Smashing in the Doggy Van: That’s How You Know He Don’t Care

[00:00:00] Speaker A: Yo, yo, yo, what's happening? Good evening. Good evening. This boy Jay with Inc. Back to you live with another episode of Peas in the podcast. Feel me? What's happening, man? How y' all doing? We had to double back this, like, take 97, you know what I'm saying? Me and Yoshi was behind the scenes. We had the Google. We had to figure this out. But, you know, the post public now, you know what I'm saying? Our lives are public again. It ain't just friends only, so you can share that. You know what I'm saying? Tag your homies, whatever the case may be. God damn, bro. Facebook was doing me like that for like, two, three weeks, y' all. No cap. Facebook doing me like that for two, three weeks. But we done figured it out. [00:00:44] Speaker B: Hey, we here. [00:00:45] Speaker A: We been rolling, we back rolling. We back rolling, man. Make sure you share the live, man. Make sure you come in, you comment, you. You let me know what's going on so I could got down. First and foremost, I thank y' all. Well, you know what I'm saying? Helping us grow, helping our numbers do whatever, bro. I just love doing it, so I don't really be thinking about the numbers, you feel me, like. But, hey, man, this is our first sponsor episode, man. So give it. Give. You know, you feel me like, we got a sponsor. You feel me like, hey, that's. That's. That's cold right there. That's cold right there, man. It's cold right there. I like that. I like that. [00:01:22] Speaker B: There we go. [00:01:23] Speaker A: I like that. I like that. [00:01:24] Speaker B: We back, man. [00:01:25] Speaker A: What's up? How you. How you, my boy? Yeah, I'm back now. I get. I get my comments back. I see my likes and. Yeah, man, we back again. Thank Jesus. They were. They were. They were holding me back for a little minute, man. They're holding me. Damn. Hey, you know, we got something to drink, of course, to make the episode better, man. You know what I'm saying? Shots up, shots up. You feel me? [00:01:53] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. Yep. [00:01:57] Speaker A: But, hey, man, I got my own little subject today because, listen, I really been quiet, bro. I don't know if you've seen. I don't know if you've seen. Like, I didn't really see the full interview, but it's like B. Simone and her homegirl, something like that. [00:02:14] Speaker B: Be Simone. [00:02:15] Speaker A: Yeah. Her homegirl was, I guess, saying, like, you know, I guess people think because me and you friends and I'm attached to you that, you know, people just automatically assume I got money and the homegirl was just going through it, she lost her. She lost a lot of. You know what I'm saying? Had to get her together. You feel me? So nah, bro, be Simone. They had to come out and basically let people know like, bro, I ain't. I ain't having money that I had, that I had, you know, Like, I don't really feel like that nobody business, you feel me? But like your friend put you on the spot. I don't really feel like that's her friend. Just in my honest opinion. Dang, what a friend. Do you feel me? Like, you know, I feel like that friend knew what she was doing. Trying to like get the angle, whatever you feel like it made the Internet think, whatever. Like, oh, this just don't want to help. Well, listen, a lot of you go through, boy, you put yourself in that boy. Ain't nobody entitled to help you up out that boy. [00:03:13] Speaker B: Yo, I just talked about that on my podcast. I sweat right before you got here, man, I literally just. Cuz we was talking about the movie Straw and we was like, ain't no telling what she did and not blaming her. But we all got decisions. Whatever happens, yo, like we had something to do with the reason why we ended up in whatever situation we were. [00:03:36] Speaker A: Ah, no, C. Like I tell that like I say every episode, bro, you are entitled to your own destiny. So you know the decision that you make can lead to some bro. And a lot of times, bro, you just be like it and you just got to touch the water to see if that hot word, bro, you found out that water bothered you to stuck your damn hand in there. Too late. You feed me so, bro, a lot of bro, you just gotta take accountability for and correct yourself, man. [00:04:07] Speaker B: Peter said she definitely did something like. [00:04:09] Speaker A: God damn. Oh yes. That. That straw movie was insane. Hold you like, I'm just saying, like people was upset. Like I've seen like a lot of Tyler Perry only make sad moves, man. That man, that was good. [00:04:25] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:04:26] Speaker A: It wasn't relating so hard if you wasn't maybe. You know what I'm saying? Like that was a good movie, bro. Like I was in that goddamn had to fight soon. You know, like you gotta look up at the ceiling. Yeah, like, boy, like, well, that had me kinda. You know what I'm saying, bro, I'm be real, bro. I don't really like movies. So it like if I can like really indulge in the movie. Yeah, that good, bro. Yeah, good. [00:04:57] Speaker B: Like I said, you know, people go down them roads, but it's like what decision did you make that you Ain't got nobody. What decision did you make that your mama ain't even gonna be there to help you? [00:05:07] Speaker A: God damn. [00:05:07] Speaker B: What decision did you make? That you got a brand new job, you don't start it off? Why does man want to fire you? You know, and I'm not saying that stuff is her fault, because some of that wasn't her fault. But at the end of the day, we all make a decision at some point. And then between winning and losing. [00:05:24] Speaker A: Now, that man at that job could have been a little bit more if her baby died the night before, bro. [00:05:31] Speaker B: When they said the baby was dead the day before, boy, about ran out the room. [00:05:35] Speaker A: Oh, man. Bro, you. You hear me? Bro? I was like, what that baby being gone, bro. So then when they see you, see a care in the empty blanket, I'm like, oh, no, no, no, hell no. Don't do this to me, boy. Hell no. Hell no, boy, that one hurt. I ain't gonna lie, bro. I ain't had like, you know, like, bro, I think he'd just be like, really trying to make you, like, relate, bro. Like, bro, you can go on the Internet and see some rich lifestyle that you like light years away from, you know what I'm saying? But like, I want to connect with y' all for real. Like this be everyday that people don't really like, take it to, know what I'm saying? [00:06:20] Speaker B: They don't. They don't attest to. [00:06:22] Speaker A: Amen. I ain't gonna