P's in a Pod Episode 2

[00:00:02] Speaker A: Damn, man. [00:00:05] Speaker B: Everybody say pee until the time. [00:00:08] Speaker A: Only if you know that. Okay. Say you too good for homicides and you too good for spending time. That's why I'm trying to get you out of my way Even though you look real good from behind. I'm trying to see what's in your mind See, I'm going to say the sheep these be thanking. I'm talking about them peas in the pot, Peas in the pot, Peas in the podcast. I'm talking about them peas in the pot, Peas in the pie. This here came from J with the ink. Yo, yo, yo, yo, yo. What's happening? What's happening? Another episode of Peas in the Pod live. My lovely co host, Yeezy with the cheeks. We got. We got. We got no name in the back. [00:00:53] Speaker B: Oh, my. [00:00:54] Speaker A: Still no name. Still no name, you feel me? How y' all doing, man, on this lovely Tuesday, man, we back. You know what time it is each and every Tuesday. Jesus. You know what I'm saying? How y' all doing? [00:01:11] Speaker B: I'm doing pretty good. [00:01:12] Speaker A: Me and y'. All. Y' all testing. [00:01:13] Speaker B: I know. Oh, my gosh. Why I meant to say this. My baby got glasses now. [00:01:17] Speaker A: Your baby got glasses. Look at that. [00:01:20] Speaker B: He looks so cute. Little nerd. [00:01:22] Speaker A: You got a hair clip in your hair. [00:01:24] Speaker B: Oh, see you. [00:01:28] Speaker A: You say why you ain't. [00:01:30] Speaker B: As soon as I would have put it, like, why you ain't tell me the. Oh, but you seen how Clarissa had posted me on her page? [00:01:41] Speaker A: I forgot she had Clarissa Shield posting. You had tag. Y [00:01:47] Speaker B: sure did. [00:01:50] Speaker A: What she post you about? What was the subject? What was even going on? [00:01:56] Speaker B: It was just about the whole, you know, her and Remy Ma be going back and forth, and. And I just feel like Remy Ma is. [00:02:03] Speaker A: What are they going for? Pebbles. [00:02:06] Speaker B: Remy Mask is basically trying to say like, she's ready to get the divorce, but after doing some research, it don't look like she's ready to get the divorce. She's the one that is, you know, postponing and holding everything up. So. So I made a post, and I said, if y' all still feel like. Who said, hi? [00:02:25] Speaker A: That motherfucker is humongous. [00:02:27] Speaker B: I said, if you feel like Clarissa is still the issue, you are as delusional as Remy Ma. That's what I said. [00:02:35] Speaker A: So you went viral for that? [00:02:37] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:02:37] Speaker A: See how many delusional it is? And then only. [00:02:40] Speaker B: And they was disagreeing with me. They said I was wrong. [00:02:42] Speaker A: I said, what y' all only see that on it is women on women, which is rarely. Rarely is you know what I'm saying? [00:02:49] Speaker B: But I just didn't understand. Like, they tried to basically say, like, you know, I'm a pick me and I'm still on Remy's side. Like, fuck Papoose. And you know, Papoose cheated first. Shut the fuck up. Like, what are you talking about? Like, what. [00:03:02] Speaker A: What's wrong with being the pick me, though? [00:03:04] Speaker B: I don't feel like. I don't even feel like that's really a thing, I don't think. Cause I mean, if females say I'm a pick me, I don't give a fuck. I'm not gonna agree with you just because you're a female a lot of the time, you know what I'm saying? Like, yeah, I'm with my girls, you know, girl girl power. But we don't be right all the time. Just like niggas don't be right all the time. Like it's the same thing. Like, do a lot of shit too. A lot of. A lot of. [00:03:30] Speaker A: We ain't talking about no niggas right now. [00:03:31] Speaker B: But I'm saying. [00:03:33] Speaker A: Nah, we talking about y'. [00:03:34] Speaker B: All. It has to make sense. Like, it's the same thing on both sides of the fence. [00:03:39] Speaker A: Like, I don't. [00:03:42] Speaker B: I don't think I'm a pick me, but if that's what you want to call it, I don't give a fuck. [00:03:45] Speaker A: What wrong with being the pick me, though? What wrong with, like, pleasing niggas? [00:03:50] Speaker B: I don't feel like there's nothing wrong with that, especially if, you know, if you're that type of person. I just feel like. I don't know, like, if you a lover girl or whatever. If that's what you want to call it. They call it that'll pick me too, but love them. [00:04:00] Speaker A: Love them, Dom. I mean, hey, love me a good cry. [00:04:03] Speaker B: You want me to be an evil ass bitch to a nigga all the time just cause. Just like, just Cause I can. No, I'm not doing that. I'm gonna call. I'm gonna text. I'm a double, triple text. I'm gonna do all that shit. I don't care. That's just me. [00:04:17] Speaker A: That's what we like, man. [00:04:18] Speaker B: That's just me, though. [00:04:19] Speaker A: So talking my far from a pygmy. Ain't ain't nothing wrong. Ain't nothing wrong with being a pygmy, right? Like, bitches be far from being bad bitches and y' all don't be seeing that. [00:04:29] Speaker B: What? [00:04:31] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? [00:04:32] Speaker B: Like you said bitches Be far from bad. [00:04:34] Speaker A: Yeah, she told me I come pleased already. What the that mean? She said, how you come pleased already? [00:04:43] Speaker B: No, she. Okay. She's saying, like, for the men who are looking for a girl who. You just want them to please you and nothing more. Then come. [00:04:52] Speaker A: Come with. [00:04:53] Speaker B: Come come already. You know what I'm saying? Coming already. Not needing that. [00:04:56] Speaker A: Come on. [00:04:56] Speaker B: Because some girls ain't. Some girls ain't like that. Some girls, they gonna. They gonna come. I ain't gonna say mean, but they gonna come very, very strict. They not going for bs and it seemed like the girls who are mean and who are strict, they come ahead on. [00:05:09] Speaker A: They get the. [00:05:10] Speaker B: You know what I'm saying? It's like, they get the best. They get the best nigga when they're strict and they don't. You know what I'm saying? [00:05:14] Speaker A: You know? The fuck they don't. [00:05:15] Speaker B: You don't think so? [00:05:16] Speaker A: Hell, no. Come ahead. Hey, listen. That's what I'm saying. Like, you know, come pleased already. You know, y' all come healed already. Come with your nails already done. Come with your toes already done. [00:05:26] Speaker B: What you mean? [00:05:27] Speaker A: Come with your hair already done. [00:05:28] Speaker B: What you mean? [00:05:29] Speaker A: Come with lashes and brows already done, too. Come waxed. [00:05:32] Speaker B: What does that have to do with. What does that have to do with anything? [00:05:35] Speaker A: Come ahead on bills. Because the only thing we ahead on [00:05:38] Speaker B: bills, they should be. Yeah, they should. None of their bills should be behind. [00:05:41] Speaker A: We getting this pleasure anyway. [00:05:43] Speaker B: No, that's not true. [00:05:44] Speaker A: What the else do a nigga get out of a relationship? [00:05:46] Speaker B: Y' all get peace from a relationship. And then if you really got a girl who's really on your team, you're gonna get somebody who's gonna help you. [00:05:52] Speaker A: Is that not pleasing, though? What you mean with some peace? Are you not, like pleasing me? [00:05:58] Speaker B: Will you bring with peace? You said what? Which. No, that's not. That's two different things. [00:06:03] Speaker A: So how. So what the. [00:06:05] Speaker B: That's two different things. [00:06:06] Speaker A: So how. [00:06:07] Speaker B: How? [00:06:07] Speaker A: Like, what are we supposed. [00:06:08] Speaker B: Excuse me, no Name. Don't you think that's two different things? Being pleased and having peace. That's two different things, right? [00:06:12] Speaker A: That's. [00:06:13] Speaker B: Or do you feel like that comes. That falls into the same thing? That's the same category. [00:06:16] Speaker A: Always be dissecting everything. This ain't that and this ain't that. [00:06:19] Speaker B: Maybe that's just a thing with men. Like, maybe that's just what y' all feel. But wait. No Name didn't even answer. Hold on, hold on. [00:06:24] Speaker A: He can't. [00:06:25] Speaker B: Yes, he can. I said, do you Feel like being pleased and pieces in the same thing in the same category. I feel like that's two different things for a man, for a woman, for a man. [00:06:36] Speaker A: Because she said come pleased already. You know what I'm saying? And we, like I said, come with your hair done already. Come with your nails done. [00:06:43] Speaker B: That's not even the same thing. That's like two totally different things. [00:06:46] Speaker A: That is the same thing, gang. [00:06:48] Speaker B: How is that the same thing? [00:06:49] Speaker A: We don't even get the same type of love. A can't just love you and not buy you shit. [00:06:53] Speaker B: What you mean? If you're dealing with a female, yes, we do. What are you talking? What females pay for haircuts? [00:07:00] Speaker A: Your don't even get haircuts. [00:07:02] Speaker B: What? [00:07:02] Speaker A: So what haircuts you pay for? [00:07:04] Speaker B: You said what? [00:07:04] Speaker A: Your nigga don't