, bro, like, bro, this ain't cool. Like, bro, y' all walking, bro. Y' all got us scared to come outside, bro. Y' all be having beef from damn out of town. And y' all be having beef from from bro. Y' all could just pull up on each other blocks. Y' all wait. We get wrong like us who want to be around the pretty women who want to be around vibes. You know what I'm saying, bro, we ain't outside looking for no fights. And y' all come out, they fighting and shooting and y' all don't ever shoot. Who you supposed to shoot. It always be somebody like me, bro, who ain't got nothing to do with the bro. I ain't even coming out. Real talk, bro. Y' all killing the club. See y' all doing all that, bro. And why y' all don't want to fight? Why y' all just can't leave it at fighting? Cause once you go to jail, you're going to get beat the up anyway. Ain't no guns back that and you not just gonna get a knife because you walk around asking for a knife. Oh, bro, I want a knife. Gonna be like, so what the is you talking about? Yeah, real talk, bro. And bro, it's that prison politics really get real. Y' all be around here telling to suck your dick, go to prison, telling to suck your dick, ah, dying. That gonna make you suck his dick real. Where y' all going? No cap, bro. That is real about that what anybody give a. That mama ain't writing him. That girl ain't answering the phone. That been up. He mad as just like how you wake up with no money. That's how that is in prison, bro. Imagine waking up like that in a teeny ass room. You ain't getting no. These people cut the lights off every time. Last meal at 4 o' clock. They don't tell you that. Last meal at 4 o' clock. So if your people don't love you, you ain't getting no goddamn. All right. You ain't getting, bro. Ain't no honey buns, ain't no rice. What you gonna do? Now? You ain't trying to rob, but listen, bro. You up live your life, bro. [00:18:57] Speaker B: What are we talking about? [00:18:58] Speaker A: Stop trying to. We stop trying to. Stop trying to live your life for other bro. You could lose your life fast. [00:19:06] Speaker B: We're just talking about life in effect all the time. [00:19:10] Speaker A: Penitentiary rules in the fit. Yeah. Hey, bro, I don't. I have been to the penitentiary, bro. What you say, bro? Stupid as. [00:19:25] Speaker B: Hey, come on, say that. Talking about penitent rules in effect all the time. No, they not. No, they not. No, they not. [00:19:35] Speaker A: Bro, you still. You still institutionalized, bro. [00:19:38] Speaker B: No, they not. I ain't living by no penitential rules. If I want to walk on this side of the hallway, I. I'm walking on this side. I ain't know. [00:19:48] Speaker A: Listen a. Who say they living by like penitential rules in the f. Bro, that is dangerous. You hear me? [00:19:55] Speaker B: That dangerous. That my boy. That my boy. [00:19:58] Speaker A: I already know that cool as hell. That go flash on your ass. You better watch that boy say them. Oh, hey, we just talking, man. We just talking. We just chopping it up, man. Popping. That's it. That's it, man. What y' all. What's up? What y' all. What y' all want me and my boy to get on today, man, let's have some fun, ladies. What you got for me, fellas? What you got? [00:20:28] Speaker B: Drop a topic. [00:20:29] Speaker A: We gonna real talk. [00:20:30] Speaker B: We're gonna make it. [00:20:31] Speaker A: Hey, listen, them black little forces, boy, you ain't got no supreme tag in that. That got some wrinkle in it. [00:20:37] Speaker B: I ain't with you, man. That crazy, bro. [00:20:40] Speaker A: All right. [00:20:41] Speaker B: And we gotta make black forces great again, man. [00:20:43] Speaker A: Bro, that got that deep wrinkle in it though, bro. [00:20:45] Speaker B: I know, bro. [00:20:46] Speaker A: Just gonna get some more. I know who treat the blacks like whites. Like them the ones, but the real ones. [00:20:52] Speaker B: But be thinking like you black. So when you think about this, got a Wrinkle on his face. He's just up. [00:20:58] Speaker A: Yeah, it's psychological sometimes. It depends on the wrinkle too. [00:21:01] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, it'd be psychological. [00:21:05] Speaker A: Bro, you black with a frown on your face. What you look like, man, he probably evil. Exactly. So you think black, low forces, regular forces with that deep wrinkle look like you even try to stuff them and wrinkle it up. Oh, you put the iron on that. No, you know what I'm saying? I didn't did that before that point. [00:21:22] Speaker B: It's a stigma on the black ones, man. [00:21:25] Speaker C: You gotta let that. [00:21:25] Speaker A: I'm talking about the black ones that ain't got no stars on the bottom no more, though. [00:21:34] Speaker B: That dangerous. Oh. [00:21:42] Speaker A: The one, the stars smooth as. He only got stars at the party. [00:21:46] Speaker B: I can't. I can't. I can't even take. Take up for that, bro. Stay out that way. [00:21:54] Speaker A: What you say? [00:21:54] Speaker B: How y' all feel about getting gifts and just be treated special for the day, man? I'm a king, so I'm gonna get treated special every day. [00:22:02] Speaker A: I'm gonna tell you like this right here, bro. [00:22:05] Speaker B: I ain't a father, though. I ain't a father, but that father. [00:22:08] Speaker A: Y' all be so. Y' all be so. Hell, I'm pretty sure I ain't even getting no gift this year. I would just be real. I probably ain't getting no gifts this year, bro, but I'm cool, bro. I don't need no validation to be in the dad, though. You know what I'm saying? It's just what I do. I bought my responsibility here, bro. I'm gonna take care of it, bro. You know, I don't really need, like, no Father's Day gift to let me know I'm a good dad, bro. I'm. I'm gonna keep doing it, bro, regardless if I get one or. [00:22:34] Speaker B: Look, we need more. We need more praise for. Some people might need that, though, bro. We need more praise for the day. [00:22:39] Speaker A: Yeah, some people do, though, you know what I'm saying? Like, everybody ain't built to. To have a mental like that, though. You know what I'm saying? And, like, I think, like, a lot of times, bro, like. Like, I'll be telling women, like, bro, that departure I kind of miss. And like, a man like, bro, you be used to seeing that man so