lie, bro. [00:06:27] Speaker B: What? [00:06:29] Speaker A: That movie had me up. [00:06:31] Speaker B: That movie had you up? [00:06:32] Speaker A: Hell yeah, boy. Like, didn't that make you think about like your dad be. That dad is out here, you know what I'm saying? [00:06:43] Speaker B: The part where she went to school to open the car door and then no kid get out. [00:06:47] Speaker A: Oh my God, bro, listen. Why the lady came and hug her and brought her back to reality. I kind of understand from that point. Like, you like, damn. [00:06:55] Speaker B: But wait now she was teasing her daughter though. You feel me, bro? [00:07:02] Speaker A: Like that just that just the police off a piss. [00:07:05] Speaker B: Police officer pissed me off so bad. [00:07:07] Speaker A: Which police officer? [00:07:08] Speaker B: I'm thinking she. I think Erica was talking about that wreck right when he spun the house, right, bro? [00:07:14] Speaker A: Because you just a bro, you know it really people out here like that, bro, that just like be weird. And that was another take that I had on life, bro. I around and posted this like a couple weeks ago. You know, like, bro, be waking up in a bad mood and expect you to give a. You know what I'm saying, bro, like gas high rent high Grocery, high. Whatever you think about high. [00:07:41] Speaker B: Everything. [00:07:41] Speaker A: School shoes, high. School Underwear, high. Soap, high. Tissue, high. For everything you can think about high. Why the you think I give a. About you having a bad day? My day bad, too. Matter of fact, have another one tomorrow. Matter of fact, have a whole week straight of them. Thank you. Like, what the. Like, damn. I hope you have a. Just. I hope you walk around with that cloud over your ass and it raining on you all week. Nobody give a about you having no bad day. [00:08:13] Speaker B: Your bad day at all. Don't nobody care. [00:08:18] Speaker A: Yeah, go ahead. Yeah. That police officer was od. Yeah, bro, I'm telling you. Everything. Everything. [00:08:27] Speaker B: What's dude? What was dude name? On A Different World. The actor that played the. He played the. The boss at the supermarket. [00:08:37] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. Talking about the black ball head dude, right? Yeah, man. Bro, that right. Ready to goddamn if I could jump through that screen on his ass, boy. And just. [00:08:47] Speaker B: And after. And after she fought off the robbers. He talking about something. You the one set it up, right? [00:08:52] Speaker A: That why you got your ass sitting hell you. She even gave that time to pray about that. She got his ass up out of there, boy. Word, y' all. Boy. Hey, listen, man. Better learn how to close their goddamn mouth. Boy, I wish I would get to talking that. I seen somebody just face on. Oh, what? That is not my place. We can have this talk another day. You feel what I'm saying like I feel about you right now? It. If you set it up it. [00:09:23] Speaker B: And you said your mom. Yo, yo, your baby done passed on. I'm not with you today. I'm literally. You need a whole lot of leave alone right now. That's what you need. A whole lot of leave alone. And I' ma leave you alone. [00:09:36] Speaker A: Crazy. [00:09:37] Speaker B: And then they put a. Then. Then the person put out the house. The landlord put a stuff out in the rain. [00:09:44] Speaker A: It's a lot to be going through, bro. And the landlord sat there and talk to that lady. And you ain't start feeling bad until you got down watch the. Live with the. The. The teller. The bank teller went live. Now you starting to feel you was a horrible person, period. Horrible person. I understand. Like you. [00:10:03] Speaker B: You knew. You put her out knowing her daughter died the night before. [00:10:06] Speaker A: All y' all ain't got in that in that little apartment, bro, you. You know what I'm saying? Like, bro, that what PJ say, bro. She f his ass up. Think about it. Just got to go, bro. That girl just said want her check, bro. [00:10:26] Speaker B: $536, bro. [00:10:28] Speaker A: And you got your ass Sent to hell because it ain't your money business, boy. And you know that woman needed that money, bro. You know what I'm saying? Like, I don't know, bro. I don't know, bro. [00:10:40] Speaker B: And that's the biggest thing, that's the biggest thing is like that money that you talking about. Hey, yeah, your last, your final check will get mailed to you. That ain't even your money. [00:10:49] Speaker A: I would have punched you in your then. And when I got my. Well, I'm already fired. What you gonna do, send me to jail? [00:10:55] Speaker B: Man, listen, I was on my podcast and was talking about the teacher that wouldn't give the daughter the lunch. I was like, I'll tell you what I'd have done if it was my kid. I'd have went to school and checked in, talking about something. I'm gonna be monitoring. I'm gonna be visiting my child's class today. And I would have dared that, to not give my kids some food, man. [00:11:11] Speaker A: Listen, boy, I had a dad. You, you could, you could, you could have went ahead and gave it to him at this point. But then my baby come home and was like, you weren't giving her, giving. [00:11:20] Speaker B: Them and was teasing her. [00:11:22] Speaker A: Yeah, don't worry about it. I got something for you. [00:11:24] Speaker B: I got you. [00:11:27] Speaker A: Mama. Come pick up. Goddamn. I'm telling you, I'm going to jail today, right? No. At 12 o' clock probably. I'll be in jail by 1205, I guarantee you. [00:11:38] Speaker B: What time to eat lunch about 11 o' clock. [00:11:40] Speaker A: By 1105, go ahead and do it before the lunch start. You better have another lunch director around this because she might. She about to catch some knuckle sandwich. She got a real knuckle sandwich coming, boy. Damn. [00:11:59] Speaker B: Hey, man. [00:12:00] Speaker A: Hey, bro. Yeah, that's just like, that just was like a crazy ass movie though. [00:12:06] Speaker B: Yeah. Okay, so, so people was talking to me. They were like, that movie had him like about to go to tears. Was there any movie that you kind. [00:12:13] Speaker A: Of had to hold back on, like tears wise? [00:12:16] Speaker B: Yeah, like what movie? What movie? Got you. I got one that if you a. [00:12:21] Speaker A: Father, tell you, bro, what's that, what's that movie? What's that movie with Will Smith and his son, bro? [00:12:28] Speaker B: Pursuit of Happiness. Oh my God, Listen, that damn bathroom. [00:12:32] Speaker A: Scene or Listen, bro, that bath, boy, listen, listen, boy. Listen, bro, I'm. I'm that daddy, bro. Yes, I'm