Episode Transcript
[00:00:00] Speaker A: Foreign.
What's happening?
And you back, you know what I'm saying? This your boy Jay with Ink. We back with another episode of Peas in the Pod podcast, you know what I'm saying?
I got my boy yo shot with me here today.
Supposed to be having another guest pull up, but you know, people be on black people, too.
He asked.
Stop trying to be. You should have been here. You could have had to be in the studio when she put no work in Chelsea.
[00:00:39] Speaker B: Wait, what? Wait, hold on. What part? She ain't got no show now.
[00:00:44] Speaker A: You ain't got no children. You ain't want to work.
[00:00:48] Speaker B: She don't work, you don't want to work.
[00:00:51] Speaker A: Let's talk about these. Now. That's funny. Y'all know. Say she ain't either, though. But, you know, hey, first up. First shots up of the day, you know what I'm saying? We're on that Costa Frico today.
This spilling up, it's my.
[00:01:06] Speaker B: This is the way my date just been going, man.
[00:01:08] Speaker A: Yeah, man, you know, everybody have a rough day sometime.
I had me a rough ass day yesterday, y'all.
I must say, rough ass there, but, you know, we got on through. We power on through. You know, we made. We made proper adjustments, and we make happen in.
All right, so listen, y'all can load me up with questions, you know what I'm saying? Like, different subjects, which I want to talk about. We're gonna tap in, you feel me?
I'll take a couple guests, you know what I'm saying? I want to add on to it once we get deeper to a topic, too. You feel me?
My.
I don't even know what the we gonna talk about.
Hey, man.
Hey. Yesterday was a rough day, y'all. I ain't gonna hold you. But you're not. You get knocked down 10 times, you better get your ass up a L.
We just gonna keep getting up, making this happen, man. Be small things to the giant. Let me tap my liquor.
[00:02:17] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:02:21] Speaker A: Do we now?
How y'all like been?
I got, you know, on their mind.
Give me anything y'all want to talk about.
Let me talk about which black boy being free from jail. Talking about the one that stabbed the. The boy at the. The track meet.
That's the only one. I think the only one I can call right now.
You got time today, Diamond? All right, see, let's get it. I said bring you on for a podcast. You going. You going to have my okay now we got McCall Law in the building, you feel me? Hey, quiz. I got to bring you on for an episode, bro. People don't. People don't know you.
India.
No, it's not the time twin.
Hey, hey. I give you a free tattoo. Get my local tattoo on you.
Hey, I don't feel. Anyway they got to understand we are not our ancestors. I mean that's true indeed. Because I ain't going out like my grand.
And you know what that man in that chair, you know what I'm saying? How you feel?
Oh Lord, I almost get that question in there, man.
But anyway like you feel me? Like it happens that it happens to us all the time, man. Especially in regards to like the little they try to make out the race name the white boy bully. He was a bully.
Bullies how they day, you know what I'm saying? That's just how the universe go, man. Like you can't. You ain't gonna be out here bullying these people, man.
How you feel about child's about a baby mom putting the man on child support and the dad the child. Like I mean, I mean some. It's some, it's some.
First of all it is some who like deserve to be on child support. Let's get that out the way like y'all that be waking up, bro. You don't want nothing to do with your kid, bro. You don't call check on your kid. You don't remember birthdays, bro. You don't. Because everything ain't about being financial, you know what I'm saying? Like so like, like I be feeling like that child support kind of meant for like them type of the who real life don't do for their kids, bro. But you know like the way the set up bro, like a just can put you on child support just because they want to.
You ain't got to not not be doing that.
You feel what I'm saying? So that's kind of a double edged sword, man. I feel like they need to fix that fix. I feel like they need to like kind of like make you prove that that ain't doing versus like you just coming up there and they gonna make some money anyway. So they just gonna let you do what you do.
So you know that's how I feel about that.
Come on, smile real quick. You know you got them porcelain gang in heel to it. You feel me? Oh, here we try to gas me up, bro. That way you my dog though innocent black people die at their hands for years. Hey, that is, that is correct. You know that is correct. Now you feel me? Like honestly though, I ain't had tap into like the, the Full story to kind of like understand what's going on neither, though. So it like, though we kind of like.
Hear me another shot up though.
You know what I'm saying?
What's. How I get turned up now?
I get turned up.
What y'all. What y'all red flags is, man, let's talk about that.
When. When is enough? When is enough?
How can I say this? When is enough enough? You know what I'm saying?
But what make you leave a.
You feel me? Like, that's another shot.
[00:07:33] Speaker B: You're right.
[00:07:33] Speaker A: It's about two twin. But, you know, we under that. Hold on.
Oh, we.
Yes, sir.
Damn, I love child support. Most help I ever get. Well, I'm. I'm so sorry.
I'm so sorry for that mama Bill.
And like, being a daddy, bro, I can honestly say, like, our job is not as hard as yours, but there is some dads that kind of like, take on like, the full responsibility, bro. So like them I totally salute, you know what I'm saying? So it like, hold on.
Yeah, man. I mean, but hold on. I'm get to you next antia.
But like, on some.
If that deserved to be on child support, put that on child support, bro. Point back in, period. But I want y'all to like.
I ain't never heard the builder baby mama say she'll build a baby mama either, though.
You know that's a fact.
And I think that's the kind of the side we kind of reach it towards. Like, the builder side. Like, my daddy wasn't either. A lot of y'all may not know, you know, like, Mr. Kevin ain't my daddy, but that's my daddy. I call him dad, like, baby, you know what I'm saying? He made sure I ain't never even miss my daddy. So I ain't even tripping when I start doing manly that the supposed to be doing. Whoa.
First of all, I don't keep it all the way funky.
You shouldn't be doing no manly, first of all, cuz that one for two.
Well, ain't no about to be goddamn out here dealing with your ass. You out here got down with air in your chest, you feel me? Like, let's talk about my red flag.
Hey, man, you got, you got. You got the. Because some of these girls out here acting like they can replace motors.
But I don't want you if you acting like your daddy, though. You know what I'm saying? Like, come talk to me. Be soft, rub my shoulders, get me goddamn all outside. You know what I'm Saying, like, sheesh, I used to be bitter as hell.
Once I let that hurt go, I wasn't. And see, listen, that's all that bitter is, bro. That be hurt. You know what I'm saying? Like, and a lot of y'all, bro, a lot of y'all be real.
A lot of y'all got to realize, bro, you cannot make somebody act how you want them to act.
You feel what I'm saying? Like, it don't matter how gangster you get. It don't matter like, how aggressive you get. It don't matter. Like, you try to run people over with the car or you just try to make people life miserable, bro. It's not gonna make them treat you the way you want to be treated. Sometimes you got to chalk that up as that's just how this person is, bro. And if you deserve better, go get better. You can't. Y'all. Y'all got to start doing that, man.
You feel me?
Red flag is an apology without change behavior.
That's deep.
I think I'm pull up for that. You know what I'm saying? Like, cuz, listen, that is a red flag, though, cuz just tell you I'm sorry. I'm sorry all day. But then again, that goes down to what you allow.
You know what I'm saying? So the just gonna be on that telling you you sorry. If you gullible enough to just keep taking sorrys, then is that that person fault? Is it your fault? Fool me one time, shame on you. Fool me two times, same on me. You feel what I'm saying?
What's up, my boy? Okay, okay, look, look. My boy Jayla Page just walk in, too. So I got another little.
Another little voice in this bit.
You probably want to put that. Put the headphones over 220, and you can. You can get on my live, too, bro, and kind of, like, read questions that you think interesting and kind of just shoot them back and we just go back and forth like that.
Less communication and more comprehension, right? Because a lot of times, bro, when you get into it with your partner, sometimes, bro, when you arguing or when y'all having the discussion and y'all just trying to be right versus, like, trying to, like, comprehend each other or trying to talk for. Or trying to talk for understanding. But, you know, that kind of grown people talk. Because once you start talking to people, like, hey, listen, I'm not trying to hurt you. I'm just trying to correct our situation. Especially like, when, you know, like, you've been what you done dealt with in the past. And you not really trying to like, push that energy on them too, you know what I'm saying? You kind of like, you feel me? Like, you kind of.
