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[00:00:00] Speaker A: Away. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. What's good? What's good? What's good? Good evening. Good old Wednesday, man. My favorite day of the week. Record day's in the pod. Podcast with your boy Jay with the ink. I know, but, you know, happens. That's out of our control, Gina. We hope your baby boy. Guess what? He ain't got no but some scratches, though, so, you know, boys gonna be boys, man. You feel what I'm saying? I don't like this side, Mike, in the way. I feel like. [00:00:46] Speaker B: Okay, there you go. [00:00:48] Speaker A: All right, all right. Yeah, man. She had the live man. You know what I'm saying? Can we back? We back. I'm saying she had the live man comment. Let me know that you're here. I appreciate you for joining. I appreciate everybody who keep it. You know, I'm saying, keep the ball rolling, man. You know what I'm saying? I love doing this, man. We'll be having fun. You feel me? But. [00:01:15] Speaker B: My bad, my bad, my bad. You live on Instagram, man. [00:01:18] Speaker A: I'm live on ig, too. [00:01:20] Speaker B: Yeah, live on ig. [00:01:21] Speaker A: Oh, hey, double stream, man. You know what I'm saying? W's in the chat. You feel me? W's in the chat, man. Hey, I say before we get started, take a shot. King shot time. No me, brother. Oh, that's a decent batch of Julio right there. That one ain't too spicy. [00:01:46] Speaker B: No, it ain't. I like the mother to you, brother. I a know what you been doing. [00:01:49] Speaker A: Mother, bro, that was goddamn hot. Lava. [00:01:55] Speaker B: Hey, I'm g. Tell you something funny, Jay. So somebody who be on. Who frequents your lives, enjoys the production, all right? And they. They hit. They hit up the inbox for Crux Media and was like, yo, we want to join. So they call, and of course you call. You call me. We get to talk and talk and talk and talking. She was like, hold on. You the person that be in the background. I said, yeah, I'm his producer. She was like, all right, all right, all right. [00:02:25] Speaker A: Yeah, man. Hey, man. Shouts out to my boy Yoshi and Crux Media Group, man. You know what I'm saying? If you. If you're dying to get your. You know, you want to start your podcast, bro. It's different packages, bro. You don't have to be on camera. They got all different options to fit your budget, man. You know, just get the ball rolling, man. What's up? Take the risk. You feel what I'm saying? When you doing something you love to do, brother. Grind it ain't no Grind. You feel me? Shout the live, though. You know what I'm saying? We live on Facebook and Instagram, by the way. We're gonna. We're gonna get on tick tock ad too, you know what I'm saying? But now, you know, we. We chilling, man. Your boy mellowed out. We took a shot, ready to talk. You know what I'm saying? I ready to talk because. Because y' all really. I've been seeing something going on all week, bro. You know how many women were sharing some saying, like, marry me all you want. That last name getting hyphenated. What? You serious? You serious? Like, you think, like, it's like y' all really be thinking the ball just being your cord in it. She must be about to marry a. She taking care of, and she gonna hyphenate her last name, bro. [00:03:43] Speaker B: That. [00:03:43] Speaker A: That would have sound like, because I'll take a shot today. So where y' all at, man? Hey, hey. Somebody tag Cortina. I think that's how you spell her name. Yeah, because my dog was on my ass all week. I tried to get her to join the live. I try to get her on the pod. Everybody be acting like their hair ain't done. I gotta stop that, man. Y' all supposed to be. Y' all supposed to be, you know, in bad mode all the time. Okay. All right, bro. So it's just gonna be us. We rolling? Yeah, man, I try. I tried to get us a cold, man. We. We just gonna rock out with me for now, man. I can't. It'd be. It'd be breaking my heart. You know what I'm saying? Yoshi, man, like, it'd be breaking my heart, bro. Could you deal with a woman, though, that if you marry her, she won't like the hyphenated last name? [00:04:47] Speaker B: Nope. [00:04:49] Speaker A: Right? [00:04:49] Speaker B: Nah. I mean, why? Why what? What's the hyphenation for? What are you hyphenating your name? [00:04:54] Speaker A: I've seen one girl say my degrees in my name, so and so in my name. [00:05:01] Speaker B: That all can be changed, even if your degrees in your name doesn't take away from the fact that you have a degree, right? Only thing you change, it might be your bank account, just, you know, name or whatever. [00:05:11] Speaker A: So, like, we stealing identities when, like, you. You a new person, like, you're not the same person once you change your last name to my now you're the same person. [00:05:21] Speaker B: I. I guess it's something they want to do. [00:05:25] Speaker A: I don't. [00:05:25] Speaker B: I don't personally get it. I do think it's I. It's some new age stuff like that. People just doing. [00:05:34] Speaker A: Who says that? Who. Who. Who wants to get married but say, I'mma hyphenate my last name. You go hyphenate your last name, you just ain't gonna get married. You're gonna stay the same. You know what I'm saying? Like, we could just. We could just do it like that. I just won't marry you. We could just be boyfriend and girlfriend forever. That. That make perfect sense to me. That just what that sound like. Oh, yeah, I'll marry you, but I'm only taking half your last name I want to keep. What are you saying? Like, no, you're not. Your daddy say you, man now. [00:06:10] Speaker B: He gave you away. [00:06:11] Speaker A: He gave you away. That'd be the whole. You know, a lot of times, bro, like. Like, bro, when y' all was growing up, bro, y' all wanted to be loved, bro. You know what I'm saying? We be robbing ourselves for, like, that feeling, bro. Like, people really think, like, they don't have to, like, experience love or, like, they can really, like, grow up, like, you know, just by themselves, bro. Like, just grow old by themselves, bro. I don't want to do that. I don't. I ain't gonna, you know, force nobody into it. But at the same time, bro, I don't want to do that. Y' all be trying to act too tough on this Internet, bro. Like, you don't want no companionship. And what really gonna happen is you're gonna end up liking somebody for real. And that karma gonna slap your ass, and that just gonna be another reset. You know what I'm saying? [00:06:59] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:07:00] Speaker A: Cause all that, B, bro, is you trying to hurt the person that hurt. You still, like, bro, be holding on the for years. You still mad at that, bro, from, like, five years ago. So not every