even get haircuts. So what haircuts do you pay for? [00:07:07] Speaker B: Yes, he do. [00:07:08] Speaker A: That edge up ain't shit. [00:07:09] Speaker B: Okay, retwist. [00:07:11] Speaker A: You probably do the retwist. [00:07:13] Speaker B: I don't know how to retwist. When you get with somebody who actually don't mind spending money, it's not that hard. [00:07:23] Speaker A: I be. I'll be that. I'll be. What you be dissecting what a bad and what's not. What what's not? Why can't we. [00:07:32] Speaker B: What girl, she said you'll be dissecting what a bad is and and what's not. And she's saying, why can't we dissect it? So no name still didn't even answer the question. No Name is avoiding the question. What do you think? Do you feel like that falls into the same category? You say yes or no? [00:07:48] Speaker C: Yeah, the same. [00:07:49] Speaker B: Like that's not the same thing for a. [00:07:50] Speaker A: Yes, it is, bro. [00:07:51] Speaker B: That's all for a man. It's the same thing. [00:07:53] Speaker A: So you. So when you say come please dark. So. So what y' all like? What is pleasure? What is that? [00:07:59] Speaker B: When I think pleasure? Well, I brought stuff like that. [00:08:03] Speaker A: What is. Cuz the only thing you think about is sucking some deep. [00:08:05] Speaker B: What is pleasure? No, I do not. No, that's not pleasure. That's not the only thing. That's pleasure. No, no, no. So why do you all feel like pleasure and peace is a safety? [00:08:16] Speaker A: What I miss, man? What you mean? What do a get out of relationship other than love and pleasure? [00:08:23] Speaker B: Y' all don't feel like y' all getting nothing else? [00:08:26] Speaker A: No, no, you don't. You don't give nothing else. [00:08:31] Speaker B: I feel like maybe it's just the females that that you might have ran across that you feel like and give money too. [00:08:38] Speaker A: I'm just saying, though. [00:08:38] Speaker B: No, that's not the only thing that [00:08:40] Speaker A: is rare as everybody. [00:08:42] Speaker B: Yeah, that is rare. Yeah, that is rare. [00:08:43] Speaker A: Right? So what else do you do? You talking about the female? I hate when y' all do that. Just because I don't get on this, y' all everything a bit. Cause ain't my first time a doing something for me. That be them. So come on. [00:08:53] Speaker B: Okay, but a female. Well, every female don't cook. But if she cook for you, that's different too. [00:08:58] Speaker A: Pleasure. [00:08:59] Speaker B: So that falls into pleasure too. [00:09:00] Speaker A: Come on. [00:09:02] Speaker B: Well, how. I don't understand how this is all falling into one category. [00:09:05] Speaker A: Like, what are you doing? Like, what. What. What is that doing that I can't do for myself? [00:09:10] Speaker B: But, I mean, you don't have to do it for yourself because she's coming in to do it. [00:09:13] Speaker A: And that's how y' all make a nigga feel good with that pleasure. [00:09:17] Speaker B: So. Okay, I'm trying to get it. Why y' all feel like that? [00:09:20] Speaker A: If a nigga just please you. And the way you think about being pleased, he got to do shit too. N Can't just come around pleasing. [00:09:28] Speaker B: I mean, and I feel like it should be the same thing for a female. She can't just come around, please. She should bring something to the table other than. You know what I'm saying? [00:09:37] Speaker A: So just say, I'm a man and I wanna be winding down. I mean, that's all. [00:09:41] Speaker B: Who said that? [00:09:42] Speaker A: You know who said that? You know, say that. [00:09:45] Speaker B: Now, a lot of men do want to be winded down. A lot of men want you to do the chasing nowadays. [00:09:49] Speaker A: That's what. That's what. That's why y'. [00:09:51] Speaker B: All. [00:09:51] Speaker A: That's where y' all stupidity comes in at. Nigga don't want to be winded down. A want to feel appreciated. So, bitch, if I'm doing all this shit and you're doing nothing but pleasing, where does my appreciation come in at with your pleasing ass? Cause that's all you think you got. [00:10:02] Speaker B: Y' all think that just. Y' all can't put all of that into one category. That's why. That's where the miscommunication lies between trying to break one category down and the female. That's where it lies at. Like, that's why I've always liked that. [00:10:13] Speaker A: Well, I just. [00:10:14] Speaker B: That wall right there. [00:10:15] Speaker A: She said, I'm not paying for your haircut. I ain't had the bitch pay for no haircut since what do you pay for? What do you. What. Where do. Where do you get some money at and where does it come in at? I'm just. I'm just asking, like. I just be wanting to know. It ain't for me because I don't give a. [00:10:30] Speaker B: Well, it don't have to be here because it could be clothes. It could be maybe if you play the game. Play games or buy a game system or something like that. [00:10:37] Speaker A: Going out in those store and picking out something for me clothes. Hell no. [00:10:42] Speaker B: I know you females do that. [00:10:43] Speaker A: And it's gonna be ugly. The ain't want. [00:10:45] Speaker B: You gotta make sure you know what type of you got. You can't go and buy ugly clothes when you know he wearing Amir and shit like that. [00:10:52] Speaker A: Always buy a. What you want to buy him or what you think he need? Oh, I thought I. I swear you needed this. You needed. I thought you were talking. [00:10:59] Speaker B: The only thing you could buy a man that you feel like you say he needed this is some socks, some drawers and some tank tops, maybe some T shirts. That's something that like, niggas don't care about as far as clothes. You got to kind of buy what they. What they wear. Or that shit gonna sit in the closet. That shit gonna be ugly. [00:11:12] Speaker A: I appreciate it for like, listen, we're not talking about niggas that you just chilling and fucking on. Like, that's like a different type of scenario. I wouldn't expect you to have no love in them. Situation where I got to break down, what's a good woman to you? Cause I'm not about to sit here and do that. Cause if you don't know what that is by this grown ass age, go read a book. They got plenty of books on them shits. You know what I'm saying? But for me, they sit here and break down to you like. Cause I don't even think I could tell you what's a good bitch anyway. Cause you gonna sit here and say, [00:11:40] Speaker B: I'm not doing this. I'm not your mom. [00:11:42] Speaker A: Nigga's not your dad. Nigga's not your dad or your husband either. So nobody. I don't. [00:11:51] Speaker B: We shouldn't even be thinking like that. [00:11:52] Speaker A: I mean, but she said it though. I just got a rebuttal. That's my money. I could choose what I buy. Hey, man, that's true, that's true, that's true. That goes for a nigga. And I'm that nigga. I keep that moto. [00:12:04] Speaker B: What you can choose what to pay for. [00:12:06] Speaker A: I'm telling You. You ain't gotta deal with me. Go back. You know, don't apologize to that nigga who was doing. You feel what I'm saying? I never stop nobody from pursuing their happiness. [00:12:17] Speaker B: Do you feel like that's the only thing that make us happy when n buy stuff? [00:12:20] Speaker A: I mean, not necessarily, but like a can't just please you. A can't just come around making you feel good and that's it. [00:12:31] Speaker B: Nah, yeah, that's okay. But you gotta be doing other shit. [00:12:33] Speaker A: That's what the y' all do. What come around, come around, make a feel good. [00:12:36] Speaker B: No, no, no, no, that's not true. But I mean, that's not every female, so I. I'll say that that's not every female. Like you said, that's rare to run across certain females who don't mind doing extra shit. [00:12:47] Speaker A: We just. We running across and learn right now. What who feeling like paying for a haircut is being a mom. [00:12:53] Speaker B: Where'd she say that at? [00:12:55] Speaker A: Scroll. See what I'm saying? The bad eyes on now. She. She only see certain. No, y', all. [00:13:02] Speaker B: I. What I'm having a conversation with you. I'm talking to you. I'm looking at you. I'm talking. [00:13:06] Speaker A: What's enlightening about. [00:13:07] Speaker B: But I mean, that's how she feels, though. [00:13:08] Speaker A: She feel like, what is your dream girl like? All characteristics that you're looking for. Every man want things. Want different things. I feel. I don't really got, like. I don't got no checklist, bro. Like, that's not. At this age, that's me. You just be for me. I don't give a fuck if this shit 90, 10, 70, 30, 50, whatever, bro. As long as we working for us and this was us, I'm cool with that shit. Like, I don't got no checklist of what you got to do for me. [00:13:35] Speaker B: I don't feel like there's a perfect relationship anymore. [00:13:37] Speaker A: You just not about to sit around and not do nothing, though. You know what I'm saying? You feel me? Like, do you know in the Bible, [00:13:47] Speaker B: it depends, like, if you just talking to somebody or if that's like your partner. [00:13:50] Speaker A: Like, that's totally different in the Bible, that men are supposed to be providers and women are supposed to be you. You spelled nurturers. [00:13:57] Speaker B: I knew what