But I'm 32, you know what I'm saying? So my thing be like, bro, I ain't your first boyfriend, you ain't my first girlfriend, you know what I'm saying? So, like, we shouldn't really everybody different, but at the same time, like, we kind of the same too in regards to situations, bro. Cause like, if you handle the situation like this in your last relationship a certain type of way, and it ain't brought nothing out of it, positive, I suggest you just don't do that no more.
You feel what I'm saying? Like, I suggest you don't do that no more. You're just gonna lose your person.
Hurt people. Hurt people, gang, nowadays it's always mind over feeling. Hey, that's a fact too.
But I don't think a lot of people, like, understand, like, like, bro, you could be feel like you, you could feel like you healed and you're not, bro, right? You know what I'm saying? Like, you, you could think you healed, bro, until it time for you to handle a certain situation and you can't handle it, you know what I'm saying?
You say facts. I don't go for nothing though. The apology after the first time you cut off. Hey, listen, I used to be like that too. But a lot of times, right? A lot of times, right, you kind of run good people away like that.
You, you, you're totally entitled to, like, how you feel about your feelings and how you deal with people that you feel like not treating your feelings a certain type of way, but like, you kind of like, I just growing up, bro, I ain't gonna lie. I used to kind of like want to do people how they did me, you know what I'm saying? Or I want you to kind of like feel how you make me feel. Nah, I kind of just be like, I'ma just have an open heart with this shit, bro. And I'mma love how I'm supposed to love or how I'm put here to love, bro. And it's kind of just up to you, regardless or not, whether you gonna take and deal with it the right way or not. So I can hang my hat on that, you know what I'm saying? Like, but you don't get access to me at like, like, you don't get the same me two times, you feel me?
[00:15:24] Speaker C: At some point, you gotta start loving people at Arm's length or from a distance.
[00:15:28] Speaker A: Yeah, bro. People don't be understanding that.
People don't be understanding that.
I'm speaking about setting boundaries, expectations, et cetera, after we've done that. If you cross those lines, I don't want to deal with it. Now, that's a fact, too. You know what I'm saying? And like I say, people kind of allow what you let them do. You feel what I'm saying? Like, not calling nobody, like, pushovers and bro. Cause at the end of the day, bro, how people. How some people deal with love, bro, it's. It's a lot different than others. You feel what I'm saying? Like, it's. It's. It's niggas like me who.
I ain't saying love ain't everything, bro, but I could go without it.
You feel what I'm saying? So, like, I ain't word. I could go without it, bro. I just ain't going. I ain't dealing with everything, and I ain't going for everything, right? You know what I'm saying? Like, I don't need love to kind of be successful or to feel like it's going to complete me as a whole. You feel what I'm saying? Like, everybody don't think like, that. You feel me? Like, but that just me. And I be telling y'all all the time, like, bro, that just me understanding the type of that I am. You know what I'm saying? Like, and paying attention to, like, bro, it's not a lot of out here who gonna handle business. You feel what I'm saying? Like, so a lot of guys talk about handling business and can't handle that, bro.
[00:17:00] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:17:02] Speaker A: People know what they're doing is wrong and try to cause you to have a good and try you because you have a good heart. I started protecting me first. All right, let me take my shades off, man. Listen, all that is all well and good, right? You feel me? But what I'm saying is it's gonna push away good people. So, like, sometimes, bro, especially women, y'all play mind games on niggas that try to, like, oh, let me see if this nigga care about me this much, I'm gonna put him through this test. I'ma flunk all your tests, but I'm still a dependable nigga, right? You feel what I'm saying? Like, so it's like.
It's a gift and a curse. You feel what I'm saying?
So do most men prefer respect over love?
[00:17:58] Speaker C: Yes. Yes.
[00:18:00] Speaker A: I can't say that. Because, listen, respect come with love.
You feel what I'm saying? Especially, like, when you dealing with a real man. Like, y'all know men built our pride. Women, y'all don't have no fucking pride. You feel what I'm saying? So as a man, if you love me for real, you respect me. You respect my feelings, you respect, oh, okay, I ain't gonna do this. Cause my man gonna feel a certain type of way. All that come in together with each other. You feel what I'm saying? Like, I shouldn't have to. Like, that's just like that. That being submissive shit. You know what I'm saying? Like, motherfuckers be like, oh, nigga, want me to be submissive. Want me to do wife shit. You know what I'm saying? I'mma be real. Like, bitch, you gonna either be submissive or you ain't gonna talk to me. Cause I ain't dealing with no harsh woman.
[00:18:49] Speaker C: I think part of that is, too, though. Like, you start to see when you're not submissive to the guy, you have to be able to tell a woman what to do. All right? That's my thing. But for the woman, all right? What happens is there's two masculine energies in the household, and that's never gonna work. So if there's two masculine, masculine energies, nine times out of 10, a man gonna walk away. Because why am I gonna fight with you and compete with you?
[00:19:15] Speaker A: Right? Cause I ain't gonna lie. If that let you talk to him and do him any type of way. He download, right?
[00:19:20] Speaker B: Well, let me. Let me.
[00:19:21] Speaker A: He like an aggressive. He like. He. He like a dominant man.
[00:19:24] Speaker B: I'm gonna give you a quick like. Like, let me be devil's advocate here.
Like, a lot of. A lot of dudes be wanting to, you know, they want me to be submissive, and women be like, I want to be submissive. And all of this.
Question is, are you doing the shit you supposed to do?
[00:19:40] Speaker A: Nah.
[00:19:40] Speaker B: For a woman to submit to you.
[00:19:42] Speaker A: Nah. Listen.
[00:19:43] Speaker B: Are you doing something to have a woman submit to you? Because it shouldn't be. Like you said, it shouldn't be two masculine energies in the house. If I'm doing what I'm supposed to.
[00:19:53] Speaker A: Do, I'm doing my job.
[00:19:55] Speaker B: If I'm doing my job, she gonna submit. Because I'm doing my job as the head of the household.
[00:20:00] Speaker A: Exactly, bro.
[00:20:01] Speaker B: I'm doing my job as the man in the relationship.
[00:20:03] Speaker A: And see, that's what I'll be telling.
[00:20:05] Speaker B: But if you ain't doing, man, if you borrowing money from your girl.
How's she gonna submit to you? When is she taking care of you?
[00:20:14] Speaker C: Hey, I put it like this.
[00:20:15] Speaker A: But listen, though, bro. That goes down to, like. I bet this how. Like, we older now. So, like, this the recipe. If. If this nigga. If this nigga didn't watch his mama do everything, be in survival mode. She take care of him. She do all this. He ain't never watched no man do it. Don't expect him to do that shit.
He don't know what it is. You feel what I'm saying? He don't got no father fingers. Like to kind of tell him, if he got to guess how I be a man, you got to be a little bit more patient with him. That just being for real. That's just like a woman, too. If a girl ain't never see they mama, be no wife, love on, no, be no nurturing. You know what I'm saying? Nurturing to a n. Don't expect her to do that.
[00:21:00] Speaker C: Because like I tell any dude, I said, if you're dealing with a woman, all right, you get a good idea how the mama is.
If that's just being honest. And then, too, Coach, back to what you said. I believe part of the problem is men. Now, they want a submissive woman, all right? But how can you expect an angel to survive? I've seen it already in a hellish environment, if you get what I'm saying. Like, an angel can't thrive in a hellish environment. You have to provide that environment, that house, that kind of stuff, so she can flourish. Because I feel like, as men, it's our job to provide. My job is to give you the house, but your job as a woman is to make the house a home.
[00:21:39] Speaker A: But see, now, the problem is. Now the problem is not all right. We ain't living in the 1970s no more, right? So everybody ain't coming into. And then that. Not only that, bro, but I don't think people realize, bro, we live in Florence, South Carolina. It's probably only five jobs that people want that they feel like they could be successful with and build a life off of here. You know what I'm saying? So on some, like, well, know your personnel, too. You know what I'm saying? Like, you can't expect no to, like, if he ain't making if. Especially if, like, bro, everybody ain't coming. Coming outside trying to be no trapper, no scammer, no goddamn.
None of that, bro. So if that's not his path, that. That's. That's just what this got to be. It got to be. I mean, bro, listen, bro, they getting rid of middle class, bro. Ain't no such thing as middle class. You either go, either you got it or you're not. Some people say you make 104. If you make anything less than $140,000 a year, you're middle class.