strong for so long, bro. You just. You know, you just used to the just being all right. You feel me? Like, but we're like, just little simple like a Father's Day gift, bro. That really mean a lot Though, you know what I'm saying? Like, it let me know that you really care about me for real, though, you know what I'm saying? Like, so, yeah, Father's Day gifts will be nice. Everything's appreciated. But if that man went out for you, you supposed to go off him. [00:23:15] Speaker B: Yeah. Dads, yeah. Kings in general deserve more recognition. [00:23:19] Speaker A: Yeah, for sure. [00:23:19] Speaker B: It's me, too. Stuff done got out of him. [00:23:21] Speaker A: I'm telling you, bro. Like, I don't just like no woman who just like, damn, let me know you like me a little bit. You know what I'm saying? Like, it was just be stone Cold. [00:23:33] Speaker B: Hey, P.J. [00:23:33] Speaker A: Greg. [00:23:34] Speaker B: What? What's your definition of a real? [00:23:36] Speaker A: What he say? [00:23:37] Speaker B: You say real don't need to give the respect from a child is enough for me. [00:23:41] Speaker A: That real. So what the. Dom? [00:23:43] Speaker B: What is a real, though? If somebody tell me, like, what's the definition of a room? [00:23:48] Speaker A: It'd be a fake. Trying to tell you what a real is like. You know what I'm saying, bro? Like, oh, no, bro, I don't really. [00:23:58] Speaker B: We need to have a meeting. All. We need to have a million man march and just, like, put the definition of this together. Like, what's a real? What a real should do. [00:24:08] Speaker A: Oh, boy. [00:24:10] Speaker B: Because we got 50 million different. Different. Like a BE. Like, yeah, I'm a real. [00:24:15] Speaker A: Like, are you a real. You just look out for a all the time. Oh, that's the realest in the world right there. A who don't say no. You a real to everybody then, bro. You don't say no. You just be around this doing. He told my stepdads matter. Now, listen, now, stepdads do matter. Step dads matter, bro. But stop trying to just be a stepdaddy. Why you ain't want your own kids? You feel what I'm saying? Just eat some more protein, bro. You ain't got to just sell to be nobody still, Daddy. [00:24:50] Speaker B: Hey, B.D. think Facebook real. That's how I know these ain't no real. They think if a. Like, I be on Facebook, where I do this all the time, I'd be like, I post around, man. I'll be like, I'm in Columbia. The, like, pull up and say, I'll be in Florence. But y' all think this real, so I just be playing with y' all. [00:25:10] Speaker A: What do you say? [00:25:11] Speaker B: Y' all think that should be real? Like, a could say all this. I could be like, yeah, I did all this. Slap this woman. Whatever. Y' all gonna believe it because it's on Facebook, Bruh. [00:25:23] Speaker A: And. And if enough people got down, got the reaction to it, oh, it already believes wrong. What are you talking about? No people reacting to that, boy. It's over with. You better just hope you on the right side of that being for real. You say I'm gonna take care of my kids regardless of what anybody say about me. Take care of your responsibility no matter what. Yeah, for sure. Listen, bro, I'm the type of bro I don't really like. I don't apply fish for swimming, bro. You know what I'm saying? Like, bro, I don't want y' all to know every time I didn't did something for my kid, bro, Every time I didn't like. But y' all be making Christmas a competition, bro. You know what I'm saying? Like birthdays and the competition. Yeah, I dropped this much, you know what I'm saying? But everybody can't do that. And that baby, one thing about having a kid, bro, that I learned, bro. It's like that the most. That the best love you'll ever have, bro. That's somebody who love you for you. And you can be broke, poor, whatever, that won't understand why just don't love their kid, bro. [00:26:31] Speaker B: Yeah, I'll be trolling like a. But they. But I'm so. I'm so much of a real person in real life, if I put it on Facebook, they gonna believe me. Now y' all tell me what's real and what's fake. I do, though. I be trolling all day. [00:26:51] Speaker A: Everybody troll. I got. I got to get that troll there, bro. I don't give a. Because it don't be that serious. [00:26:57] Speaker B: It don't, though. [00:27:00] Speaker A: Really take that Internet real life. See it, bro. Y' all won't even like, you be. Y' all so weird, bro. You be scared to show a love, bro. [00:27:08] Speaker B: To be scared? Yeah. [00:27:09] Speaker A: Like, bro, y' all. Everybody want to be enemies. Like, bro, make some friends, bro. That why ain't getting no money because you ain't in the right rooms. And you know what I'm saying? Like, somebody else gonna motivate you, bro. Especially like when you run the same every day. And ain't neither one of y' all gotta nobody around. You got all y' all together is nothing, bro. Stop being around them. Y' all need to break up. [00:27:35] Speaker B: He talking about a quiet gangster. I ain't no gangster, man. I be chilling. [00:27:42] Speaker A: Ah. [00:27:43] Speaker B: I'll be chilling, bro. [00:27:44] Speaker A: I ain't supposed to be mad. Yeah, I'll be thinking everybody that lie got them, you know the Tough. [00:27:52] Speaker B: I know a lot of ain't never even probably seen me, but never heard me talk. I be talking all day, bro. [00:27:58] Speaker A: You probably just, you know, words ain't for everybody, bro. [00:28:01] Speaker B: Yeah, but I'm gonna talk. If I with you and I feel comfortable, I' ma talk. You know what I'm saying? But I like to, like, scope people out. Get out of here. Then I. [00:28:11] Speaker A: You know that one thing I don't like about, like, being the tattoo artist, bro, like, being in the professional way. I got to deal with, like, multiple forms of new people, bro. Cause like it like rocket feel when just energy be off. You know what I'm saying? Like, and I'd rather not be wrong that. But yeah, I gotta get my cheese. You feel me? [00:28:31] Speaker B: Like I'd be feeling. I'll be feeling energy all the time like no Diddy. Like, like I be feeling. [00:28:40] Speaker A: They be scared. You gonna go play go, bro. [00:28:42] Speaker B: Hey, nah, just be like this right here. This right here ain't no good right here. [00:28:46] Speaker A: Listen, bro. [00:28:47] Speaker