she meant by that. [00:13:57] Speaker A: Yeah, but listen what I'm saying also in the Bible, them bitches ain't have last appointments, hair appointments, car payments. Niggas could have five wives under one roof. All them get one day of the week. We Ain't talking about Bible days because y' all don't want to do. What about what we did in the Bible? Y' all got us with one woman out this, and he got to be paying everything and being faithful, you know? So hold on. [00:14:23] Speaker C: They got. They had. Somebody had post something. [00:14:25] Speaker B: I don't. [00:14:25] Speaker C: I don't. [00:14:26] Speaker A: What. [00:14:27] Speaker C: Let me see. [00:14:27] Speaker B: The monogamous thing that works for who that works for. But I don't see nothing wrong with polygamy either. [00:14:32] Speaker A: Paying for. Paying for a haircut is childish. Your homegirl is the one who said the haircut. That's the only reason why that even got involved. [00:14:40] Speaker B: I'm bringing up examples. [00:14:41] Speaker A: That's just how petty that females do [00:14:42] Speaker B: pay for stuff like that. [00:14:43] Speaker A: But that's just how petty it is. That's just how petty y' all providing can be. Because she just said that's childish. And that was the first thing blurred out your mouth. We pay for haircuts. That's not. That's not a fuck ass thing. [00:14:55] Speaker B: Like, that's what. [00:14:56] Speaker A: But that's what I'm telling you. Like, I can't hang my hat on sending you $50 this month. [00:15:01] Speaker B: Mm, [00:15:04] Speaker A: you will. I paid for a haircut. [00:15:07] Speaker C: Hey, Jay, they had a clip on. On social media, dude talking about old girl, what she said about men. Men supposed to provide and women supposed to nurture. Dude hit up, had pulled up a [00:15:18] Speaker B: Bible verse and what it say. [00:15:21] Speaker A: Somebody. They didn't have cars. Exactly. [00:15:24] Speaker C: I'm gonna try to. Go ahead. Y' all go ahead. I'm gonna try to connect this. [00:15:28] Speaker A: You just know when you know. I don't have a checklist either. I'm telling you. Like, boy, I ain't got no. You know what I'm saying? [00:15:36] Speaker B: Yeah, it just kind of worked. I understand that somehow the biblical story, if a couple with each other, they gonna make shit work. [00:15:46] Speaker A: Not by what the book say, I'm telling you. Even down to grandma. Now, grandma was satisfied with just getting her actual grinding. How many times she got cheated on? Longest. Granddaddy came home. No. All right. [00:15:58] Speaker C: You know, I got play real quick. [00:16:02] Speaker A: We can't even hear that you playing it for them. [00:16:04] Speaker B: Yeah, I can't hear it. [00:16:07] Speaker C: Trying to get it. Lost it. Go ahead. Don't worry about it. Don't worry about it. [00:16:15] Speaker B: Oh, you ain't got it? [00:16:16] Speaker C: No, I got it, but it ain't playing, so don't worry about it. [00:16:19] Speaker B: Look at me. I'm like, I can't. [00:16:21] Speaker A: Well, yeah, man. Like, I don't. I don't really know, bro. What worked for you will work for you, bro, in this day and time. Like, I don't really be giving a fuck. Like, if I ain't doing what you want me to do, you ain't doing what I want you to do. [00:16:32] Speaker B: You deserve. Then just move around. [00:16:33] Speaker A: You deserve to be happy. Like, that's just what that is. You're not gonna make me feel less of a man for not doing everything this nigga doing. And this nigga might be stay in the trap with no bills. Like, you know what I'm saying? Like, versus a nigga with $5,000 a month in bills, man, I'm not. I don't give a fuck about what them niggas doing. Them niggas put that shit on they arm, and you just, oh, he got money. You know what I'm saying? Like, that nigga still fuck you at the room, bitch. Like, I don't be giving a fuck about that shit. Like, bro, that's why I say I live my life for real. Like, I don't really be. I be chilling. He say, okay. She say, okay. So y' all want to be spoiled and winding down. And listen, I ain't gonna lie. At some point, though, as, like, a grown adult, like, women, y' all got to stop using that. Kapow. Cause if we say y' all want to be full of testosterone and masculine and out here changing motors and. And fucking change the tires. You know what I'm saying? Like, you the tough bitch. You get on that bitch and do 500 pushups a day, 500 sit ups, 50,000 burpees. [00:17:34] Speaker B: See, but. But some men. [00:17:36] Speaker A: And a bitch hard, too. Can't no nigga play with you, ain't it? [00:17:39] Speaker B: No, some men do believe that they should be the providers, and they don't feel like they women should do anything. There is some men out there like that, bro. [00:17:47] Speaker A: I'm okay. So what am I? None of my. Do none of my pay for a thing. But you don't see me out here. Oh, I'm a provider. That's just what the a do. I ask y' all what. Like, what are we doing for each other? I'm gonna provide. I don't. [00:18:04] Speaker B: Like. I don't respond to what she just said. [00:18:06] Speaker A: I'm just saying, though, like, some men [00:18:09] Speaker B: don't want their girl to do nothing but be home and then take care of home. That's all some men want their female to do. [00:18:15] Speaker A: And them beat them up. [00:18:17] Speaker B: No, not all of them. [00:18:18] Speaker A: And then it be the same. [00:18:19] Speaker B: Not all of them. [00:18:19] Speaker A: It'll Be the same who can't leave too because you ain't got no money. Because the nigga sitting here taking care of you. [00:18:25] Speaker B: But females in a situation like that, she don't have no money. That's just. That's just dumb. [00:18:28] Speaker A: This want you to sit at home and not. And take care of you. How are you getting money? [00:18:31] Speaker B: There's ways to make money at home nowadays. Social media. If she's a stay at home mom, she could do social media and make money like that. [00:18:38] Speaker A: And not doing nothing does not equate to making money. [00:18:41] Speaker B: That doesn't mean you're sitting at home doing anything. That means he don't want you to work. He don't want you to clock in at a job. He wants you home. No, he wants you home most of the time. And you can still make money at home. Oh, my baby calling me. You can still make money at home. You can still make money not clocking in at somebody job. [00:18:58] Speaker A: No, she said you. You just said you don't want to. You don't want no sitting at home doing nothing. I don't. I'm not about to advertise that. Hey, you with me. You come sit at home for free. Not that. Them be ugly as hell, them. Y' all don't even be liking them after they stop buying y' all or after they stop doing whatever you want them to do for you. Yeah, if that nigga go flat, you don't like that nigga tomorrow. [00:19:20] Speaker B: If that's the case, they didn't like him in the beginning. [00:19:21] Speaker A: Duh. That's what the fuck I'm saying. [00:19:23] Speaker B: Like that. That doesn't. No, that's not every female. Some men can lose it all and [00:19:27] Speaker A: have somebody that's not talking about every fucking female. [00:19:30] Speaker B: And I'm not talking about every male. What are you talking about? I'm making. I'm commenting on what you just said. [00:19:34] Speaker A: You was talking about everybody and I [00:19:35] Speaker B: never said you was talking about every female. So what are we talking about? [00:19:39] Speaker A: That's not every female. When the fuck did that come out my mind? [00:19:42] Speaker B: You keep saying that. I can still comment and say that. I can still comment and say that. [00:19:46] Speaker A: What you mean her friend over here? Nah, she gotta defend her friend and we ain't even got damn talking about her. [00:19:51] Speaker B: I'm not even defending her right now. I'm just making a comment. [00:19:54] Speaker A: Talking about they do be beating hoes up. Them niggas got them love life be better than ours and they be beating the fuck out. Them bitches still driving their car nine Kids beating them. [00:20:02] Speaker B: Nine kids beating them. [00:20:04] Speaker A: You love them down. [00:20:04] Speaker B: That's a whole litter. Oh, no. [00:20:06] Speaker A: Love them down. You know what I'm saying? Look, If it bothers a man to take the load off me and make my life easier, then he ain't for me. Respectfully. I know I ain't man it. How many kids you got? Cause you know we got to add them in too. So I got. That's three miles right there. Including mine. That four. Mine too. My own mouth. Five. [00:20:35] Speaker B: Oh, I say in your child. [00:20:36] Speaker A: Yeah, Five miles right there. That's not a lot you got. You have. You feed five miles every. Every day. [00:20:44] Speaker B: No. [00:20:45] Speaker A: Okay. [00:20:46] Speaker B: No, not every day. [00:20:47] Speaker A: So. So you need to shut up. [00:20:48] Speaker B: No, not every day. No, I don't. I'm just saying you do. No, I don't. How you would have to feed five miles. How can you say that every day? Especially if you're a co parent. Like, you don't have your child every day. You providing you don't. [00:21:02] Speaker A: I get my child every week. Four, five days a week. So you might as well say I got him every day. [00:21:06] Speaker B: Oh, damn, you get him