[00:22:39] Speaker B: Well, okay to Jessica said, we're not like into you. We're not in the 70s more, but we're talking about being submissive. On the topic of being submissive, no, we're not in the 70s anymore. We're not in the 60s. We're not where mama stay home, daddy go out, right? You know, bring it home and this and the third. We're in an era where people, you know, both people are making money. Being submissive doesn't necessarily mean you're submitting bills or whatever to the man or.
[00:23:08] Speaker C: Or to the other person.
[00:23:09] Speaker B: Because some people, you know, I don't understand it. But some men submit to their woman. I don't get it. I don't understand it. I don't know. I don't know what that feels like.
Yeah, I don't know. I don't know what that's about. I hate it personally. That ain't me. I'm outside. I don't want none of that. I don't know what that is. But we're not in that time anymore. We're in this day and age. I got a homeboy, his woman, he's a doctor. His woman make more money than he do.
But he makes the decisions in the home because he does, man. Shit, he does what he's supposed to do. He takes care of the house, the home, and everything that he's supposed to do as a man.
[00:23:50] Speaker A: That's unbeatable right there.
[00:23:51] Speaker B: And she still submits to him even though she makes significantly more money than he does.
[00:23:58] Speaker A: Because that's not what it's all about.
[00:23:59] Speaker B: Because that's not what it's about. But most people think that submission is equal to who makes the more, makes more money or who makes the money. Because I could make less money than you, but still be handling my own as a man.
[00:24:11] Speaker A: And see, bro, but a lot of times, bro, like, people are sacrificed they soul and dignity for somebody with some money. You feel what I'm saying? Like, like, like this nigga don't, bro.
So you mean to tell me, like it, more women out this bitch that willing to accept a nigga who gonna cheat, move how he move, as long as he could put A couple dollars in my pocket, and goddamn, you know what I'm saying? Like, pay this, this, that, the third. Oh, shit, I'm with it. I don't give a fuck. You know what I'm saying? Like, and, and. And I'm be real. Them type of women, I stay away from any type of woman that, that, that be on some shit, like, I need. I'm just bouncing from rich nigga, the rich nigga, this nigga been paying this nigga, paying a nigga, not paying this, giving you this, this, that, and the third. And putting on a condom too. So as you ran through all them niggas like that, I'm cool too.
[00:25:05] Speaker C: I believe part of the problem is to sum it all up, we want traditional roles. But nothing in this world today is traditional.
[00:25:12] Speaker A: That's a fact.
[00:25:13] Speaker C: Like, nothing is. Like, you go to a point where it's like, if you ask a woman, does she have a job or is she willing to work? A lot of them talking about, nah. But guess what? My thing is, how can you survive? Like, I got two parents, mom and dad, they both work. And you turn around, you look at it as, like, wow, look at what they have. Look at what. Not just tangible things, but look at, you know, how deep, like, how hardship can make people come together, that kind of stuff. And my thing is, like, I tell any man, just see, when you're dealing with a woman, let's see if she's willing to roll up her sleeves and get her hands dirty with you in order to have something. Cause like, I tell anybody, if you don't want the best out of life, there's no need for me to be with you. Like, that's what we here for, to get the best out of this life. Cause this life we live is a rented time.
[00:26:02] Speaker A: My thing with relationships now, bro, like, if we can't, like, understood or understand what we did, like, in the past to kind of push our partners away or kind of cause us break us. This, this, that, and the third, and you willing to just say, oh, that's just how I am, bro. I don't want to deal with nobody like that. You know what I'm saying? Because we should be able to, like, correct each other. You feel what I'm saying? Like, hey, I feel a certain type of way about this. And we adjust. People don't. People don't be on that no more.
[00:26:33] Speaker C: And people, I believe, two part of the problem is, and that goes for men and women, when our partner opens our mouth, they always think we complain. Nah. If you My partner, please tell me if I'm stepping or moving wrong or you see something that's gonna destroy us, speak up. Because sometimes I feel like, like I always told my players at Wilson, if your homeboy check you, you should be saying, thank you. That's a good homeboy. Cause anybody, whether it's your wife, homeboy, whatever, let you go out here stepping wrong. Nah, they ain't no. That ain't no homeboy or no friend in the first place.
[00:27:04] Speaker B: But. No, but most. And I hate to say this as well, most men can't take that from their woman or that.
Like criticism or let's. And they look at it as criticism when it's just, yo, look, you might. You might. You my guy. And I'm trying to make sure that you don't keep misstepping because, like, you up what we doing?
[00:27:28] Speaker A: Cause that be pride, bro.
[00:27:30] Speaker B: And, well, you got to swallow that something like.
[00:27:32] Speaker A: But I ain't saying.
[00:27:36] Speaker B: You might want to worry about.
[00:27:38] Speaker A: This would be the same person, bro, who can't take criticism from his mama, bro. So you can't expect that to kind of, like, you got to accept people for what they is. So if you trying to tell this ways you he could be better, and he's not wanting to be better, bro, then that just is what. Especially a man. Once a man gets stuck in his ways, bro, you hit.
[00:27:57] Speaker B: And if you can't deal with that, be out.
[00:28:00] Speaker A: All right? And see, that's a. That's a. That's another one of y'all problems, too. Y'all be. Y'all be scared to kind of like.
[00:28:06] Speaker B: Just go get no women, like a project.
[00:28:09] Speaker A: Now I'll be by myself. Women want to watch somebody here.
[00:28:13] Speaker B: And, like, women will hang around and.
[00:28:15] Speaker A: Hey, he got potential, but they bring that. They bring that to the next situation.
[00:28:21] Speaker B: He got potential.
[00:28:22] Speaker A: They bring that to the next situation, too. Well, I did this, this, this, this, this, this, and this.
And he ain't come through doing nothing. So I never do that for a again. A, how many of y'all get y'all bills paid and still cheat? How many gonna be like, I never do that for a again? You feel me? Like, bro.
Yeah, Like. And, bro, like, the. The day and time that we in, bro. Like, that relationship. That relationship, bro, it ain't as big as what it used to be, bro. People used to be trying to find their people or trying to find a person.
We so caught up in the illusion of having options, bro. Cause a couple people swipe up on your story, bro. Or this. Look Good today. And then they gave you some attention. So now you feeling like, oh, home ain't really what it is. Because I could be outside, you know what I'm saying, getting what I want, bro. It don't be that all the time, bro. A lot of times you get to what you want, bro. That is not what you expected it to be.
[00:29:24] Speaker B: Like, ain't nothing outside but mosquitoes.
[00:29:27] Speaker A: Mosquitoes and std.
[00:29:29] Speaker B: Mosquitoes, std.
[00:29:30] Speaker C: Problem is, dudes will start focusing on what's outside the house than what's inside the house.
[00:29:36] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:29:37] Speaker C: And that bothers me because I'm like, if this is something you've asked for, you prayed for, you got it, all right? It's your job to nurture it, take care of it. And I believe one of the underlying things is too, that people don't realize about whether it's marriage or relationship. You're going to change, all right? And I'm pretty sure if you've been married or in a long term relationship, you have kids and things, you know, go throughout life, things are going to happen. People aren't. People can't change or adapt to the mindset of where that person's at from when they first met him. Cause people, we are not gonna stay the same every year. Something in our life is gonna happen that's gonna make us change.
[00:30:11] Speaker A: That's a fact.
[00:30:12] Speaker C: So you have to change with that person. Like having kids. In terms of a woman, it changes her body, her mind, her thoughts as a man. Guess what? You're gonna change a little bit too. So you have to be able to adapt to that.
[00:30:24] Speaker A: And you know, somebody say, so what do you believe your role is with a woman? I ain't gonna lie, bro. When I be like, speaking on a lot of shit, I don't speak from my point of view. I speak from like.
I speak from like, on some. Like, bro, y'all to give away good people, bro, just on the expectation of like, some. That's not realistic, you feel me? So me personally, I already know the type of nigga I am. Like, boy, I ain't really, like, got to pour honey on myself to make myself sound sweeter than what it is. You feel what I'm saying? Like, I'm a real man. Like, and I don't need you to brain. So I am the table, but I just don't want nobody lazy. You feel what I'm saying? Like, that's just my. Like, I don't give a what we doing. Like, oh, Lord.