got to hurt or same thing with too. That just weird, man. It's wild out here. Hard out here for a pimp, man. You know what I'm saying? Hey, man. Oh, my bad, My bad. Where the brand at? I still got questions from the other day. No, no, no. Cause listen, I don't even know. I want to let y' all know that my uncle right now, but, hey, that. Hey, that Brent, that. That need freaky boy. You know, He. He. He a little. He a little on the wild side, G. You know what I'm saying? It's hard to be a lover girl in this generation. What's your definition of love, though? All right, so listen, my definition of love Right. Is like. I don't think it's like a definition. I think it's like a feeling, you know what I'm saying? So, like, how, how realistically though, how you expect love to be versus how you get love is kind of like a weird balance, you know what I'm saying? Because you could kind of try to paint this picture for yourself and you could kind of trick yourself out your position. Like a lot of times, bro, you know what I'm saying? You'll lose a lot of good people, bro, trying to like make so 100 perfect. It ain't got to be all that, you know what I'm saying? Like, as long as like you making me feel love. And when I say that, like, when I say that, like, y' all know what I mean? Like, you know how to make somebody feel love. You know how to make somebody feel like, you know, like you want to be here versus, like, hey, you know what I'm saying? We just going through the motions type, you feel me? Like, so my definition of love be kind of different, bro. Cause like, you can love me through physical touch, you know what I'm saying? Like through just like little small, you know what I'm saying? Like, bro, you could tell somebody love you, man. You know what I'm saying? When I like somebody, when I like somebody, like, like, that's mine. I'm not saying our got to be all over social media, but you my. Hey, look, hey, look. So listen, right? That's the day and time we at, bro, to be loved out loud, you know what I'm saying? Like, and like, it kind of weird if like, your. Your partner don't want to love you a lot. Cause like, maybe you've been in situations the way, you know, like you didn't been, you know, just like playing around or you know, like somebody might be. Got a situation going on, you watching how they move and just be like a triggering effect. Like, damn, well, you moving like what you would call it. I ain't trying to say you like whatchamacallit, but at the same time, you know, you kind of reminded me of the soot. You feel me? Like, literally can't explain love, but I can explain hurt by someone you love to a T, which is insane. Oh my God. Listen, bro, Listen, listen, listen. Being. Being hurt by somebody that you love, bro, got to be like top two worst feelings in the world because it's. It's hurtful as hell. Kind of like be into somebody to be loving on somebody, bro, and you find out they they ain't really got that recipe, you know what I'm saying? Like they ain't reciprocating that energy back, bro. And you know you standing just reaching doggy. We. You know it like I tell people all the time, bro, you inside to your own destiny, bro. If you could keep reading the same book, expecting a different ending, bro, that's on you. If you, you sometimes you just got to recognize people for what they is, bro. Everybody ain't deserving of like that love. Everybody ain't deserving of that love though, you know what I'm saying? You know, people be weird to sell, man. Hurt people definitely hurt people. Like that's it's, it's a, it's a never ending cycle because like I feel like how that go, like you might have got hurt by somebody, bro, and you never really over it. So now whoever you deal with kind of like got to pay for that, you know what I'm saying? Like they kind of got the answer for somebody else sins, you feel me bro? Like that it's weird. It's weird, bro. Like once you've been hurt, bro, like different, you know what I'm saying? You love different. It take a lot to get some love out of you, you feel me? But you can't like, you can't like sometimes, bro, that like I say, bro, it just keep you in the never end of cycle, bro. I'm at the point now, bro. I could just love open heartedly, like regardless of whether or not what you do with it, doggy, I think, I think like what, what y' all don't be understanding like, bro, removing yourself hurt a lot worse than like you trying to hurt somebody. Removing your access, bro. And they can't really get no access back. Boy, please. That's a smoker. How you feel about. How you feel about giving chances to a female or she just got one up and done. Okay, so bet that's what goes down to like what I'm saying about like the love part, bro. Like that's when I know I'm in love. When it ain't like. Cause bro, I ain't gonna lie, bro. It just be. It used to be like little simple that like turn me off. Like I don't even want to deal with you no more. I ain't want to talk to you. But I'll say sometimes you got to grow out that. But yeah, I was like a one up ass like you you up one time. I'm out. I am out. That'd be a doggy. You got it don't even worry about it. You ain't got to explain yourself. We ain't got to have no closure talk. We ain't got to do none of that. You can just go about your business, I can go on about mine. We ain't got no kid together either. Boy, please. I be trying to get out of there before get too deep, you know what I'm saying? That'd be my. Well, yeah, definitely. I understand everybody who just be on some one up and done. But at the same time, I understand people too, though, who kind of like trying to, you know, make it work. [00:13:52] Speaker B: But don't people deserve grace? [00:13:56] Speaker A: It depends on. For me, yeah. [00:14:03] Speaker B: Don't deserve some grace. [00:14:04] Speaker A: I mean, some people do, bro. Everybody don't, though. You kind of earned that too. You earned that with trust. Yeah. [00:14:12] Speaker B: And I mean, that's what I'm saying. [00:14:14] Speaker A: So if I'm not, if I'm not. If I'm not losing nothing or gaining nothing from the situation, bro, when I'm losing about just like leaving this on true. Already been like, cross the boundary or something. Already seen, probably. Damn. This probably ain't gonna be the type of road I want to rock down, you know what I'm saying? Like, every, like, just because you talking to somebody, bro, that don't mean, like, they great people, you know what I'm saying? Like, you might have just ran into a demon, bro, you know what I'm saying? I just know how to leave people alone. That'd be my thing. Got one time to play Tender was Heaven. You said you'll give grace, but to an extent. What's the extent, though? [00:15:01] Speaker B: Yeah, like, what is that? That's what I'm. That's what