willing to like. Yes, I'm willing to like. [00:12:50] Speaker B: What's your movie that almost made you cry? Tap in, put it in the comments. [00:12:53] Speaker A: What set it off? [00:12:54] Speaker B: I set it off. A what? [00:12:57] Speaker A: I guess when Cleo died, man. You know what I'm saying? But, like, was that. [00:13:00] Speaker B: Was. Was that a tear? That wasn't really a tear, jerk. [00:13:03] Speaker A: I'm just saying for air, for. For people who was just like. You know what I'm saying? But, like, I'mma think of another one, bro. I'mma say. [00:13:11] Speaker B: Oh, this a good one. [00:13:12] Speaker A: That hard. Hard ball, too. [00:13:14] Speaker B: Fruitville Station. That's a good one. [00:13:16] Speaker A: I ain't never seen that. [00:13:17] Speaker B: Oh, yeah, you gotta watch that. That's a good one. [00:13:19] Speaker A: I'm going to watch that tonight. [00:13:20] Speaker B: I ain't crying. [00:13:21] Speaker A: Matter of fact, ain't that old buddy that wrote Sinners, though. He wrote. He wrote Fruitville State Station. Q, that's John Q. John Q was smooth. John Q was smooth. John Q was smooth. John Q was smooth. I'm hardball, bro. What. What the. [00:13:37] Speaker B: Oh, yeah, Hardball. [00:13:38] Speaker A: Yeah. What the break dance movie was, bro, With Little Saint. Oh, y' all kill usank, boy. Yeah. Hell yeah, boy. Like, hell no. What? That's the way I thought everybody had with Cleo, though. Everybody with Cleo. Cleo was smooth. As you know. [00:13:58] Speaker B: They ain't with that one that been crying about, she need that money. I need this money, bro. [00:14:04] Speaker A: Listen, bro. [00:14:04] Speaker B: When that ran out the bank, it's like, I ain't doing this. [00:14:08] Speaker A: Listen, bro, Listen, bro. That is funny, bro. You got sir. Yes. Yes. [00:14:16] Speaker B: No, that was not no set. [00:14:18] Speaker A: That was you got sir. That was you got sir, the B2K movie with Lil Say Yeah. [00:14:21] Speaker B: Oh, okay, okay, okay. [00:14:23] Speaker A: That was that. No, I was not. You feel me? Acrimony. Acrimony made me cry. I just felt that woman was crazy and stupid. [00:14:30] Speaker B: She got what she. She got what she deserved. [00:14:33] Speaker A: Hey, y' all don't want my take on the Ackerman. I'mma be real. [00:14:36] Speaker B: No, let's. Let's get into that. That. Let's get into acrimony. [00:14:40] Speaker A: No, bro. [00:14:41] Speaker B: Why not? [00:14:41] Speaker A: They already say I hate women, bro. [00:14:43] Speaker B: I ain't no hate. Like, if you're gonna say, yo, I got your back, but you ain't gonna give it no time limit, then you got us back to infinity, bro. [00:14:53] Speaker A: I don't think people realize like. Like that, but it ain't nothing like. And, bro, she probably would have had that man back to infinity until she stopped, you know? I'm saying she was listening to other people. Exactly. In the outside world, bro, like, bro, it ain't meant for everybody else to understand what you and your partner going through, Dougie. Nah, if you. If you in a. If you in a relationship for financial reasons, bro, it just never gonna work. I don't give a. What nobody say, bro. Like, you see how. Like, you see how you. You've seen that. That. That video of Justin Jefferson curving that girl? [00:15:28] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:15:29] Speaker A: You see how she look like, oh, no, you didn't. After you just hit. But don't give a. You know what I'm saying? Like, I don't. I don't know, bro. You got. When you get. Yeah, I don't know, bro. [00:15:42] Speaker B: Yeah, I'm just saying, like, I don't think, like, your relationship is for you and your lady or you. Or if you're a lady, you and your man or whatever it is you do. Whatever you decide to be and who you decide to love, it's between y'. [00:15:54] Speaker A: All within whatever it is, nobody else. [00:15:56] Speaker B: You know what I'm saying? Ain't for nobody else to understand. I think the best advice I got from a married couple was I can't give you no advice because your relationship. You're not me and my wife is not your future wife. [00:16:11] Speaker A: Cause there's a lot of shit that people willing to take, bro. And motherfuckers be like, oh, I wouldn't take that. But at the same time, the been together 20 something years. You can't even make it past three, four, you know, you can't expect. Three, four months. [00:16:25] Speaker B: What are you talking about, bro? [00:16:26] Speaker A: Like, your longest relationship, four years, you feel me? Like, bro, I'll be listening to single people on a relationship, bro. You know what I'm saying? Like, if you wise. You wise doggy, you know what I'm saying? Especially if you, like, you willing to take accountability and what you did then, okay, that's different with people don't be willing to really do that, bro. People gonna point the finger. She was doing this, he was doing this. Ain't nobody getting away with that, bro. [00:16:51] Speaker B: No, not at all. [00:16:54] Speaker A: Word. You know what I'm saying, bro? So it'd just be for me, like, yo, yo, your partner, bro. You don't know who your partner is, bro. You'll be willing to say, but what everybody got to say, this what I'm on, you know what I'm saying? Like. [00:17:10] Speaker B: I'm giving nobody advice. You give them advice, and most times they're gonna go right back, I'm telling you. [00:17:15] Speaker A: But I don't give a. A getting their head beat between the washing machine and dry every. Every night that if that little boy ain't you can say about that. You know what I'M saying, what, you gonna waste your energy? Goddamn. Try to correct the situation? They're gonna go back anyway. Yeah, pray for their ass. [00:17:32] Speaker B: Stop saying don't give a. Because honestly, if you really love A, you're gonna be hurt if she up with whatever situation. Y' all act like y' all got no heart, Bo. That's the. That pissed me off. [00:17:44] Speaker A: Nah, bro, but you gotta understand, bro, like, when a hurt bro hurt different, bro. It kind of hard to, like, put that hurt in the words the way you gonna kind of understand me. I'm already feeling vulnerable. That's one thing y' all be misconstruing about, bro. Like that feeling vulnerable part, bro. Until we're comfortable with feeling vulnerable around you, bro, that's just the easiest thing to do, is just shut down. [00:18:04] Speaker B: Yeah, easy. [00:18:05] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? Like, damn, bro. Like, I don't even want you to judge. You already making me feel some type of way. [00:18:10] Speaker B: And like, oh, I like this