[00:31:10] Speaker C: Yeah, I. I agree with that.
[00:31:12] Speaker A: You feel me? Like, I just don't want nobody lazy. That's just my. That's my take on it. Like. But see, like, when I be speaking on, I be saying on some. Like, it's a lot of times, like, folks are, like, discredit a man because he ain't got no money. He ain't got a lot of money. I ain't gonna lie. Yo.
[00:31:30] Speaker B: Damn, you keep dropping that.
[00:31:32] Speaker A: I ain't lying that I want to stay up.
I ain't gonna lie. Yo, I've been to. I. I ain't gonna say. Been in the situation. One time, I. I had dealt with this girl who cheated on her nigga, right?
And, like, shot the rhyme to tell me. Nigga got to ask the kids.
Nigga had kids on you, you know what I'm saying? Like, he pay everything.
He just don't have enough money to, like, for the extra shit, like, for y'all to go out, go on dates. You know what I'm saying? But nigga pay everything.
[00:32:07] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:32:07] Speaker A: Even Don trying to put you through school, he paid for that, too.
[00:32:11] Speaker C: So what's your complaint?
[00:32:13] Speaker A: Your complaint is y'all ain't having fun, but if you brought a little something to the table, they go to fun money right there. If he handling everything, you know what I'm saying? And taking care of his kids, too. So, like, bro, my shit be. It just be different shit and make people, t. You feel what I'm saying?
Bank on someone potential. Because people.
Hey, now, that's a fact. You can't bank. Listen, but the only people who kind of, like, be on that potential shit is women. Just being honest. Like, a nigga ain't. A nigga ain't looking at no potential in y'all ass.
[00:32:50] Speaker C: Look, we looking at what we see right here in front of us, right?
[00:32:52] Speaker A: I'm telling you, I got now face wetting under them shades, bro.
[00:32:57] Speaker C: And then on top of that, in that situation you just talked about. All right, what are you doing? Like, you. You could be sitting here stacking their emergency fund. What if he just say something happened? He fall off? He could rely on you.
[00:33:08] Speaker A: She definitely. She definitely ungrateful and childish, but, like, I don't think, like, people, like, kind of, like, understand that, bro. Yeah, you mad because that nigga cheated. You still took him back. So what be the point of that? You know what I'm saying?
[00:33:24] Speaker C: Like, because, I mean, that's crazy. Why go back to something that hurt you?
[00:33:27] Speaker A: You feel what I'm saying? And honestly, bro, as a man, bro, I'm gonna be real because, like, y'all be so called up on a nigga paying y'all bills, bro, to that shit ridiculous, bro. I've never seen so many women who just has the aspirations to be pretty and taken care of. You know what I'm saying? Like, I don't. I don't like them type of women, you know what I'm saying? Because it's a lot of people who get. Only they need to hear, is that pay bills? Because you didn't dealt with a. That don't.
[00:34:01] Speaker C: Right.
[00:34:01] Speaker A: You feel what I'm saying? Like, and that be turning your ass up. Oh, that got there. Do this. And. And, bro, y'all can't say. Y'all can't say. Y'all don't be walking like the same. Cause I ain't gonna lie, my football player that I do is tattoos. But I. That. That goes to show you how many women be wanting the same and how much y'all be willing to go through to get it. You feel what I'm saying? Like, it'd be the same. You feel me? Like, bro, it just. Like, it just is what it is.
[00:34:34] Speaker C: And then my thing is, yeah, paying bills, money, all of that, that's important. But my thing is how many dudes out here you get with somebody, how many dudes can create a space for you to talk to them? You know, they making sure you good mentally, physically, and emotionally, you know, Certain things you can't put a price tag on. Like, how many men out here respecting you, respecting your wishes. And what I mean by respecting your wishes is, you know, sometimes you want to go out with the boys, blase this, blase that. But sometimes if your girl be like, nah, I don't want you to go out. All right? So a lot of dudes will go back and forth. I said, man, sometimes women got that sense of something gonna happen, man, keep your butt in the crib, man.
[00:35:10] Speaker A: But that go the same thing for a nigga too, though. You know what I'm saying?
[00:35:13] Speaker C: Like, vice versa.
[00:35:14] Speaker A: Everything ain't about somebody being insecure, right? You feel me? Like, all right, so I just say, as a woman, we have to learn how to meet our man where he is. I'm not saying lower your standards or to date a bum, but match or top what he is doing, don't just always have your hand out and see, listen, that's just the world we live in now.
So that's why, like, if you a real woman and you got refreshing energy, don't be used to that, bro. Cause it's not A lot of y'all coming, like, going around here. You feel what I'm saying? Like, that just, like, when I get to post it on Facebook, get to doing. Acting like I'm just a man versus one. No, I'm a man versus city girl. Like, not real women. A. Don't be talking about no real woman. Who complained about having a real woman?
[00:36:00] Speaker C: Not a soul.
[00:36:02] Speaker A: Come on, man.
You feel me? Like, so that, you know, it just. It just is what it is, bro. Like, that's just the world we're living in now.
[00:36:12] Speaker C: Yeah, that's. That's a fact.
[00:36:14] Speaker A: This is the world we're living in now.
[00:36:16] Speaker C: And it shouldn't be like that. Unfortunately.
[00:36:20] Speaker A: She went bad because.
Amen. But you know what's. You know what's even scarier? What's even scary?
So, like, as that nigga, you doing everything that. Especially like that you can. You fall short of 20% of what she want, but you still doing the other 80, you know what I'm saying? Like, but that'll scar that nigga, boy.
[00:36:44] Speaker C: Yeah.
Yeah.
[00:36:47] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying?
[00:36:49] Speaker C: You're doing everything right. And I still. You still complaining, right?
[00:36:53] Speaker A: Or. Or what I'm doing. I'm giving you my best, and that still ain't enough. That gonna scar a. And I don't think y'all kind of, like, take that into consideration.
[00:37:01] Speaker B: If he said used to drama and they. And they bring drama.
[00:37:07] Speaker A: No, that's just what you attract.
[00:37:08] Speaker C: No, that's what you attract.
[00:37:11] Speaker B: That's your circle, ma'am.
[00:37:12] Speaker C: Yeah. Because you got to understand, like, people. Girls love to say, why do I get these dudes? Why do I attract these kind of dudes? You got to look at yourself in the mirror, too.
[00:37:20] Speaker A: It ain't even about that, bro. Cause like, a could be the. Be, like, the most beautiful person in the world and don't know how they look on the inside. Oh, I'm just attracted to. I'm just attracted to these certain type of. You ain't attracted to drug dealer that wanted to do by you, yet you ain't attract no scamming. Wanting to do by you. Yeah, you in the track.
None of these. None of these, like, fake reality ass people into what you want them to do. A lot of. A lot of women out here, they best experience from a. Especially came from them being the side. But y'all don't be wanting to talk about that. Y'all got a lot of side experiences, you know what I'm saying?
[00:38:01] Speaker C: Like, nah, for real.
[00:38:04] Speaker A: A lot of y'all Women can't tell when the just want to and the want to do do right by you. That's why y'all keep picking the wrong right. You feel what I'm saying?
[00:38:13] Speaker C: Like, attest to that.
[00:38:14] Speaker A: That's dead ass. And gonna run across a thousand good women before y'all run across one good man. You feel me? Like, bro, that's the way of the universe. It's, it's, it's more good women than it is good man out here, boy. So you got you somebody that trying to do right by you, but he better stick with that shit right.
[00:38:33] Speaker C: Cause it ain't nothing out here in terms of. It ain't much out here to pick from.
[00:38:37] Speaker A: Word then. Then y'all be taking advice from people that like, you're taking advice from somebody who wish they had somebody who act how your man act or act how your partner act.
They ain't never had nobody like what you got. So y'all situations be totally different. You feel me? Like.
[00:38:59] Speaker C: Sometimes people don't understand one thing I always try to do. If I'm interested in that man, if I'm interested in a woman or whatever, I tell that we're gonna have a three handed circle. And y'all probably saying, what is a three handed circle? It's me, you and God. Them the only three people who need to have a say so in this relationship. Because it's already hard enough to get two black people on the same page. So when you start adding other people's opinions from families, all of this, y'all will never be on the same page. And that's when division starts. And my thing is, nah, if we're gonna be one, let's stay together, let's talk about the things that happen in our relationship and let's keep it there.