I'm trying to understand. [00:15:06] Speaker A: I mean, I get grace too, I guess I do. You know what I'm saying? Like, as long as it's not like, oh, I, I, I didn't mean to have six, you know what I'm saying? Like, we can, we could get past some, man, but I don't think a lot of people know how to talk. A lot of people just know how to do the same thing I do, bro. Be like it. You don't even try to explain yourself in the situation. You just be like it. So you say it, I' ma say, and we just gonna be two ass people, you know what I'm saying? Hey, y' all, Y' all ain't drinking. Y' all know we drink on, on the pod, man. What's happening? That's up. Take one for you. Damn. Oh, Wait, I don't know. What. What'd that comment say? [00:16:04] Speaker B: No, I was YouTube just telling people to share the YouTube as well. [00:16:07] Speaker A: Oh. Oh, hell yeah. The comments ain't coming up over there. [00:16:12] Speaker B: But then, yeah, I don't know. I think it must be the. I don't know what you got to set to. [00:16:16] Speaker A: It depends. Folks know what they be doing at the end of the day, though. Hey, man, you know, that is correct now. You know, folks be knowing what they doing. That just like, go down to what I was talking about at the beginning when sharing that. Talking about they don't want their last name. Are you gonna hyphenate it over here? You know what you're doing? You know what I'm saying? Like, where the hell Cartina at, man? Somebody tag Cortina. I'm big on Grace because I feel like we all human. We gonna make mistakes, especially when you could take accountability. That's big for me. If you can't take accountability, then we can't move forward. Accountability be women worst thing, worst trait. For real, so. And you know, if a note. We ain't gonna do that, but like, yeah, but I ain't gonna say women cuz don't like to be held accountable either at all. Them start acting like. Acting like hoes and too. You know what I'm saying? Like. [00:17:27] Speaker B: If you can't take accountability, then we can't move forward. [00:17:29] Speaker A: Yeah. I mean, bro, we grown now, so it's kind of refreshing for somebody to be able. You know what? I was wrong. Maybe you was right. You know what I'm saying? Like. Like, that's. That's. That's refreshing energy, you know what I'm saying? Like, so if somebody can try to right their wrongs, bro, that's not too outside the lines. We. We could talk about it. We can work it out. I ain't gonna lie I like a girl that gave me a little chase show me you love me show me you care about me show me you can't breathe without me oh, we talk to me. That's how you get me. When I get in my mood where I just be like that I can. I can get another. And you just be like, man, that you ain't going away. We about to talk. Can we talk? Like, not not necessarily saying chase, but just saying, like, can we talk? Like you want to just, you know, say. A lot of women just be like a. We done. Because you weren't getting to some new too, so. Well, you give a little chase Chef's kiss. You want to say not too much chase, though. Not too much chase. Not the popping up chase. You know, that's. That's. That's outside the lines. You. You out of bounds. You. You popping up. You like to do pop ups. You out of bounds. I don't know what it is, but. [00:18:50] Speaker B: That is all the way out of bounds. [00:18:52] Speaker A: You out of bounds, man. You know what I'm saying? The person who holds you accountable is the one you want on your team. For real? Yeah. Like, bro, like, as a grown person. Like. Like a grown man speaking. Yes, that's what I want. Somebody that's holding me accountable. Somebody that corrected me on my. Somebody that, like, you know, pushing me to do better or whatever the case may be, bro. Like, I don't want no silent ass partner, but I don't want one that don't. That won't let me lead either, you know what I'm saying? So, yep, it's the balance you ain't got. You. You're not. You're not taking my leadership away from me by letting me know I'm on some. You know what I'm saying? Like, and when you could do that. Yeah, I. With you. You know what I'm saying? We got something going on. So. What you mean? Not too much cheese. Hey, hell, man. What's happening, man? Come. Come get on Yoshi, man. Yoshi don't know he doing the goddamn camera. [00:19:57] Speaker B: Don't do that. Don't do that. [00:20:02] Speaker A: Hey, don't do that. A lot of people just have too much pride. It ain't hard to admit where you up at. That'll save a lot of problems down the road, bro. That's a fact. That's a fact. I ain't gonna lie. I wanted the people who. Who. Who just had, like, a lot of pride, just, you know, like. But, bro, if I did something, bro, I could correct that. You know what I'm saying? Like, I could. I could. I could write my wrong. I could swallow that. Hit that on the chin, bro. Okay. Bet I did that. But that pride is Bebo. Hey, Hooli, you see where we at with it now? I'm pulled up. I feel. I feel sassy if I. If I sip a mixed drink. Social media is another downfall. Okay? Elaborate. Elaborate on that. What. What's. What's bad about social media, you know what I'm saying? Like, granted, granted, if you in a relationship, you liking pictures, you know what I'm saying? Like, you. Come on, dog. You can't be doing that, bro. And y' all be. Y' all be in a Relationship and loving on the picture that you and you don't love your girl, bro. That's how y' all be catching yourself up, twin. Ain't no way you're moving like that. Ain't no way you can goddamn show this woman more affection than you showing your girl, bro. That's. That's the. That's the main thing. You dropping more dick in your side than your girl tripping doggy. That supposed to be on some late night run to the stove, you know what I'm saying? Hit that thing one time and you can't stay. Look, that's all I got for you, and I'm out. I know it might be. It might be real good, but why you better. Oh, I don't know about y' all, but I don't even. I don't even got the energy for all that no more Anyway. I'll be scared. I'll be scared. You that side too. Good boy. She gonna tell. She gonna tell, bro. And you around to do some crazy, like get this pregnant. You think she gonna. She gonna. She gonna play along? No, you might be. Love your girl. For real. You about to get out of here. Brother be cheating, and they girl pay all the bills. That is wild. Oh, you. Oh, you. Hey, that. Who shot you? Okay, then say less. All right. Ellie. Yeah. You did something with that. Social media will have you thinking something wrong with your relationship just based off other people. Yeah, I mean. I mean, that's. That's the weird thing about the Internet now, You know what I'm saying? Like, it just. It makes it too accessible. You feel what I'm saying? Like, and. And