B: Like, this right here gonna tell. I could already sense that. I just go the other way. [00:28:55] Speaker A: Hey, hey, bro, bro, listen, bro. Be swearing they tough, bro. I just seen the video of a young in that bitch begging, bro. I'm 17, bro. You really about to lock me up for a murder? Yeah, yeah, bro, that get real. You ain't going home. Ain't no home no more. This is your home. Real talk. [00:29:14] Speaker B: Yeah. It's like intuition, though. [00:29:15] Speaker A: But that. [00:29:16] Speaker B: I mean, that's what anything. Like, I could tell a girl. I don't know, bro. [00:29:19] Speaker A: I just. [00:29:20] Speaker B: I feel like I'm like. Not to be cliche, I'm tapped in with my spiritual side. [00:29:24] Speaker A: Move your hand off the ground comment, Yoshi. Let me read it on the big side, because I can't. I can't read it. When we're on the little screen, I'm. [00:29:30] Speaker B: Tapped with my spiritual soul. [00:29:32] Speaker A: Judge folks based. [00:29:34] Speaker B: So I be feeling. I be feeling. [00:29:37] Speaker A: No, I was trying to reply on the one that you had up. Yeah, yeah. He said, I don't got kids. Just be one time. Won't even take the time and listen. But this one, I'm saying, though, bro, a lot of times, bro, like, yeah, won't take their kid to the park, bro, but that's not your job to do. You feel what the I'm saying, bro? Like, imagine the. You taking a child to the park, barbershop, whatever. He. He ain't been talking to his baby mama. Whatever, bro, that he did for his baby. That might do something to your ass, boy. Regardless of whether the picture got painted to you, bro, on this side right here, bro, I just don't be feeling like, like, I don't know, bro. I'd be scared of like that you. [00:30:28] Speaker B: Got taking care of somebody else kids. [00:30:30] Speaker A: No, hell, I mean, I ain't, I ain't gonna say. First of all, Brian, dealing with somebody with a lot of kids anyway. We'll go ahead. [00:30:36] Speaker B: So how many, how many. How many kids is too many kids for you? [00:30:39] Speaker A: Two, max. [00:30:40] Speaker B: Two. So if a girl got three kids, he ain't with them. [00:30:45] Speaker A: That's a lot of Jordans, bro. [00:30:48] Speaker B: But what if you rich? [00:30:50] Speaker A: If I'm rich, I don't give a. I ain't Richard. [00:30:52] Speaker B: Let's say, let's say like your celebrity curse had three kids, but you getting bread too. You ain't gonna with her. I'm gonna them, but you ain't gonna with her. I, I mean, I respect that though. [00:31:08] Speaker A: That my perspective though, you know what I'm saying? Like, bro, it's a lot of who willing to take on a bigger bite than they can with you. And you know, like, like I said, bro, that's a lot of Jordans, bro. If I with a girl who got four kids, I got one. I want to have more kids now. So we already talking about five. Now we talking about seven in the household. So now we talking about if we have more kids, we. Damn, they might hit double digits. I want you. You talking about four kids and me and you come together. We got one kid and we have two more together. But you that, that foe. You feel me? I'm cool with that. [00:31:38] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:31:38] Speaker A: But you coming in with three kids. Four kids. I got one and I want more kids. Your tools might be tired. One of them baby daddies might be fool as now. I can probably deal with it if they got one baby daddy like you just got divorced. Okay, cool. You come off of being a wife, bro, that kind of easier to deal with. But like, but that's a six bedroom house. That's. Y' all want to take matching pictures or whatever. You know how that go with that nine pairs of Jordans or whatever the. But I just ain't. [00:32:14] Speaker B: I ain't. I ain't never telling no to take on nothing he can't take. Take on. [00:32:18] Speaker A: Yeah, for sure. [00:32:19] Speaker B: So if it's out of your monetary means, then nah, I don't do it. But I see it like this. If like say. Say you meet a girl and see everything that you want, right? But she got three kids. [00:32:36] Speaker A: I didn't. Did that before, right? [00:32:37] Speaker B: But. But hear me out. Hear me out though, bro. And I feel like this is just. As a black man, right? It's. Say it's a black girl, right? Okay. If you don't step up to be her father and there's no father. What? To be their father and there's no father in the house, how them kids gonna turn out? You got to live in the world with these kids. You see what I'm saying? [00:32:57] Speaker A: Right? But listen. [00:33:00] Speaker B: To step up, that's different. [00:33:01] Speaker A: If I choose to take on that. I'm telling, not choosing. Yeah, yeah. To take that right now, if you choosing to go deal with a woman with three kids, you was a sorry ass. If you just gonna lay up in there with her and them three kids. [00:33:13] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. [00:33:14] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? Use a sorry. That's why I'm telling you, I don't want to do that. So for me, personally, I didn't did that before, but you gonna let the three kids. That. That's. [00:33:24] Speaker B: It's sacrifice that if you gonna let the three kids. [00:33:27] Speaker A: That if she. [00:33:28] Speaker B: All right, say her. [00:33:29] Speaker A: Her five, bro, I didn't been through this, bro. I'm. I'm literally telling you won't. I'm literally telling you three times I've been sitting here smoking, looking at the ceiling fan with the same scenario in my head, boy. I know a bit with three kids, bro, that I was. You know what I'm saying? We just had some little link up. She was fat, I'm talking about, bro. As soon as we done, she bring you a hot towel. She get up, you want something to eat. It scared me. It scared me because I could have got used to that, boy, but I. I didn't. [00:34:00] Speaker B: Let me. [00:34:00] Speaker A: All right. [00:34:01] Speaker B: Let me drop the bomb on you, right? [00:34:02] Speaker A: Oh, here we go. [00:34:03] Speaker B: Drop the bomb. You got brothers that ain't your brothers, bruh. [00:34:10] Speaker A: This is what I'm saying. [00:34:11] Speaker B: Right or wrong. [00:34:12] Speaker A: This is what I'm saying. [00:34:13] Speaker B: You got. You got that. [00:34:14] Speaker A: I think