[00:39:33] Speaker A: And so that kind of where I'm at with like, you know what I'm saying, what I'm dealing with too, like, but a nigga, like, ain't really like, I'm trying to like get understanding more so versus like, it's just my way or the highway. So like, you gotta understand, like I say all the time, understand your personnel. Cause everybody ain't built for that type of shit, right? You feel what I'm saying? Everybody can't hear me. Like, I don't know, man. You feel me?
[00:40:00] Speaker C: Like I tell, I've even had to learn this myself. And I try to help other dudes. Like, you can't do the same thing you do with every female. Because like, I know for me, for example, I Don't share certain stuff because.
[00:40:11] Speaker A: Like, you can give us another topic.
[00:40:12] Speaker C: I'm a little. I'm. I'm a nerd. I read books, all kind of stuff. So certain stuff I ain't going to introduce that female to because I know, like you say, know your personnel. I know there's something you're not interested in. So why am I going to bring it up to you, cuz?
[00:40:25] Speaker A: See, bro, that kind of like.
That kind of like, go down to, like, what I was saying. Like, bro, I'm willing to wait.
I'm willing to wait till I get. I'm willing to up a thousand times with a thousand people, bro, till I get this shit the other, bro. You know what I'm saying? Like, for me.
You feel me? Tracy, you can give us another subject, though. What you want to talk about?
You feel me?
I'm. Put my shades back on. I'm feeling that. I'm feeling that. Look at now.
[00:40:59] Speaker C: Here you go, about to go into his alter ego with the ink in that bit.
[00:41:07] Speaker A: But no, for real, though, huh?
[00:41:13] Speaker C: Tell who to speak up.
[00:41:19] Speaker A: Tell who to speak up, Jay, Damn.
Yeah, but, man, y'all ain't got nothing else I'm talking about.
I got my boy J Page in the bitch today.
[00:41:35] Speaker C: What's up, man? You know it.
[00:41:36] Speaker A: We outside.
Feel what I'm saying?
[00:41:43] Speaker C: Not so a good thing. Why do y'all feel this is something I always wanted to know. You could probably. Y'all men in here can help me. Why do y'all think good men are not picked or we're overlooked or.
[00:41:54] Speaker A: And I guess because you allow yourself to be overlooked, like I told your ass last week. So like I told you, though. Like I told you, though, like, a lot of. A lot of you can scare a lot of women, bro, being a woman first. Good.
[00:42:10] Speaker C: That is true, though.
[00:42:11] Speaker A: You feel what I'm saying?
[00:42:12] Speaker C: I'm really starting to realize.
[00:42:13] Speaker A: Well, you know how many. You know how many be out here just used to a. Treating them like they be punching bags. You don't got to always be physical. It be verbal, too. You coming through trying to treat somebody how you want your mama to be treated or any woman in your family to be treated. Right scary for these girls. A lot of people can't. A lot. A lot. A lot of people can't handle that. You know what I'm saying? Like, if you ain't heard me what I told him.
Oh, okay. Well, if y'all can't hear him, you got to speak up into that mic, bro. Put that mic a Little bit close to you.
[00:42:47] Speaker C: Cool, cool, cool.
[00:42:49] Speaker A: Yeah, but he just said. He just said, why do women kind of like, what do you say? Run away from good women. I mean, run away from good men, right? I gotta tell him, bro. Just go down to any nigga. I mean, women too, though, you know what I'm saying? Like, you could be. A lot of times, bro, with a traumatized person, bro, you could be the first good thing that's happened to them in years, bro. And people can't handle that shit. You know what I'm saying?
[00:43:16] Speaker C: I agree with that.
[00:43:17] Speaker A: People can't, like, handle, like, a genuine person, bro. It's always. It's too good to be true.
[00:43:24] Speaker C: And that was crazy. I've heard that more than one time.
[00:43:27] Speaker A: And that's a fact.
[00:43:28] Speaker C: Like, and the people be thinking, like, I be putting on a facade or all of that. I'd be like, nah, this is me. Like, I tried, you know, I'd been to college, done had fun, all of that. But it's like, I had to realize, like, this is me. I've been a nice guy. I've been, you know, treat women like they supposed to. Now am I like, do I just let stuff slide and be. No. Be a dummy? No. But it's like, nah, I'm gonna continue to be this nice guy. Cause I know eventually it's gonna be a woman who gonna sit down and be like, you know what? This is a good dude. So let me sit down and see.
[00:43:56] Speaker A: Nah. What? You got to start practicing it. Well, I ain't gonna say that, bro. Cause at the end of the day, you ain't wrong. But sometimes you just got to realize, bro, everybody ain't meant for that shit.
[00:44:06] Speaker C: That's true. That is very true.
[00:44:07] Speaker A: Everybody. Everybody ain't meant for that, bro. So, like, the first time you give me like a. Oh, you ain't. You ain't. You ain't.
I ain't getting that shit. You don't get the same me two times. I keep telling that. You feel what I'm saying? So it like, if you accessible, bro, man or woman, you gullible. You just gonna take sorrys and accept the same behavior, bro. It's gonna be the same repetitive nature, right? Gonna be the same problem. You feel what I'm saying?
[00:44:31] Speaker C: So I seen somebody say, what are some turn offs?
You know, what are your turn offs? In a woman?
I would say a turn off.
[00:44:41] Speaker A: My turn off. Okay, well, you can go first.
[00:44:43] Speaker C: No, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.
[00:44:45] Speaker A: All right. My turn offs in the whim. In a Woman be.
You act like a nigga. You act like you just got out of jail.
Like you're, you're, you're. You're non emotional, you know what I'm saying? Like, you more scared of expressing your feelings than the nigga. You feel what I'm saying?
Bro, I just like women. Women like real women. A woman that kind of like feed off of. Okay, well, I feel good treating you good, right? You feel what I'm saying? I feel good making you feel good.
If that ain't what you own, I don't want it.
[00:45:26] Speaker C: That's kind of like goes into how I know I really like at a point love a woman is when I want to do stuff for you just to see you happy. And that's where I tell any woman. That's how you know you've gotten me when I want to go do stuff. I want to see you happy. And people don't realize is what I try to do is instead of making you my entire world, share with people what makes you happy.
[00:45:49] Speaker A: So you like a soft girl? You think I want to look at me, though? I look like I want a hard girl? You think you going to come over here talking to me in that type of way? You think you'll come over here dealing with me in the. In. In a way that I don't want to be dealt with? Well, I'm not scared to leave nobody.
I'm not scared to, like, hit the restart button. Say it. This ain't for me. You feel what I'm saying? So, like, bro, it's either, like. And I expect that other, like, people that I deal with too. If I ain't for you, I'm just not for you. You know what I'm saying? At the end of the world.
But I want you to be happy, baby. That don't mean they got to be with me. I ain't one of these who gonna ride by your house or blow your phone up repeatedly. I'm calling you 65 times a day to your answer knob. That ain't me.
[00:46:33] Speaker B: One phone call, one text.
[00:46:35] Speaker A: Don't tell me if you ain't with it, you ain't with it, baby. Like, that's it. That's all I got, Just a bump in the road. We ain't for each other. It's cool. I'm glad you let me experience you the way I experience you. I'm up.
[00:46:51] Speaker B: I would say, how does a woman.
[00:46:53] Speaker A: Hold on, hold on. How does a woman act like she just got in jail. Okay. Bet I'm gonna Give it to you straight up. Y'all damn mouth. Your fucking mouth. Your fucking mouth, your fucking attitude. Your fucking acting like how you taught you would beat a nigga up. That's how. Y'all act like y'all just got out of jail. Then y'all be acting like you ain't got no emotion in you. Whoa. I guarantee you versus. You start hollering, you walk up to that nigga, grab that nigga hand, be like, baby, listen, I ain't gonna lie. I ain't like how you did this. And I ain't like how this, this, that, and the third. That gonna look at you crazy like, damn, this how you. This. How you coming at me?
Like, I. I love that. Cause don't be used to that once you start all that. Oh, I do this. That I see a couple y'all sharing like, oh, I just get the punching on the. You punch me, I'ma slap the out your ass on Jesus Christ.