a lot. [00:21:07] Speaker A: Exactly. [00:21:08] Speaker B: Yeah, I know you get them that much. [00:21:09] Speaker A: Now you know? [00:21:10] Speaker B: Now I know. Yeah, some niggas don't get their kids every day. They just get them at the word about that shit. [00:21:14] Speaker A: I'm a dad. I don't have to worry about it. This is what I do, okay? Hence provision. You even like, well, why we giving a fuck about that shit? I feed my own kids. You know what I'm saying? It's a difference between the provider and the sponsor. Thank you. Thank you. A lot of just need to say they're selling it, bro. [00:21:37] Speaker B: What's the difference? Which, I mean, what do you think the difference is? [00:21:42] Speaker A: You know what the difference is? I'm asking you what you think the difference is? [00:21:46] Speaker B: Answer the question. What do you think the difference is? And I don't want you. I don't want to respond. And you try to dissect what I just said. What do you think it is? [00:21:53] Speaker A: I mean, you about to dissect what [00:21:54] Speaker B: I said, nigga, just answer the question. Oh, my God. Just answer the question. [00:21:58] Speaker A: I say something about to be. No, I'm not. [00:22:01] Speaker B: Just go ahead. [00:22:01] Speaker A: No women. You know what I'm saying? So. I don't even know, bro. [00:22:04] Speaker B: Just answer the question. [00:22:05] Speaker A: I don't even know, bro. A man know he want to provide for. Just like women know what she want to love. That's what I'm saying. Like, bro, I ain't like, it's like, it's cool. You feel me? Like, bro, a woman who really making that shit easy to provide for, bro. It's so easy to love on a real woman, bro, making her life easier. Somebody who kind of appreciative and not kind of making this shit out to be. Oh, nigga, I ain't fucking with you unless you got damn doing this, this, this, this, this, bitch. I was gonna do that anyway, but you gonna make it seem like a nigga got to. Okay, well, fuck it. Nah, I ain't doing shit. I don't give a fuck. Earn it. [00:22:43] Speaker B: And how she earn it? [00:22:44] Speaker A: Earn it, earn it, earn it how Earn it. Niggas ain't having enough cheese to even say sponsor, to be honest. I mean, you're the one asking for money now. We're talking about who don't got. That's not making no sense, mama. At all. How you gonna criticize a nigga pockets for what he give you? That's what I'm be saying, boy. Hey, listen, you know she asked for [00:23:11] Speaker B: money in these comments. [00:23:13] Speaker A: Nah, that's the point of a podcast. You don't gotta agree. You said what? [00:23:18] Speaker B: No, I was. You never answered my question. [00:23:21] Speaker A: But about what? What's the difference? [00:23:23] Speaker B: Yeah, bro. [00:23:23] Speaker A: You know what that is, bro? God damn. You want me to sit here? [00:23:26] Speaker B: Because we're talking. We're having a conversation. [00:23:28] Speaker A: You won't be long with it. Okay? [00:23:30] Speaker B: You asked the question. [00:23:31] Speaker A: I don't know. Like, sponsors. Sponsors just give you shit. I guess they just. They just give you shit and buy shit. I mean, I don't know. I guess I'm not a sponsor, though, so. [00:23:41] Speaker B: Versus a provider that just. [00:23:42] Speaker A: I just do what men supposed to be doing. Like, niggas don't even got no father figure, can't cut no grass. Them niggas can't, like, they can't do nothing for you. Just give you some cheese. Like, we could do that, too. That shit easy. [00:23:55] Speaker B: It seems like it's a lot easier. [00:23:57] Speaker A: I don't be fucking with no needy bitches, though. I like bitches that already got their money. Yeah, they already gonna have their hair done. [00:24:02] Speaker B: Okay. [00:24:02] Speaker A: Their nails done. This shit. Like, they ain't asking. [00:24:04] Speaker B: So that don't make you want to do even more when you see. Yeah, so that's okay. So that's like. [00:24:09] Speaker A: That's not what she talking about. You know it, too. [00:24:16] Speaker B: Yeah, she said, when did I see? That's what I'm like, when did she ask? She didn't ask for money in these comments. [00:24:20] Speaker A: Gang, we could scroll back to the top. [00:24:22] Speaker B: Yeah, she didn't ask for money. [00:24:23] Speaker A: Nowhere in here. [00:24:23] Speaker B: That's why I asked her. I said she asked for money. [00:24:24] Speaker A: Cause just because you just didn't say I asked for money, we can't read between the lines. [00:24:30] Speaker B: No, she's saying she wants her man to be. To provide. So is that she wants a softer life. That's what she's saying. [00:24:38] Speaker A: A provider specific to his household, a sponsor, finances your life for six. Thank you, bro. [00:24:44] Speaker C: Okay. [00:24:44] Speaker A: Thank you, bro. [00:24:45] Speaker C: I hear this word soft like what? Okay, so explain a softer like. [00:24:49] Speaker B: Brother, were you not in survival mode where you just explain it like. [00:24:53] Speaker C: That's not an explanation. [00:24:54] Speaker B: I just. [00:24:54] Speaker A: What you mean like what the is survival mode? [00:24:57] Speaker B: Like where you feel broke? No, not being broke, cuz that's what [00:25:00] Speaker A: the be going on. [00:25:01] Speaker C: Everybody said, no, that's not a softer life. What is it? [00:25:05] Speaker B: So like you just said, when a man makes. Makes life easier, like, well, what is making life like you already doing your own shit and then a man comes in and he just wants to do stuff for you just. [00:25:16] Speaker C: And he takes care of your stuff. [00:25:17] Speaker B: No, not just take care of everything, but just like come in and just assist in some type of way. It's not saying take over everything I got going on, but you see that I'm a hard worker. I do everything on my own anyway. And you just like, you know what? She doing her own shit. Like, why not? [00:25:30] Speaker A: And I guess you just like, not a hard worker. You just woke up and blessed, you know? But like I said, a man come in and make your life easier. What I ain't saying, like, you got to pay no bills. This all the asking, like, what do he get? That's why I'd be saying only thing a do this for is love. To be loved the right way to be appreciated. That's it. That's all we get out of it. That's how we even get on this subject. Gang, you let this put you in the rabbit hole of. I'm not, I'm not doing that. I'm not nobody's mama. I need this. I need this, bro. [00:26:01] Speaker B: I didn't know. I'm just responding to what she said. I didn't say say nothing like rap. I don't know what you're talking about, [00:26:07] Speaker A: rabbit hole, but this opinion. [00:26:11] Speaker B: Yeah, when she can take a few loads off of her, you know, I [00:26:14] Speaker A: don't never have no problems out of nobody until you bring your black ass on here. You be the only one being rough in the comments, man. Who Your own girl take a shot, calm your ass down. Nobody got time for that. So a man making your life easier is based on financial. Yeah, basically. No, I'm saying [00:26:35] Speaker B: no, not just on financial. Like, if you come by my house and you see I need my car, my yard cut, and you got a lawnmower, and you come cut my grass, that's taking the load off. That's making it easier. You see, you come by, ain't asked [00:26:45] Speaker A: for her yard to be cut yet in these. [00:26:47] Speaker B: I mean, everybody don't have a yard either. [00:26:49] Speaker A: Exactly. Ain't nobody even thinking. [00:26:51] Speaker B: I'm just making an example. That's taking a load off. I don't have to pay the. The 60 to come cut my grass. You came by and you cut it. [00:26:58] Speaker A: That's not what talking about. [00:27:00] Speaker B: Ask the question. I just made it. I just gave him an example. [00:27:03] Speaker A: You know, this ain't enough. [00:27:05] Speaker B: It's not always about finances. You can make my load easier if you see. Okay. [00:27:11] Speaker A: Like, I just as a man still comes from his finances. [00:27:15] Speaker B: No, it does not. What did I just say? I just said if you come by and cut my grass instead of me paying the next person to do it, that's not lightening the load. [00:27:22] Speaker A: The not cutting no grass. Y' all don't like that cut grass. [00:27:25] Speaker B: I'm making an example. I do. That's what. Yeah, we ain't talking about me, but I'm making an example. That's an example. That's making it easier for me. That's one less thing I have to do. You might. I might be in the carpet. You. You hear my brakes rubbing you like. Well, damn. Let me. Let me take care of brakes. He might be a. That work on cars. It's little simple stuff that I don't have to worry about. And you want to do it just cause. Yeah, that's lightning. The load. [00:27:47] Speaker A: You need to tune in every week, though. Cause like a this all me and yaya do is disagree. Like what the is. [00:27:54] Speaker B: No, we don't. [00:28:01] Speaker A: He do it without you having to ask. He sees something to take action. He do stuff to make you happy. As simple as allowing you to decompress after a long day. Is that enough to keep a. To keep you loving on that? No, the is not. Eventually, finances has to come into order. Eventually, a nigga has to do something