you can, like, compare situations too much. That's what I don't like my. You know what I'm saying? Like, because it'll make you, like, you don't know what them people going through behind them posts, because people can post some happy for real, and really don't be with each other. Y' all ain't seen beauty in the black. You seen how they be putting on. You seen that, bro? Beauty in the black? [00:23:22] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:23:23] Speaker A: You seen how the. The. The son and that wife that was running was carrying on? [00:23:29] Speaker B: Yep. [00:23:29] Speaker A: See how they were just putting on the front for everybody else, but they really hated each other to death. I never lived like that. You hate your partner, for real. But y' all got so much business, you got to keep it together for the media, man. We gonna burn this to the floor if it got anything to do with me. Oh, I swear to God, you tripping a lot of that Ain't real. Literally. You have to do what works best for you. I don't think a lot of people realize that, bro. That's why I be so tired of that 50, 50, bro. I be so tired of that talk, bro. Cause, bro, if your man can go 50, and that's what he can do, and he and he being the man around that house, boy, and that make you happy, do not go chasing the waterfalls. And them that could do that, honey, same thing, go for these. You know what I'm saying? Like, if you got to pay 75, bro, and that's y' all balance, bro, but they're keeping your family together, and that's what keep y' all happy, bro, do it. You ain't less of a man, bro. Cause you can only pay half the bills, bro. You know what I'm saying? Like, bro, we ain't. We in South Carolina, bro. It ain't too many opportunities out here for us, doggy. You got to go out here and go get it. You got to make your opportunity for real. As soon as you make the opportunity, you're gonna see other people hopping on your train. Wow. [00:24:53] Speaker B: The second you do, Brendan Graham said, with that, social media be trying to compare the relationship to celebrities. And when the whole time they don't even be in love for real or that be toxic, the media just only gonna show the good. [00:25:11] Speaker A: Bro. Bro, you ain't say nothing wrong, Dougie. Social media all be a facade, bro. That's why I be telling people, like, when I lock my phone when I go home at night, bro, I be happy for real. I don't be fake happy. You know what I'm saying? I ain't just fake happy on Facebook or, you know, whatever the case may be, bro. Like, I'm happy in real life. You know what I'm saying? And that'd be a lot of people happy place social media, you could be somebody that you ain't, I think. And you know what? You know how, like, when we was in high school, you wouldn't associate yourself with people that was on, like, the Kate hall, other people who had one class all day. Like, you knew they were slow. Social media don't give you that to let you know, people slow as. You know what I'm saying? Like, people just be slow as hell with a telephone, bro, on this posting, whatever, and it's funny, and it go viral or whatever the case may be, they still slow. They didn't come up right, bro. They just slow. Oh, I think we'd be forgetting that. I think Y' all think like, everybody is just intellectual and like, everybody got, like, an opinion that matters. That's why a lot of time when people say after you've been to say some dumb, I probably won't even respond to that. I'll let that rock out. If that how you feel. Twin let you feel like that. You know what I'm saying? What's your definition of 50? 50. See, here we go. Y' all trying to do it. Like my definition of that. 50, 50, bro. Like I say, bro, whatever work for you. So, like, like y' all be wanting y' all to turn in the ghost because he talking to you. That man ain't got no avenue to do that. You know what I'm saying? Like, if 50 all he can give and 50 all you can give, bro. But y' all could come together and make this what it supposed to be. This y' all win. But what a lot of people don't understand, if you going 50, 50 right now, why not try to motivate somebody to the point the way they can go a hundred. Like, listen, let's put this two year grind in, you know what I'm saying? You go to school, I go to school, and we become this. Y' all don't be trying to do that. You want somebody, y' all be. Want people to come already built, man. That ain't fair. That is not fair, man. Real talk. Kenya. Kenya say, it's honestly scary out here. For real. You can be all for your person, meanwhile they all for someone else. Embarrassing, as to be honest. I mean, yeah, that's embarrassing, man. But, like, what you gonna do about it? You know what I'm saying? Like, the world ain't gonna stop turning, man. You just. You just. It. It happens. Sometimes the heart can't help who it love. So you fell in love with the wrong person. You know what I'm saying? Like, you trying to get the wrong person to do right by you, bro. You just got to know how to leave. Cut out the access and the love and energy that you're trying to give. Somebody else deserve that. And they've been through the same y' all been through when y' all come together. That me, I'm saying, locked in, he'd be beautiful. But y' all get, man, you'd be seeing all this goddamn potential and. And be wanting to, you know, not all females the same. Y' all don't give that grace. So, yes, y' all. Is it only one or two types of y' all. The good and the bad. 76 of y' all are bad. Bad as hell. And you make bad decisions like father. They just came. I bet you that who you dealing with ain't talked to none of his kids. Guess what your dumbass gonna do? Give him another one. Telling you, boy, that should be. I don't know, bro. I don't know. It'd be too easy to point out. Point out, point out. Simple. For real. Yeah, yeah. We gonna keep it up, man. We gonna keep it up. We gonna keep it up. What the we was talking about for real, bro. What the we was talking. Oh, wait. I'm so tired of that 50. 50. Only. Only. Only don't want to do 50. 50 is the people who ain't got no money. I got no means to get no money. Because what's so hard about that, bro? I'll be there. That's what we'll be talking about with the social media. What hard about going 50? 50 you ain't about just come up in my and because you got some good. That is wild. [00:30:05] Speaker B: Ariana said you should start having special guests. [00:30:08] Speaker A: I do be having special guests. I'll be trying to the ones that be goddamn showing up. And let me tell y' all something. I don't be wanting everybody just to come sit up on here and you on here looking crazy and not saying you. Now you shy all of a sudden because the camera on you. Nah, hell no showing you could talk on here and I might bring you on. You know what I'm saying? Like, how we gonna do it? But. And it always a good time in the vibe. Matter of fact, take a shot. You feel me? Some Auntie Pearl for the shot because I don't know where she got it from, how she get whatever. We ain't gonna rap, but shout out to Pearl. I don't know. I got down Julio getting spicier, man. [00:31:01] Speaker B: It got spicy again. [00:31:02] Speaker A: God damn, that be goddamn right. You. I love 50. 