here. [00:18:13] Speaker A: You feel me? [00:18:13] Speaker B: Like, a wise man is observant. Is an observant and silent man. [00:18:18] Speaker A: I'm telling you, boy. I'm telling you. All right, but A don't got time for all that, bro. A might be. And then, bro, y' all just be expecting to just, like, tell you everything, bro. And the. Can't talk. He's never had that person to tell everything, too, bro. And I can only. Y' all be thinking, like, I'm trying to like down women. But I can only give it to you from a man's point of view in, like, situations that I've been in, you know what I'm saying? Like, ain't like a trying to be distant or whatever else, but we're just like, I can't. I got. I need to figure out, you know what I'm saying? Until we can find that balance around each other. When I'm in that point, this, you know, you're gonna already, like, you're just gonna feel some type of way. You feel me? Like, everybody don't love with a heart on their sleeve, though. You know what I'm saying? Like, that kind of weird, you know what I'm saying? Like, wait, I ain't with it. [00:19:13] Speaker B: Why not? We be telling y' all everything. [00:19:15] Speaker A: Goddamn, y' all tell everybody everything. God damn. [00:19:18] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. We ain't special. That's the whole point. [00:19:20] Speaker A: You can meet a pretty girl tomorrow and start telling her all your business because she pretty. And you feel like y' all got so much in common, you don't even know this the demon. You feel what I'm saying? Like, that real, bro. Like, bro ain't got. Damn. That's just a, though, you know what I'm saying? Just a man, like a. Ain't it. It kind of hard. You can know you got to peel on. You got to peel layers off that, you know what I'm saying? You might unlock something every week with that. You feel me? Like, a lot of y' all ain't patient, though. Y' all think y' all could just manipulate the. Into a relationship, too, or manipulate a into being vulnerable. You know what I'm saying? Bro, you got to get. You got to get that man time, man. You know what I. [00:20:05] Speaker B: Man. Ah, she said you funny, but I feel you. [00:20:11] Speaker A: I'm dead ass, though, bro. That be hard, doggy. That ain't easy to just, like, express my feelings like. What the is that? You know how long I been. You better suck that up. Y' all the diary writing, boy. We ain't grew up doing that no journal that had the journal. We probably used to call that gay or something. Yeah, right. The journal. You feel me? Like, that's just how we grew up, though, you know what I'm saying? Like, I'mma just be real, man. Like, I'm sorry. Feel me? But hey, doggy, that way the cookie crumble sometime, man. Damn. I ain't tell y' all my goddamn PlayStation died. Oh, Jesus. I'm a sick for about three days, but. [00:21:09] Speaker B: Not three days. [00:21:10] Speaker A: I was sick for about three days, bro. [00:21:14] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, I can see that. You a gamer, though, right? [00:21:16] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, but that keep me in the crib. I don't be wanting to go out with y' all ass out the goddamn. I found a couple who'll be on the game every Saturday night, every Friday night. Just like how we be outside bobbing to the music, looking at the same hoes. [00:21:29] Speaker B: When we say we love a chick. Females don't know what it looked, what it took for a to get to that. [00:21:35] Speaker A: I promise you. What? Listen, I got me one right now. I ain't coming about this one. I ain't gonna hug you. Oh, cool. [00:21:43] Speaker B: Yeah, you said it last week. [00:21:46] Speaker A: Oh, cool, dog. I'm gonna give y' all some play ass advice, bro. But me personally, I'm straight right now. [00:21:56] Speaker B: How much time that? Do you see what Trump doing talking about giving y' all time that. [00:22:03] Speaker A: I mean, you the one at the military. You feel what I'm saying? So you might be in trying to get married kind of f. But. Well, it takes some time. It depends on the. Though it depends on how comfortable you make that. Y' all don't be understanding like, your mama ain't never. I mean, I ain't gonna say that because I don't know you personally. But, you know, like, bro, if you watch somebody really nurture somebody and because it's. It's certain. It's a certain type of women, bro, who get the joy out of like, goddamn nurturing their man, but they get the joy out of cooking plates. They get the joy out of goddamn. [00:22:35] Speaker B: I feel like sneaka came to you. Came for you, bro. Bro, love. That's cute. [00:22:42] Speaker A: Peace. But. [00:22:45] Speaker B: But that's the thing. I think that some people don't realize how much a good relationship just brings you peace. Like, just being with the right person. [00:22:54] Speaker A: I just want to be around you. I just want to be around you a lot of, bro. Like being single. Like, a lot of. I just want to. And get you up out my. I thought the. I don't want you laying up in what you still sitting here for. [00:23:07] Speaker B: Why is you. [00:23:08] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying, bro? Tired of going through that boy can flip any hole around this. You know what I'm saying? But, like, I feel like just being, like, being like, 30 plus, bro. Like, it's cool to be single. Like, don't get me wrong, because please take your time and figure this out. But like, at 30 plus rest, not a flex to be single. Oh, I don't want to be out this. Like, oh, I'm single, I'm single, I'm single. But I supposed to be found my person to get this down and she started. But I ain't about to be out this just flipping holes. I don't need 15 baby mamas. I don't need all that brown tragedy. You know what I'm saying? Like, work the baby mama. I got in. Like, I went into that situation just wanting a baby mama. I just wanted a kid. [00:23:47] Speaker B: You feel me? [00:23:48] Speaker A: Like, bro, I've never been that type of. You mean that? Just. That's just me, though. You know what I'm saying? Y' all do what the y' all want to do. I've been attractive since we've been jits. Y' all just not starting to feel like, you know, I can everything well, these hoes. Why you better find you something real and lay this down, because that what I'm doing. You take my advice or not. And it's somebody who. Bro, when you find somebody that elevate you. [00:24:12] Speaker B: Oh, we. Oh, we. [00:24:13] Speaker A: You know, like elevating you spiritual Spiritually, emotionally, like, challenging your mind and willing to, like, upgrade you, like, on some financial. Like. Let