[00:47:42] Speaker C: I'm not.
[00:47:43] Speaker A: I'm not trying to hurt you. But on my mama, I'ma slap the out you. And I'm tell you to call your brother, because I ain't even mean to do that, because I never put my. But you put your hands on me, you gonna know something today, and I'm gonna show you. Your brother ain't what you think he is, or uncles or whoever.
[00:48:00] Speaker C: Now, a lot of. A lot of women equate that with love. And that ain't love.
[00:48:04] Speaker A: I feel like, oh, let me wipe myself. I'm kind of sweating off this custom.
Mookie say, hold on. Mufy say, man, I feel like a woman have to be a little aggressive with you. Why? Because of how I talk? This just how I talk.
[00:48:24] Speaker C: Yeah. Like, that's literally.
[00:48:25] Speaker A: It ain't. It ain't a aggressive woman yet. That lasted with me.
That ain't me. You ain't coming over here being aggressive. I wish. I wish a would. I'mma stop. I'm trying to stop saying I wish a would. Whoa, you coming over here talking to me like, whoa, what? Hey, listen, my mama on this. I asked my mama, why leave y'all ass in the heartbeat. I ain't got to see and do all that. Oh, I don't like how she talked to me. That just it like, who you talking to?
[00:48:56] Speaker C: Yeah, that event for.
[00:48:58] Speaker A: As you said, you'll never hit me. Okay, I won't. I won't hit you. But my mama always told me, baby, if she got her hand open, if she got her hand open a little bit, she just a Little hurt if she got her fist balled up. She trying to hurt you. So, bitch, you punch me in my shit, I'm gonna slap the fuck out you. That's just that I'm a back slap the shit out your ass. I don't give three fucks about it. Because every action deserves a reaction. You feel me?
[00:49:25] Speaker C: And too, on top of that, like I tell anybody with that, when y'all be talking crazy with an attitude and all of that, it's the same. It's the same form of. It's the same kind of hurt, but just a different form of abuse. It's not physical.
[00:49:38] Speaker A: So do you know how.
So how do y'all feel about girls?
[00:49:43] Speaker B: That's tr.
[00:49:44] Speaker A: That say.
[00:49:46] Speaker B: Yeah, say they not. They not doing wifey things.
[00:49:49] Speaker A: Oh, oh, I got. I got a rebuttal for that. Because when y'all. When y'all be like, y'all ain't doing wifey things until you get married, that be me too. I ain't doing no husband until you get married. Like, you break down the side of the road, you need air in your tire. You need to change battery. You need. You need your battery jump. Call aa. Call roadside assistance, because that's husband job. That husband duties. Oh, you're short on nails. You're short on the bill. You're short on this, you're short on that. Call your daddy. That's husband duties. Your ass don't cook. Well, listen, I go in now. Cause it's a lot of be doing.
And then y'all be having a feeling like he got to do the most to keep your attention. Bro, I'm not doing all that.
[00:50:29] Speaker B: Well, here's the thing. People be doing relationship stuff in the dating phase.
[00:50:35] Speaker A: I'm talking about. I ain't raised you like this.
This goes.
[00:50:41] Speaker C: This goes to what I always say. It's crazy.
[00:50:43] Speaker B: You can't do relationship stuff in the dating phase.
[00:50:45] Speaker C: Then on top of that, some of them. That's why I say, why you think baby showers are so glorified in marriages now?
[00:50:51] Speaker B: Yeah, true.
[00:50:52] Speaker C: 100, like, the baby shower is a 10 out of 10. But majority of them don't even lead to no marriage.
[00:50:58] Speaker A: Listen, I'm be real, bro. I don't even, like, I don't even want to deal with no girl who, like, don't want to be married. You don't see yourself walking down no aisle. You don't see yourself like. Like. Like just being a. A woman for real. The way, like, you just, like, catering to your. Because we here to put. We we put here to provide, but y'all put here the nurturing, and y'all be missing a lot of that nurturing part. Nurturing ain't giving me some.
I'm sorry. Nurturing ain't giving me some. Or giving me some head that you think so fire that it's going to erase everything. Mad at. No, I'm just about to nut. You know what I'm saying? Like, no, like, bro, that don't be working like that.
[00:51:39] Speaker B: Well, I Ms. Hudson said people just need to be in on the same page. Makes things easier. Yeah, but the problem is nobody want to talk about nothing. Everybody just want to do.
[00:51:50] Speaker A: Exactly.
[00:51:52] Speaker B: Now I'm spending. Now I'm spending the night. If we just dating, ain't no why you don't spend the night.
[00:51:57] Speaker C: Go home.
[00:51:58] Speaker B: Go home.
[00:51:58] Speaker C: Go home.
[00:51:59] Speaker B: Please go home.
[00:52:00] Speaker A: Nah, man.
[00:52:01] Speaker B: Like, if we just. If we just dating, we date. You go to your yard, I go to my yard.
[00:52:06] Speaker C: That's it.
[00:52:07] Speaker A: And look. And then that goes down to, like, niggas. Let me tell y'all something. If that girl so used to, like, what her last nigga was doing, or my last nigga did this, my last nigga did that, and you feeling like you got to compete with his money or his, his, his whatever, go ahead and got down. Tell that girl to go apologize that boy and tell her to go back. Cause I, like, I say, know your worth, respect your last name, add some text.
[00:52:35] Speaker B: Let people know up front. People can't take the truth. People. People say they want the truth, but they don't. They don't really want the truth.
[00:52:42] Speaker A: Because what is letting people know what you want up front? Cause, like, how am I supposed to know? So if we based off, like, appearances, okay, you look good enough the way I would want to talk to you.
[00:52:54] Speaker B: Yeah. I don't know what else I want in the moment.
[00:52:57] Speaker A: What am I supposed to say, hey, look, I'm trying to get married, so now you think I'm trying to marry you? I'm not trying to marry you. I don't know.
[00:53:06] Speaker B: I don't know today if I'm trying to marry you.
[00:53:09] Speaker C: I think what she means is, like, when you.
[00:53:11] Speaker B: No. If you want a relationship or not, but no, I don't think you know if you want a relationship with that person until you get to know the person. So there is no upfront to get with you.
[00:53:22] Speaker A: Okay, Exactly. Because a lot of people be on some, like, oh, well, I ain't giving up. You know, Like, I ain't having sex until, you know, like, no, Relations without relationships. So, like, I don't know about a lot of niggas. I don't know about the niggas in this room, but sex don't keep me. You can't just get. You can't just give me some pussy and just expect me to be the happiest nigga in the world. And I ain't seen the girl yet. Say she got some bad pussy or. Or. Or whatever else. Cause y'all ass don't be like, how you think you be. We really. We really just like your personality. Like, we like being around you. You feel what I'm saying? Like a think she didn't gave you the best head of your life. She didn't rolled you to the moon the back of your ass. Ain't no, you didn't. It ain't. It ain't sex. So when y'all be treating sex like a treat, bro? And that be low key. Low key sex be some of y'all only way of being submissive or.
[00:54:21] Speaker B: She said she means after she get. After. After they get to know you phase.
[00:54:27] Speaker C: But it takes a lifetime.
[00:54:29] Speaker B: I think that happens organically. Like, you know, whether the person want to be with you or not. Like organically, you know, like the one thing I don't. The one conversation I hate. Well, where are we going, motherfucker? You know, like, you can tell from the way I move. Where we going? Like you could. You could tell from the way I moved. Are you here all the time? Do you gotta draw at my house? Like you know what I'm saying? Am I helping you pay shit? Like you know where I am and because of how I move with you, right? You know what I'm saying? Now if you don't trust how I move, then that's some shit you got to deal with. That ain't nothing for me to deal with.
I can't help what you deal with. These other dudes. Now, if you want to talk about. Hey, maybe you're unclear about my movement because of what you have experienced.
[00:55:17] Speaker A: Hold on now, listen now. You know how many situations a nigga done being in that I ain't had to say I just wanna fuck. So just because I wanna. I just want some pussy, that mean I got to treat you? I can't treat you like somebody.
That don't even make sense. Cause for one, the get the is way greater when I'm treating you like somebody.
[00:55:42] Speaker B: Jay, you said we ain't. Jay, you said we ain't using no curse words. I gotta drop for her in here.