for you. That's point blank, period. Ain't no nigga out here looking for no bitch to do nothing for them. I'm sorry. [00:28:29] Speaker B: That's not. [00:28:30] Speaker A: I'm sorry, bro. I'm sorry. [00:28:32] Speaker B: It's a nigga. [00:28:32] Speaker A: As a nigga who dating with his own shit and everything going on, ain't no nigga looking for y' all to take no load off them. [00:28:38] Speaker C: Nope. [00:28:39] Speaker A: What the fuck is you talking about? Ain't no nigga in America even said, say the shit y' all be saying. But soon as we get to talking about it, from being niggas who go through it, and it's not all women. [00:28:48] Speaker B: Do you want my female. Do you want people to take the load off y'? [00:28:51] Speaker C: All? [00:28:53] Speaker A: What the Did I just say? [00:28:55] Speaker B: Because what you say don't make sense. I'm a female. You a man. Why wouldn't you want to take the load off? Take some. Some type of load off of me? I mean, who's the man? Who's the girl? But I don't know. [00:29:08] Speaker C: Whatever you're saying. What. [00:29:11] Speaker A: Okay, now I'm just saying they don't even be comprehending. They just start talking, just start blabbering and. Because what did I just say before we even got started. [00:29:19] Speaker B: But why wouldn't y' all want to do that is what I'm asking. [00:29:23] Speaker A: Who said that we didn't want to do it? [00:29:25] Speaker B: But you're saying it like it's an issue. Like you're making it like it's an issue. Like, oh, y' all don't. Y' all don't lighten the load for us. Why would. Why would we be doing that? That doesn't even. That doesn't. [00:29:33] Speaker A: So why would we be doing it? [00:29:34] Speaker B: Because y' all are the men and we the females. What are you talking about? [00:29:37] Speaker A: Why did you know? Why does your little need to be lightened? Because you bit off more than you could chew. [00:29:41] Speaker B: No, that's not the. No. What are you talking about? So what example is in the comments? And you didn't read none of that. [00:29:47] Speaker A: You didn't. [00:29:48] Speaker B: You didn't read none of that. [00:29:48] Speaker A: That was one girl, and I read it. [00:29:50] Speaker B: I read it. Okay, so you. Did you comprehend what she just said? [00:29:53] Speaker A: So all you want a to do is help you decompress. Cause now you about to piss me off. [00:29:56] Speaker B: So what the. I just gave you an example. You not taking my example? [00:29:59] Speaker A: Yes, I did. She gave the fucking example. [00:30:01] Speaker B: And I gave you an example before that. Coming through with a promote. And that's an example. What are you talking about? So give me that. That's an example. [00:30:09] Speaker A: You give an example of some. [00:30:12] Speaker B: What are you. That's an example of something you don't go through. What are you talking about? For females Just an example of a bitch. Yes, blur it out. [00:30:20] Speaker A: An example a that Shut the up and know how to listen. [00:30:22] Speaker B: Oh, no, no. [00:30:23] Speaker A: And just comprehend. You ain't comprehending the ass thing I said tonight. [00:30:27] Speaker B: No, you didn't. You're not comprehending what we're saying in the comments. No, I'm not talking to a nigga. You don't talk to no come through [00:30:35] Speaker A: this bitch with alarm on the back of his truck. And that was the first thing that came to your mind? [00:30:39] Speaker B: Cuz, that's an example. [00:30:40] Speaker A: Example of what? [00:30:40] Speaker B: Just the way that you're making it. Lighter load for me. You're lightening the load for me. Relax. [00:30:46] Speaker A: I just keep going to Burger King and shit, bro. That shit don't be worth it, bro. I just keep going to birdcage and shit, bro. [00:30:52] Speaker C: Like what? [00:30:55] Speaker A: That's why I like bitches with money. I like bitches that got that shit together. I like bitches who ain't brainwashed. I like bitches who kind of like watch they mom be a wife. You know what I'm saying? Like, no offense, I'm not saying nothing towards nobody else because that shit is a difference. [00:31:11] Speaker C: I. [00:31:11] Speaker A: That's just like a nigga who watch his mama do everything. He gonna let y' all do everything. That nigga ain't got no ambition to get his ass up. You think that nigga got potential? You know what I'm saying? Look, hey, man, this is what I got to do. Could word problem is ignoring this. Ignoring this shit. Ignoring. You see, she listen. Huh? Sometimes that's the only way her ass listen. Talking about he hot. Jude, don't let me get on your ass. Tight ass shoes you be having on. Oh, come on. Why you getting mad? I ain't mad. I'm just talking. [00:31:47] Speaker B: Oh, he's about what's the topic? Next topic. [00:31:56] Speaker A: Be slow. [00:31:57] Speaker B: Next question then, bro. [00:31:58] Speaker A: That'd be the first thing a say. Oh, he he mad. Cause y' all don't understand. I wasn't mad. Man, just like your mama have to talk to you. You she. Y' all would listen till she raised her voice. Me, here I go now you listen. Now we on to the next subject. Cuz, I next subject. I just said next subject 12 minutes ago. [00:32:15] Speaker B: I don't remember you. [00:32:16] Speaker A: You. [00:32:17] Speaker B: So go. Go ahead. What's your. What's your question? [00:32:19] Speaker A: Still talking. [00:32:20] Speaker B: Go ahead, say talking. You not saying nothing. [00:32:22] Speaker A: You keep telling me to change the subject. [00:32:24] Speaker B: Change it. What are we talking about? Topic. What's the topic now? It sound like you got attitude. [00:32:31] Speaker A: I don't give a. I got no attitude wrong with this girl, boy. Every time she get company, her ass at different. [00:32:39] Speaker B: What is she talking about? I said, go ahead, [00:32:44] Speaker A: girl. I don't know who. [00:32:46] Speaker B: Who the. [00:32:48] Speaker A: See, just like. What the is this girl talking about? [00:32:52] Speaker B: No name. Next question. Nobody said nothing. [00:32:58] Speaker C: No. [00:32:59] Speaker A: Like she said no. Don't say. [00:33:00] Speaker B: Don't say what she said. [00:33:01] Speaker A: Cuz if she don't see her bad eyes on right now. Her bad eyes are comprehension on right now. She ain't y. Y right now. She ain't got it right now. [00:33:09] Speaker B: I'm waiting for the next question. [00:33:12] Speaker A: I said y. Y' all going to piss me off. Y' all can piss me off, and I ain't gonna be pissed in two minutes. It ain't you. I'll be trying to do what everybody else can do. It ain't you, me and yaya do this fuck. I be yelling at y' all and be mad for real. I used to give this girl some of my check when I got paid just for packing my lunch. I bet that bitch wasn't feeling like your mama. [00:33:36] Speaker B: But you see how he just want to do something for her because she's packing his lunch. [00:33:39] Speaker A: I guess I got to say. I guess I got to say I do something in order to say I want something. Not just, oh, it come with it. [00:33:46] Speaker C: Make it transactional. [00:33:47] Speaker A: Bro, that retarded. Bro, that retarded. [00:33:51] Speaker B: I missed. [00:33:51] Speaker A: I got to. You got to announce. You got to have a list of what you do for these, bro. Cause that's what these get on here and do. And. And that's how you create all these dead beats. I be why you be wondering why? Just be the same. It'd just be the same. Talking about y'. All. Y' all the bad who said, yeah, y'. [00:34:08] Speaker B: All. [00:34:08] Speaker A: Wasn't you slow, too? You must be got dirt all in your speakers or something. You can't hear anyway. I seen the motherfucker say buying food ain't tricking either. That's not so what is tricking? Like do tricking? Do tricking like equate to an amount? [00:34:28] Speaker B: No, no, I say this tricking to me is definitely not buying no food. That's not buying no food. [00:34:34] Speaker A: So what if females bring. [00:34:35] Speaker B: We just giving her something to eat. [00:34:37] Speaker A: What females bring to lighten up our little bro. We can't ask that, bro. We gonna be motherfucking non men. Because once I start asking like that, bro, you become not a man. [00:34:48] Speaker B: She cook for you. That's lighting your load. You ain't got to eat out all the time. That's one example. That's an example. [00:34:54] Speaker A: One of the only that be cooking. Literally come pick up Sunday dinners from you. You talking about a that can cook. That ain't cooking, but I'm just making [00:35:08] Speaker B: the bad do shop me on Sundays. But that's just an example. I wonder why you got a that could cook and she cook for you on a regular basis. She's saving you money. That's lightning the load. [00:35:17] Speaker A: She don't now next. What else? Cause if all the niggas gonna get out your ass is some food, bitch, I go spend my ten twelve dollars, cook out and be happy and I can still fuck who I want to fuck. Cause if I got to be committed [00:35:30] Speaker B: for food, you don't have to be committed for food. [00:35:32] Speaker A: That's supposed to be my girl, though. This. This supposed to be what my girl provided me with. [00:35:36] Speaker B: Nah, that's not the only thing that she should be providing. I'm just making an example. Now you're just