you. I think you kind of like that. [00:34:16] Speaker B: You with. [00:34:17] Speaker A: I think you kind of misconstruing what I'm saying because. Listen to what I'm saying. [00:34:20] Speaker B: Let me hear. [00:34:21] Speaker A: Any kid around me is protected, period, bro. [00:34:23] Speaker B: Right? [00:34:24] Speaker A: I ain't just gonna be like, oh, that ain't my baby, bro. I'm not that type of. That's why I'm telling you, I'm not willing to deal with all them bills. I'm just not just me personally. I'm not where I want to be in life. [00:34:35] Speaker B: You got the Money to take. [00:34:36] Speaker A: If I got the. If I got the money in life, bro. And I ain't want no more kids, bro. I'm with that. We cool. [00:34:42] Speaker B: That's. This is what I'm saying. If you got the money, I ain't telling no that. That's struggling to take care of one or two kids to take. [00:34:49] Speaker A: I'm talking about from my perspective. I ain't worrying about nobody else. No. [00:34:52] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. [00:34:53] Speaker A: I ain't worried about nobody else right now. I'm thinking about for me, because I know niggas doing shit that I wouldn't do, bro. [00:35:01] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:35:01] Speaker A: You feel me? Like, I know who in situations that I wouldn't be in, bro, But I don't judge them. That's your situation. I'm talking about me personally, though. Right. [00:35:10] Speaker B: Right. [00:35:10] Speaker A: Like, me thinking about me and my kids. Like, you know what I'm saying? [00:35:13] Speaker B: What I want, we need more like, man, hey, my homeboy be like that, man. I don't. I don't want a girl with. With kids and stuff. I'll be like, bro, you 30. How many girls? 30. That. That trim don't got kids a lot. That's cap. That's shrimp. That's like that. [00:35:30] Speaker A: I just met one. I just. I just. I just was dealing with one. [00:35:33] Speaker B: It don't be that many, though, bro. The older you get, the more they getting cracked. [00:35:37] Speaker A: Yeah, the more they getting cracked. [00:35:39] Speaker B: For sure they're getting cracked. [00:35:40] Speaker A: Why ain't nobody out here looking for no Virgin Mary? But I don't want no. [00:35:45] Speaker B: Come on, bro. [00:35:46] Speaker A: I don't want no business. Five kids, bro. Bro, to my max, bro. So shout and listen to what I'm telling you, bro. We can have fun. We can. We can. You know what I'm saying? Whatever. Whatever. But I'm not getting married to nobody with more than two kids. [00:35:58] Speaker B: You need your own lineage. I ain't lying about that. But I see it like this, bro. Like, blood don't necessarily make you family, bro. [00:36:05] Speaker A: Hell, no. I know some. They be like blood thickening the water. I know some water thicker than blood. Right. [00:36:10] Speaker B: That's all I'm saying. So this night might not be your biological kid, but you could raise that kid like he your kid. [00:36:18] Speaker A: I wasn't gonna raise that kid. [00:36:20] Speaker B: I ain't saying that. I ain't saying. That's not what I'm saying. I'm not even speaking on you. [00:36:24] Speaker A: Oh, you talking about like these. [00:36:25] Speaker B: I'm just speaking in general. I'm just speaking in general. Like, you could raise that kid and still have kids. With a girl as well. All I'm saying is don't ever take on nothing. That's the first thing I said. Don't take off. Don't take on nothing that you can't handle. You feel me? [00:36:39] Speaker A: Yeah, for sure. [00:36:40] Speaker B: But we need more guys because my. [00:36:43] Speaker A: Stepdad been with my mom. [00:36:45] Speaker B: Look at this generation right here. [00:36:46] Speaker A: Now, my stepdad been my. My. My mama since I was nine months, bro. My daddy ain't never really did for me. My daddy stay 15 minutes. You call your stepdaddy my daddy? Yeah, for sure. [00:36:55] Speaker B: What if your stepdaddy said, yeah, I can't do this? [00:36:59] Speaker A: He just wouldn't have been my stepdaddy. My mom would have got another stepdaddy. [00:37:02] Speaker B: Then thank. [00:37:02] Speaker A: All right, so that's what I'm telling you. I just might not be the guy for you. [00:37:05] Speaker B: Now, hear me out. What if every would have said, yeah, I just can't do this? [00:37:09] Speaker A: Then guess what? Your mom, my granddaddy still love me. [00:37:13] Speaker B: Your granddaddy love you, but I'm still love me. But it's hard. [00:37:17] Speaker A: Everybody's situation ain't the same, bro. [00:37:19] Speaker B: Bro, it's hard, bro. [00:37:19] Speaker A: I ain't saying I ain't got no respect for no step that. But my stepdad wake up and say, I want to be a stepdad that got his own kids. He just came into being a stepdad. That's what I'm telling you. These be motivated by being, oh, I' ma step up. Because this ain't stepping up. That ain't your responsibility. You just want to do that. You taking on the beef not because you got some new. [00:37:40] Speaker B: I ain't still that on. On the. That still up, man. [00:37:44] Speaker A: Yeah, bro. Y' all need to be ready to take. But you ain't for that, boy. Don't, don't, don't. Don't go out like that, bro. You know what I'm saying? Like, that's all I'm saying. [00:37:51] Speaker B: I ain't saying this for everybody, bro. Like, situations we need. [00:37:55] Speaker A: We need stepdaddies. We need stepdaddies. That's not. What I'm saying is to go do the dirty work. We need stepdad. [00:38:01] Speaker B: We need some to stop. [00:38:03] Speaker A: That is a cool I with y' all. But don't just be motivated to be a stepdad. Want your own kids. [00:38:11] Speaker B: Want your own kids. Right? Right. [00:38:13] Speaker A: You not carrying on your bl about having this baby. Cause guess what? What you gonna do? Change. Change your last name. Change them kids last name. Yours. You still got to carry your bro. [00:38:22] Speaker B: That's possible. [00:38:23] Speaker A: That's weird. [00:38:24] Speaker B: It's. I mean it. I mean it. But it's possible. [00:38:26] Speaker A: It's weird. [00:38:27] Speaker B: I'm. I respect that. I respect. Yo, I'm just saying that it's possible. [00:38:31] Speaker A: Yeah, it's definitely possible. [00:38:33] Speaker B: You could still have kids with the girl, with the three kids. [00:38:36] Speaker