me teach you this side of the game. Let me, let me. I be doing this. This what I be doing. You know what I'm saying? Hey, you got me. I mean, up. I ain't never had no head starting, like, well, I got a partner who wants some money. She don't just want to sit around and play with the air conditioner. I'm just a bad. I don't got to work. Oh, yeah, I'm good. Y' all can have these women. Y' all can have them, bro. Y' all can have them because that's all going on right now. Be getting on your ass to tell you, oh, you ain't a provider. Why? Because I ain't living in the 1960s and rent ain't 25 and a 25 car payment, and you don't need a high school degree to get a railroad job. And, bro, that's it. Times is different. Supposed to rescue your big booty ass. I'm supposed to change your big booty ass, your big booty fine ass and your three kids. I'm supposed to change our life and that. I just find somebody on the same page as me twin and we just go do it like that. Word. Because I get. I get to talking like that, and it'd be like, well, that's. That's. That's the thing about me, bro. I ain't scared to not be for nobody. You might be the finest thing walking around here. Oh, I ain't your type cool like. Or I don't spend them cool. Whatever you say. You know what I'm saying, bro? But I ain't scared to just be like, okay, well, it. You feel me? Like, that'd be a lot of problem, bro. This be your first Fine. This be your first with money or whatever the case may be, bro. I'm not going. I'll be cool. And I don't like nothing but fine. I ain't bringing that ugly around my mama. Hell no. I won't talk about me for real, boy. And my Fine ain't ain't got no stories to get flip around this. Y' all don't be understanding. Y' all think don't know when y' all getting passed around this. We be knowing. We be knowing like a. You just expect for a to boss your life up cause you cute with a big ass. You got me up. You can. You can put. You can maneuver them other with no daddy. [00:26:35] Speaker B: Bro. They said. And last year Charlotte got 8, 000 new HIV. Cause guess what. [00:26:43] Speaker A: Guess what doing. [00:26:44] Speaker B: Guess what doing 20. Guess what doing, bro. Raw doggy. [00:26:47] Speaker A: Whoa, Raw dog. Oh, this bad. This ass big and so that. And then a gonna let you do it. Oh, I used to respect them where a. Used to be ready to just. I'm ready to where your rubber. Oh, I love you. You respect yourself. I love you. You know what I'm saying? Like, yeah, you got a shout out here, bro. Huh? [00:27:11] Speaker B: I like your content. No filter so far with it. [00:27:14] Speaker A: Hey, appreciate it, bro. Man, make sure you tap here. Hey, listen, man, this is what we here for to it. We just having fun, man. This is me every day, bro. I ain't got no filter, bro. You know what I'm saying? Like, I don't be like, I'm just having fun, bro. [00:27:27] Speaker B: And make sure you catch the episode on the replay. [00:27:29] Speaker A: You hear me? Yeah. [00:27:31] Speaker B: All podcast platforms on Thursday. [00:27:33] Speaker A: And listen, I'm telling you, bro. Cause I don't know, bro. I seen. I seen the tick Tock, bro. A girl was like, y' all be stressing over people that ain't been to the dentist or the doctor since y' all talked to him. And y' all been dealing with them five years. [00:27:48] Speaker B: That's tough. Don't really be. [00:27:51] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? Like, yeah, no, no, no, no, bro. No, bro. No doggy. No doggy. You know what I'm saying? Like, bro, we. We grown up. You gotta take care of yourself. If you was young, bro, you could get by with a little bit more. But I'm about to be 33 in September. You ain't got to worry about me being out here in these streets. Want to be around y' all all. All the time, wanting to bothers, throwing ones every week. I. I'm cool on that, bro. I pop out, show y' all a good time every now and again, homecoming. You feel me? But I guarantee my girl gonna be right there. You feel me? Like that. The point I'm at, bro, I just feel like behind every. But listen, I swear to God, bro, this Rich told me one day, bro. I'm telling her. I'm just like. We just chopping it up, me and bro being cool. He older than me, you know what I'm saying, bro? Like 43, probably older than that old ass you probably on here, but you know what I'm saying? But I was like, bro, what you think I need to do to kind of just like. Just reach the next level, bro? Because I feel like I'm kind of Stagnant right now. I want to just like go up like a couple more levels. Get you. Get you one. That was just his. His main answer. He was like, bro, you got the work ethic. You, you got, you got, you got your. You the major. You know what I'm saying? Be you, you, you got your going. Get you one girl, bro. And focus. Lock in. What do you think I'm doing? Everybody could get it on. Hey, listen, bro, listen. This peas in the pie, bro. I don't give a cause. Guess what I know how to do too. I'll beat your ass. You come jumping in this water and don't know how to swim. Well, I'm gonna embarrass the out you, boy. My granddad, Larry James. Boy, I've been bouncing so long, boy. Don't worry about it. I don't give a what nobody tell you about me. You ready? [00:29:42] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:29:42] Speaker A: Hey, man, guess what? Now we got a word from our sponsor, man. You feel we coming right back. Looking to bring your car back to life. Let dirty is detailing get you riding clean. Owned and operated by Shannar, Dirty X detailing delivers top notch interior and exterior detailing that makes your vehicle look showroom new every time. 