trying to turn it into something else. [00:35:43] Speaker A: Make it. [00:35:43] Speaker B: I made one example. [00:35:44] Speaker A: Now I'm turning into something, cuz I made an example. [00:35:46] Speaker B: You like? Well, what else? What else? Like what? [00:35:49] Speaker A: What else? [00:35:50] Speaker B: You just said food. What else? [00:35:51] Speaker A: It's more. You act like I'm goddamn assaulting your character or something. [00:35:55] Speaker B: I didn't say that you was. I just said I made an example. You just turned into something else. [00:35:59] Speaker A: So damn, why we can't bro. [00:36:01] Speaker B: Okay, maybe she come by your house and clean your house or something. Something you ain't got to do. She might come wash your clothes. She might come do stuff for you that you don't want to do. [00:36:08] Speaker A: Business Lightning taken care of. That's all that matter. All of them. [00:36:11] Speaker B: That's lightning, the load, all of them. [00:36:13] Speaker A: That's all that matters to me. They get it all. [00:36:16] Speaker B: Stop lying. Y' all would not fast food every day if you had a that can really cook. [00:36:19] Speaker A: Come on now. [00:36:20] Speaker B: Come on now. [00:36:21] Speaker A: The difference can't really cook. That's what you know. [00:36:26] Speaker B: That can cook a that can. I said for the one. The ones that can. No, y' all wouldn't if you wouldn't [00:36:34] Speaker A: if you had a rich nigga. Not you per se. If y' all had a rich nigga, you have to need another one. You can't keep that just that rich one. That you right. [00:36:40] Speaker B: Thank you, Nikaela. [00:36:42] Speaker A: Since we got damn making up shit [00:36:44] Speaker B: like I just gave five examples and you know what I'm saying? [00:36:46] Speaker A: I don't know. You gave three, you gave two. [00:36:48] Speaker B: No, I didn't she just literally renamed everything I just said. [00:36:52] Speaker A: Who? [00:36:53] Speaker B: Nikayla. [00:36:54] Speaker A: Who is Nikayla? I don't see Nikaela. [00:36:55] Speaker B: She's in the comments. That's what I'm talking about. You was talking about he'll get fast food every day. If you had a bitch that cooked like me. No, you wouldn't. [00:37:02] Speaker A: What bitches be cooking like you? [00:37:03] Speaker B: But I'm just making [00:37:06] Speaker A: home girl that cook like you. Exactly. So shut the up. [00:37:11] Speaker B: Hey, no, I what? [00:37:12] Speaker A: Cook clean your house. [00:37:13] Speaker B: I'm making an example. [00:37:14] Speaker A: Cook clean your house, wash your clothes. She a say wash clothes. [00:37:17] Speaker B: She said. I mean, it's more. Yes, I did. You wasn't listening. You was yelling over top of me. [00:37:20] Speaker A: I heard. I mean, we yelling over each other, so we just doing it. Say that. [00:37:24] Speaker B: She definitely. I she heard it. [00:37:27] Speaker A: We just doing it. [00:37:27] Speaker B: They heard it in the comments. [00:37:30] Speaker A: We just doing it together. [00:37:36] Speaker B: Okay. Y' all got grass. You think we gonna cut that every time too, man? [00:37:41] Speaker A: Bro, one thing I learned about it, when the get loud enough, everybody shoot half a yard. But the has got to yell. If you got a lawnmower and she [00:37:51] Speaker B: don't, why wouldn't you want to cut her grass? [00:37:52] Speaker A: He supposed to bring that push lawnmower over there. [00:37:54] Speaker B: A push lawnmower? No, if you. If you got one that you sit on, then the like the one you cut your yard with you, then. Yeah, like, no more. Even if you did have a push mow more. Yeah, shit, bring it over there too. [00:38:04] Speaker A: Yeah, your yard can get cut with the push mow. [00:38:08] Speaker B: What? [00:38:08] Speaker A: Well, I grew up cutting yard like that with the push move, boy. Sarah more than front and back. You ain't seen my mama yard, but we ain't had no riding almost, boy. Boy, I had to cut that motherfucker every other Saturday, boy. [00:38:24] Speaker B: Okay, hold on. What Zara say? Can you read that? No name. [00:38:27] Speaker A: Listen, man, this is what I'm saying. Like, can hire somebody to cut the grass as principle of seeing the grass being needing cut. That's what I'm saying, bro. All this providing a doing what? The getting other than love and affection. That's all I'm saying. Literally. Cause y' all got 50, 000 things a can do to make your life easier. Where does. I guess life don't be easier. We just got to. We just here to do this. Cause damn, y' all taking offense when the ask you something because you don't know what the to do. You don't know what the fuck to do, so you got to catch an attitude about it. And niggas got to be sassy about it. Cause I'm asking you a simple question. You motherfuckers can't think, man, This girl still going on. I ain't pay her ass no attention since. And you think I'm still mad? I'm reading everybody else comment. You talking about you gonna just start commenting? Okay, cool. Dang twin, you the one still offended. I thought we was just talking. You want me to be mad. Talking about. Yeah, you can. But if I'm doing it, you don't have to. That's the point of being mad, man. I pay somebody to come clean my shit don't be having time for that shit. They gotta be equal on both parts. That's all Zara, man. That's all. That's all gang, man. That's all [00:39:48] Speaker B: Zara said. I'm not going to sit here and lie. I gave this man wifey treatment. Washing his clothes, folding, cooking, fixing his food, buying just because gifts. And that still wasn't enough. [00:39:57] Speaker A: You never had a man. You. Hey, listen, so no, let me. Let me put like this. So you had a man. You had a man that was doing everything that. That you asked him to do. He provided. He can't cut your grass. He can't give you lunch money. He just, you know, he doing everything you asked him to do. Where he at? [00:40:15] Speaker C: She. [00:40:15] Speaker B: But she's talking about what she did and how he didn't appreciate. [00:40:18] Speaker A: I know. I just asked a simple question. Where he at, gang? Because if that was, that's a great and you should keep him. Is my. Is my whole point. Why are you going to look for [00:40:27] Speaker B: another if that still wasn't enough? She's saying that wasn't enough. [00:40:31] Speaker A: He so that doing all that and that's still not enough? [00:40:34] Speaker B: No, she was doing that for him. Who you ain't here to come. Zara, she just said that. [00:40:39] Speaker A: I wasn't even talking about Zara. I'm still talking about. What comment are you reading? She said y' all are a man. What the hell? If you feel like being a man, that's too hard. [00:40:47] Speaker B: Oh, you reading a different comment I'm reading. We reading two different things. [00:40:50] Speaker A: Like what's she talking about? How I feel like if a man being hard. Hey, Nikaela, you gotta understand, these hoes ain't coming. It's two different types of women outside. Like is women that want to be women's women. And it's who looking for providers and sponsors because women. Women getting that without asking for it. You ain't got to Ask for it. You wasn't even looking for that just came into your life. Why? Because you deserve it. It's not the checklist that you told this what he got to do you. You ain't had to tell the to do. He just doing it. Why God damn. You got you. You had to tell your to do. You. You'd be having it. You got a checklist you have to send? [00:41:32] Speaker B: No. [00:41:33] Speaker A: Why? Because you make him feel appreciated very much. You bring that a plate randomly. He baby you hungry. You're probably seeing sweet text. You probably get up bouncing your ass in the camera. All type of you make a feel appreciated. Is that. Is that. Is that I guess he's not a man because he likes it like that. And that that's gonna make me go hard. [00:41:56] Speaker B: I did not say that. [00:41:57] Speaker A: Okay, then that's all I'm saying. Because people comprehension skills are fucked up. I guess I got to break it down. It got to be a red ball bouncing on each word of the caption for you to understand. [00:42:07] Speaker B: All right, wait, [00:42:09] Speaker A: guess what's going on with the ink cost. Nice square footage ceilings. I can't even jump and touch that high as a 10 foot basketball around my dog coach at is we talking about what And I live good. No, I don't. I don't struggle. Bills be paid, groceries all through the fridge. Get my kid every week. Why don't we giving a about what y' all be talking about? Like God damn. I just. We just be having. I hate when y' all try to bring me into it. It just. I don't get on this acting like why I do all this. It. See, you just gonna be for you gonna be alone forever. Some of y' all in the comments need to realize y' all are the prize. Who said that they wasn't the prize? You know what I'm saying? Like you, you, you. [00:42:58] Speaker B: I don't think she's hurt. [00:42:59] Speaker A: I've done. [00:43:00] Speaker B: Everybody just got different perspectives. [00:43:02] Speaker A: Just be quiet. [00:43:02] Speaker B: Everybody got different perspectives. I'm just saying you don't got to [00:43:06] Speaker A: defend everything I said to her, bro. [00:43:09] Speaker B: I'm going off of her comment. [00:43:11] Speaker A: You just