A: Yes, but who the about to do that, bro? You do it then. What you talking about? [00:38:42] Speaker B: I know some that's forefront of the revolution, and there's some that sit back while the revolution it. [00:38:48] Speaker A: Who it. Who ready to be stepdaddies, bro, and take care of other kids. Ain't even take care of they. [00:38:53] Speaker B: We need real daddies. You heard what she said. We need real dad. [00:38:55] Speaker A: Take care of their kids, bro. That's them. I'm talking to y' all. I'm talking to y' all. Oh, you just want to be this girl stepdad or you want to be this baby step that to get back at this bro? Like, no, no, no, no, no, no. [00:39:08] Speaker B: Never. [00:39:08] Speaker A: Don't ever talking to them. Oh, I'mma take this to the barbershop. You. Cause you listening to what that girl put in your ear. [00:39:15] Speaker B: What I'm saying is. What I'm saying, what is failing to realize is that don't take on nothing that you can't goddamn handle. But if this woman got two kids, you feel me? [00:39:29] Speaker A: Two kids. We cool. Like, we good, baby. [00:39:32] Speaker B: And see everything else that you want like this come with sacrifice. [00:39:37] Speaker A: Yeah, let's make some more. [00:39:38] Speaker B: That's why I said, but damn, if you got the bread, if you could buy 10 pair of Js, you see what I'm saying? But she got. You know what I'm saying? [00:39:47] Speaker A: You. [00:39:48] Speaker B: You could literally. You got the money to buy 10 pair of J's, but you down. She got two kids, and you gonna make another one you could buy. You can handle that. Go ahead. Like, why not? Why not, bro? And you're a real. You gonna let these kids grow up in the world and they don't got no father figure. They mama telling them this now. They on the street shooting your ass, robbing you at the store. [00:40:11] Speaker A: Yeah. And then guess what another scenario is. Because he just giving you the happy ending, bro. Kids get 13. You raised ass. You ain't my daddy. Drop the boom, drop the boon noise, drop the boys. You ain't my daddy. Hey, but that one. [00:40:26] Speaker B: Hey, but that one you come with, like, being a real father come in there. [00:40:29] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? What you say? What he say? [00:40:32] Speaker B: Being a real father, like, you can't tell how you gonna do Tell me I ain't your daddy. [00:40:36] Speaker A: I'm a step. Listen, that's what I'm saying, bro, because, like, I think he trying to say, like, you shouldn't be a stepdaddy at all. I think he trying. I think he think that's what I'm saying, like, oh, you shouldn't be a stepdad at all. Hell no. If you choose to deal with this woman, bro, you taking on her kids is your responsibility as well, bro. [00:40:54] Speaker B: You got to. [00:40:55] Speaker A: You got to he. [00:40:56] Speaker B: Hey, hey, let me say this too, now, as a woman. If you with a. Them kids, huh? [00:41:03] Speaker A: Huh? [00:41:04] Speaker B: They belong to you too. [00:41:05] Speaker A: I'll tell you, bro, I don't even want to deal with no woman who can't. Goddamn, I don't even have my kid around. No, no girls, bro. [00:41:11] Speaker B: Don't be my kid. [00:41:12] Speaker A: One woman. [00:41:13] Speaker B: Don't be petty. All that trying to do this and that to the man. Try to use the kids as a no. If you accept the man, you accept the child. Simple. [00:41:23] Speaker A: That's what I'm saying, bro. Like, use a sorry ass, bro. If you just laying up around them kids, bro, and just want to on their mama, bro. You know what I'm saying? Like, but that's what I'm saying, like, for me, my personal preference, bro, that was just my number, you know what I'm saying? Like, I don't want a lot of kids. I ain't gonna say I don't want a lot of kids because I want a lot of kids do, but I don't. But I just want to be the one to create it, bro. You know what I'm saying? I want that legacy, bro. I don't want to come into a situation, bro, where it's four kids already, my one, that's five, and I got to make fomo, bro. I'd rather make three more or two more. And that is what it is, bro. I'm. I'm. It's 33. [00:42:01] Speaker B: Everybody got. [00:42:02] Speaker A: I'll be 33 in September. I'll be a ass fool boy, be out here with all these kids, man. Who. It's. Who got a lot of kids and. And doing with a lot of kids, though, bro. You can't really. I ain't. I don't want to speak, if you. [00:42:15] Speaker B: Know what I'm saying. If you got the bread, though, if. [00:42:17] Speaker A: You got the money, that don't be about. About bread all the time, bro. Can you really be a dad to nine chilling, bro. [00:42:23] Speaker B: Yeah, you can, bro. [00:42:24] Speaker A: Everybody can't get that. That time that you. It's gonna be group meetings, bro. It's gonna be group meetings, bro. Me and my son could just connect, bro, and I could control that right now. I'm not speaking on nobody else situation because that's where this gets sensitive at. I don't want to speak on nobody else. Situate how many kids you got? [00:42:39] Speaker B: I don't got no kids. Okay, listen, you connect with nine kids, you connect with all your kids, bro. [00:42:43] Speaker A: You could connect with your kids, bro, but it's not you. You can connect with one more. If you telling me you can connect with nine the same way you connect with one, bro. You drunk. [00:42:52] Speaker B: I'm not saying that, but it's a lot of. [00:42:53] Speaker A: It's a lot. I'm saying, bro, a lot of time. [00:42:55] Speaker B: In the day now, right, bro? [00:42:56] Speaker A: So me speaking for me, bro, this is a situation that I could control, bro. This is the part of my life that I'm gonna control, bro. [00:43:02] Speaker B: That's true. That's true, though. I respect everything. [00:43:04] Speaker A: That's just real talk because there's out here, bro, that just got keys. [00:43:07] Speaker B: But you saying this, you saying, like, I feel like I can. [00:43:11] Speaker A: It's more. [00:43:12] Speaker B: I could control this, right? [00:43:14] Speaker A: But it's, it's more, bro, who got ass of kids that they can't handle and they can't control and they can't take care of versus who in that number who got the number of kids that they want and they can control and do this and do this and do this. You talking about the