[00:55:46] Speaker A: Hold on hold on.
[00:55:49] Speaker B: Cause that. That I don't appreciate.
[00:55:51] Speaker A: Cause listen, I ain't gonna lie, boy. Y'all be acting like you could take a just saying I want to but as soon as they get that then you ask what we doing. You just want the and the say I just want some.
Oh, you mad.
So don't sit here and act like that, bro. Don't sit here and act like that.
Up.
[00:56:10] Speaker D: I ain't gotta explain to you like.
[00:56:13] Speaker B: At the end of the day like everybody there's so much value put on sex and thinking that all. All the dude want is sex. All we want.
[00:56:21] Speaker A: It's not all it is but see listen, we say look at how the women do though. They talking about take away sex. And I'm the one who's saying that shit off the rip. Because sex don't keep us. Sex don't keep no real man. Sex keep a little ass. Boy. Don't nobody give a about that. Like, don't nobody give a about. No I ain't saying it like that because like I say, you know, you know the double edged sword with six, right? But bro, that ain't keeping me like a. Don't be like, oh boy, like I can't get her. But that my best head giver that ain't got no car like that them.
[00:56:58] Speaker B: Gonna be having and he live with his mama.
[00:57:00] Speaker A: What the you talking about? Like, you know what I'm saying? Like y'all need some women. Oh you could be on the I'll be having women on my all day open season.
[00:57:11] Speaker B: Come on.
[00:57:12] Speaker A: Oh, matter of fact, you want to join?
[00:57:13] Speaker B: You can join the live right now.
[00:57:15] Speaker A: Join the live right now. Just send request right? Matter of fact, hold on like oh, I'm about to add your big head today.
[00:57:22] Speaker C: I think part of the problem I.
[00:57:24] Speaker B: Get you in the door problem is not going to get you to stay if nothing else, right?
[00:57:27] Speaker A: Cause a lot of y'all be giving up. So hold on. You mean to tell me you think you got the best in the world. You just gonna keep a like that's all you got. You just got to. You just got to be fine body tea and give up some and you got a no don't tell them what kind of you got.
[00:57:46] Speaker C: No, you. That. That don't even keep celebrities and you see that every day.
[00:57:51] Speaker A: And then for one unit that's a used car to some broke too. Everybody who you all right, don't play.
[00:57:57] Speaker B: With me but talk about something I can't get on. No, don't. Don't say you can't get on now that's like that.
[00:58:03] Speaker C: Like always.
[00:58:09] Speaker A: Yeah. Cause you know I'm gonna get on your ass.
Somebody don't tell. Like what I'm supposed. I, I, I'm sorry for saying the B word, but, like, what, What I'm supposed to say. Oh, yeah. I ain't really, like, looking for no relationship right now, but I, I do want to. You. Why no about to come at you like that about. No, I'm gonna make you feel good. We gonna be. I don't give a if we friends, buddies, whatever, like, Rama still treat you like somebody, right? Tell me I gotta treat you like dirt. Cause I'm just trying to.
[00:58:42] Speaker C: Yeah, some of them used to that, though.
Talk to me. It was crazy. The sad part, I see this every day. It goes to the point where if I hold the door for a woman, she'll look at me crazy.
[00:58:53] Speaker A: Talking about. So y'all be finessing females who be finessing females.
[00:58:58] Speaker C: What is finesse?
[00:59:00] Speaker A: If it grow into something, then braid grow into something.
[00:59:03] Speaker C: That's not finesse.
[00:59:03] Speaker B: But please don't act like, don't.
[00:59:05] Speaker A: Please stop acting like you about to give me some pussy and we in a relationship. This is not high school no more, bro. Y'all still be trying to fucking finesse a nigga. You talking about us finessing. Y'all still be trying to gaslight a nigga and trying to manipulate people into relationships still. Or you can't get no pussy until you take me serious. And what if I sat here and wait on your ass and you gave me some pussy that ain't worth waiting on? Bitch, you got a whole nother problem. You feel what I'm saying?
[00:59:31] Speaker B: Like, you got game. I get it, but understand why women say that's bullshit. Why women say what game?
[00:59:38] Speaker A: See, you already. You already telling on yourself. You, you can't comprehend what nigga talk about.
[00:59:44] Speaker C: I can't even defend what she saying, like, with factual evidence. Dance.
[00:59:47] Speaker B: I'm lost.
[00:59:48] Speaker A: Yeah, get on. You talking about you got got.
[00:59:51] Speaker C: She just talking based off her experiences, right?
[00:59:54] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying?
[00:59:56] Speaker B: I a lost boss.
[00:59:59] Speaker A: Hey, no, man. No, this ain't, this ain't that. These, this. No.
You feel me? Like, bro, I'm not. No. Who you going to manipulate into a relationship? I either like your ass or I don't. And if. And if how I'm rocking ain't to your standard, take your ass the way your standards at. Go be happy. I ain't keeping nobody.
[01:00:25] Speaker B: Nobody is twisting any words.
[01:00:29] Speaker A: Join the live and validate yourself that.
[01:00:31] Speaker B: Nobody is twisting any words.
[01:00:33] Speaker C: Part of the problem is the same standards and boundaries women have. Men are starting to make them no you satisfied by that?
[01:00:41] Speaker A: You. You sassy once you get some boundaries. And you know what I'm saying, The.
[01:00:45] Speaker C: Only reason women call us sassy is when we don't. How y'all say locked your tea and you can't say nothing. Take that.
[01:00:54] Speaker A: They think all they need is their body need to be tea. You know what I'm saying? Like how your body tea. You don't bring no peace. I might give a about your body. I'm about to bend your ass over and get you the up out of here.
[01:01:05] Speaker C: And people women don't realize men go where there is peace and respect.
Let me tell you something. And what people don't realize is girls. Look at. Oh, girl, look at that dude he with. Oh, that girl. She with, he with. And she ain't got this. She ain't got that. But guess what? It's peaceful. She ain't stressing me out.
[01:01:23] Speaker A: Talk to me.
[01:01:24] Speaker C: Guess what? She appreciates what I do for it. Ain't always about the looks. Because guess what? A lot of y'all are beautiful on the outside, but terrible people on the inside.
[01:01:33] Speaker B: Terrible people on the inside gave this podcast lol. Give him out. And just in case you're late, you can catch the podcast episode dropping each and every Thursday morning on all podcast.
[01:01:44] Speaker A: Real consistent with this podcast on all podcast platforms.
[01:01:48] Speaker C: Thursday morning, next time we. When we do it again, I'mma cook for us too, okay?
[01:01:54] Speaker A: Don't threaten me with a good time.
[01:01:56] Speaker C: You know I got you. I came through with the grill food and that was slap, so, you know crazy.
[01:02:02] Speaker A: I ain't gonna lie though. This just me, though. You ain't. You ain't going to get no like me who teeth white as mine, for one got it going on. You know what I'm saying? Like handling business and you going to come over here dictating how you move or what you going to do? You just going to go, I don't want to deal with you.
[01:02:23] Speaker C: Right?
[01:02:23] Speaker A: You feel what I'm saying? Like, bro, that be real simple to me, everybody. But like I say, a lot of y'all just be used to suckers. That's not no man, that nigga's a sucker.
[01:02:33] Speaker C: I ain't lying.
[01:02:35] Speaker A: You. Oh, oh, oh. We got on here. Hold on, hold on, hold on.
[01:02:38] Speaker B: Somebody, somebody.
[01:02:39] Speaker A: Hold on, hold on, hold on.
[01:02:41] Speaker B: They got four minutes.
[01:02:42] Speaker A: You got. Hey, you ain't got too long to it. You took too Long, though. Hold on, let me see if I can get you up on here.
Uhoh. It say adding.
[01:02:52] Speaker B: Adding.
[01:02:53] Speaker A: Okay, we got her. Where you at? Damn. Can we get some light?
[01:03:01] Speaker D: Let me move my car. Cause no, I don't like how y'all twisted my words.
[01:03:06] Speaker B: No, nobody twisting your words.
[01:03:08] Speaker A: Oh, first of all, no. Come on here. Talking like you just did 50 push ups.
[01:03:12] Speaker D: Oh, I'm sorry. I forgot. You don't like. I'm sorry. You don't like aggression. My bad. Let me. Let me go soft, girl.