50. That's what I'm talking about, G. So, like, what be the. What be like, what's the big thing about going 50? 50 that don't like to do how you feel like you so fine. And then this be my thing, right? If, like, you and the ain't built like a solid foundation to where like, okay, these my kids. We came up together. Well, you can expect to be paying some bills or expecting to be taking you to work because y' all are coming to the situation with multiple kids. And you just so fine. And I'm gonna take care of you and your kids. Ain't gonna Miss a beat and you're gonna have to do something for them. I got you. You know what I'm saying? But damn, that why I'll be telling y' all fellas, bro. I don't talk nobody with more than two kids. Not that sorry. You beautiful. Ain't nothing wrong with you. It's just my personal preference. You feel me? That's a lot of money to be spending. That's a lot of money at Burger King. Definitely a lot of money at Foot Locker. Hey, boy, that grocery bill right there. Get serious. But I'm just trying to do what I do. You know what I'm saying? Oh, they go Cortina. They go, they go, they go. The tough one right there, man. That who we've been on. Miss. Miss. I' ma hyphenate my last name. Miss. Y' all too soft. Miss. I'm tougher than a lot of you. No, you're not. You're not tougher than a lot of you. Tougher than that. Who you trying to be tougher than, man? But it's cool. Twin. I wanted you to come sit your ass down. If you came and sat your ass down, I was gonna tell you a new we was gonna be cool, too. But you say you don't drink. Who couldn't even goddamn take no shots, man? I'll take some shots for you right now. Hear that? No, that noise me. Hey, y' all. Don Julio, don't be spicy, huh? Like, riddle me that, everybody. Because this starting to get ruthless. This the. The. The. The rep starting to taste like the silver bottle, man. Damn, they ain't leaving that in the barrel long enough. I'm on her ass to my head go his. Hey, man, what my dog say? What? What Pressure say? Be feeling so entitled. Want the to take care of them because they look good, but be dumber than the box of rocks. A box of rocks. Cause them be dumber than grass. You know how great. You know how dumb grass is. Real talk and they think cause a couple hurt. Goddamn. Agree with what they saying that it sound right and it never does. You feel what I'm saying? That high be well, how you. How you say kid Bird brain. No, for real. Oh, they gonna need. Need, bro. We got neat neat back on here. You know I'm on the twin. You already know what going on. Honestly, if you coming doing 50, 50. That's taking the load off her. She should want to still do for her kids and other end. Like, hey, man, like I say, if she already ain't got the shouldn't even be wanting to deal with her ass anyway. That's already a bill. I ain't want nothing. So fine the way she feel like she too fine to pay bills. Because when I could call Duke Engine be like, hey, this my wife. This how she looked. This how this ass is. This is how soft this monkey is. This out this was. She cooked the past week, the past three months, week to week, the week. And we get, like, credits. Oh, damn right. I'll take care of you. I'll take care you ain't gotta do when you start nutting a couple hundred dollars. Yeah, yeah, we got something to talk about then, you know what I'm saying? Like, but until then, we ain't got to talk about you gonna take your ass to work. Like, how you been doing, you know what I'm saying? With your fine ass. With your fine working ass. And this is what a lot of people don't understand about the 50. 50, though, bit. Bro, you telling me if you help your. If you and your going 50, 50 for x amount of years, and y' all establish y' all love, bro, and it's what y' all doing for each other and that coming to his greatness or whatever the case may be the way you don't got to work, he gonna still make you take your ass to work. Exactly. Ain't nobody coming to take care of nothing he ain't built no foundation with. And I dare you to hop your ass on here a hop on him and be like, oh, you just ain't a. With the money. The. With the money do this. May y' all be side to them. That's literally it. You. You think I. You didn't have so many with money you couldn't keep one? That don't make sense. Who want to keep doing that? Y' all be down to 40 years old, still talking about what kind of you get. All right, bro, all this. Hell, we 30. If you. If. If you 35. Plus, bro, still bragging about, like, the type of, like, people you still get or who want you. You're lost. You're sick. You're sick. We supposed to be down to getting married by now. You already behind. You behind. I see my dog say she turned out multiple. Who asked her to marry her? You know them weren't serious. That why you ain't did it. Not because you ain't wanted to. You know? I'm saying take a shot today. Take a shot. If you still want to get married, man, if that's still a goal for you to find your Person to live life with regardless of whatever come with it. It's just your person. I take a shot to that, you feel me? Y' all be. Y' all be goddamn living the weird ass life, boy. Is the shots too big like damn. How about that? They like gasoline. Just knock up. I'll tell you what. I bet y' all dropped this in eliminate from now on. Matter of fact there we go. But yeah, living like superficial, that's the foot. If I go 50, 50, we're roomies. Oh boy, this why I wanted your ass. Oh yeah, what you mean by that? We roommates. If you go 50, 50, we roommate. You gotta elaborate on that. Jesus, you want to join the live, you can you keep your camera off Join the live so I can get on your ass, man. That's what you do. [00:38:12] Speaker B: Yeah, we can send her the link. Yeah, she can join the live. [00:38:15] Speaker A: What you want to do? This girl say? This girl say. This girl say If I go 50, 50, we're roommates. I'm about to pin that comment. Don't you and you bet not goddamn. Yeah, well we about to be roommates then. Hey, listen, I don't even think so. What, what, what what what give you the qualifications to like not be on some 50 50. Just, just give me that. Just make it make sense for me right quick and then we can, you know saying come back. Yeah. Hit the. Oh my God, bro. The way I see it, if you ain't got yourself together yet, you don't need to be dating. Oh boy, you saying something. Get yourself together first. Learn to be alone. You don't always need to. Hey listen bro, you said the mouthful bro. Because when get to talking about the that they don't like. Oh, you ain't the type of that I like this that I wouldn't give a flying. I know how to be by myself. Know what I'm saying? So if you ain't want to come over here and go 50, 50, go 5050 with that who got them herpes and or don't let him pay everything. You know what coming with that, you know what I'm saying? Like I'll be got down slow as and we be knowing. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, that talking his right now. You. You really shouldn't be dating if you don't got your together. That's another thing and that's a. That's a subject for a different day, brothers. If you think love is enough. If you think because you got the biggest dick in Florence, you think whatever your case may be Whatever your argument is, bro, you to the flow. Whatever your argument is. You think that's enough? You ain't got no paint. You just boy. All right. You gonna see. Keep living your life like that, man. Keep living your life like that, man. Something gonna hurt your ass up, I'll tell you that. Keeping in the book, I pay all the big bills. Mortgage, car notes, insurance, light bill. She handle little joints like groceries. But you know what the difference is, bro? Your wife got money. That's one. But two, that's your wife for three, y' all already built what y' all built for you to even be in the vibe to be like, yeah, I' ma provide for you because this is what you do for me now. 20, 25. Got to skip that part. You got to just guess, okay, this gonna. God damn. She gonna do right by me. I' ma provide just because she on this. I don't do 50. 50, okay? I'm. I'm cool with a walking out on me, especially after I didn't got some. That was the end goal anyway. When I walk up on your ass, you know what I'm saying? So what. What we doing exactly? Y' all be leaving after he gets a pussy he already didn't hit. She told me how I go live. Hold on, hold on, hold on. Let me see if I can invite you right quick. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. I gotta get your ass on here. [00:41:15] Speaker B: Wait, you gotta. She need to go live. [00:41:19] Speaker A: No, she said, add me to your love. Let me see, let me see. I just sent you an invite. [00:41:30] Speaker B: You gonna have to connect your own thing. She don't want to be on camera, right? [00:41:37] Speaker A: No, I don't think so. [00:41:40] Speaker B: Go ahead and connect your Bluetooth. [00:41:44] Speaker A: You got to come on here for. He probably ain't coming on here, bro. I tried to get her in the studio, but anyway, what was I saying? And I forgot. Word, matter of fact, I don't want to provide for you till you can help me stop forgetting. That's just how hectic life is. But damn, though, talking about that hat. What do you mean, bro? You like the hat, bro? Appreciate it. You know, how we rocking, you know, Do I need to start doing like some. Some like, fit of the day type? Cause, you know, I got it on. You know, I need. Got it on just a slight sheet. Warren Lotus tea. It didn't come like this. I cut it up. Huh? Upside down, la. I got the essential shorts on. I got the. The semen, foes. Come on, man, talk to me, talk to me. This really Be too easy. I' ma. I' ma start something to where I'm teach y' all how to dress. You know what I said? I'm gonna teach y' all how to dress, mind you. Oh, these the real Biggie frames, too. Like, I got these from. From Sunglass Hood. We ain't even gonna discuss what I paid. These ain't the fake ones, though, from Amazon. We just gonna leave it at that, though. You feel me? And I got. And I got them grounds on, too. But we, you know, we just gonna leave it at that. Mind you, like I tell y' all, do not cut the sleeves off your T shirts if you don't got no tattoos, bare ass arms. Don't nobody want to see that. You know what I'm saying? Hey, hey, man, I'll be trying, bro. Be trying to stay fresh, bro. I'll be trying to do a little something, bro. This is slight right quick. It's just like, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, you know saying, we, we. I' ma teach my boy your side how to dress, too. [00:43:57] Speaker B: I'm good. [00:43:58] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? [00:43:59] Speaker B: I'm good. [00:44:00] Speaker A: I know you got the nice credit card. Go sweat. She said. Nah, for real. It really do be leeching out here. Hey, listen. That's what I'm saying. But see, I know how to be by myself. I'm so comfortable with me. Me personally, I'm so comfortable with me being me. Like, bro, I do not get offended when, like, a girl don't want me. A girl rather be with somebody else. A girl rather be with this because of what he doing or whatever the case may be. A woman that just like, oh, you. You just ain't my cup of tea, bro. I'm real. I'm literally the type of that, like, females be friends with, you know what I'm saying? Like, because I don't got to touch and hit everything. I don't want to. You feel what I'm saying? So, like, baby, if you ain't meant for me and I ain't meant for you, that's cool, you know what I'm saying? Like, what. What that supposed to be? That culture don't do nothing no different, you know what I'm saying? Lord, my mama alive now. Hey, mama. My boy, Reese. What's happening, bro? How you. I can't add you wrong. Know what going on, Tina, man, I'm trying, bro. Because my live sentence, bro. They, they, they, they me over. Cause we trying to cross stream on goddamn Instagram, man. And you know they're just acting crazy, man. I want my husband to do all the big bills, and I handle the small ones, though. Hey, listen, you ain't wrong for that. Because as a man, bro, when you locked in with something, bro, that what we supposed to do. I want to handle all the big, too. I'll pay the rent. I'll pay, you know, car payments, whatever. You pay car insurance. You handle the. The light bills and the grocery, you know what I'm saying? I pay the mortgage, you know? I mean, like, bro, we. We got all the big. You know what I'm saying? Like, but it just, like. You know what I'm saying? Like, it's just like, bro, it's. It's a lot of people who just be feeling entitled and, like, as a man, bro, I think a lot of y' all don't be understanding. Like, a lot of times what men be going through. Like, bro, we might be really like somebody, bro. They make that by some money, you know what I'm saying? Not saying the ain't got no cheese, bro, but, like, is, do you really got my back if I fall off? Like, how bro was saying he pay all the big bills. Pj. PJ said he pay all the big bills. Like, what if I'm paying all the big Be able to run? Just something happened because, you know, life