bread, bro? You we talking about scamming bread like, like drug dealer bread. Like, bro, everybody ain't meant to do that. Just like what we come down to talking about what we just started off saying, so, bro, like, I ain't able to buy nine business at Sweet 16s or when they graduate, bro, I want them to have whatever car they want. I can do that when I could control my number of kids, bro, Because I know it. I, I, I'm doing not saying what I can't come into or whatever greatness I can't come into. Even if I do come into $50 million right about to make 50 kids, because I could take. Hell, that's selfish on my end. [00:43:59] Speaker B: How. [00:44:00] Speaker A: Cause I ain't gonna have no time for that. Me, personally, I'm not gonna have enough time to be a dad to that many kids, bro. Especially if you're a who really out here who got to go get the money, bro? [00:44:12] Speaker B: I mean. Oh, I didn't been telling no. [00:44:14] Speaker A: I ain't been in these situations, bro. [00:44:16] Speaker B: I ain't telling no to be having no kids in all these different homes and shit. I'm speaking like, you could. I mean, reason you can only have one baby a year, bro, and then you ain't gonna have. Once a girl get a certain age, you ain't gonna have no babies with it anyway, because the possibility of, like, her, like, dang, her problems. Her problems with the kids or whatnot. So it's only really, literally so many babies you can have with one woman anyhow. [00:44:47] Speaker A: Bro, listen, bro, that. What I'm saying. When you get kids, you gotta see it from the other side. [00:44:50] Speaker B: Listen, I gotta see it from the. [00:44:53] Speaker A: All right, so it's easy. It's easier. I don't. Bro, listen, bro, I ain't trying to like. But it's easy right now, bro. It's easy right now, bro. [00:45:01] Speaker B: For me. You say this right, right? All right? This is all I'm saying. And this. This the logic that I'm using. If I have the time in the means to take care of these kids, I don't care, like, how many kids I have. You feel me? You understand what I'm saying? I'm not telling you to go out of your means to do what I feel like I can do or what I want to do. You say you want to have this amount of kids. That's your perspective. Me personally, this is my thoughts. When I go to having. Start having kids, I want to have as many kids as I can reasonably take care of. Now, how you manage your 24 hours and I. How I manage my 24 hours is different. How I raise my kids and how you raise your kids is different. And I would never tell the next man. Oh, yeah, you doing. Because that's your house. I'm not. I can't speak on that. You doing. But I just know, like. I just know, like. Like I got ass of nephews and nieces. You feel me? Like, I'm already practicing. I'm always in training. [00:46:10] Speaker A: No, you're not. Because they go home with their mama now. [00:46:11] Speaker B: They can. [00:46:13] Speaker A: They're going with their mama. [00:46:14] Speaker B: They can. But if my. I'm telling you right here today, if my. If my. If. If one of my nieces and nephew's mama called me and say, yo, go stay with him, that's fine, man. [00:46:25] Speaker A: Bro, listen, bro, that's what I said, like, it's. It's a lot. [00:46:27] Speaker B: That's cool. [00:46:31] Speaker A: It's an argument you can win with logic, bro, because it's easy to do with words, bro. But until it's done, bro, until it's done. [00:46:36] Speaker B: That's what everybody say. Everybody. [00:46:38] Speaker A: That's just like a. [00:46:39] Speaker B: Before you was a father. Before you was a father, bro. What did you say you weren't gonna be a good father? [00:46:45] Speaker A: I ain't never said no like that. What are you talking about? [00:46:47] Speaker B: So when you became a father, was you a good father or what? [00:46:49] Speaker A: Do you feel like I exceed that? [00:46:52] Speaker B: You see what I'm saying? [00:46:54] Speaker A: But like I said, though, from my perspective, from me being me of what I want to do, dude. [00:47:00] Speaker B: So how you feel? [00:47:01] Speaker A: Like I. I ain't telling you that. You're wrong for wanting all them goddamn kids. [00:47:07] Speaker B: Yeah, I want as many kids I can have. [00:47:09] Speaker A: Well, you need to go ahead and start getting started, because you sitting here talking about how nieces and nephews go home. This, that, and the third, bro. [00:47:15] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:47:16] Speaker A: All these goddamn repeated cycles, bro. You got to get up early in the morning, bro. Your baby mama might be postpartum. You got to get up fixing bottles. All that wrong time that. I was tired of that the first time I did it. I could be really and accept that and say that, bro. That's why I control how many situations I have. And then I'm not the type of the way I want to make them type of situations. And I'm not helping you with it, so I'm just not out here it, bro. I'm this bit raw. [00:47:41] Speaker B: Raw. [00:47:42] Speaker A: And I'm gonna have this many amount of kids not judging anybody who did it, but me personally, bro, I want to be. I'm the one who's gonna go to every doctor visit. I'm the one that's gonna be in that delivery room. I'm the one that's gonna be helping you with bottles. This, this, that, and the third, bro. So I'm not even, like, on that time to even just be out here making kids, bro. So that's what I'm saying. Like, my. Be my calculated bro for what it is, what it is. And I'm running out of time, so I'm not about to be out here 50, making movie, making more keys. You feel what I'm saying? Like, so that's just my number. Like, bro, I'm. I'll be the 33rd of September if I end up with four kids, bro. Cool. But it's not gonna be the account that I adopted for. From. From a woman. You know what I'm saying? No disrespect, ladies. It's all love because y' all are great mothers. This, that, and the third, but it's just my perspective. But that's just what I want to do. Just like, y' all be like, oh, I don't want baby daddies, and you got kids. I don't want a. With kids. But you got kids. You know what I'm saying? I ain't say I want to. I don't want a girl with no kids. The way I could just start fresh. I could be that selfish, you know what I'm saying? Like. But I said, you feel me? Like, bro. [00:48:47] Speaker