get. You just went off of mine. I just said let you know, stop being hurt. You say I don't think she hurt. That's coming off of my comment, not hers. [00:43:19] Speaker B: But I don't think that's what it is. She's not hurt. I just feel like everybody got different. [00:43:23] Speaker C: Everybody has differing forms of trauma. [00:43:27] Speaker B: Everybody got different opinions. Everybody feels like her man should do this and she's in and she's feel like that females don't feel like they should. [00:43:35] Speaker A: And that comes from dealing with a. That don't do it though. [00:43:38] Speaker B: But she's gonna run across a man who don't mind what she's saying because he's used to already doing it. [00:43:43] Speaker A: Right. [00:43:44] Speaker B: Yeah. So. [00:43:45] Speaker A: And you need to keep him and not have fun and then go think you're gonna get another one. [00:43:52] Speaker B: That's. That's. [00:43:53] Speaker A: Yeah, that's exactly what I did. Keep that. I'm sure, I'm sure you probably didn't ran across a who doing everything that we talking about. Because if not, what are we talking about? So if you haven't ran across a. That what you're so called so highly like you know, fisted out about. [00:44:11] Speaker C: I don't. [00:44:11] Speaker A: I don't you feel me? Like what the talking about, man? [00:44:14] Speaker C: Opinions and trauma are two different things. No, I think trauma causes your opinion. It definitely. I mean. [00:44:21] Speaker A: Thank you, bro. [00:44:22] Speaker C: It. It influences. That's the wrong word. Trauma influences your opinion because it's through your trauma that you formulate your opinions about whatever the situation is. [00:44:30] Speaker B: Okay. [00:44:30] Speaker C: Maybe two different things, but they definitely coincide. Our perspective on whatever it is we're talking about is completely. Is completely relegated upon what we have gone through and what we have experienced. Experienced. [00:44:43] Speaker B: Okay. [00:44:43] Speaker C: My experience is different than yours, right. With whatever the situation is, my opinion of said situation is going to be different. So trauma is 100 tied to your opinion. [00:44:53] Speaker A: Thank you, bro. [00:44:54] Speaker C: You cannot say that your trauma is. [00:44:55] Speaker A: I guess it's just my tone because the words, the word, the words be the same thing. That's what. That's what I don't like at this grown ass people worrying about my tone. Am I raising my hand to slap the out you if I'm not? [00:45:08] Speaker B: But everybody ain't gonna be receptive to what you saying depending on how you say it. [00:45:12] Speaker A: This every week, especially when I got some. Julio, why the do you keep coming back in here? [00:45:16] Speaker B: Oh, that's what you drinking? [00:45:17] Speaker A: I am. You just drinking juice. [00:45:20] Speaker B: Dude was drinking juice. [00:45:22] Speaker A: Damn, man. I done been with a man who didn't have it together. And I watched him get on his feet or I help him get on his feet, catch up on bill, buying clothes, feeding him and ask him for nothing in return. Bitch is not doing that, okay? And you got the golden heart. She gonna say she's somebody mama, and you will pick me. You feel me? [00:45:43] Speaker B: Like, are you still with that man, Brianna? [00:45:45] Speaker A: No. She said he's doing well now we're not together, but I help him get to a bag. He has a car and all. Now I'm overly proud. [00:45:53] Speaker B: So y' all still cool? [00:45:54] Speaker C: It could be. I'm. [00:45:56] Speaker A: What up? [00:45:58] Speaker C: I don't think I said that. [00:46:00] Speaker A: See, every. Everything that you. No, I'm saying, though. But everything that you say to her. No, everything that you say to her, she's gonna have something else that you didn't say in the rebuttal, and then it's going to make this one right here. But I don't think she means that. [00:46:14] Speaker B: No, you didn't say that. She might have misheard. [00:46:17] Speaker A: I said it. [00:46:18] Speaker B: She might have misheard it. [00:46:19] Speaker A: Well, let me. Let me. Let me. Let me just shut the up for the rest of the night. [00:46:24] Speaker B: No, don't shut up. What you mean? [00:46:25] Speaker A: We still got apparently my tone. My tone. Y' all up right now. [00:46:29] Speaker B: Not me. [00:46:30] Speaker A: You feel me? Let me drink. Some people don't. I'm a text you what I say it. I'mma just text it to Yoshi. [00:46:37] Speaker B: What you mean? You mean no name? [00:46:39] Speaker C: Put it in the comments. [00:46:39] Speaker A: Yeah, I'm. I'mma text. I'mma text it to no name. [00:46:42] Speaker B: Like, you mean no name. Like, no. Oh, y' all are still cool. [00:46:46] Speaker A: Okay, see, that's how it's supposed to go. See how many. See how many women ain't in here going to do. Going to do that. I don't need no. I don't need no. I ain't no builder bear ass. I don't need you to bring nothing to the table. Start comparing you to a with no car just because he giving her some money. You. You comparing me to this? Cause he give you money. Don't even got a vehicle. He's a roommate. [00:47:14] Speaker B: Like, two different lifestyles for sure. [00:47:17] Speaker A: It don't matter if he's a provider. No, he's providing. He ain't providing for himself, but he providing for you. That's what niggas do. Only provide for their kids, but they provide for you. Y' all keep them niggas in business. Let me the main one. [00:47:31] Speaker B: In business. Huh? Can you say in business? [00:47:34] Speaker A: In business. Keeping them in business. Girl, you just can't comprehend. Like, what is you talking about? Want somebody to agree with me. I do this every week. This is what I do. This ain't podcast number one. I didn't say, hey, somebody agree with me. What the is you talking about? Like, be for real, bro. You be trying to raise, baby. I don't want nobody agree, but I don't give a if nobody agrees with me. That's what you got to learn about with the ink. Word. Something I want somebody to agree with. [00:48:07] Speaker B: I don't even. [00:48:08] Speaker A: What? Stop. What? Come on, now. Word, bro. Cause you keep. [00:48:14] Speaker B: Keep going. [00:48:15] Speaker A: Like, what the is you talking about? Like, damn, we being logical in this bitch. You still trying to raise baby, nigga. Now, when. When you get me to where I want, Where I'm getting. Don't start crying. That's all I gotta say. Don't start out that crying shit. [00:48:29] Speaker B: It ain't gonna be no crying. It's gonna be a lot of back and forth. [00:48:32] Speaker A: Well, that's just what the fuck gonna go on, y'. All. Y', all, since you know everybody so well she can't talk for herself, you gonna let the comment come out? Y' all got twin telepathy around this motherfucker. You know what she thinking already. [00:48:42] Speaker B: No, I don't. What you mean? I know what she thinking. Like what? [00:48:47] Speaker A: Cause every week, everybody in the comments agreeing with you. What the fuck that got to do with your slow ass and what we're talking about? You worrying about what everybody else do. Again, what are me and you talking about? I ain't asking nobody to agree with what me and you were talking about. You just don't like to be wrong and sound dumb as. Cause that's all going on. I ain't say nothing was wrong, man. It. Man, I just said we talking about something else again, though. What you looking at? [00:49:17] Speaker B: I'm looking at you. [00:49:18] Speaker A: Why, nigga? [00:49:20] Speaker B: Cause I can. [00:49:20] Speaker A: I look good. Thank you. Stop looking at me. I get nervous. I can look at you. Why are be thinking. We serious, bro. We do this every week. This be the point of the podcast. You know what I'm saying? [00:49:36] Speaker B: She said, I'mma read you, period. So please don't go there. [00:49:39] Speaker A: You can't read. You can't comprehend. [00:49:42] Speaker B: Y' all know, you come back and forth like. [00:49:45] Speaker A: Come on, man. Anyway, I got my. I got my questions already lined up. Damn. I said it was food tricking. I think food tricking, bro. Food is not tricking when it adds up. If a fed you five times that week, that shit is tricking, bro. [00:49:57] Speaker B: Bro. No, it's not tricky. [00:49:58] Speaker A: Yes, it is. [00:49:59] Speaker B: No. [00:50:00] Speaker A: So you telling me if a nigga spent $200 on food this week for [00:50:02] Speaker B: you, that's not tricky? [00:50:04] Speaker A: Ooh wee. So what is tricking? So if the 200 went on fucking slides, is that tricking? [00:50:09] Speaker B: Honestly, I feel like tricking is like big expenses. Like, what? [00:50:14] Speaker A: What nigga's buying big shit. What is a big expense? A trip? [00:50:17] Speaker B: Yeah, I feel like that. That's like tricking to me. [00:50:19] Speaker A: I don't consider that tricking. I just took us on a trip. [00:50:22] Speaker B: So you feel like food is tricking versus you taking a on a trip, bro, that. [00:50:25] Speaker A: That becomes a bill. Do you not know how much bitches eat that? [00:50:29] Speaker B: Bitches that don't cook. Okay, but you gotta think. You taking a bitch on the. [00:50:33] Speaker A: You got to think about that. You cook. We talking about a bitch that don't cook and she around you every