be life. Can you hold this down for six months while I get my together? No. Y' all don't be thinking about that part of you just think you so fine, you know what I'm saying? Like, hey, mama. I love you, mama. Every female who scream No50, 50. Never keep a man that real, bro. We're half the females that really be having the most to say, don't keep no man. Them be single and they. They 36 up. They 36 and up, bro. You single. That's not a flex. That just shows you a terrible person, in my honest opinion. I swear. You gotta learn how to be by yourself. I can't stand opportunist ass female, bro. I'm telling you, bro, I'm one of them, bro. I really can see. But what did that to me, bro, was prison. You know what I'm saying? Like, I had to learn how to be by myself. I had to learn how, like, bro, you can love somebody all you want. You could be the type of person to be like, oh, I'mma do this, this, that, and the third, bro, I love you this type of way, bro. People still do what they want to do and won't give a about your feelings and being in prison, bro, you can stress yourself to a stroke. So I just wasn't stressing, bro. And I just. I just keep that. That same energy. But nah, I ain't gonna lie. I didn't ran into some energy, bro. That, like, that's for me. That. That humbles my spirit. Like, she helped me elevate. She got them, bro. She check off every box you could check off, bro. She talked to the king in me. She don't. She don't let me get into a mole, bro. Like, on some, like, bro, that I get somebody else, bro. I just rather be by myself. Nah, hell no. Let's talk. Let's talk about it. And if it's something that we can't fix by talking, then, yeah, you can leave. Like, damn, I like that. Good credit on own house. 30 years old and no kids. I can't go wrong. I can't go wrong. So I'm just chilling. I really don't give a what y' all got going on, you know what I'm saying? Like, that's why I'll be on this Internet. And I just be saying my little saying, you know what I'm saying? Like, I could give a less if I ain't your type. Cause I already got my type. I didn't been locked in for about a year now, so I really. I could give a less, you know what I'm saying? Right? Going through a divorce taught me how to build my own table first, bro. Listen, got to go through something to get to something. You understand what I'm saying here? Because it's hard to find people like that in this generation. For real. That's a fact. That's a fact. I ran across the. That I don't really. You know what I'm saying? I feel like you really with me. How I with you? And we good. So whatever we can't talk about. When it comes to a situation that we can't talk about and we got to, you know, go our separate ways, we could do it like that. But for the most part, I really just been chilling. I ain't interested in this. I ain't. You know what I'm saying? Like, I really just be. Oh, y' all see a Don't be outside like that no more. I get first to come to the podcast. I don't even be. I ain't be on the. Yeah, I'm gonna keep it up, bro. You know, hey, listen, you know what? You know what made me realize Shout it was for me, bro. Shout it wrong and asked me on some like, what kind of bank you bank with now? I don't even know no scamming. Boom. Send me a referral code, open me up a bank account. Hey, I'm gonna do this, this, that, and the third and help you get funded for your business. But that's how you help a. Like, damn, I'm already this part of life, but you trying to help me get to another part of life that I don't even know about because I'm nobody. Teach me about no credit. You teach me about credit. Oh, and I'm do stuff with your business credit. I guarantee you within so and so amount of months, I'm gonna get you this, this, that, and the third, bro. Like that. Okay, I'm cool, y' all. Y' all can have that. But your fat. You got a fat ass and all that, you know what I'm saying? Like, most guys think with that wee wee instead of thinking what they is, bro. How much time we got left? All right, man. Yeah, you know, like, you know, that's. That's a part of life, man. You know, a lot of times, bro, just be running into the. They just be feeling confident in themselves and, you know, just start getting. Just start getting a lot of females, Russell, like, they don't know how to decide or they can't really pick in between the people or what's real and what's not. All they know is I'm trying to. You know what I'm saying? Like, all they know is I'm trying to. I'm trying to get this nut off. And it is what it is, doggy. You feel me? Like, but women, you got to realize that too. Sometimes the energy you trying to give to a. Like, it ain't for that. Not saying you shouldn't be giving this energy off at all because that's unfair. Because that's what you put here for. You're put here to love. So just because you love this and he was. He went about it the wrong way. Well, give that to somebody else and you keep repeating that cycle, you know what I'm saying? Like, I guarantee you, bro, the person that's for you, you'll come about. You know what I'm saying? Real talk. My lady taught me the credit game and truly elevated me to another level. Having the bag with the wrong will have you up, bro. That's a fact. That's a fact, bro. Listen, bro, I swear the guy. I swear to God, bro, we went through some one time, bro, the way it was, like, you know what I'm saying? You Know, everybody do their little argument. So we argue one time, bro. And usually, bro, when I get this type of feeling, bro, I just be like, it. I don't even want to deal with you no more. You know what I'm saying? So I was on that type time, try to let me sit in that for a couple days, and she hit me up like, hey, listen, you want to talk or you want to just like, keep being like what you want to do? And that wasn't even on no chasing. That just was like saying like, hey, listen, I care about you now. So before we let this fall to the wayside, let's. Let's handle business a little bit and let's talk, you know what I'm saying? Like that non caring, that nonchalant. Because I'm nonchalant, bro. It ain't gonna work. So you know what I'm saying? Just her putting in some little effort, bro, and her trying to take me to a. A new level on some, like, hey, I can show you something. And you actually trying to show me something, bro, to the point the way I' ma grow and I could take care of you and my family, bro. Okay, cool. We got it. I ain't really tripping, you know what I'm saying? Like, I don't do that relationship on this because, like, you know, I don't be trying to brag, but I just be chilling, you feel me? That's why I don't do all that. Be like, Be like, oh, you. Oh, you would never find so and so. I didn't find it that way. I've been chilling. We just don't do all that posting, you know