[01:03:17] Speaker B: Hold on, hold on.
[01:03:21] Speaker D: Please let me go soft, girl. What I'm saying is.
[01:03:24] Speaker A: Okay.
[01:03:24] Speaker D: Of course no man is going to get in a woman's DM or approach a woman and be like, oh, I just want to. Yes, I get you're not going to say that. But when that girl start acting a certain way, don't be mad when you already gave her that energy, like, you done tricked her in a sense of making her think like you wanted something because you taking her out to eat. You kicking with her when you know deep down you just want to.
[01:03:46] Speaker A: No, but I'm not taking you.
[01:03:48] Speaker C: But isn't that. Isn't that part of the process?
Like, come on, let's be real here.
[01:03:53] Speaker A: Chill, chill, chill. Cause look, I got this. First of all, I don't even want. No. If I can't take you out to eat. What, you just want to give me some.
[01:04:02] Speaker D: No, that's not what I'm saying. Okay, the original. The original statement.
[01:04:06] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:04:07] Speaker D: Was I'm gonna have to go back to her comment. Let me go back. I don't know her name. I'm not from South Carolina, by the way, so I don't know none of these people on this live. I don't know none of y'all.
[01:04:14] Speaker A: Where you from?
[01:04:15] Speaker C: Where you from?
[01:04:16] Speaker D: I'm. I'm in Georgia.
[01:04:17] Speaker A: What you doing on my. You call me on some tattoo?
[01:04:21] Speaker D: No, I think you were viral or something. That's how I found. I was following your page, and then the live just popped up today, and I seen it, and then I just got on it.
[01:04:28] Speaker A: Georgia, y'all.
[01:04:31] Speaker B: Round of applause.
[01:04:33] Speaker A: You gotta have that on stage.
[01:04:34] Speaker D: I cannot find her comment.
[01:04:36] Speaker A: Which comment, though?
[01:04:37] Speaker D: I think her name.
[01:04:40] Speaker A: She said. What do y'all think she said?
[01:04:43] Speaker D: Let people know up front what you want. And what was your response to the Let people know up front what you want?
[01:04:49] Speaker A: Like, I don't. I don't. I don't know how we supposed to do that because, like, I don't know if a nigga see a Beautiful.
[01:04:55] Speaker D: It's not saying, right, but it's not saying I want to fuck.
[01:04:58] Speaker A: It's saying, listen.
[01:04:59] Speaker D: No, no, no. It's just saying like, okay, I find you attractive. I don't really know what I want right now. I ain't saying I want you to be my bitch. I ain't saying I want to fuck. But like let's kick shit and just see where it go. Like be clear on what it is that you want. Yes, we know when you see a bitch walk by and she look good, you don't know right then if you want it to be your wife. But you know in that moment, damn, I'm not trying to be going with you tomorrow. Or you know, you talking to five other bitches. Like, be clear about what you got going on. Like, don't mislead females.
[01:05:27] Speaker C: The thing is what you just said though. What you just said though, you don't know what you want and you say, oh well, let's kick it. Well, guess who, Guess who. The first person to catch a feeling when we just kicking it women because you feel some kind of way. Am I lying?
[01:05:40] Speaker D: Exactly, which is why you need to be clear that you don't want that. Because if a tell me, oh, I.
[01:05:45] Speaker C: Ain'T looking for my relationship.
[01:05:48] Speaker D: If a man tell me I don't want no relationship, I'm not gonna be in a. I'm not gonna have that type of vibe with him.
[01:05:54] Speaker A: How. How old are you?
She.
You. You older than.
[01:06:02] Speaker B: Got quiet with a cricket sound.
[01:06:06] Speaker A: Saw you.
[01:06:08] Speaker D: I look older than 30.
[01:06:09] Speaker A: No, you 30.
[01:06:11] Speaker D: Oh, I'm 30.
[01:06:13] Speaker B: We didn't hear no response.
[01:06:14] Speaker A: Right, we.
So you saying as a 30 year old woman, right, Every person that you submit like gave your body to has been your boyfriend.
[01:06:24] Speaker D: That's not what I said. Why are you twisting my words?
[01:06:27] Speaker A: Trying to twist your.
[01:06:28] Speaker D: I'm saying at 30, I'm saying at 30. I don't wanna. I'm saying at 30, I'm not with no who ain't clear about what he want. If you think you just finish it and text me, what you doing? What you're doing? What you doing? What you doing? What you doing? What you doing?
[01:06:40] Speaker A: What you doing? I'm not with you.
Also costume me goes a steak.
[01:06:50] Speaker D: No, that's not true.
[01:06:52] Speaker A: That is not true.
[01:06:53] Speaker C: But my thing is you just.
[01:06:54] Speaker D: That's not true.
[01:06:56] Speaker C: You want. So why I never said that?
[01:07:01] Speaker D: Because I never said. I never said that.
[01:07:04] Speaker C: You just did. You, you just explained the situation. Say the girl doesn't know what she's want, so why Are you even entertaining any at this point? I never turned around and said, oh, well, I don't know what I want right now, but I just want to vibe and kick it. Well, guess what?
[01:07:17] Speaker D: No, I said men. I said men need to do that. See, you're not listening. His mic wasn't on earlier. Is his headset on? Is his headset on?
[01:07:28] Speaker C: Very loud. And then y'all go to bring it down.
[01:07:32] Speaker A: But what if a. What if A tell y'all that, okay, bet I'm trying to pursue you. And this. This what, the third and the ball being y'all court, and then y'all hit us with, oh, well, I ain't ready for that. I ain't ready for this, and I ain't ready.
[01:07:44] Speaker D: I was honest. What. What do you want me to. You want me to fake it? You want me to fake it? Like, okay, all right, let's. You, like, if. If I'm not ready for that, I'm not ready for that. Like, what's wrong with being honest? That's the problem with us. We don't want to be honest. Everybody want a lot of kiki.
[01:07:59] Speaker A: So me kicking you out to eat and spending money on your black ass is not me being honest?
[01:08:03] Speaker C: Because.
[01:08:04] Speaker D: No, I'm not saying that.
[01:08:05] Speaker A: That's. You aren't great for something.
[01:08:07] Speaker C: We're not spending money on girls.
[01:08:09] Speaker D: That is not what I'm saying.
Okay, that is not what I'm saying.
[01:08:14] Speaker B: Okay, so. So clarify.
[01:08:15] Speaker C: Yes.
[01:08:17] Speaker A: Listen, make sure you tap in on the next one, too, man. You know what I'm saying? Hey, listen, fact of the matter is this ain't no coming up to y'all talk about I just want some. Cause a don't just know if he wants a till he get the. And realize your personality ain't better than your.
You feel what I'm saying, cuz? It don't be like y'all be sitting here thinking like, I didn't put this best on this. That still think about the conversation, y'all. That ain't think about the ragged ass you done put on him.
[01:08:53] Speaker B: You know what, Cuz? Cuz, guess what he think I'm here to tell you right now.
[01:08:57] Speaker C: We don't care.
[01:08:57] Speaker A: Let me tell. We don't be giving three. That's why with a mad. But my going to stay flat. I don't want to touch you right you. Well, listen, them who y'all could just put that on and. And twirl your little hips in that little circular motion, get to do what you want to do.
[01:09:19] Speaker C: Us two pups in a squirrel.
[01:09:22] Speaker A: You feel what I'm saying? Like, it just is.
Hey, hey, listen, man, but, you know, we have fun today.
We have fun today, man. This episode gonna drop Thursday, drops Thursday morning.
[01:09:35] Speaker B: Thursday all podcast platform.
[01:09:36] Speaker A: Y'all make sure y'all tap into it, man. I appreciate all criticism. All you feel me? Like, help me know, help me get better with this, and we gonna be more consistent. You feel what I'm saying?
[01:09:47] Speaker C: Oh, yeah. We're gonna be consistent with the food, too.
[01:09:50] Speaker A: Hey, I got. I got the shelf in here.
And you was tuned in to the episode of Peas in the Pie, man, hosted by your boy Jay, with ink, special guest, my boy J. Page, and boy Yosha.
Till next week, man.
[01:10:09] Speaker C: Peace, Peace.
[01:10:13] Speaker A: Sa.