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[00:31:22] Speaker B: Bingo. [00:31:23] Speaker A: Not the bingo. Hey, I love it. Show a everywhere. You know what I'm saying? Hey, J. [00:31:32] Speaker B: She might need to set up. She might need to set up for us to do a live show. [00:31:35] Speaker A: Live in the be from the hall hey, man, from the big. And listen, man, tap in. If I could come. If I could come. Go live in your seat and smoke for real. Cause me and Yoshi, man. Hey, man, I don't like not being able to smoke no weed in this boy. Cause I'll be on this liquor. I'll be trying to balance this up real. [00:31:59] Speaker B: You see me, right? Hey, we'll come to Virginia. Ain't that road trip. [00:32:04] Speaker A: Who said that? [00:32:05] Speaker B: Shanika said. And me right here in Virginia. [00:32:08] Speaker A: Oh, we'll come to Virginia now and you can be on the pod. For real? [00:32:11] Speaker B: Yeah, put you on the pod. [00:32:12] Speaker A: Don't. Don't play with us. No, we'll goddamn make this happen. Especially you got some good scenery now. Hey, you know what I'm saying? Like, we can make this happen. We put this show on the road. I don't think y' all understand what this podcast gonna go. Always be talking to me saying, bro, yes. Need to goddamn make some content out this so that we doing, bro. No just make some content. [00:32:34] Speaker B: And the boy said, you with Shannon. [00:32:35] Speaker A: What you mean, bro? Don't gas me up yet. Don't. Don't just gas me up. Yeah. And listen, you know what I did do, right? I went and got them porcelain teeth, though. You feel me? So on camera ready? On camera, ready. You know what I'm saying? [00:32:59] Speaker B: Body be smoking weed on the outside. The bingo. So damn ghetto Evie kids being there. I said, what the is going on? [00:33:07] Speaker A: Hey, listen, man. It's my type of party right here. And Shannon definitely that, man. Me and Shannon got the goddamn. You know what I'm saying? Gotta do a little collab or something. You feel me? [00:33:18] Speaker B: Like, ain't nothing but to reach out. [00:33:21] Speaker A: Yeah, man, I'm. I'm up and coming in this podcast game, man. You know, I' ma try to get us a lovely co host, man. Somebody who gonna be consistent, you know, Just want to come sit on my be pretty one episode, then don't come back. Don't come back for goddamn three months. Oh, Jay, my hair done now. Can I come sit down this week? Like, you know, like, man, she know what I'm talking about, too. Yeah. Shots fire for. Yeah, man. Podcast gonna grow each and every week, bro. One day we're gonna come on this, bro, and like my mama told my. Can I come, girl, please? Damn. I ain't want to hear your mouth about no weed. I'm telling you that. No. You might as well. No, no, no, no. I can't wait. I could just. I can't wait. I can make that family compound, bro. And I could take care of all my people. Oh, man. You're gonna smoke some weed or you can't stay in my compound? You smoke that weed. But I might cook forever, you know what I'm saying? I'm gonna tell you one day you ain't got to go back to work, girl. I promise you that. I could pinky promise that now in this five to 10 years, you ain't got to worry about this no more. And you go smoke some weed, okay? What you say now? We ain't just gonna retire. You ain't gonna do what I want you to do. You know what I'm saying? First black man to get a key to the city of Florence, man. I'd love to see it. I love to see it, bro. You know what I'm saying? [00:35:01] Speaker B: Look, Mama talking about some boy. Bye. [00:35:07] Speaker A: You hear what I say, girl? So I sign me up, bro. We all going crazy. I'll be down, bro. If this. If I don't make this platform, like, huge, bro. And I don't. I don't do nothing with people from around here, brother. Make you bigger, swear to God. Because this platform blow up, bro. When it blow up. Because I ain't gonna say if. When this blow up. I can't wait to have my local rappers come in, bro. You. I'm interviewing you. You doing your. You doing a performance. You know what I'm saying? Whatever the case may like, right? This gonna get bigger and bigger, bro. Like, and it's just not for me. It's gonna be for everybody. But I'm gonna make sure it ain't always gonna be about no money for me, bro. You feel me? Like, money gonna come. We gonna bless each other, though. You feel me? Word. He told me. I got it. You could be the second. Not this got the key. You got the key to the city. What I be talking to then? Excuse me. Hey, W's in the chat for my boy pj, though. That boy pj. And this. I ain't gonna lie, bro. One homecoming, right? This I remember. I first met pj, probably like three years ago. My homeboys, you know what I'm saying? I already knew pj, man. Bro, we drunk as hell. Jazz on Darken, bro. He's like, yeah, bro, come outside, see what I'm driving. This got the AMG 63s that lit up in the inside of that. I'm talking about stupid blue lights all through that. I'm like, well, I gotta get my life together, bro. I gotta get my life together, bro. Like, don't be knowing, bro. I love seeing like that. I love seeing obtainable, bro. Like, yeah, that just made me go harder. It ain't got to be right now, I'm. I'm the who. Like the turtle race, bro. I can wait. I can wait on my turn, doggy, but when I do it, okay? And I'm telling you, bro, that's my dream car, bro. AMG63 is. You know what I'm saying? Or I like that Audi RS7, boy. I love that. I don't know what it is about that. The Audi RS7. Promise you, boy, you gonna know it. I got some money, you hear me? I think as well coming, though. You know what I'm saying? Damn, that Julio ain't fighting back today, boy. All right? Which I want to talk about, man. Ain't nothing like riding behind no stars. Well, listen, that Double R, man, you got, you know, stiff part of life, man. You feel me? My boy Brandon. What's happening, my boy? Appreciate you for coming in again this week, man. My boy. We got a clip of your, man. You. You gave us some interesting topics, bro. You can give us some more, you know what I'm saying? You got clipped up last week, bro. I appreciate it. I appreciate it. Hey, what y' all red flags be, bro? What y' all. What to make? Y' all just say this, man. I got the key for. What did it say? Mentorship and giving back to the community. Brian, you know, I don't like to brag on what I do yet, you know, but I am. I'm very active in the community, bro. I definitely be on that, bro. You know, like, a lot of people don't be on that, bro. That's why, bro, I love looking how I look, bro. You know, So I love when kids be asking me, like, damn, bro, you only do tattoos. Yes. You do not have to be a dope boy, because you probably. You probably give me some dope and I won't have none of this. I got. That is not. That is not for everybody, bro. You feed me, like, I just be trying to be motivation, bro. Real talk. You talking like a red flag in the person. Yeah, in the person. I wouldn't make you just be like, what's your ultimate cut off? What? What? It just make you be like, yeah, I can't deal with this, bro. You might find some energy, bro. You kind of could just get used to, you know, like, if ain't just like, too. Too bad, you can kind of, like, deal with it type. But what. What does this make you be like, yeah, I can't deal with this person right here. I'm gonna go first. Let me catch you in the lie. You got one time to lie to me, bro. Because I'm the type of you could talk to. You just tell me what's going on, and I'll be like, all right, cool. Let me adjust from that point. But if you scared, you gonna lose me from a lie, and