day. And. And you a nigga that's not just gonna eat in her face. So now I got to buy you something to eat too, bitch. Now my door dad's bill go from 25 to 60 something. [00:50:45] Speaker B: Because I wish you wouldn't be in my face every day, bitch, you can't cook. [00:50:47] Speaker A: You can't do nothing because you're here. So that don't equate to something. Cause it keeps adding up. Bitch, I done spent almost $1,000 this month. $200 a week. Four weeks is what that's. And that's not tricking. That's $800 on food. [00:51:00] Speaker B: I mean, I. I guess. [00:51:02] Speaker A: Cause I'm thinking, but because I just put it in your hand one time or you ain't able to enjoy that motherfucker. [00:51:07] Speaker B: I'm thinking about. About it like when it's tricking. Like, I just think like, okay, trip. Or like, you know how much a trip. [00:51:14] Speaker A: You know how many that went on a trip with me and not pay a dime. What the is you talking about? [00:51:23] Speaker B: Yeah, like a trip is expensive. You got to think about the flight to Myrtle Beach. No, but I'm just saying, like, with a trip, like, you got to think about the flight, you got to think about when you get there, the hotel or whatever resort you're staying at, the money you spending when you get there. [00:51:37] Speaker A: Come on. All that and you ain't spent a dime? [00:51:39] Speaker B: That's tricking. [00:51:40] Speaker A: Come on now. [00:51:42] Speaker B: But food, I don't look at it like that. But I guess because I cook, so I can't. [00:51:45] Speaker A: So what be the difference from us going out of town and doing it then? Cause I put you on the flight first. But we still out of town doing the same shit. I'm still fucking the shit out you. You still going to get something to eat that I'm paying for. You're still going to do activities. But why you talking about food? [00:51:59] Speaker B: It's not about the food. [00:52:00] Speaker C: Food. [00:52:00] Speaker A: I'm saying all that adds up, though. You can't tell what a bring out his budget for. You Is not equivalent to anything. [00:52:07] Speaker B: I mean, I'm just saying what I think. What I think triggering is. I don't look at food as tricking. I look at it a trip. It don't even have to be. Like you said, it don't have to be a flight. It could be out of town. [00:52:15] Speaker C: But. [00:52:15] Speaker B: But I look at that as tricky. [00:52:17] Speaker C: Tricking is doing it. [00:52:18] Speaker A: Hold on, hold on, hold on. [00:52:19] Speaker B: Let me say this. Tricking is something that you would do, you wouldn't really do. [00:52:22] Speaker A: Oh. Cause now I'm about to. [00:52:23] Speaker B: On a regular basis. [00:52:23] Speaker A: Now I'm about to get on this ass. This bitch say, I try not to date ninja who love food the way you do. No shade. And I try. You know why I wouldn't talk to you? Because I try not to date a bitch who every time I see her, her ass in the picture, her ass is in the video. And I'm talking about hike up in her ass, bouncing up and down. It ain't a still picture. No, you got to get videos. You got to get down up in that ass. I wouldn't date a bitch like that either. I don't date Biggie bitches. Needy bitches. That's just me though. You know what I'm saying? [00:52:56] Speaker B: She don't be begging, just throwing it out there. [00:52:59] Speaker A: Yeah. Y' all shut the fuck up. [00:53:00] Speaker B: I can say that she don't beg. She's not a beggar. [00:53:03] Speaker A: This bitch been talking about money all night. [00:53:06] Speaker B: Fuck, that don't mean she didn't beg. And I didn't. [00:53:08] Speaker A: I didn't see close to getting married either. [00:53:11] Speaker B: How you figure she wanna get married? [00:53:14] Speaker A: Bitch, you was just in my face. So what is you talking about? Not because I don't agree with what the fuck your big ass talking about. Cause you act like you a size 2 or something. You big too. So what we talking about, Man, anyways? I'm talking about something else, man. [00:53:38] Speaker B: Didn't you have a question? [00:53:39] Speaker A: I don't know, you said it was in your. [00:53:41] Speaker B: You had questions in your phone? [00:53:42] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:53:44] Speaker A: Biggin ass bitch. You mad cause don't nobody want to help you back. Or don't nobody want to do what you want them to do? I don't give a fuck. And I like untouched bitches. We can speak on that now. Now I know you don't want to get married. I don't think nobody want to marry you. We being honest. Talking about you don't want to get married? You sound stupid as fuck. Not my type of bitch again. You can look all crazy, all you want to. She started there. You need to check your bitch again. [00:54:21] Speaker B: I'm not checking nobody. Y' all both going back and forth. [00:54:23] Speaker A: Don't look at me. [00:54:24] Speaker B: Look at your phone. I just had to let you know that she's not a beggar, though. She don't beg. Okay, well, I just had to throw that out there. [00:54:31] Speaker A: Don't matter to me. I won't find out. [00:54:33] Speaker B: I mean, I'm just saying, just, you [00:54:34] Speaker A: know, I don't care who you beg to. [00:54:36] Speaker B: I'm just waiting for you to. [00:54:37] Speaker A: I'm trying to find them. You could have had some, too. [00:54:42] Speaker B: I did. [00:54:42] Speaker A: Well, where they at? [00:54:44] Speaker B: I did it for half the show. What you talking about? [00:54:45] Speaker A: Girl, you be having 50 questions lined up now. We stopping. [00:54:48] Speaker B: You said you had a question. [00:54:49] Speaker A: I'm letting you do your shit. You said you had a question. Bitch, you literally just called me and gave you my number. Tell me to lock your number. I ain't locked. She in. Girl, I ain't damn. Stop playing with me, bro. Talking about you ain't my speed. Bitch, I ain't tried to talk to you. You was in my face, J. Fuck. Stop playing with me. I ain't want nothing to do with that shit. If your life had a Spotify playlist, what's the Name of Track 1? [00:55:27] Speaker B: That's a hard question. [00:55:31] Speaker A: I don't know. [00:55:33] Speaker B: Probably some old shit. Probably like some. [00:55:35] Speaker A: Something old. Which reality show would you crush on? I guess they asking, like, what TV show? Let's just say that. What's a TV cast member you had to crush on growing up? [00:55:51] Speaker B: Oh, growing up. [00:55:52] Speaker A: Bitch, you called me. How. How we not about to do that, gang. I swear to God. And your homegirl right here. Nah. Who chased who in the house? That's all you think? Go ahead, man. That crazy shit, man. [00:56:13] Speaker C: Okay. [00:56:15] Speaker A: My Jesus chain real though. I get in the shower with my though I done had this for years. You don't even know a with no real gold as much as I got on. We ain't about to do that, bro. [00:56:30] Speaker B: Why are y' all arguing all this? [00:56:31] Speaker A: Bitch lying. Me and you just posted that dirty steering wood cover today. You need to watch that shit. She talking about Nick Jones Hard knock life. What the fuck is hard? Not life. Gabby. Hey, Gabby. Man, stop talking to me, bitch. [00:56:54] Speaker B: Don't do that. [00:56:56] Speaker A: I didn't did it. I can't take it back. [00:56:58] Speaker B: But don't do it. [00:56:59] Speaker A: I just said it. [00:57:00] Speaker B: But just don't. [00:57:01] Speaker A: I just said it. I done did it like you. You gonna make me do it again because you keep like What? [00:57:06] Speaker B: I just said relax. [00:57:06] Speaker A: I didn't relax. I just said it. [00:57:08] Speaker B: Okay, well, just don't do it again. That's all I'm saying. Like, how much chill? [00:57:12] Speaker A: Oh, all right, cool. I'm trying. I done lost my questions, bro. Fuck it, bruh. Fuck it, bruh. [00:57:27] Speaker B: Excuse me, no name. Do you have a question for us? Do you have an ending question for us? [00:57:33] Speaker A: Bitch? You like them niggas with them bust down silver chains. Them niggas shit be fake as hell. I know a nigga with a bust down silver chain got your ass on video right now, so what the fuck are you talking about? Talking about your niggas wear diamonds. Stop playing with me, bro. [00:57:45] Speaker B: They got her own video. [00:57:46] Speaker A: I'm talking about getting busted. Don't act like you don't know who your own girl is anyway. Hey, listen, man, we out, man. I ain't about to do this shit. You bring your ass back next week. Matter of fact, come on camera next week. We could do it like that. We could do it in person. So you want to sit here and do all that playing? [00:58:00] Speaker B: Oh, my gosh. [00:58:01] Speaker A: But cue my theme music, man. Feel what I'm saying? I'm finna go lay up in my big shit. Really give a fuck. [00:58:07] Speaker B: Lay up in your what? [00:58:08] Speaker A: My big Go rub on some ass. You know what I'm saying? Girl, ain't nobody you start to disrespect first. Now, I don't want to talk to you. [00:58:20] Speaker B: Oh, you said stop. Don't. [00:58:22] Speaker A: I just said it. Anyway, man, I don't call only. That's a no. That's a. Hey, man, we out, man. Peace. I'm talking about dumb peas in the piece. This here came from Jay with the ink. Peas in the pod, peas in the pocket. I'm talking about them peace P.