what I'm saying? Like, but when I post who I post and y' all see who I'm with, you'll be like, oh, God damn it ain't no ugly. Some fine with no kids, good credit, car crib, good job. Like, what the. I ain't got to do all that, bro. I'm just chilling. What you mean? I'll be in this way? Star to my ankle lie since I met you. You being this way. What that mean? What does business with me? Like, chill. I always been a chill ass. I don't really be trying to do too much. Private but not the secret. Yeah, that's the thing, though. Because of social media, you know what I'm saying? Y' all see us out in public, you know what I'm saying? Like, we be chilling, but yeah, we ain't really like, in it for that. When we pop out, it gonna be on some, like, it's already unbreakable. You feel me? Can that come between the ship, me and her? So that is what it is, man, you know what I'm saying? Like, you find you somebody, bro, they're gonna talk to you like how you want to be taught to motivate you, the way you be motivated, you know, say the way you want to be motivated. And you know I'm saying, ready to live life, bro? Ain't really on all the. On all the artificial, like, oh, I got to have this, this, that, the third in order for me to love you, bro. You good, you good. Take that. Run with it, bro. The grass ain't always green on the other side, bro. And everybody ain't gonna willing to be putting. You know, everybody ain't gonna willing to be or willing to put in the same work that you're willing to put into to get to where y' all need to be. So you got just somebody like that, man. I suggest you just chill, relax, and you know what I'm saying? It is what it is. I probably got time for one more, man. Listen, having a woman that can actually sit down and communicate is a blessing. Me and man can sit down and figure that out. Ain't no need for all that yelling and toxic. And I'm gonna be real with you, bro. Like, a really wasn't used to that. So that was kind of like a scary ass feeling at first, you know what I'm saying? Like. Like, just being vulnerable for me was, like, scary, but Shota kind of made it to the point where it's like, be vulnerable, but at the same time, like, you still a man, too, you know what I'm saying, bro? So when it's like that balance right there, bro, it'd be. It'd be. It'd be cool. It'd be on some different. You know what I'm saying? Like, you don't really got to. Like, you don't really got to do too much because I already know what you mean. You know what I mean? I can set my pride to the side because I know you care about me for real. All the pride. I don't got to really act like, don't hurt me, you know what I'm saying? I don't know you from a can of paint, but you literally gave me hope to find love. Hey, listen, man, I don't give a. What nobody say. I don't give a. I don't give a. About, like, what nobody got to say about, like, love, bro. Like, pe. Like. And this My last thing I'mma say before I slide, but like love is literally the best feeling in the world. Like the world is what it is. So for whatever your case may be, however long you out in the world, whether it 12 hours a day, 12, you know, I'm saying 8 to 12 hours out of the day or 8 to 16 hours out of the day that you at work or going through life or doing, dealing with the world or whatever that you got to do outside of your family. But when you get to your family or to your person and that is like you forget all that, that's the best feeling in the world. I'll give a what nobody say and like social media and the world kind of like got you thinking about options and bro, but we really be robbing ourselves of the best feeling in the world, bro. And that's to be loved. That's to be loved the way you want to be loved, bro. And treated the way you want to be treated. You will be a better person like that. Everybody in the world would be a better person, bro, if they was love and they had a little bit of money. I'm saying that's just a divine way. Oh, Lord. She joined, she joined late. Hey, man. Hey, Cortina, man, we're gonna, we gonna say a prayer for you, bro. Because you know, I can't, I can't help it that you know, like you ran into whatever you ran into to the point the way you don't think you need love, Shoti. You don't think like you have to be this nurturing ass female or itself. You know what I'm saying? Like in like love is what it is. You just got to think about it. The type of woman that you is, would you want your man, would you want your child to be dealing with a woman like that? Just a tough ass woman who got like this, this guard up all day long. And I don't know about. They want to deal with that. Come healed. If you ain't healed, baby, go to hell with your hurt. You understand what I'm saying? Like, God damn. Don't nobody got time for all that. Girl, you're mean as. You got to be mean all day. Like all. Ain't all gonna treat me like this. Only person that's gonna treat me the way I want to be treated is the that paying for everything, giving me shopping sprees, paying all the bills, man, that man, you chasing something superficial, man. You'll never find that. I blame these mothers for not showing them love. That's why they in search of it. Well, apparently, I ain't gonna lie. I don't know if y' all can see on the camera. I got my mama face on me. My mama love me to death. And so you either gonna treat me the way I want to be treated, or you're not. You know what I'm saying? Like, you gonna act like her, Tina, you'll just be in the comments, you know what I'm saying? Like, not saying that she. Somebody ain't foolish enough to deal with her in this. This set of life or the set of ways that she in right now. But you gonna have a long walk with that one, buddy, because this girl here how you showed your. Your son with a good one supposed to be. And never mind, we ain't gonna do that. I'm gonna have you on the next episode because I'm gonna get on your ass. But, hey, you cue my three music. If I hear from Real, you already hit the hoe. Yeah, yeah, yeah, man. But you know, I appreciate y' all for tuning in every week, man. We back again. It is gonna be Tuesday, Wednesday, depending on my boy schedule, man, but we gonna get it in. But I appreciate y' all for tuning into another episode of Peas in the Power podcast live, man, with your boy Jay with the ink. And we out. Peace. Don't be scared to goddamn go find you another, either. If that girl act like how this woman acting right here like she act like she just so tough. Go get another one, bro. I guarantee you it's a woman out here who don't feel like every. So go get you one of them. Not these goddamn diesel mechanics that can build LS swap motors from scratch. We don't need those kinds. That's not the type of woman that you need. You don't need. She gonna send you to prison.