C: You got two questions to close out, too. One is, do y' all feel like a woman or is always obligated to go back to her baby daddy? [00:48:55] Speaker A: What? Oh, no, you talking about. Hell, no. She ain't obligated to do. She obligated to do whatever make her happy, bro. You know what I'm saying? Like, that just. That's just the way the cookie crumble, bro. Like, if you trying to control the situation, bro, just because you got a. A baby with that girl, bro, you lost. You lost already, bro. You don't want a. Around your kid. This, that, and the third, bro, get up, bro. [00:49:22] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:49:23] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? [00:49:23] Speaker C: Like, you got this last one here from Michael. Says, my question for y' all is, is it good or bad thing for. To stay together with someone for a period of time because you have kids? [00:49:37] Speaker B: Oh, wait. [00:49:39] Speaker A: And listen, bro, I'm gonna drop. I'm gonna drop. I'm gonna drop a jewel on you. [00:49:43] Speaker B: Some powerful going on. [00:49:44] Speaker C: I'm telling you, ready for the bomb. [00:49:46] Speaker A: I'm gonna drop a powerful thing on you that my homegirl told me one time, bro, and she was like, you don't got to be with that girl to be a good daddy. And that. I mean, you know what I'm saying? [00:49:59] Speaker B: Hey, hey, hey. I ain't even lie to if you've. [00:50:03] Speaker A: Been through what I've been through, bro. [00:50:05] Speaker B: What she was just saying, though, how you. You kind of do got to be with the girl to be a good. [00:50:10] Speaker A: I mean, I'm a good daddy. 9. I ain't with you. [00:50:12] Speaker B: You can't be in the household every day, though. So that woman probably telling this baby, but that don't. I got one thing I got to control. [00:50:21] Speaker A: I got the control. Control, bro. [00:50:23] Speaker C: Now, here's the thing. I think that's first off, kids shouldn't be born with a job. And what I mean by that is they shouldn't be. Be able to hold two people together. If you don't want to be together, you're hurting the child by being together more than anything else. It's just the kids pick up. Kids pick up on what the hell's going on between the parents, period. So if you. You best off. If you. If you better off apart, and the. The. The vibe around the kids is gonna be better with y' all apart, just be a part. If your happiness is better, just be a part. Because you're gonna mess up your kids by trying to stay together. And y' all don't want to be together. Either y' all gonna be cheating or y' all gonna be arguing like hell. And the kids pick up on that 100 of the time. So if you not happy with the person you with, do not. Do not let kids keep you together, period. [00:51:11] Speaker A: That. [00:51:11] Speaker C: That's just. That's just it. Because all that's gonna happen is when the kids leave the house. All y' all gonna end up doing is leaving each other. Now, you don't wasted the last 18 years of your damn life. [00:51:20] Speaker A: I got. I got to be the best version of me, brother. Be a good daddy, bro. [00:51:24] Speaker C: That's right. [00:51:25] Speaker A: Right, right, right. You. You holding yourself down in the situation, bro. Like, where a situation draining you, bro? Like, you ain't gonna. [00:51:32] Speaker C: Hey, somebody said. And what he said just now was, you know, you don't. You're not in the house with. With the moms and the moms. Yeah, the moms can tell. The moms could be telling the kids. Whatever, whatever, Whatever, man. If you doing what you're supposed to do as a dad, your kids already know the truth, bro. [00:51:46] Speaker A: Listen, bro, my son. My son. Get on the phone, bro. Daddy. Daddy, when I'm coming back to your house, like, bro, I don't be. I. I can't control that, bro. And me and you know, like, me and that side ain't. Ain't always seen out there, bro. So it's been some. It's been some, bro. But, like, the type of man brought it on ground. Like, bro, lay down, bro. I'm. I'm gonna be a dad. But regardless of whatever type of, like, situation we in, we ain't got to be talking. That means. I don't mean I'm gonna stop being a good day. I could. [00:52:11] Speaker B: And I could be wrong. I want everybody on this live, whoever on this live, everybody here. Go do some research today. What household. What. What kids turn out better? Two parent households or one parent households? [00:52:24] Speaker A: There was a study. [00:52:25] Speaker C: There was a study done, and the answer to the question was neither. The answer question was the kids that were in the happiest home. [00:52:31] Speaker A: Right Wherever the love come from. [00:52:33] Speaker B: You tell him you telling me something. But I just want everybody to do their research. [00:52:36] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:52:36] Speaker B: I'm go home and I'm gonna look. [00:52:37] Speaker A: Into whatever the love come from, bro. Like, I. I don't be trying to be like, oh, this side love you more or I love you more than you. Know what I'm saying? [00:52:44] Speaker B: But can we, can we, can we think about it? Like, think about us. Think about everybody. Like us three right here in this room, right? Think about the people that you actually know. Who, who, who turned out the bit. Who, who turned out better? The. The kid. Your friends that you know with two parent households or the ones that had split households. [00:53:07] Speaker C: Well, I can, I can think about. [00:53:09] Speaker B: Think about your immediate friend group. [00:53:10] Speaker C: Okay, now I'm gonna speak for myself. [00:53:12] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:53:13] Speaker C: All right. Divorced, you know what I'm saying? And I got another baby moms. My three oldest. My three oldest one's about to graduate college with honors. One's in college on a full scholarship. One's about to go to college on another full academic scholarship. My kids are thriving and doing what they need to do. And I ain't with their moms and ain't been with their moms. My oldest baby girl, she about to turn 21. I ain't been with her mom ever. Like, we was just a booty call that went wrong. You know what I'm saying? [00:53:45] Speaker A: Yeah, but we didn't stop you from being no