you gonna lie, and I'm gonna find out anyway. Girl, now we can't even be friends. Now we can't even work back. Do you know what I'm saying? Like, man, you lying ass. Inconsistency for sure. He said, yo, you fool. You forgot about me. What's up? My boy? My boy Sean, man, I never forget about you. What you talking about? Real heavy on the line. Hey, dead ass. I don't like all that line be lying about. They don't even got to lie about. [00:40:27] Speaker B: You volunteer you a lot. I did not ask you just confrontation. I didn't ask you no question. Why are you volunteering me a lot? [00:40:35] Speaker A: You scared of confrontation so much you a lot of me, bro. We gonna come. We gonna confrontate anyway, all right? Yeah, bro, you tripping. You tripping. That inconsistency is like, it's. It's heavy. The inconsistency is heavy, though, because you can't be inconsistent. And I mean, like, as far as your looks, too, because that'd be one of my biggest turnouts, too, because why you don't never look like how you look on Facebook around me. Yeah, I don't like that. [00:41:05] Speaker B: That's them damn filters. [00:41:06] Speaker A: Them filters get your hair done, nails done, toes done. All that complaining red flag. Yeah, but that complaining, boy, I ain't. I ain't got too much of that to me either, twin. I ain't without that complaining. Because you could just go with a grass green at. You gonna sit here and complain all day insecurities. She. Well, you know, you want to be insecure out this boy, and you probably make them too, sir. You probably make that insecure, bro. You probably make that insecure, boy. Go ahead. No morals. People don't understand morals, bro. People don't understand when, like, you don't. [00:41:52] Speaker B: Know the definition of morals. [00:41:53] Speaker A: Nah, they think this supposed to go like they were they favorite reality show. You know what I'm saying? Like, you really don't understand, like, what the I'm trying to tell you, bro. Like, you don't get the point. I hate people that don't get the point of. You just Feel like a trying to make you feel like you wrong. And that's not what I'm talking about at all. I'm really trying to get you to understand where I'm coming from. But you feeling like I'm trying to point out your wrong so much. I don't like that. That we too grown for that. Yep, that's the one for me. Twin. [00:42:26] Speaker B: No. We got about 15 minutes here. Jay, you got a advice letter in here. [00:42:31] Speaker A: What's up? [00:42:32] Speaker B: Got somebody wrote the show. [00:42:33] Speaker A: For real? [00:42:34] Speaker B: Yeah. Wanting to get you? [00:42:35] Speaker A: No. Hell no. You lying? [00:42:37] Speaker B: I'm dead serious, man. [00:42:38] Speaker A: I'm looking at this. No. Okay, then stop playing with me, boy. Go ahead, get read to me, twin. [00:42:44] Speaker B: All right. Dear Truth Teller. Call you a truth teller. [00:42:48] Speaker A: Damn. [00:42:49] Speaker B: I never thought I'd be writing into a show. Here I am, heartbroken, furious and just plain confused. Not just because my husband cheated, but because of how he did it. Let me backtrack. For the past few months, my husband has been training for a marathon. Now let me be clear. This man hasn't run further than the fridge since college. But suddenly he's all in on fitness. Waking up at 5:30am to hit the trails, drinking green smoothies and buying more spandex than should be legal. At first I was supportive. I even made him protein packed oatmeal in the morning. But something felt off. He always came back from these runs with barely a drop of sweat and his playlist suspiciously, suspiciously romantic. Who jogs to Maxwell one one Saturday. I followed him, not out of distrust at first, but because he left his apple watch behind and I was worried he might faint somewhere in the woods. Again, he's not athletic. So I got in my car and trailed him discreetly. And guess where my man ended up? A dog grooming van parked behind a bowling alley. Let me repeat that. A dog grooming van. He was cheating on me inside a mobile pet spa with a woman named Crystal who doesn't even own a dog. I watched him hop into the van with a duffel bag filled. Later I found out with snacks, massage oil and a Bluetooth speaker. And they stayed in there for nearly an hour while pretending to be trimming imaginally schnauzers. When I confronted him, he swore up and down that they were just talking and working through a new business idea. I told him the only business they were working on involved questionable positions and unsanitary surfaces. I've never been more humiliated in my life. Not just because of the betrayal, but because I had to explain to my 8 year old daughter why daddy got kicked out. And while mommy now flinches every time she sees a poodle. So here's my question, Jay. How do you heal from something so absurd? It wasn't just the cheating. It was the theatrics, the lies, the coordination, the creativity. I feel like I've been living in a poorly written sitcom. Should I feel worse than the broke. The brokenness of my heart or that he had audacity to do in a. To do it in a van covered in paw prints? Sincerely, Chrome, groomed and doomed. [00:45:30] Speaker A: Well, that's interesting right there. Now, I'm kind of lost words because first of all, my comments say strawberry leather. But I just got my first strawberry leather. First of all, I'd appreciate. I appreciate a lot more of those. I love strawberry leathers, man. Get your boy with ink of strawberry leather all the time, boy. You know what I'm saying? But. [00:45:52] Speaker B: But the boy say you the top joiner of the morning. [00:45:55] Speaker A: Yeah. Hey, listen, I appreciate y' all for being here in the beginning, but the about to get big. Hey, but on some real. [00:46:11] Speaker B: But he smash it in the van around, dog. [00:46:13] Speaker A: Like, damn, brother. For one right? For one right? I' ma just my. My first take. You ain't had the goddamn tell the eight year old y' all business. That's none of them kids. Yeah, yeah, that's just my first take. The first take daddy got down on vacation. Daddy left for work or whatever the case may be, bro. But you don't do that because now you want them kids to feel the same hurt that you feel. Oh, looking, you. You broke up our family. You hurt our family. This, that the third. It that between you and your husband? That's just one. That's one. That's just my personal opinion. Two. Damn. What made doggy goddamn. You feel me like be a dog like that, though? Like you ain't gonna get no room. Then you hit that hole in the goddamn in the puppy trim van. Oh, no. You