good. [00:53:47] Speaker C: That didn't stop me from being a good dad and making sure I'm showing up. [00:53:51] Speaker B: That's what I'm saying, though. I ain't saying that, bro. [00:53:53] Speaker A: Listen, brother, LeBron came from a one parent household, so if you can raise the NBA's leading score with millions of dollars, it could be done, bro. [00:54:01] Speaker B: That's fact. [00:54:01] Speaker A: It just take it. Just take the village. It takes what has to be going, going on. We got the. I ain't speak. I'm just saying, like, bro, we got players around here now. One parent households thriving. I ain't gonna say that. [00:54:14] Speaker C: Yo, and I've been in the school system, so I know kids that come from two family households and they screwed all the way up. [00:54:22] Speaker A: Well, I know something. Look, but the mamas who doing that? You real. You real daddies who doing it. You real. That's it. [00:54:30] Speaker B: Just here, just hear me out though, fool. [00:54:32] Speaker A: All right? [00:54:32] Speaker B: Now, I want you to think about your immediate friend group, right? Whoever. Who are your friends coming up? Think about it, bro. [00:54:38] Speaker A: Listen, bro. Okay, we could think about it. We could think about that. We could think. [00:54:41] Speaker B: You have a two Parent household. [00:54:42] Speaker A: We could think. Yes, I did. Like I said, I just had a stepdad, but we could think about that too. We, we also grown as now. And you could tell the type of environment that our friends was growing up in. So just because we got two parents, that wasn't always the best environment for that. We know people who got one parent and they was in the best environment. But that don't mean it's the best environment. [00:55:01] Speaker B: I know it's whoever that can provide. [00:55:02] Speaker A: The best environment, bro. [00:55:03] Speaker B: I know people who grew in two parents who grew up in households and like something could happen are up people though. [00:55:10] Speaker A: That's cool. And I know parents who grew up in two parents that are thriving. Who in two parents. [00:55:17] Speaker B: But what I want you to do is just think about the like the majority of it though. [00:55:22] Speaker A: Like bro, you, you just. You tripping. I ain't gonna lie. Cause you, you just think about the majority of it like it don't matter, bro. You looking at it from the outside in, bro. Like I say, bro, you could be in the two parent household that up. Look how many of these girls been in two parent household. Step that come in, they get raped, bro. That is real that going on. You know what I'm saying, bro? That's what I be mean about that step. That too. [00:55:44] Speaker B: He's looking it up. [00:55:45] Speaker A: No, that really be going on. [00:55:51] Speaker C: I'm sorry, I mean to take y' all off your screen. [00:55:56] Speaker B: I ain't saying that. [00:56:01] Speaker A: Something can happen to. [00:56:04] Speaker B: It always outlines everything. [00:56:05] Speaker A: God forbid something happens to my being on the day of tomorrow, bro. My, my son gonna be straight with me. I don't need no wife or my son to be in no great situation. He gonna be good for sure. He gonna be good, bro. So like, bro, it don't mean that. Just that just because I want to be a parent, it's two parent households that don't want to be parents. Bro. We just became parents. Now you leaving these kids, these kids 13, 12 teen in the house by themselves because you want to go have fun because you up when you was younger. [00:56:33] Speaker B: It's tripping. [00:56:34] Speaker A: Real talk, bro. That don't mean it gonna be a good situation. Because it two people. It'd be two up people raising the. Raising the kid. [00:56:41] Speaker B: Raising the kid for sure. I'm not saying that just because. That's not what I'm saying. Just because you have two, a two parent household don't mean that you gonna be the most well off. It doesn't just automatically one plus one equals two, bro. That just that, that don't mean that. [00:57:00] Speaker A: Now that, bro, listen, bro, that go down to like, you just put a scenario, bro. They told us, bro, you got to go to college to be successful. How many you know going went to college, then graduating ain't. Yeah, but they ain't using. They went to college for. Bro, that don't mean. [00:57:14] Speaker B: Bro, let me. Let me. Let me tell you something about this college. Because the whole system is. The college system. The college system is up. It's a scam. Well, I ain't gonna say it's a scam, but the sis. The system for college is up. But I'm gonna tell you this about somebody who went to college, though. Like, majority of people who went to college, like, people be going to college for the wrong reasons. College is to help you become a higher thinker. You feel me? Like, most people who go to college, you might be a. You might be like. You might be a dope fiend or some. But I promise you, like, majority of them who went to college, like, they like, can out thank you on certain. [00:57:52] Speaker A: And I know that went to prison. I think a who went to college. [00:57:55] Speaker B: But what they was doing in prison. Reading, Understanding the first thing you do when you go to college, what they gonna do? They're gonna take you back through everything in high school, the one on ones, and they're gonna teach you how to think, how to. How to solve situations. [00:58:07] Speaker A: And everything don't come out no book. [00:58:08] Speaker B: But you don't get for sure. That's why you don't get into your to. Into your own field, into, like, your last semester in college. The whole other time you in college, you writing papers, and you writing papers, You. You. You learning how to think, bro. You ain't really doing. And when you get your job, they gonna teach you how to do your job again when you get your job. [00:58:32] Speaker A: Oh, man, that's all the time we got today. Hey, man, it's been peas in the pie with your boy Jay with the ink, man. You know, with my boys Dollar Bill in here tonight, man, we have fun, man. We with it. Episodes will be posted Thursday at midnight, man. Make sure you all follow your boy Jay with the eight. I'm about to start the peas in the pie page, man, and we just going. You know what I'm saying? I appreciate y' all peace.