just might need to just leave that alone, twin, because I really don't even got nothing to say because it like, I really want to ask you. I don't feel like it's the time and the place to be asking, like, damn is how y' all. How y' all. How. How y' all get in the bedroom? How often are y' all having sex? How often is. How often are you making him feel wanted? [00:47:31] Speaker B: But that's the only thing with, like when somebody writes in a letter wanting advice or whatever, you don't know what the precursors were. You know, saying you don't know what. What not saying. By no means am I condoning it, right? But caused the man to feel like he needed to cheat. [00:47:47] Speaker A: Like we don't know, in a doggy van too. So he wanted to get that ball by whatever. Boy, where you at? Where you at? God damn it. I'll be up at 5:30. Where you at? You feed me. So it just like. And then another thing too. Like. Like I'll be telling y' all bro, your relationship is for you. So like I'm be real, bro. Like you could accept a little bit of cheating, man, like especially once that get caught, he gonna feel so bad. Especially if he love you. If he love you for real, bro, that gonna feel so bad for making you. You hurt. Because yeah, yeah, I might be cheated, but I never wanted you to find out and hurt you in the process. That was not my intention. I just wanted to get this ball off and come back home and be a good husband. You know what I'm saying? Like this. I really don't care about this. I think that what y' all be thinking too the care. He don't care. He already the in the back of a doggy van. You can't worry. He. He don't care about her. Now it might. He might have took an hour, but. [00:48:48] Speaker B: He don't give a. [00:48:49] Speaker A: He don't give a about that girl. Boy, you tripping. You tripping like a mo. He don't give a he that no dead ass brother. Like you don't give a what that. Bro, I even. I ain't even got. I ain't even got the $60. I even got the $60 for a room. 30 minutes. This. Please. Hell no. Where you say you gonna be at? Behind the bowling alley. I'm on the way. I'm on the way. [00:49:28] Speaker B: Couldn't even afford a room at Thunder Br. [00:49:30] Speaker A: Boy, please. Why ain't just hitting that like that? No, like, come on now, twin. That how you know you don't give a by that? But you just trying to get that off. You wasn't even worried about the location. But I just. [00:49:44] Speaker B: Hey, why this had a duffel bag, right? [00:49:47] Speaker A: Why you even hop out like that with a Bluetooth? With the Bluetooth, she knew the context of the bag and all. You stupid knowing how to cheat. But it's like he going too hard to keep up a lot of buddy packing the bad buying spandex and she making him smooth for him to go for. Yeah, that is. That is insanely not processing what he's Doing. [00:50:13] Speaker B: Yo, you're right, Brent. Ain't nobody smashing nothing in the they care about in the doggy band. [00:50:18] Speaker A: But that would be the difference between men and women. When we cheat, bro, it's literally imma go this. Slap this rubber on, wipe this dick off. Boy, I ain't thought about that since. I ain't even thought about no flashbacks to that being for real till she hit my phone again. You know what I'm saying? Like, bro, I don't give a about this. I love my girl. Yeah, I hit. I hit. Cool. So what? I don't love you. If a. If that girl was to get on live and try to expose that man, he probably cussed that bitch out. Bitch, you got me fucked up. Bitch, I'm a fuck you in the back of the doggy van. You ain't shit. You know what I'm saying? Come on, bro. Like, man, hell no, boy. Hell no, bro. Oh, God, hell no. But. But that's a wild one there. Oh, twin, you could even go get a little cheap. Yeah, they got there and hit that in the dog. Who. Who the. You say her name? Crystal. Not everybody looking for Crystal. Who? Crystal is with a doggy, man. [00:51:18] Speaker B: And the funny thing is, she probably. [00:51:20] Speaker A: Watched, man, Crystal, I'm sorry, but you shouldn't have been that lady husband. Y' all be knowing when them people be married, bro. Other people be in situations, bro, and you still just want to know. They be knowing what make you want to deal with somebody that you're. No, take that. You know, taking. You feel what I'm saying? Like, what. What do you get out of that? What do you get out of? Like, oh, yeah, bro, I your. Oh, yeah, bro, I your baby mama. Oh, I your husband. So what broke ass sex y' all happening? Like, you know, like, man, go ahead, bro. Like, bro, I don't really be getting the point of that, right? No validation in this, bro. No, I don't feel what I'm saying, doggy. Like my suggestion, baby. You leave that dog ass. [00:52:09] Speaker B: And she did. She. She did. [00:52:12] Speaker A: Okay. You left that dog ass. Congratulations to you. [00:52:15] Speaker B: What was her question? [00:52:15] Speaker A: You shouldn't feel. You shouldn't feel. [00:52:18] Speaker B: She's like, how does she heal? [00:52:20] Speaker A: How do you heal? First of all, you find how to. You find out how to love yourself again. Because honestly, what is gonna make you do is gonna make you question, like, are you good enough? You know what I'm saying? Like, it's gonna make you question that, like, damn, am I good enough? Or if I gave this person my all even to the point where I accepted his last name. Am I ever gonna be good enough? Because, damn, that was my everything. I literally gave you everything. I got it just wasting on the wrong person game, you feel what I'm saying? Like, and sometimes we got to go through to get the. You know what I'm saying? Like, that just could have been that in the way he. In the way you might have. Just because you love somebody, that don't mean they're the one for you. [00:53:01] Speaker B: Ain't that something? [00:53:02] Speaker A: You feel me? I' ma leave y' all on that one. Just cause you love somebody, that don't mean they don't want for you, man. You know what I'm saying? [00:53:10] Speaker B: We got that music going. [00:53:11] Speaker A: Yeah, man, but you know, it's your boy Jay with the ink, man. You feel me? Like, you've been tuned into another episode in the Peas in the Pod podcast, man. I appreciate y' all for tapping in with me every week. Message of the day. Love yourself. Get back to doing that. Get back to loving yourself. Get back to feeling yourself. Get back to understanding that you're that person and you want to attract the energy that you're giving off. Real talk. Be scared to leave. And we out. Peace. Yo. Stupid episode, you know what I'm saying? Crazy.